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Should personalised Christmas stockings be M & D for mummy and daddy, or their actual initials?

86 replies

Peterrabbity · 03/08/2026 11:10

I think M & D

DH thinks actual initials of our names.

Kids are aged 1 and 4!

OP posts:
34feeling54 · 03/08/2026 12:06

Bobbyelvis4ever · 03/08/2026 12:01

First initial. Your names are not mummy and daddy. At 1 and 4 your children already know this.

although certainly get M and D if you’re also getting S and D for Son and Daughter.

Does a 1 year old know that?

Either way, I really don't think it matters.

Father Christmas doesn't buy for adults in our house.

Kidsandhouse · 03/08/2026 12:02

It's August

InterestedDad37 · 03/08/2026 12:01

Full names, including middle names, plus postcode and house number 👍

Bobbyelvis4ever · 03/08/2026 12:01

First initial. Your names are not mummy and daddy. At 1 and 4 your children already know this.

although certainly get M and D if you’re also getting S and D for Son and Daughter.

ScarlettSarah · 03/08/2026 11:59

First initial of actual name.

EverMissWicklowSometimes · 03/08/2026 11:49

Personalised stockings for adults are cringey as fuck.

OttersOnAPlane · 03/08/2026 11:45

Initials. Mum is not my real name.

ANewName2026 · 03/08/2026 11:44

Initials of actual names

principalskinna · 03/08/2026 11:44

Fuxake

MiddleAgedDread · 03/08/2026 11:43

initials

catcatmewomeow · 03/08/2026 11:43

I think that names are better.