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To be annoyed that so many Vinted sellers just don't bother posting the item?

38 replies

PippaDee123 · 03/08/2026 13:27

Has anyone else found the same thing? It seems to be a more recent problem.

I bought 6 items, from 6 different sellers, on the same day a couple of weeks ago. I paid full asking price, didn't make any offers, didn't send any questions or ask them to post immediately or anything else that might have pissed the sellers off. I have a few hundred reviews, and 5 stars.

Not one of the sellers posted the item, and Vinted has now refunded me for all 6. I didn't hear a word from any of the sellers.

AIBU to think this is a bit of a piss take? If I really couldn't send an item that someone bought from me I would at least have the courtesy to let the buyer know and would cancel the sale.

OP posts:
feemcgee · 03/08/2026 17:11

What annoys me is when I accept someone’s offer then they disappear without completing the sale.

museumum · 03/08/2026 17:04

I suspect they've gone on holiday and forgot to put their account into holiday mode. It's the time of year.

HundredMilesAnHour · 03/08/2026 16:59

I’ve very rarely experienced this so maybe you’ve just had monster bad luck? That sounds particularly bad so no wonder you’re fed up.

If anything has been listed for months, I usually send an offer (just below sale price) if I’m interested to test if I get an actual response or not. But for more recently listed things, that’s really poor and sounds like sheer incompetence by the sellers.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 03/08/2026 16:55

I’m relatively new to buying off Vinted. I hope my stuff comes! I didn’t know this was a thing

ThirdStorm · 03/08/2026 16:47

I think you got very unlucky. I've had a few things not posted but a small fraction of transactions. Like you I check when they were listed and check availability if they were listed months ago. Plus it is holiday season, I had somebody not post last week because they were on holiday, great but why not turn on holiday mode so I'm not inconvenienced?

PippaDee123 · 03/08/2026 16:44

funnily enough these were all recently listed items. I always like to check before I buy that the items not been listed and sitting there for months/years. I’m wondering if maybe there was an issue with Vinted notifications that day hence none of them saw that they’d sold something.

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WaltzingWaters · 03/08/2026 15:07

I’ve not had this happen to me, but I was recently trying to message someone who had a suit for sale that I needed in a particular size. The suit just said XL rather than exact sizing. No answer from my 3 messages over a week. As a PP said, there should be some kind of “are you still wanting to sell this item?” Update after a certain amount of time.

RowsOfFlowers · 03/08/2026 15:00

I actually think Vinted should prompt users if their item has been up for over 6 months… and then delete the listing if it’s been up for over a year to prevent these kinds of things happening.

I always check when the item was listed. If it was a long while ago, I’ll message the seller to enquire as to whether it’s still available. If there’s no response, I would leave it.

imnottoofussed · 03/08/2026 14:57

I had an item listed but didn’t receive any sort of notification that an offer had been made. I just happened to log in randomly two days later. I then didn’t get any sort of email to tell me they had bought the item and that I needed to post it.

Thundertoast · 03/08/2026 14:56

This just happened to me, decent (but small number) of reviews, seller missed the deadline to send, I messaged and said if you want to re-list when you've got a chance to send, il buy it again, she sent an apology and re-listed and then didnt send it again! My own fault really (noone else has been selling that exact item in my size for ages, hence the 2nd try!)

alwaysusethebiglight · 03/08/2026 14:54

Waiting on one to be posted today, it’s the last day of the postal window. Item was listed for 13 months! It’s not going to happen is it?

Passaggressfedup · 03/08/2026 14:41

Strange, that's happened to me only twice over 100s of items bought on Vinted.

stopringingme · 03/08/2026 14:13

I always check when they were last on the site and also their feedback as there are a lot of dormant accounts where the seller has not been seen for ages, sometimes over a year or more.

Also a lot don't realise there is a holiday mode feature and they go on holiday and things sell as the buyer is unaware they are away and they come back to negative feedback and a missed sale.

It is really annoying - I haven't experienced it for a while but I did have quite a few items not sent a couple of months ago.

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