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How early is too early to arrive at the airport?

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ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 07:00

I’m self confessed anxious traveller.

I’m travelling to France at the end of the month, the Friday before the bank holiday. I live about an hour and a half to two hour’s drive from Bristol airport. My flight is at 18:30, and easyJet says to arrive at 15:30.

I’m thinking of leaving the house between 11:30 and 12:00, because of the fact it’s the Friday before the bank holiday. Is that totally insane? AIBU to do this? Will I just be stuck at the airport, or grateful I’ve had the extra time?

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suburberphobe · 05/08/2026 10:01

I'd rather kill an extra hour at an airport than worry about getting caught in a horrendous traffic jam.

Oh yea, me too!

And it's bedlam at the moment with school holidays/high season.
I've just come through Malaga airport. Very busy.

saraclara · 05/08/2026 10:04

LeedsLoiner · 05/08/2026 09:57

Short answer - it's better to be bored at the airport than panicked in the car.

Exactly.

I really don't understand people's aversion to building in contingency, and at worst, having to sit in the lounge for an extra hour.

Holidays are among the most expensive purchases you'll make, and the most anticipated and looked forward to. Why risk losing it all so that you can sit at home for an extra hour or two, twiddling your thumbs?

BashfulClam · 05/08/2026 10:15

I live 8 minutes from the airport and always turn up 3 hours before my flight. I have free lounge access though so it’s nice to sit with a free drink and snacks watching the planes. DH is an aviation geek so is happy to sit with flight radar telling me where all the planes are going and watching for ours coming in.

fashionqueen0123 · 05/08/2026 10:31

NeedWineNow · 05/08/2026 09:37

Another one here who would sooner get to the airport really early rather than be stressing about getting there on time. I would definitely be leaving as soon as I could after your hair appointment.

We live about 45 mins from Gatwick. We have a 7.30 am flight when we go to Greece and more than once we have been held up on the way to the airport even at that time in the morning so we now stay at the Premier Inn opposite the terminal building the night before and factor in the cost of the hotel, dinner and drinks into our holiday spending. The same applies when we go to Southampton when cruising, go down the day before in case of delays or when travelling from Tilbury leave about 3 hours before our boarding time in case of delays at the Dartford Tunnel. Me and DH would much rather sit with a drink and our books waiting than stressing in traffic.

Yup we’re half an hour from Heathrow and an hour and a bit from Gatwick. We nearly always stay the night before for Gatwick if it’s a morning or midday flight or even early afternoon as often the trains can be cancelled or traffic. Heathrow we would do the same for an early one. Mid morning we’d get a taxi but there are back roads if the M4 has issues.

Its so much nicer being in the premier inn knowing you’re there!

BillieWiper · 05/08/2026 10:34

The worst that can happen if you're very early is your flight is delayed and you end up getting absolutely bladdered at the airport bar through boredom! That happened to me before.

But if you're a nervous traveler being early is good. Have (one or two!) drinks, food, just chill and you can be one of the first onto the plane if you so wish. Or just hold back till the queues gone down. But you know you'll be at the right place at the right time.

ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 10:35

pinkspeakers · 05/08/2026 09:29

Yes that's crazy. And just contributes to airports being too crowded.

I’ve never heard this in my life, nor have I ever thought an airport was “too crowded”

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birdling · 05/08/2026 10:35

ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 07:18

I think the only thing holding me back from leaving at 1 is that there have been so many reports lately of the M5 being shut by accidents. Add on bank holiday traffic and it makes me anxious just thinking about it!

The M5 is shut almost daily on the sections south of Bristol at the moment. Various reasons, but seems to happen almost every day. I agree, I would rather leave early and be bored for a while.

Bjorkdidit · 05/08/2026 10:38

ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 10:35

I’ve never heard this in my life, nor have I ever thought an airport was “too crowded”

Actually some airports have on occasion asked people not to turn up 'too early' due to capacity issues. If they're trying to deal with the people who's flight leaves in 2 hours time at the same time as those who are flying in 4 hours, there's too many people in the airport and it can get overcrowded at busy times of year.

ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 10:39

Bjorkdidit · 05/08/2026 10:38

Actually some airports have on occasion asked people not to turn up 'too early' due to capacity issues. If they're trying to deal with the people who's flight leaves in 2 hours time at the same time as those who are flying in 4 hours, there's too many people in the airport and it can get overcrowded at busy times of year.

I’ve never, ever heard of this. In any event, Bristol haven’t asked that.

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pinkspeakers · 05/08/2026 10:40

ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 10:35

I’ve never heard this in my life, nor have I ever thought an airport was “too crowded”

You've never found it hard to find somewhere comfortable to sit down while you wait in departures?? Where do you fly from? I admit I only really know the London airports in the UK.

And it is a logical necessity that the longer time people spend on average in an airport, the more people will be there on average at any one time.

McSpoot · 05/08/2026 10:45

pinkspeakers · 05/08/2026 10:40

You've never found it hard to find somewhere comfortable to sit down while you wait in departures?? Where do you fly from? I admit I only really know the London airports in the UK.

And it is a logical necessity that the longer time people spend on average in an airport, the more people will be there on average at any one time.

And people are there at the “wrong” time. Staffing is set based on expected need which gets messed up if a lot of people are showing up much earlier than the normal window. Some airlines/airports, won’t check you in before three hours (or a different set limit).

I’m one to build in contingencies, but you are correct that airports have asked or forced people not to show up too early (as things opened up in 2022, Schipol restricted entry, for example).

LemonSnail · 05/08/2026 10:49

pinkspeakers · 05/08/2026 10:40

You've never found it hard to find somewhere comfortable to sit down while you wait in departures?? Where do you fly from? I admit I only really know the London airports in the UK.

And it is a logical necessity that the longer time people spend on average in an airport, the more people will be there on average at any one time.

I’ve only experienced one crowded airport and that was in Asia, other than that it’s just normal airport activity of people waiting for their flight.

Bjorkdidit · 05/08/2026 10:50

pinkspeakers · 05/08/2026 10:40

You've never found it hard to find somewhere comfortable to sit down while you wait in departures?? Where do you fly from? I admit I only really know the London airports in the UK.

And it is a logical necessity that the longer time people spend on average in an airport, the more people will be there on average at any one time.

Just because the OP has never heard of this, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

Stansted Airport urges passengers not to turn up too early - BBC News

I have sometimes found airports to be too crowded to find a seat, but I was surprised the time we suffered a near 3 hour delay coming back from Menorca, which is a fairly small airport. Another flight to the UK was also delayed by a similar time and I remember saying to DP 'there's 400 people too many in this airport, where are they all'? Because despite there being 2 plane loads of passengers waiting for delayed flights it didn't seem overcrowded, there was somewhere to sit, and we could get food and drink without too long a queue.

Image of the departure lounge inside Stansted Airport

Stansted Airport urges passengers not to turn up too early

Stansted says arriving three hours before a flight is sufficient and prevents crowding.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-essex-62508358

5foot5 · 05/08/2026 10:51

ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 08:56

I think if I’m going to go early I’d rather just be there and sit at the airport. Sad I know, but then I can get in the queue to drop bags at 3:30 and just get through security.

I’ll consider fast track security though, Bristol has been a nightmare in the past!

I agree entirely. I am very much in the camp of better to be too early and have to wait then too late and miss your flight. DH and DD used to laugh at me but have quietly come round to my wat of thinking.

DD is an adult now and will, through choice, often get to the airport a good 3 hours ahead. Fortunately her usual travelling companion is of a similar mindset.

We live about 30 - 40 minutes from a major airport (Manchester), but the last two long haul flights DH and I did we decided to stay in the airport hotel the night before rather than risk an early morning journey in a taxi who potentially doesn't come on time or gets held up in traffic. It's a 10 minute stroll down a covered walkway from the airport hotel to T2 check in so that makes me feel very much more in control

allthemind · 05/08/2026 10:56

You are allowed to sit in a restaurant or cafe at the airport and people watch, or browse the shops. If you are an anxious traveller get there early and have lunch and read a book. What difference does it make? I'd not risk the motorway Friday rush hour, which starts early on a Friday, never mind a bank holiday weekend, and I'm not a particularly anxious traveller.

We were all going away a couple of years ago and there was a bad accident at the Gatwick exit and we literally made the gate by the skin of our teeth as it was closing - after a panicked queue for the airport bus, trying to get people to allow us to go in front at security, which had a technical issue, and a literal 2 mile sprint to the gate. Anything is preferable to that and now I leave plenty of time (even though I am 20.minutes from the airport) and have a pleasant drink in the nice bar or tuck myself away round the corner in departures and read a book.

pinkspeakers · 05/08/2026 10:57

LemonSnail · 05/08/2026 10:49

I’ve only experienced one crowded airport and that was in Asia, other than that it’s just normal airport activity of people waiting for their flight.

I'm very surprised. I usually find London airports too crowded for my comfort. Which is another good reason for me not to spend more time than necessary there (other reasons = more sleep if it's an early flight, more time to eat lunch before I go, time to send last work emails, time to clean out fridge, time to sit in the fresh air of our garden, the list is endless really - all far more enjoyable/productive than sitting in an airport!).

I leave enough time, but not too much. I'm not the sort of person who is going to be anxious about the journey if I'm not at the airport. I realise that some people are.

RampantIvy · 05/08/2026 10:59

StarlightLady · 05/08/2026 08:14

To add, for those saying the OP will arrive too early, the issue is not what time she should arrive at the airport, but how much time she should build in to allow for hold ups getting to the airport.

Yes that's crazy. And just contributes to airports being too crowded.

@pinkspeakers you have clearly never driven on the M5 on a Friday afternoon. I was on the M5 near Bristol last week, midweek and had to divert off due to a traffic accident.

The alternative is being stuck in traffic getting anxious about missing a flight. I know which I would prefer.

NotMajorTom · 05/08/2026 11:03

Stompythedinosaur · 05/08/2026 07:10

I'd rather kill an extra hour at an airport than worry about getting caught in a horrendous traffic jam.

You probably don't need to leave quite that early, but if it's going to make the trip less anxiety provoking then go ahead. Airports are easy places to kill time. Bring a book, and grab a coffee and the time will fly over.

Yes this. The worst case of leaving it late is that you miss your flight. The worst case of being early is that you sit in an airport for a bit. I’d always err on the side of being early and if that means waiting with a coffee for a bit that’s no hardship.

pinkandwhiteroses · 05/08/2026 11:05

I would much rather be sat with a coffee at the airport for an extra hour than be sat panicking in traffic!

ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 11:06

Bjorkdidit · 05/08/2026 10:50

Just because the OP has never heard of this, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

Stansted Airport urges passengers not to turn up too early - BBC News

I have sometimes found airports to be too crowded to find a seat, but I was surprised the time we suffered a near 3 hour delay coming back from Menorca, which is a fairly small airport. Another flight to the UK was also delayed by a similar time and I remember saying to DP 'there's 400 people too many in this airport, where are they all'? Because despite there being 2 plane loads of passengers waiting for delayed flights it didn't seem overcrowded, there was somewhere to sit, and we could get food and drink without too long a queue.

This was 4 years ago 😂

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ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 11:15

pinkspeakers · 05/08/2026 10:40

You've never found it hard to find somewhere comfortable to sit down while you wait in departures?? Where do you fly from? I admit I only really know the London airports in the UK.

And it is a logical necessity that the longer time people spend on average in an airport, the more people will be there on average at any one time.

No. I’ve flown from all over the UK. only bad experiences I’ve had were in Cape Verde

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NCyuk · 05/08/2026 11:26

You can’t get through security if you’re too early at Manchester. Of course crowded airports are a thing.

That said, I’d go at 11.30 because you already know the roads are unpredictable and then I’d have a nice lunch near the airport.

NCyuk · 05/08/2026 11:27

ikeepdancingonmy · 05/08/2026 11:15

No. I’ve flown from all over the UK. only bad experiences I’ve had were in Cape Verde

If you’re such an experienced traveller then why the angst? How don’t you already know what you are personally comfortable with?

Loulou4022 · 05/08/2026 11:33

LittleGreenDuck · 05/08/2026 07:07

Ah, that makes it better. M5 southbound on a bank holiday Friday is not fun!

Bristol airport is quite big now, plenty of places to eat or shop. I’d aim to get there for the 15.30 suggestion.

M5 northbound is no better at the moment there have been loads of holdups around Weston.

MagicThanks · 05/08/2026 11:35

I feel like airport time absolutely flies personally. I’d rather have an extra hour to kill looking at books and having a coffee than rushing.

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