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AIBU to think cats should not roam unsupervised like dogs?

717 replies

estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:42

AIBU to think that if you dont leave your dog to roam streets unsupervised, then you shouldn't let other pets (cats), for the same reasons.

It blows my mind that people let their cats out because their sleep is disrupted and I wonder why they think its OK, when its highly unlikely they would put Fido outside if he kept the family up.

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ThatAquaRobin · 02/08/2026 10:24

Of course my cats go out at night. They're cats.
They'd hate being locked in.
Never had an indoor cat.

CoffeeAndACroissant · 02/08/2026 10:24

Thread summary:

Cat owners indignant at the thought they might have to take some responsibility for their cat.

Non cat owners who think every cat is responsible for wide scale bird genocide.

Dog owners who are relieved the attention isn't on their inability to pick up poo / stop dogs jumping on people / sheep worrying etc.

Bonus points if anyone who owns a cat, dog, and a bird and chips in.

Seriestwo · 02/08/2026 10:24

DidYeAye16 · 02/08/2026 10:22

So do people, should we keep them locked up in the house.

This is stupid

bridgetreilly · 02/08/2026 10:24

Death is a normal, natural part of life. Attempting to prevent animals dying is such a weird modern - utterly futile - obsession. Poor dead pigeon! Won’t someone think of the rat babies!

The reason cats are so common in this country is precisely because they were used to kill wildlife and keep the population of vermin down. Cat roaming and killing is a feature not a bug.

scalt · 02/08/2026 10:24

Only on Mumsnet do people talk of banning cats roaming (as well as banning just about everything under the sun).

Perhaps the OP would support the government killing wandering cats in case they carried the virus, like they said they “might have to” in 2020, in case anyone has forgotten that, as part of the madness of King Boris. (They would have had to kill ME first!)

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:23

DidYeAye16 · 02/08/2026 10:22

So do people, should we keep them locked up in the house.

I thinks it's fair to say many more (exponentially more) cats die than humans each year.

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babyproblems · 02/08/2026 10:23

Cats and dogs are not comparable.. a dog could kill someone!! They’re two entirely different species of animal.

Seriestwo · 02/08/2026 10:23

The vet said to me about young cats dying on roads and their life expectancy being 2. This isn’t a conference, so I’m comfortable with my data analysis thanks. The paper shows that cats die on roads and can have happy safe indoor lives.

you just don’t want to create it. Everyone know that cats go missing and that many of those cats have died in agony from injuries.

its negligence to let your cats roam - they can’t be trained and letting them take their chances is horrible.

EverytimeItPours · 02/08/2026 10:23

estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:58

Well yes, or provide them with a catio at night and a cat proof garden for the day.

We cant get a dog, or guinea pig, or tabbit unless the garden is suitable and safe. Why does the same not apply to cats?

BTW, I love cats and dogs. I am not a cat hater or an indoor cat person. I do think that they should be kept inside the house or catio at night and we should have to pet proof out gardens. It seems odd that people let their cats out but would never consider the same for dogs or guinea pigs or rabbits. Why do those animals need to wander less?

Its so sad to see lost cat posters when its totally avoidable.

What a daft comparison. I wonder what would happen if you let a guinea pig or rabbit roam around the neighbourhood. You’d never see them again. Cats come home.

chirrupybird · 02/08/2026 10:23

Sahara123 · 02/08/2026 09:45

My cats are out at night because that is their natural hunting time, not because they keep me awake !

My cat is shut in at night and roams during the day. He pretty much sleeps all night.

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:22

Limeandfigs · 02/08/2026 10:01

I do think it's an interesting question.

If we as a society generally accept that it's not on to let domestic animals wander at will, and we also accept that cats need to roam, the next question has to be "are cats unsuitable as domestic pets?" Unless of course you're lucky enough to have large amounts of land.

My chickens would quite happily roam into my neighbours garden if I let them.

Rabbits have a range up to 200m from their home burrow.

The less said about horses the better!

So why only cats?

Yes completely agree. I cant understand why the poor cats are the only ones left to their own devices.

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Mermaidmusing · 02/08/2026 10:22

Bloody hate cats. And their selfish owners who inflict them on the rest of us, letting them shit everywhere. At least have the decency to keep the horrible creatures confined to your own home as house cats.

DidYeAye16 · 02/08/2026 10:22

Seriestwo · 02/08/2026 10:20

The vet said to me about young cats dying on roads and their life expectancy being 2. This isn’t a conference, so I’m comfortable with my data analysis thanks. The paper shows that cats die on roads

So do people, should we keep them locked up in the house.

CatRescueNeeded · 02/08/2026 10:22

Limeandfigs · 02/08/2026 10:01

I do think it's an interesting question.

If we as a society generally accept that it's not on to let domestic animals wander at will, and we also accept that cats need to roam, the next question has to be "are cats unsuitable as domestic pets?" Unless of course you're lucky enough to have large amounts of land.

My chickens would quite happily roam into my neighbours garden if I let them.

Rabbits have a range up to 200m from their home burrow.

The less said about horses the better!

So why only cats?

This is exactly why I have cats but would never have a caged pet (and also don’t visit zoos). I believe it’s cruel to keep animals incarcerated

Seriestwo · 02/08/2026 10:20

The vet said to me about young cats dying on roads and their life expectancy being 2. This isn’t a conference, so I’m comfortable with my data analysis thanks. The paper shows that cats die on roads

Pudmyboy · 02/08/2026 10:20

MyOtherProfile · 02/08/2026 09:57

When and where were you a kid? I've never known people let their dogs roam on their own.

It was normal behaviour in the UK in the past, as a child I lived in the North and the South and in both places, letting the dog out in the daytime was normal. Though you did need a dog licence in those days.

UhOhRatPoo · 02/08/2026 10:19

Another interesting thing that study concludes is that cats living rurally, near stretches of fast road, are much more at risk from RTAs than urban cats.

I enjoy seeing cats out and about as I go about my daily business. DS loves when we get a visitor in our garden.

And they are handy to deal with the other garden visitors who prompted my username!

Aibuuuuu · 02/08/2026 10:19

EverardDeTroyes · 02/08/2026 10:12

I can't answer for the pp, but I was also a child of the 60s and 70s and remembering free roaming dogs. Central Southern England. Not rural.

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I was born in the 90’s and several of my neighbours dogs were free roaming, just like cats. I remember my Mum telling me stories of our next door neighbours dog chasing my pram and biting her ankles as she pushed me.

There was an absolutely horrific aggressive Shepard like dog that used to chase us all snarling when we were playing as kids. My Mum rang the warden a few times but either nothing was done or it was released back to the owners as this went on for at least two summers.

I grew up in a town in the north west, not too far away from a big city so definitely not rural. It wasn’t common as I remember thinking it was weird at the time as we kept our dogs in doors, but it was definitely a thing that was accepted in a way it wouldn’t be now.

Jackiepumpkinhead · 02/08/2026 10:19

Moronic post.

wherearemypeople · 02/08/2026 10:19

estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:53

Well if that doesn't bother, does the fact that the cat could come a cropper (fights, foxes, cars, cruel people) not bother you?

I cant imagine just letting my pet out unsupervised because somebody, once said, oh cats NEED to roam.

Like show early in Finding Nemo, life comes with risks, you could keep cats completely safe by never letting them outdoors, but they like going out.

pinkandwhiteroses · 02/08/2026 10:18

Seriestwo · 02/08/2026 10:05

Did you even read that before you posted it? 🫣

Sahara123 · 02/08/2026 10:17

saveforthat · 02/08/2026 10:01

I was a kid in the 60s and 70s and many dogs did indeed roam the streets during the day and come back for their tea (bit like kids).

Yes, as I’ve already posted, ours did in the 70’s ! Seems unbelievable now.

SadiraOfTyr · 02/08/2026 10:16

It’s cultural. In some countries cats are indoor pets, in the UK it is (generally) considered ok to let them out.

The impact on local wildlife is the main reason why they are kept indoors in countries like Australia, the cat’s own safety is why they are kept indoors in the US.

British cat owners do not consider either their cat’s safety or the impact on local wildlife important enough to keep them indoors.

saveforthat · 02/08/2026 10:15

MyOtherProfile · 02/08/2026 10:09

Where though? I was also a kid then and we never let our dogs roam. Not did anyone else in my experience. Were you rural?

No new town in Hertfordshire.

UhOhRatPoo · 02/08/2026 10:15

That cat cause of death study is very interesting. The poster needs to learn to understand statistics as it does NOT conclude that average lifespan for UK cats is 2!

It also says this:
“an indoor-only lifestyle may challenge reliably meeting all of a cat’s behavioural needs (eg, engagement in play, exploring, hunting, climbing and scratching), potentially inducing stress.13,14 While indoor-only living could effectively increase longevity, ensuring access to adequate environmental resources is essential to support normal feline behaviours.13,15

Mortality and life table analysis in a young cohort of pet cats in the UK - PMC

Mortality data represent an important resource for understanding population health that previously have mostly been extrapolated from veterinary records. The aims of this study were to explore mortality for a cohort of pet cats in the UK using data ...

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12033825/#bibr15-1098612X251314689