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AIBU to consider leaving an easy remote job for a complete career change?

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probablyspoilt · 04/08/2026 15:57

I can’t decide if I’ve got it so good that I’ve started taking it for granted, or if I’m right to be restless.

I’ve been in my current job for 5 years. I’m fully remote, working from home everyday. To be honest, there’s a lot of gaps in the day, I have a lot of time to keep on top of the house, watch tv, go for walks, pop out for appointments. I work flexible hours, I can do school runs no problem. I get 31 days annual leave a year, a good pension, good sick pay etc. It’s secure and has a whole host of benefits. The problem is I’m so bored, it’s tedious admin, spreadsheets, data entry, minute taking and nothing else. I could do it in my sleep. Whilst it’s freeing having so much spare time, I feel like I waste entire days in bed sometimes because I smashed out all my work in 1 hour.

On a whim, I applied for a Sales Negotiator job and I went for the interview and it went really well. It’s hybrid role, so I would still work from home sometimes but not everyday. The basic salary is a bit less than I’m currently on, but the commission opportunities are really good, if I’m any good at it. I love properties and interior design and would enjoy going to see all the different properties, it would be nice to get out and about and talk to people more again. But I’m so stuck on whether I take it or not. I’m not much of a sales person, trying to push someone into buying something would be my worst nightmare, but I feel with properties they come to you more than you chase them.

I’m just not sure if I’m making a mistake. Will the novelty wear off and I’ll miss how comfortable I had it? Or am I wasting my life sitting at home by myself doing admin that doesn’t remotely challenge me? I’m 29

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probablyspoilt · 04/08/2026 15:57

I can’t decide if I’ve got it so good that I’ve started taking it for granted, or if I’m right to be restless.

I’ve been in my current job for 5 years. I’m fully remote, working from home everyday. To be honest, there’s a lot of gaps in the day, I have a lot of time to keep on top of the house, watch tv, go for walks, pop out for appointments. I work flexible hours, I can do school runs no problem. I get 31 days annual leave a year, a good pension, good sick pay etc. It’s secure and has a whole host of benefits. The problem is I’m so bored, it’s tedious admin, spreadsheets, data entry, minute taking and nothing else. I could do it in my sleep. Whilst it’s freeing having so much spare time, I feel like I waste entire days in bed sometimes because I smashed out all my work in 1 hour.

On a whim, I applied for a Sales Negotiator job and I went for the interview and it went really well. It’s hybrid role, so I would still work from home sometimes but not everyday. The basic salary is a bit less than I’m currently on, but the commission opportunities are really good, if I’m any good at it. I love properties and interior design and would enjoy going to see all the different properties, it would be nice to get out and about and talk to people more again. But I’m so stuck on whether I take it or not. I’m not much of a sales person, trying to push someone into buying something would be my worst nightmare, but I feel with properties they come to you more than you chase them.

I’m just not sure if I’m making a mistake. Will the novelty wear off and I’ll miss how comfortable I had it? Or am I wasting my life sitting at home by myself doing admin that doesn’t remotely challenge me? I’m 29

Fake post. Click bait. Obvs. So much wrong with this post...

Coco1379 · Yesterday 21:44

Why not study something you’ve always been interested in? Your job sounds peachy to me, I wouldn’t give all that up for something like sales which can be unpredictable

Pherian · Yesterday 18:50

probablyspoilt · 04/08/2026 15:57

I can’t decide if I’ve got it so good that I’ve started taking it for granted, or if I’m right to be restless.

I’ve been in my current job for 5 years. I’m fully remote, working from home everyday. To be honest, there’s a lot of gaps in the day, I have a lot of time to keep on top of the house, watch tv, go for walks, pop out for appointments. I work flexible hours, I can do school runs no problem. I get 31 days annual leave a year, a good pension, good sick pay etc. It’s secure and has a whole host of benefits. The problem is I’m so bored, it’s tedious admin, spreadsheets, data entry, minute taking and nothing else. I could do it in my sleep. Whilst it’s freeing having so much spare time, I feel like I waste entire days in bed sometimes because I smashed out all my work in 1 hour.

On a whim, I applied for a Sales Negotiator job and I went for the interview and it went really well. It’s hybrid role, so I would still work from home sometimes but not everyday. The basic salary is a bit less than I’m currently on, but the commission opportunities are really good, if I’m any good at it. I love properties and interior design and would enjoy going to see all the different properties, it would be nice to get out and about and talk to people more again. But I’m so stuck on whether I take it or not. I’m not much of a sales person, trying to push someone into buying something would be my worst nightmare, but I feel with properties they come to you more than you chase them.

I’m just not sure if I’m making a mistake. Will the novelty wear off and I’ll miss how comfortable I had it? Or am I wasting my life sitting at home by myself doing admin that doesn’t remotely challenge me? I’m 29

Personally, I would not go for this job. We have a stable but weak economy and unless you're selling something that is luxury and there is a market of people to sell it to untouched by the current economic conditions... I would advise you to stay bored with your pension and flexibility. You can always ask for more to do at work.

Itsalittlebitwarm · 07/08/2026 17:48

Meand2Ls · 04/08/2026 19:16

I honestly could have wrote this post. I also have a very well paying, work from home job that is completely flexible around my two young kids (4 and 1) and I’m 31 but I am so so bored. I also do full time hours over 4 days but making the work I have stretch a 9 hour day is hard! I’ve said I’ll stick it out until my youngest is in finder nursery (3 in Scotland) but then the next day I’m like maybe I should just go?? But like you I don’t want to seem ungrateful. I see my mum friends who are teachers, lawyers, nurses who would kill for the flexibility I have especially for the money. It’s a hard one. For me would depend how old the children are and whether you have the savings to get through a few months if it doesn’t work

Absolutely we teachers/lawyers/medical staff do get jealous reading how a FT wfh job in condensed hours still gives so much free time! 😀 Just the way it is and when we trained wfh wasn't a thing, probably a good thing as many woukd have chosen different careers. Xx

Itsalittlebitwarm · 07/08/2026 17:43

BeKookyExpert · 04/08/2026 18:49

Honestly I think you’d be crazy. I’m fully WFH and would never switch to a job that wasn’t.

Can you use the spare time to study something, an OU degree perhaps. Something that can give you the skills to switch careers down the line.

OP is bored wfh, not everyone is designed or gets fulfilllment from staying in the house all day just because it's more convenient. Many prefer social interaction, those meaningful and hilarious moments you can only get physically being others.

Itsalittlebitwarm · 07/08/2026 17:35

Sounds like you're naturally a want to get and live life sort of person and need more challenge. Absolutely go for it, being bored is unwilling for the mind and soul!

What you're doing now sounds ideal to many of us who would love an easier role and have time to do housework etc though 😉 I only say that after working in an incredibly busy and full on career for over 30 years so would be happy to slow down.

Let us know what you decide and how you get on. Xx

ViolettaScrambler · 07/08/2026 07:58

The grass isn’t always greener 😉
your current job sounds perfect for a working mum, try and appreciate the flexibility. I would love to have so much free time on a decent wage.

LittleVoice11 · 06/08/2026 17:26

probablyspoilt · 04/08/2026 18:07

There isn’t much where I am, I mean I could work up to a higher admin position, I’ve already gone up one peg, there’s a couple more above, but it will always be admin and I have a feeling I’m capable of more. I’ve looked at training but i honestly don’t know what I’d train in doing. It’s a lovely small local estate agents in an area I know and love with a lovely team, but the basic is low and does rely on commission to supplement. I quite like the idea of chatting to people and looking at lots of houses and being out and about but I know I’ve got it good. It just doesn’t feel like it unless I sit back and look at the big picture, day in day out, I’m just bored.

When I was job hunting after redundancy a couple of years back that was exactly the kind of job that appealed to me. I did notice that a few local estate agents had positions for somebody who would work Saturday only, Is there any chance you could do that to see if you like it? It would seem like a good way to see if it suits your personality without burning your bridges!

For context I’ve worked from home most of the time since 2015, had to go out to work for 2 years, back to working from home now, so I pretty much know the pitfalls and advantages. Lonely at times, no one to really bounce off, hard slog at times, but no commuting costs, good around home life, and quite flexible. Good luck :-)

sanajamil · 06/08/2026 08:37

There's nothing wrong with wanting more than comfort. Just make sure you're moving towards something you genuinely enjoy, not simply away from boredom. If the new role fits your interests and you've considered the financial risks, it could be a great opportunity.

Mere1 · 06/08/2026 08:35

somanythingssolittletime · 04/08/2026 17:22

Absolutely not. Stay where you are. You have the dream job. Commission? In this economy? No, they will work you to the ground. Keep your remote job, otherwise I’d happily take it!!

Agree.

Dancingintherain09 · 06/08/2026 08:08

probablyspoilt · 04/08/2026 18:07

There isn’t much where I am, I mean I could work up to a higher admin position, I’ve already gone up one peg, there’s a couple more above, but it will always be admin and I have a feeling I’m capable of more. I’ve looked at training but i honestly don’t know what I’d train in doing. It’s a lovely small local estate agents in an area I know and love with a lovely team, but the basic is low and does rely on commission to supplement. I quite like the idea of chatting to people and looking at lots of houses and being out and about but I know I’ve got it good. It just doesn’t feel like it unless I sit back and look at the big picture, day in day out, I’m just bored.

Sounds like what im looking for, so I can do my degree on the side. I've been searching for some like this even at entry level.

Holdinguphalfthesky · 06/08/2026 07:49

Use the spare time to set up your own business? Or do some online studying?

HappyCowgirl · 06/08/2026 07:36

Why not do both? I used to work in Estate Agents and it’s true it is hard work. It can be long hours and if you’re in the middle of a sale, you don’t just get to put it down and walk out because you have to go pick the kids up.
Saying that there were plenty of people who were on part-time contracts if if this is something that interests you and you like looking around properties you could apply to be in accompanied viewer, as they were in and out looking around properties all the time but weren’t commission based, and I like gold dust if the Sales team is already busy.
We also had Sales negotiators that worked School hours, so it really depends on whether the company can accommodate that. Why not? Tell them you’re just looking for a part-time role? It sounds like you could do it around your other job, although you would have to make allowances for the fact that you’ll be paying tax at a second rate.

I also wouldn’t feel the need to tell my first job, I had a second job. Plenty of people do both and as long as you’re getting the work done, you can have the best of both worlds.

it’s a good way of dipping your toe in, seeing whether you like it, and deciding from there without having to give up everything you’ve already got. Maybe suggest to them you could work 10-2pm and you can do your work from home job around that.

Freshstartyear25 · 06/08/2026 05:35

I would keep the boring job and find a way to use my free time better. With that flex time, I could join the gym and go to exercise classes, do any training course I want and just be getting certifications even if I may not find them useful now, I love cooking and baking so I can imagine all the new things I’ll learn to cook and bake, etc.
I would never leave your sort of job to work as estate agent that even has a less base pay than my current job. It’ll be like a scenario where I’m just imagining the grass being greener because besides the excitement, the job gives you nothing else.
With all that free time, you can apply for better jobs and take your time to choose the best fit. Like why would you rush into taking this one?

malificent7 · 06/08/2026 05:35

Saw you were in admin sorry. I do a "fullfilling" job with a long commute.
Im thinking of giving it up as I hate the commute and the bitchyness in the office.
But I am 48 and over all that!

JulietteHasAGun · 06/08/2026 05:34

I would keep my current job but find something I enjoy doing to fill the spare time. Or use the spare time to learn something. Coding, a language, painting, whatever. Do your work, then your hobby.

I could easily fill a few hours a day painting in your shoes.

malificent7 · 06/08/2026 05:29

Do*

malificent7 · 06/08/2026 05:13

What do u fp atm? Sounds great!

ThisMellowCat · 06/08/2026 05:09

I WFH and often think about going for a different job.
then I think about needing another car to get there, getting up earlier every day, the commute to work, having to get lunches, the drive back in rush hour, the added time on getting home. Factor in child care too and the work clothing costs!
id rather stay as I am, out of bed half hour before I start, commuting across the landing, lunch already in the house, staying in loungewear, being home as soon as I log off. Plus being able to get jobs done that I’d otherwise be thinking need doing!
ill keep the home job!

LizandDerekGoals · 05/08/2026 23:17

pouletvous · 05/08/2026 21:05

I really need a job like yours! Home based, flexible snd easy. And able to do school run too!

whwre can i find one?

Snap. Id much rather a wfh done in office hours job that didnt encroach on my evenings and weekends and so i could focus on my friends and hobbies. But i agree that at your age you should go for more.

Helpfulhaddock · 05/08/2026 23:13

probablyspoilt · 04/08/2026 15:57

I can’t decide if I’ve got it so good that I’ve started taking it for granted, or if I’m right to be restless.

I’ve been in my current job for 5 years. I’m fully remote, working from home everyday. To be honest, there’s a lot of gaps in the day, I have a lot of time to keep on top of the house, watch tv, go for walks, pop out for appointments. I work flexible hours, I can do school runs no problem. I get 31 days annual leave a year, a good pension, good sick pay etc. It’s secure and has a whole host of benefits. The problem is I’m so bored, it’s tedious admin, spreadsheets, data entry, minute taking and nothing else. I could do it in my sleep. Whilst it’s freeing having so much spare time, I feel like I waste entire days in bed sometimes because I smashed out all my work in 1 hour.

On a whim, I applied for a Sales Negotiator job and I went for the interview and it went really well. It’s hybrid role, so I would still work from home sometimes but not everyday. The basic salary is a bit less than I’m currently on, but the commission opportunities are really good, if I’m any good at it. I love properties and interior design and would enjoy going to see all the different properties, it would be nice to get out and about and talk to people more again. But I’m so stuck on whether I take it or not. I’m not much of a sales person, trying to push someone into buying something would be my worst nightmare, but I feel with properties they come to you more than you chase them.

I’m just not sure if I’m making a mistake. Will the novelty wear off and I’ll miss how comfortable I had it? Or am I wasting my life sitting at home by myself doing admin that doesn’t remotely challenge me? I’m 29

Not entirely ethical, but why not double up on both jobs for a few months and see how it goes?

Auroragirl · 05/08/2026 22:54

I agree. having been an estate agent you need to think about longer hours and weekend work. As previous poster says the market is dead at the moment and you will be under pressure to sell even if you don’t have to cold call. Lastly if you do this job think seriously about your personal safety . Meeting people in a dark empty house in winter is not fun . Most British houses are similar. Satisfy your curiosity by looking in rightmove .
I had three very narrow escapes in my career. As you are starting from scratch you will be the one all the rubbish will be dumped on.

ThistleTits · 05/08/2026 21:35

HarlanCobenDogshit · 04/08/2026 18:31

It's something I'd consider after I no longer needed school pick ups etc.

If you take the sales job are you looking at after school clubs, no more asemblies, limited flex? And potentially be poorer?

Can't you have an affair instead?

😂😂😂 or perhaps a bit of escorting?

StarDolphins · 05/08/2026 21:13

I’ve just left a similar job. In the end, I was totally fed up wfh - felt like I was going mad at times. I did some mental health/safeguarding courses and now I have 2 jobs out of the house that fit round school hours! And I feel a lot better.

pouletvous · 05/08/2026 21:05

I really need a job like yours! Home based, flexible snd easy. And able to do school run too!

whwre can i find one?