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AIBU to think cats should not roam unsupervised like dogs?

717 replies

estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:42

AIBU to think that if you dont leave your dog to roam streets unsupervised, then you shouldn't let other pets (cats), for the same reasons.

It blows my mind that people let their cats out because their sleep is disrupted and I wonder why they think its OK, when its highly unlikely they would put Fido outside if he kept the family up.

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WearyAuldWumman · 03/08/2026 15:14

FlyingCatGirl · 03/08/2026 09:15

Tell me you know nothing about cats without telling me you know nothing about cats! Do you think these street cats go near people? Talk to your local rescue to learn just how hard it is! You also never get rescues and vets to adopt your evil cull em all policy! You need to get over what you cannot change! There is no way to catch every stray and feral. Traps have to go down and that that's not that practical because a) they have to be constantly monitored b) they can't tell just by sight that the cat thrashing around in a trap is a stray or feral, it could be a pet cat that lives in a house there ,c) if you catch a mother cat and kill her as per your evil demands, there would kittens starving and suffering somewhere! You might be cold and dead inside but vets and rescues aren't! Get over your stupid thoughts that have no place in reality.

Doesn't the US have some kind of charitable programme where they trap, neuter and release feral cats?

Tessasanderson · 03/08/2026 15:13

Squidgoals · 03/08/2026 13:25

Plenty of dogs are terrified of cats and plenty of cats are totally indifferent to dogs. My cat loves my ndn’s garden and there are two very barky dogs there that he ignores. My cousin’s dog is terrified of her neighbours’ cats because they’re nearly the same size as her and they arrive by jumping over the fence, which is not something she can do and really freaks her out.

The best way to stop cats coming into your garden is to get your own cat.

OK i will reword it.

Get a couple of dogs who are not afraid of cats.

You are wrong about having a cat being a great deterrent. I have had cats and ive witnessed cats bullying other cats and going into their territory. Having a cat is no guarentee.

My two dogs guarentee no cat hangs around in our garden.

WearyAuldWumman · 03/08/2026 15:11

BitOutOfPractice · 03/08/2026 07:17

Domestic cats - which are not indigenous to the uk - kill around 270 million animals a year. That can’t be right can it? I think that’s a shocking statistic. And all because, well, pets and people’s (all of whom claim to be animal lovers) right to own them as they see it.

Aye, I do often find bird remnants in my garden.

WearyAuldWumman · 03/08/2026 15:11

I do wonder about some cat owners, I admit - I have a neighbour whose current cat has survived for a few years, but her previous animals were lucky to last for two - our front gardens look onto a reasonably busy road road and the back gardens lead to a path leading to an even busier hill road.

Each cat has been put out at night and just left to get on with it - and then she's been distraught when each cat has gone missing/been hit by a car. The current pet seems to be a bit better at picking routes across garden fences and along window sills.

WearyAuldWumman · 03/08/2026 15:06

MadeInTheNorth · 03/08/2026 06:01

Good luck telling a cat what to do 😂

I notice that on US dominated online boards, the norm seems to be to have house cats. (I think that it might be different in rural areas where they used to keep down mice and rats.)

I do have a couple of friends in the UK who have house cats which were rescue cats.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/08/2026 14:51

Papster · 03/08/2026 13:44

Try putting the average cat on a lead.

Occasionally some cats walk on lead. Cats protection say “taking your cat for a walk on a harness and lead is not recommended. It is likely to be very stressful and scary for them”.

If it worked I’m sure I’d see more cats on leads. I don’t see them.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/08/2026 14:48

The one cat I saw in a catio, it was adopted from Spain. It seemed ok in the catio but it couldn’t get anywhere else beyond that.

six666 · 03/08/2026 14:44

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:59

Again just completely patronising, completely ignoring a really logical question.

Why are cats the only animals we routinely put at risk?

Why are cats the only animals we routinely put at risk?

Why do you keep asking this question when many people have already given you very reasonable answers?
You may not like the answers but that is just something you are going to have to live with, you do realise other people are actually allowed to have differing opinons to yours.....

BitOutOfPractice · 03/08/2026 14:20

FlyingCatGirl · 03/08/2026 13:47

If nobody has quoted you as saying something you haven't then what's the issue?

Because it's rather galling?

KoiTetra · 03/08/2026 13:58

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:23

I thinks it's fair to say many more (exponentially more) cats die than humans each year.

I would be willing to bet everything I own that more humans die in road related deaths per year than cats!

Aluna · 03/08/2026 13:51

Papster · 03/08/2026 13:47

How on earth do you supervise a cat?

My personal view is the keeping cats inside, except the most docile and pliant, is like keeping caged birds.

I know people with house cats and I’d never express this to them, but I have strong sympathy with indoor cats

I totally agree. Keeping cats inside is like keeping animals in a zoo. Except at least zoo animals have some outside space.

Papster · 03/08/2026 13:47

estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:53

Well if that doesn't bother, does the fact that the cat could come a cropper (fights, foxes, cars, cruel people) not bother you?

I cant imagine just letting my pet out unsupervised because somebody, once said, oh cats NEED to roam.

How on earth do you supervise a cat?

My personal view is the keeping cats inside, except the most docile and pliant, is like keeping caged birds.

I know people with house cats and I’d never express this to them, but I have strong sympathy with indoor cats

FlyingCatGirl · 03/08/2026 13:47

BitOutOfPractice · 03/08/2026 13:08

No the responses I am reading have quoted me directly. Nowhere have I advocated either of those things.

If nobody has quoted you as saying something you haven't then what's the issue?

Papster · 03/08/2026 13:44

Limeandfigs · 02/08/2026 09:46

So do dogs, that's why most owners walk them twice a day.

Try putting the average cat on a lead.

Fleaz · 03/08/2026 13:42

Weird thread. It's cats' natural behaviour to roam at night. Dogs, not so much.

And the hypocritical concern for wildlife - are you vegan, OP?

Cats hunt, kill and eat their prey. We humans are responsible for the industrial slaughtering of trillions of animals kept in terrible conditions without having to lift a finger.

Squidgoals · 03/08/2026 13:25

Tessasanderson · 03/08/2026 13:06

One of our neighbours cats was roaming yesterday morning. It walked our perimeter fence and then decided it would be ok to drop down into the garden. It was quite amusing when it hadnt spotted my 2 dogs literally waiting quietly for it to come around the corner. It got the fright of its life and managed to escape at the last second.

Would i wish harm on the cat? - Nope i dont.

But i did want it to get a lesson in life for its own safety. Come in my garden and theres a good chance 2 dogs are coming for you.

If you dont want cats in your garden, dogs are the best deterrent

Plenty of dogs are terrified of cats and plenty of cats are totally indifferent to dogs. My cat loves my ndn’s garden and there are two very barky dogs there that he ignores. My cousin’s dog is terrified of her neighbours’ cats because they’re nearly the same size as her and they arrive by jumping over the fence, which is not something she can do and really freaks her out.

The best way to stop cats coming into your garden is to get your own cat.

MyOtherProfile · 03/08/2026 13:24

Hildegard25 · 03/08/2026 11:56

Why not?
Dogs used to roam free.
We then started sticking dogs on a lead.

🤣🤣 dogs are far more trainable than cats!

cupfinalchaos · 03/08/2026 13:20

I don’t think cats need to roam, they just need to practice their basic feline behaviour which is stalking and hunting. If you have a garden that’s all they need as they can chase flies etc. Unfortunately they do get the very occasional bird. Our solution is to make sure our cats don’t leave our garden so they can’t be a menace anywhere else and can’t get run over.

Wordsmithery · 03/08/2026 13:16

Cats are natural roamers and indoor cats don't live such a full life as cats with open access to outdoors.
Having said that, cats decimate our native wildlife which is already struggling due to food scarcity and habitat loss. I have already decided that any future cats I have will be kept in at night which is when most killing takes place.

BitOutOfPractice · 03/08/2026 13:08

FlyingCatGirl · 03/08/2026 12:46

A number of postera on here have this morning demanded that all pet cats be locked up for life and all strays and ferals should be killed! The responses you are reading are in response to those people.

No the responses I am reading have quoted me directly. Nowhere have I advocated either of those things.

Tessasanderson · 03/08/2026 13:06

One of our neighbours cats was roaming yesterday morning. It walked our perimeter fence and then decided it would be ok to drop down into the garden. It was quite amusing when it hadnt spotted my 2 dogs literally waiting quietly for it to come around the corner. It got the fright of its life and managed to escape at the last second.

Would i wish harm on the cat? - Nope i dont.

But i did want it to get a lesson in life for its own safety. Come in my garden and theres a good chance 2 dogs are coming for you.

If you dont want cats in your garden, dogs are the best deterrent

FlyingCatGirl · 03/08/2026 12:57

Hildegard25 · 03/08/2026 11:56

Why not?
Dogs used to roam free.
We then started sticking dogs on a lead.

Cats are a different beast to a dog, they don't have any similarities in mental state to a dog. Cats would hate being on leads and it cruel to start trying to force that on to them. It's very dangerous because they'd be defiant and panic and try to get out of that lead / harness and othey get out of it somewhere, they've gone! They are lost! The nearest walking place to me is a beck and it's always got lots of dogs on there so why would I do something so cruel as to drag my cats down there on a lead / harness and subject them to the terror of dogs and potential to be attacked! My cats pretty much stay in my garden and cause no issue and I have no intention of ever inflicting that sort of cruelty and danger on my cats!

Jasmin71 · 03/08/2026 12:52

Cats are crepusculer animals. Their prime hunting time is dawn and dusk. That's why they like to out at those times. It's just nature.

FlyingCatGirl · 03/08/2026 12:46

BitOutOfPractice · 03/08/2026 11:47

Where did I say that exactly?

A number of postera on here have this morning demanded that all pet cats be locked up for life and all strays and ferals should be killed! The responses you are reading are in response to those people.

Baileyss · 03/08/2026 12:39

Howmanycatsistoomany · 03/08/2026 12:10

I mean, in your post you said:

Domestic cats - which are not indigenous to the uk - kill around 270 million animals a year. That can’t be right can it?

So I ask you, and all the other posters who seem to think cats are such a huge problem to wildlife in the UK - if we remove cats from the equation, either by culling them or keeping them cooped up in catios cages, what do you propose to to do to deal with the subsequent massive rise in the rodent population?

Cats have always roamed. Cats is not the biggest threat to wild life even if I do get sad when my cats mostly hang kills a bird too.

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