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AIBU to think an Edinburgh festival show about Meredith Kercher's murder should be stopped?

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VivienneDelacroix · 06/08/2026 01:04

Aibu to think that this show at the Edinburgh Festival should be cancelled? It mocks the circumstances around the murder of Meredith Kercher and serves it up as entertainment.

Not only is it horribly disrespectful of Meredith's family, but it also belittles the issue of violence against girls and women.

Meredith's siblings are calling for it to be pulled from the festival. There is also a petition calling for it to be stopped.

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Matronic6 · 07/08/2026 09:05

Considering no one knows the content of the show, there is no way to judge if it is poor taste or not. AK has said it focuses on her wrongful imprisonment and explaining that to her daughter.

I appreciate the pain and grief of MK's family and that they have complained previously that AK sharing her story is disrespectful. But it is AK's story too and she has every right to talk about it.

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 09:04

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 09:02

Literally see my post above. She's been exonerated of the crime. That means she's innocent of it.

She’s been found not guilty

correct

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 09:03

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 09:02

Literally see my post above. She's been exonerated of the crime. That means she's innocent of it.

good grief.

The court did NOT use the words “innocent” and so should not be put in quotation marks as being as such

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 09:02

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 09:01

I have not thoughts whether AK is guilty or not guilty as. I don’t know enough about the case.

But to say the court used the words “innocent” when they did not…. Is not on

Literally see my post above. She's been exonerated of the crime. That means she's innocent of it.

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 09:01

I have not thoughts whether AK is guilty or not guilty as. I don’t know enough about the case.

But to say the court used the words “innocent” when they did not…. Is not on

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 08:58

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 08:50

So the word “innocent” as put in quotation marks above was not used

"On March 27, 2015, the ultimate appeal by Knox and Sollecito was heard by the Supreme Court of Cassation; it ruled that the case was without foundation, thereby definitively acquitting them of the murder. "

"Rather than merely declaring that there were errors in the earlier court cases or that there was not enough evidence to convict, the court ruled that Knox and Sollecito were innocent of involvement in the murder."

"The delegate supreme judge, court adviser Gennaro Marasca, made public the reasons of absolution. First, none of the evidence demonstrated that either Knox or Sollecito was present at the crime scene. Second, they cannot have "materially participated in the homicide", since absolutely no "biological traces ... could be attributed to them in the room of the murder or on the body of the victim, where in contrast numerous traces were found attributable to Guede"."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AmandaKnox#Acquittalandrelease

So not a case of "they might have done it but we can't quite prove it". The supreme court made it quite clear that it was a miscarriage of justice.

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 08:57

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:55

No, because the judgment was in Italian.

But the court did not merely find that her guilt was not proven beyond reasonable doubt, but made the affirmative finding that she did not commit the crime.

Or, to paraphrase, she was found to be innocent.

The Italians have a word for innocent

they didn’t use it

so it was incorrect of that poster to say the courts actually proclaimed Amanda Knox as “innocent”

an important distinction

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:55

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 08:50

So the word “innocent” as put in quotation marks above was not used

No, because the judgment was in Italian.

But the court did not merely find that her guilt was not proven beyond reasonable doubt, but made the affirmative finding that she did not commit the crime.

Or, to paraphrase, she was found to be innocent.

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 08:54

Isitevensummer · 07/08/2026 08:50

Absolutely this. Many years ago I knew a young man was was in a car accident where a motorcycle turned in front of him when it shouldn’t have. Tragically the motorcyclist died. Even though the reconstruction assigned the blame for the accident to the motorcyclist, the family insisted tge young man was a murderer. Of note, the rider was white, the driver was black. He was vilified in the press, but when the reconstruction was released, the press mentioned it in passing but very quietly. The police violated a number of rules to pressure him to admit guilt at first. Even after the findings, the family refused to admit he was innocent, and made it their mission to make his life miserable. They would show up to his jobs whenever he got one, and led to him losing multiple jobs. If he went somewhere with a friend, if one of them saw him, they would park outside (all the cars had massive in memory stickers) and hang around staring at him. He was 18 at the time of the accident, and this went on until he was able to move to another town at age 24.

Knox is going to be able to get away from this ever. So leaning in is her only choice really. I understand the family being in pain, but suspect any mention of Knox’s name would trigger that. And comedy is often a way to explore deeply traumatic events.

Given your example was very much in the press, could you tell us the case you are referring to?

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 08:52

@Isitevensummer your poor friend, that's tragic, so young as well. I hope he's okay now.

Isitevensummer · 07/08/2026 08:50

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 08:12

What people seem to be missing is that this isn't just one little event that happened to Amanda Knox many years ago - it was completely life-defining, and life-changing. She was also 20 years old when the murder happened, and 24 when she was released from prison, so some of her most formative years as a young adult.
Not only that, the whole thing had made her globally infamous.

I suspect for her, the trauma is far from over, and that she lives it again and again day after day, every day of her life.

People are saying again on this thread how unlikeably she comes across - that's exactly the point. She came across like that to the police, too, and it cost her four years of her life.

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Absolutely this. Many years ago I knew a young man was was in a car accident where a motorcycle turned in front of him when it shouldn’t have. Tragically the motorcyclist died. Even though the reconstruction assigned the blame for the accident to the motorcyclist, the family insisted tge young man was a murderer. Of note, the rider was white, the driver was black. He was vilified in the press, but when the reconstruction was released, the press mentioned it in passing but very quietly. The police violated a number of rules to pressure him to admit guilt at first. Even after the findings, the family refused to admit he was innocent, and made it their mission to make his life miserable. They would show up to his jobs whenever he got one, and led to him losing multiple jobs. If he went somewhere with a friend, if one of them saw him, they would park outside (all the cars had massive in memory stickers) and hang around staring at him. He was 18 at the time of the accident, and this went on until he was able to move to another town at age 24.

Knox is going to be able to get away from this ever. So leaning in is her only choice really. I understand the family being in pain, but suspect any mention of Knox’s name would trigger that. And comedy is often a way to explore deeply traumatic events.

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 08:50

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:48

"assoluzione per non aver commesso il fatto"

(acquittal for not having committed the fact.)

So the word “innocent” as put in quotation marks above was not used

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 08:49

randomchap · 07/08/2026 07:58

From Wiki

Rather than merely declaring that there were errors in the earlier court cases or that there was not enough evidence to convict, the court ruled that Knox and Sollecito were innocent of involvement in the murder

The source is the economist, but you need to sign up to read it

https://www.economist.com/europe/2015/03/28/innocente

She is innocent.

I have a subscription this is what was said in the article you link to

The Court of Cassation in Rome found Ms Knox and Mr Sollecito not guilty on the grounds that they had “not committed the act”.

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:48

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 08:45

I was curious about the exact wording the court used

"assoluzione per non aver commesso il fatto"

(acquittal for not having committed the fact.)

YoQuieroVino · 07/08/2026 08:47

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 07:23

Genuine question but did the judge / jury actually use the words “innocent” or “not guilty” @YoQuieroVino

As I said, they declared her to be ‘innocent’. They are the words the court used. The judgement is easily available to find online.

Triskellion75 · 07/08/2026 08:47

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:15

I appreciate you saying that, thank you.

I lost my brother because of another's actions so my immediate reaction was from the POV of MK's family. Funnily enough though, I never believed AK was guilty for a second.

YoQuieroVino · 07/08/2026 08:46

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 08:12

What people seem to be missing is that this isn't just one little event that happened to Amanda Knox many years ago - it was completely life-defining, and life-changing. She was also 20 years old when the murder happened, and 24 when she was released from prison, so some of her most formative years as a young adult.
Not only that, the whole thing had made her globally infamous.

I suspect for her, the trauma is far from over, and that she lives it again and again day after day, every day of her life.

People are saying again on this thread how unlikeably she comes across - that's exactly the point. She came across like that to the police, too, and it cost her four years of her life.

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Yes. Even now that she has been completely exonerated, that the courts acknowledged that there was no evidence at all that she was involved, that she was beaten while being questioned and forced into making untrue statements and that she spent 4 years of her life in prison for a crime she didn’t commit, there is still an undercurrent of ‘she’s weird and unlikeable so she deserved it’.

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 08:45

randomchap · 07/08/2026 07:58

From Wiki

Rather than merely declaring that there were errors in the earlier court cases or that there was not enough evidence to convict, the court ruled that Knox and Sollecito were innocent of involvement in the murder

The source is the economist, but you need to sign up to read it

https://www.economist.com/europe/2015/03/28/innocente

She is innocent.

I was curious about the exact wording the court used

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:15

Triskellion75 · 07/08/2026 08:13

This is why I love MN, I opened the thread largely agreeing with the OP but now I've gained a better perspective.

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I appreciate you saying that, thank you.

Triskellion75 · 07/08/2026 08:13

11AndCounting · 06/08/2026 20:50

Amanda Knox was the target of one of the clearest modern examples of how systemic misogyny and sensationalist media can distort the public discourse and prejudice the legal system against women.

Tens of thousands of articles simultaneously fetishised and vilified her, driven in part by a prosecutor with a dangerous obsession with occult‑themed theories and deeply conservative views about female sexuality. We witnessed a fantastical, modern‑age witch hunt.

She became the subject of countless true‑crime shows built on evidence that has since been discredited, long before she had any chance to tell her own story.

She was scapegoated for the actions of the man who actually murdered Meredith, and she received a harsher sentence than either him or her falsely accused co‑defendant - cast as the supposed seductress who “bewitched” the men.

Knox was wrongfully imprisoned for years, her life upended, her identity permanently damaged. Even after the Italian Supreme Court’s judgment - which fully exonerated her and condemned the investigation as incompetent, baseless, and fantastical, and the lower‑court decisions as illogical, arbitrary, and unsupported - millions still believe she is guilty.

None of this erases the tragedy of Meredith Kercher’s murder or the Kercher family’s grief, but Knox has every right to reclaim her narrative in whatever form she chooses, and as often as she chooses (not least given the overwhelming extent of outside commentary about it).

It is entirely understandable that she might use comedy to process what happened to her - and in any event, male comedians across the globe have made her a subject of their comedy for years (including on mainstream BBC shows with far greater reach than the Fringe).

If people don’t want to hear her, they can opt out. But attempts to silence her are a continuation of the misogynistic dynamics that harmed her in the first place and perpetuate her victimisation (and yes, I find that shameful).

Leveraging feminist concerns by accusing her of “normalising violence against women” is not only inaccurate, it adds insult to injury given the manner in which she was victimized. Her willingness to speak about what happened is something women broadly benefit from, not something to suppress.

This is why I love MN, I opened the thread largely agreeing with the OP but now I've gained a better perspective.

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 08:12

What people seem to be missing is that this isn't just one little event that happened to Amanda Knox many years ago - it was completely life-defining, and life-changing. She was also 20 years old when the murder happened, and 24 when she was released from prison, so some of her most formative years as a young adult.
Not only that, the whole thing had made her globally infamous.

I suspect for her, the trauma is far from over, and that she lives it again and again day after day, every day of her life.

People are saying again on this thread how unlikeably she comes across - that's exactly the point. She came across like that to the police, too, and it cost her four years of her life.

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:09

user1492538376 · 07/08/2026 06:50

Yeah cross border law enforcement doesn't work like that. Anyway back to Knox, maybe not the entire point but I have never seen or heard anyway from her that suggests she could be funny. She has been booked for her notoriety. All this stuff about giving a voice to new talent - come on!

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Yeah cross border law enforcement doesn't work like that.
It does if you enter into a settlement agreement - a binding contract - that is specifically drafted to be binding in multiple jurisdictions.

You're confusing criminal law for civil.

randomchap · 07/08/2026 07:58

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 07:23

Genuine question but did the judge / jury actually use the words “innocent” or “not guilty” @YoQuieroVino

From Wiki

Rather than merely declaring that there were errors in the earlier court cases or that there was not enough evidence to convict, the court ruled that Knox and Sollecito were innocent of involvement in the murder

The source is the economist, but you need to sign up to read it

https://www.economist.com/europe/2015/03/28/innocente

She is innocent.

ExtraOnions · 07/08/2026 07:45

I wonder how many people who are wailing on here, listen to True Crime podcast, watch the Netflix documentaries, or watch the (many) True Crime documentaries on terrestrial TV? All of those are made for profit, prime examples of people profiting from murder - often ones much closer to now than a murder 20 years ago.

The only reason that this particular crime has stayed in the consciousness for so long, is due the miscarriage of justice that surrounds it.

… how can people can sign a petition to ban a show they haven’t seen, and have no intention of seeing? It’s the kind of mob mentality that got her locked up in the first place

AsHot · 07/08/2026 07:26

user1492538376 · 07/08/2026 06:50

Yeah cross border law enforcement doesn't work like that. Anyway back to Knox, maybe not the entire point but I have never seen or heard anyway from her that suggests she could be funny. She has been booked for her notoriety. All this stuff about giving a voice to new talent - come on!

Edited

Sorry just to be clear, are you saying it isn't possible to sign a settlement agreement binding in more than one jurisdiction?

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