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To wonder where the normal people are?

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wherearemypeople · 01/08/2026 20:41

I went to a broadly leftwing but not political event the other day. At one point an anti racist man shouted out "never mourn a Tory", which struck me as pretty pro-violence in the month that Ann Widdecombe was murdered. Then a trans performance poet had trans flag painted bricks to remind people of the stonewall riots and said that sometimes people needed more persuasion, and mentioned Wes Streetings constituency office being damaged.

I used to be solidly left wing but would never condone violence. I'm just wondering where normal people are who are neither like the ones just mentioned or Tommy Robinson fans.

Name changed just in case the woman who runs the event comes on here.

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MasterGland · 01/08/2026 21:31

The normal people are struggling to pay their bills and raise their kids whilst politicians pander to the weird ideologies of fringe groups. Normal people are so disillusioned that you only really hear from them around election time, when pundits are 'surprised' by voting trends.

CoffeeCantata · 01/08/2026 21:30

I’m with you, OP. Could blather on for paragraphs but will just say that it’s horrible when people seem to lose their basic humanity over political issues.

Vicious, cruel, angry, vengeful people are terrifying and unfortunately social media now gives them a powerful platform to.

fanOfBen · 01/08/2026 21:24

We're over in Feminism: Sex and gender discussions - come on in.

JLou08 · 01/08/2026 21:22

I'm a normal left winger. I'm not what people would call an extreme lefty, I'm not sure how those who are could even fall in to the category of left. For me, it means being tolerant and respectful of others views and being anti-violence and terror. That's not what I see with those being labelled extreme left, those align more with the extreme right in my eyes.

Thepeopleversuswork · 01/08/2026 20:56

Politics has always attracted its fair share of fringe types who are drawn as much to the opportunity for exhibitionism as they are to the actual cause.

Historically there were enough people who were centrist and pragmatic to keep a lid on this. Our hyper polarised political climate has forced a lot of these “normal” people out or to the extremes. People are far more tolerant of this extremism than they were 20 odd years ago.

I don’t think the left has a monopoly on extreme politics though. There are plenty of extreme views on the left and the right.

Gooseling · 01/08/2026 20:50

I suppose I meet your “normal”.

I cannot stand Tommy Robinson, Katie Hopkins, Rupert Lowe etc. I would never ever vote Reform UK, Restore Britain and those type of parties.

I probably swing more towards the left. However I don’t believe trans women are women. I do not want to be called a “Cis woman”, I’m just a woman. People celebrating the death of Anne Widdecombe are abhorrent (I’ve seen them on twitter/X).

I hate the whole far left vs far right tit for tat, it isn’t productive. Hopefully most sensible people do too.

user293948849167 · 01/08/2026 20:49

I have always considered myself left wing, the problem is the extremes have shifted so much that I now find myself slightly right of centre even though my political views haven’t really changed!

SouthLondonMum22 · 01/08/2026 20:47

Not at the event, probably. You will always get more extreme people at events like that.

Velvera · 01/08/2026 20:46

Wind 'em up and watch them go.

Mischance · 01/08/2026 20:46

I'm normal!

wherearemypeople · 01/08/2026 20:45

Don't know what I am expecting from this thread, just frustrated. Am just about to meet friends so won't be back till later.

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