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AIBU to think an Edinburgh festival show about Meredith Kercher's murder should be stopped?

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VivienneDelacroix · 06/08/2026 01:04

Aibu to think that this show at the Edinburgh Festival should be cancelled? It mocks the circumstances around the murder of Meredith Kercher and serves it up as entertainment.

Not only is it horribly disrespectful of Meredith's family, but it also belittles the issue of violence against girls and women.

Meredith's siblings are calling for it to be pulled from the festival. There is also a petition calling for it to be stopped.

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11AndCounting · 06/08/2026 21:03

mathanxiety · 06/08/2026 20:39

By way of a little compare and contrast exercise, it may be of interest to those claiming Knox has every right to speak her truth, or publicise her ordeal, or whatever this comedy show is about, that her former boyfriend Raffaele Solecuto, who was also tried and found guilty of crimes related to the murder of Meredith, is now a software engineer, living quietly, and not doing media tours to promote his part in the affair.

He has written one book, done a few interviews after his release, and faded into oblivion.

You would think the experience would have entitled him to years and years of exposure and the monetisation of the experience, as apparently it has entitled Knox. I wonder why he decided not to pursue that path.

Notwithstanding that people are different - she received greater press, worldwide press coverage by several orders of magnitude. She became a global tabloid fixation, while he is virtually unknown.

The misogynistic bias in the media coverage (as between her and the male defendants) was extreme, as evidenced by the various studies and analysis of the extent and nature of reporting on her vs the men involved.

UneFoisAuChalet · 06/08/2026 21:00

Amanda Knox needs to piss off.
She’s been dining out on Meredith’s murder for nearly 20 years - books, movies, tv shows, interviews, now comedy? That’s distasteful and shameful.

TheOnlyWayIsIlford · 06/08/2026 20:58

11AndCounting · 06/08/2026 20:50

Amanda Knox was the target of one of the clearest modern examples of how systemic misogyny and sensationalist media can distort the public discourse and prejudice the legal system against women.

Tens of thousands of articles simultaneously fetishised and vilified her, driven in part by a prosecutor with a dangerous obsession with occult‑themed theories and deeply conservative views about female sexuality. We witnessed a fantastical, modern‑age witch hunt.

She became the subject of countless true‑crime shows built on evidence that has since been discredited, long before she had any chance to tell her own story.

She was scapegoated for the actions of the man who actually murdered Meredith, and she received a harsher sentence than either him or her falsely accused co‑defendant - cast as the supposed seductress who “bewitched” the men.

Knox was wrongfully imprisoned for years, her life upended, her identity permanently damaged. Even after the Italian Supreme Court’s judgment - which fully exonerated her and condemned the investigation as incompetent, baseless, and fantastical, and the lower‑court decisions as illogical, arbitrary, and unsupported - millions still believe she is guilty.

None of this erases the tragedy of Meredith Kercher’s murder or the Kercher family’s grief, but Knox has every right to reclaim her narrative in whatever form she chooses, and as often as she chooses (not least given the overwhelming extent of outside commentary about it).

It is entirely understandable that she might use comedy to process what happened to her - and in any event, male comedians across the globe have made her a subject of their comedy for years (including on mainstream BBC shows with far greater reach than the Fringe).

If people don’t want to hear her, they can opt out. But attempts to silence her are a continuation of the misogynistic dynamics that harmed her in the first place and perpetuate her victimisation (and yes, I find that shameful).

Leveraging feminist concerns by accusing her of “normalising violence against women” is not only inaccurate, it adds insult to injury given the manner in which she was victimized. Her willingness to speak about what happened is something women broadly benefit from, not something to suppress.

This, this, this!

Well said.

AsHot · 06/08/2026 20:57

mathanxiety · 06/08/2026 20:39

By way of a little compare and contrast exercise, it may be of interest to those claiming Knox has every right to speak her truth, or publicise her ordeal, or whatever this comedy show is about, that her former boyfriend Raffaele Solecuto, who was also tried and found guilty of crimes related to the murder of Meredith, is now a software engineer, living quietly, and not doing media tours to promote his part in the affair.

He has written one book, done a few interviews after his release, and faded into oblivion.

You would think the experience would have entitled him to years and years of exposure and the monetisation of the experience, as apparently it has entitled Knox. I wonder why he decided not to pursue that path.

The whopping great omission here is the misogyny. He never experienced that, which means his experience is different. The fact that you've not even stopped to consider how that might be relevant is rather telling.

On the xenophobia point, thanks for the support, and HQ have now deleted it which I hope we all agree was the right decision.

YoQuieroVino · 06/08/2026 20:57

mathanxiety · 06/08/2026 20:39

By way of a little compare and contrast exercise, it may be of interest to those claiming Knox has every right to speak her truth, or publicise her ordeal, or whatever this comedy show is about, that her former boyfriend Raffaele Solecuto, who was also tried and found guilty of crimes related to the murder of Meredith, is now a software engineer, living quietly, and not doing media tours to promote his part in the affair.

He has written one book, done a few interviews after his release, and faded into oblivion.

You would think the experience would have entitled him to years and years of exposure and the monetisation of the experience, as apparently it has entitled Knox. I wonder why he decided not to pursue that path.

Because everyone is different. Neither of them are obliged to deal with their experience in the same way as the other.
The media narrative at the time was far more negative regarding Amanda Knox than Raffaele Sollecito. She was the evil, seductive manipulator. He wasn’t vilified in anything like the same way. She also received a harsher sentence than he did (for the murder she didn’t commit). It’s no surprise that they are dealing with it in different ways.

sillysmiles · 06/08/2026 20:52

I really don't see how anyone cannot see her as a victim as well. She had her life ruined. She was jailed.
She was made infamous by a lazy press that ran with a salicious murderess story.
Merdith's life was taken, but Amanda Knox's was irrevocably changed for the worse based other than she didnt behave in a way people thought she should.

She is entitled to tell her story.

11AndCounting · 06/08/2026 20:50

loveagift · 06/08/2026 18:49

@YoQuieroVinoOops! I think this has confirmed I need glasses because I read that wrong and small text has been looking a tad blurry!

Im still confused why people who sign the petition should feel ashamed though?

Amanda Knox was the target of one of the clearest modern examples of how systemic misogyny and sensationalist media can distort the public discourse and prejudice the legal system against women.

Tens of thousands of articles simultaneously fetishised and vilified her, driven in part by a prosecutor with a dangerous obsession with occult‑themed theories and deeply conservative views about female sexuality. We witnessed a fantastical, modern‑age witch hunt.

She became the subject of countless true‑crime shows built on evidence that has since been discredited, long before she had any chance to tell her own story.

She was scapegoated for the actions of the man who actually murdered Meredith, and she received a harsher sentence than either him or her falsely accused co‑defendant - cast as the supposed seductress who “bewitched” the men.

Knox was wrongfully imprisoned for years, her life upended, her identity permanently damaged. Even after the Italian Supreme Court’s judgment - which fully exonerated her and condemned the investigation as incompetent, baseless, and fantastical, and the lower‑court decisions as illogical, arbitrary, and unsupported - millions still believe she is guilty.

None of this erases the tragedy of Meredith Kercher’s murder or the Kercher family’s grief, but Knox has every right to reclaim her narrative in whatever form she chooses, and as often as she chooses (not least given the overwhelming extent of outside commentary about it).

It is entirely understandable that she might use comedy to process what happened to her - and in any event, male comedians across the globe have made her a subject of their comedy for years (including on mainstream BBC shows with far greater reach than the Fringe).

If people don’t want to hear her, they can opt out. But attempts to silence her are a continuation of the misogynistic dynamics that harmed her in the first place and perpetuate her victimisation (and yes, I find that shameful).

Leveraging feminist concerns by accusing her of “normalising violence against women” is not only inaccurate, it adds insult to injury given the manner in which she was victimized. Her willingness to speak about what happened is something women broadly benefit from, not something to suppress.

wherearemypeople · 06/08/2026 20:47

mathanxiety · 06/08/2026 20:39

By way of a little compare and contrast exercise, it may be of interest to those claiming Knox has every right to speak her truth, or publicise her ordeal, or whatever this comedy show is about, that her former boyfriend Raffaele Solecuto, who was also tried and found guilty of crimes related to the murder of Meredith, is now a software engineer, living quietly, and not doing media tours to promote his part in the affair.

He has written one book, done a few interviews after his release, and faded into oblivion.

You would think the experience would have entitled him to years and years of exposure and the monetisation of the experience, as apparently it has entitled Knox. I wonder why he decided not to pursue that path.

People are different?

Shloopie · 06/08/2026 20:44

She certainly seems thirsty for the spotlight.

SpaceRaccoon · 06/08/2026 20:40

mathanxiety · 06/08/2026 20:21

You can't separate the false imprisonment from the crime that left a young woman dead.

By that argument, no-one would be able to talk about their false imprisonment, because in every case there will also be the victim of a crime.

mathanxiety · 06/08/2026 20:39

randomchap · 06/08/2026 18:29

Amanda Knox was not involved in the murder. She is innocent. Same as her boyfriend at the time, Raffaele Sollecito.

Rudy Guede is the murderer. No one else.

By way of a little compare and contrast exercise, it may be of interest to those claiming Knox has every right to speak her truth, or publicise her ordeal, or whatever this comedy show is about, that her former boyfriend Raffaele Solecuto, who was also tried and found guilty of crimes related to the murder of Meredith, is now a software engineer, living quietly, and not doing media tours to promote his part in the affair.

He has written one book, done a few interviews after his release, and faded into oblivion.

You would think the experience would have entitled him to years and years of exposure and the monetisation of the experience, as apparently it has entitled Knox. I wonder why he decided not to pursue that path.

mathanxiety · 06/08/2026 20:23

AsHot · 06/08/2026 19:26

She’s unlikeable, self-obsessed and has zero class - but then she’s American so that’s par for the course.

Nice bit of nationalistic prejudice there. @MNHQ is that allowed?

I second that question @@MNHQ

Over 350 million people, all lacking in class? I think stereotyping is always ugly and shouldn't be tolerated here.

mathanxiety · 06/08/2026 20:21

SpaceRaccoon · 06/08/2026 15:46

Her arrest and imprisonment cost her family millions, this isn't profiteering for luxury. And her false imprisonment is her story to tell, and sell.

You can't separate the false imprisonment from the crime that left a young woman dead.

nomas · 06/08/2026 20:16

WildWindySeascape · 06/08/2026 08:40

@MojoMoon

I doubt anyone is expecting the government to step in and shut down the show, but free speech works both ways. We equally are free to express our disgust and disapproval over the show and a petition is a very good way to do that. Free speech doesn’t mean objectors have to stay silent out of respect for the offensive.

Eh? Why are you pretending that Mojo wants to silence you?

She literally says ‘People can say things that make others unhappy. It's a broad church - there are things that make me unhappy that you won't care about and vice versa’

Do what you want!

NeverDropYourMooncup · 06/08/2026 20:11

BEAchDays2 · 06/08/2026 18:33

I mean, assuming this is true, out the company on social media. This is so far removed from the way they are meant to behave.

DP's friend did. And does every time one of them gets in touch after the usual ignoring and blocking doesn't make them go away.

Nobody cares.

randomchap · 06/08/2026 20:01

AsHot · 06/08/2026 19:06

The internet contains people who really really liked the idea of a pretty, sex crazed orgy murderess, if you know what I mean. Maybe he/she/it is one of those.

And the internet is so large that no matter how bizarre and incorrect your belief is, there will be a group that agree with you.

Mumofmarauders · 06/08/2026 19:55

WildWindySeascape · 06/08/2026 08:40

@MojoMoon

I doubt anyone is expecting the government to step in and shut down the show, but free speech works both ways. We equally are free to express our disgust and disapproval over the show and a petition is a very good way to do that. Free speech doesn’t mean objectors have to stay silent out of respect for the offensive.

Well said.

AsHot · 06/08/2026 19:26

She’s unlikeable, self-obsessed and has zero class - but then she’s American so that’s par for the course.

Nice bit of nationalistic prejudice there. @MNHQ is that allowed?

SpaceRaccoon · 06/08/2026 19:13

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"Rather than merely declaring that there were errors in the earlier court cases or that there was not enough evidence to convict, the court ruled that Knox and Sollecito were innocent of involvement in the murder"
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amanda_Knox#Acquittal_and_release

She was completely exonerated of the crime.

SpaceRaccoon · 06/08/2026 19:09

MercedesBlue11 · 06/08/2026 18:00

I remember when Meredith was killed. It was awful. She's not here to talk. The pretty American white girl was always going go get off.
The black guy however..
AK can spin any story she wants. Meredith doesn't have a voice. Her poor family are having to go through the trauma of having that nasty girl who was definitely involved somehow in her death make money.
It sickens me that AK is making a show out of this- she has not a good bone in her.

The black guy did it!

And the white American girl got locked up for years for something she didn't do.

SpaceRaccoon · 06/08/2026 19:07

OvernightBloats · 06/08/2026 17:52

Amanda Knox doesn't care about Meredith's family at all - she wouldn't have made this if she had any compassion for the pain they are going through.

This is all about Amanda. She has said she did this for her daughter to highlight violence against women. She could have made this in a general way but no, she has insensitively dragged Meredith's murder into it.

Just watched the interview with her on the Channel 5 news. She is prickly, unlikeable and irritated by the criticism she has upset the Kercher family. Her insensitivity is palpable.

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Tbh her unlikeable nature is kind of thr point. It's what got her arrested in the first place, that and having a sex life.

AsHot · 06/08/2026 19:06

randomchap · 06/08/2026 18:57

Why are you determined to blame an innocent woman for this crime?

She was not involved.

The internet contains people who really really liked the idea of a pretty, sex crazed orgy murderess, if you know what I mean. Maybe he/she/it is one of those.

loveagift · 06/08/2026 18:57

@11AndCountingI read it wrong & apologise but why should people who sign be ashamed?

randomchap · 06/08/2026 18:57

MercedesBlue11 · 06/08/2026 18:53

Nope- AK was definitely involved in the murder - if you remember the original trial and the evidence against her. However she has a Netflix doc and more which skews public opinions toward her in a positive way.

Why are you determined to blame an innocent woman for this crime?

She was not involved.