We had a visitor over the weekend. It is a family member who in the past has been known for this "type" of thing should i say. Not exactly this but things of this nature, such as (sending screenshots, bullying tactial behaviour)
Things have been frosty as late and has not came to my house for maybe 4 or 5 months. Visited late one evening at weekend as it was DH birthday, with a gift.
However i was in and out and putting washing away etc but when i came back in she was showing us a video of a child and i seen a timer in green on the left side of the screen at top she quickly slid it away. (Iphone) on my phone a green timer is an ongoing call but i have now asked google who tells me it is a voice recorder on certain iphones.
The time on the timer aligned with the time she arrived (confirmed this with my ring doorbell) 😐
It was one minute more. Surely this is not a coincidence and surely against social norms if not illegal to record a conversation in which children were also speaking. I didnt say anything at the time as this person would have victim mentality and i was worried she would turn it on me somehow.
DH said he did notice it but thought it was an alarm.
I do not know what to do about this.