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AIBU to think parents chasing each other round Morrisons is odd?

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HelloDenise · 01/08/2026 20:11

I just saw a 30-something couple chasing each other around Morrisons whilst their young kids stood watching and giggling. AIBU to think this is mad?

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mathanxiety · 02/08/2026 19:56

Maybe they'll regret it when whatever they took to enhance the shopping experience wears off.

HelloDenise · 02/08/2026 19:51

AgentPidge · 02/08/2026 19:35

"the dead and dying shelf' Thank you 😆

Is that the also known as the yellow sticker shelf?

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AgentPidge · 02/08/2026 19:35

SneakyGremlin · 01/08/2026 20:34

Why?

I always go with DP to the supermarket. We like different foods and are interested in different offers/different items on the dead and dying shelf. God forbid we enjoy an activity together as a couple considering we both work a lot - so the supermarket is one of the only times we can be together Hmm

"the dead and dying shelf' Thank you 😆

Flossy1985 · 02/08/2026 19:28

Sorry but who cares?! I dance around supermarkets with my son, I’ve even done it with a friend just for shits and gigs and I do not mind shopping with my partner we always have fun in our 40s. I think you’re just ranting for rantings sake.

life is too short to be arsed

Itsalittlebitwarm · 02/08/2026 18:10

This sounds like fun and I would find it funny 😁

I would happily do it but DH is too sensible.

Cla7 · 02/08/2026 13:58

HelenaWilson · 02/08/2026 13:34

Not take a child to a supermarket? Seriously? Thank you, finally a new addition to my ‘most bonkers things I’ve read on MN’ list.

Did you miss the part I quoted about the child possibly having a melt down? Why is it 'bonkers' to avoid doing something that might cause a child to be distressed?

Because you can’t avoid everything that ‘possibly’ causes a toddler to have a meltdown. I’m not talking about neurodiverse children that find particular situations stressful, just normal toddlers. Mine has a meltdown in the supermarket one day, in the park the next day, and in our kitchen the third day because he suddenly decides that he wanted his banana cut differently than yesterday. There’s no avoiding it, it’s normal behaviour of a 2-year-old.

patooties · 02/08/2026 13:37

Were they being filmed for some hilarious ‘content’ perhaps

cornflakecrunchie · 02/08/2026 13:35

Ah, I wish my late DH was still here.. we were always play-falling-out at the other wandering off & getting temporarily lost in Morrisons.. & might even have a cheeky snog-by-the-freezers. We were in our mid-late forties. Shocking!

HelenaWilson · 02/08/2026 13:34

Not take a child to a supermarket? Seriously? Thank you, finally a new addition to my ‘most bonkers things I’ve read on MN’ list.

Did you miss the part I quoted about the child possibly having a melt down? Why is it 'bonkers' to avoid doing something that might cause a child to be distressed?

rainbowstardrops · 02/08/2026 13:31

Fuck me, how pathetic and attention seeking! And no, I’m not a misery or a ‘fun sponge’. It smacks of, ‘Oh look at us, aren’t we such cool, funny parents!’ No, you’re ridiculous. Go to a park if you want to act like a child.
Thankfully, I’ve never seen anything like this in any supermarket near me and no, I’m not from a hugely affluent area and I hardly ever go into the Waitrose in my town. Bloody pathetic.

Owly11 · 02/08/2026 13:27

It's both odd and annoying self absorbed twattish behaviour. Not a single thought was had about anyone else in the supermarket.

Wingwalk · 02/08/2026 13:23

HelloDenise · 01/08/2026 21:58

I'm baffled because we were told off by our parents for racing around supermarkets. I'd have been a bit confused then if my dad had chased my mum around the frozen food aisle.

I suppose there's a small chance that this couple wasn't raised by your parents

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 02/08/2026 13:22

They sound like a pair of unsufferable arses. Supermarkets are not places for anyone running around. Can you imagine them in a pub? Ugh.

onesinglepringle · 02/08/2026 13:19

OonaStubbs · 02/08/2026 13:09

I do think there should be certain hours on certain days of the week where supermarkets should not allow families or children so that adults who just want to do their shopping in quiet efficiency can go there and get in and out as soon as possible. There should also be special rules about no stopping and blocking shelves or aisles and inconveniencing other shoppers.

Oh come off it.

Imagine needing to pop to the shop to pick something up with a child in tow, only to find that you're not allowed in and have to come back in 2 hours when it's open to kids.

Don't be ridiculous.

Not all children misbehave in supermarkets. Most do not.

Adults who want to do their shopping in quiet efficiency can go at a less busy time or do so online at home.

HollyMcDolly · 02/08/2026 13:19

I don’t think it’s odd, more annoying attention seeking twatery

onesinglepringle · 02/08/2026 13:16

HelloDenise · 01/08/2026 21:58

I'm baffled because we were told off by our parents for racing around supermarkets. I'd have been a bit confused then if my dad had chased my mum around the frozen food aisle.

Same.

My view on most stuff like this is live and let live as long as you're not negatively impacting others... but I can't imagine that two adults chasing each other around a supermarket isn't at least a bit inconvenient for other people who are just trying to get the shopping done.

If it's quiet then I guess it makes no difference, as long as they're not knocking things off the shelves and annoying people.

Really though, just go to a park.

Cla7 · 02/08/2026 13:15

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 02/08/2026 13:10

Many mners are shocked at the existence of children in most locations, restaurants, cinemas, museums, parks…. Often the same posters who also go on about the failure of parents today for using screens! 😆

True. I wonder where children should exist. I do get it that there are inappropriate places and I’d not take a toddler to a high-end restaurant or theatre out of consideration for others, but I’ll also definitely not book a nanny to do my supermarket shopping. 🤣

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 02/08/2026 13:11

It’s a bit daft, @HelloDenise, but as long as they aren’t ploughing into other people, I don’t think it’s a big problem - nothing wrong with an occasional bit of fun.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 02/08/2026 13:10

Cla7 · 02/08/2026 13:00

Not take a child to a supermarket? Seriously? Thank you, finally a new addition to my ‘most bonkers things I’ve read on MN’ list.

Many mners are shocked at the existence of children in most locations, restaurants, cinemas, museums, parks…. Often the same posters who also go on about the failure of parents today for using screens! 😆

OonaStubbs · 02/08/2026 13:09

I do think there should be certain hours on certain days of the week where supermarkets should not allow families or children so that adults who just want to do their shopping in quiet efficiency can go there and get in and out as soon as possible. There should also be special rules about no stopping and blocking shelves or aisles and inconveniencing other shoppers.

Cla7 · 02/08/2026 13:00

HelenaWilson · 01/08/2026 23:23

Presumably it was for their children’s benefit. You do whatever it takes to avoid a mid-shopping melt down.

Whatever it takes could include not taking the child to the shop in the first place if you know that's likely to happen.

Not take a child to a supermarket? Seriously? Thank you, finally a new addition to my ‘most bonkers things I’ve read on MN’ list.

JapanesePotWeed · 02/08/2026 12:54

BauhausOfEliott · 02/08/2026 10:12

In my 50 years on this planet I’ve never seen any of these things happening in a supermarket.

All it tells me is that you have spent those 50 years living in a naice middle-class area and/or don't shop in large city centre supermarkets.
I moved from Home Counties to a city in the North of England - 4 years in and the culture shock hasn't subsided.

cubistqueen · 02/08/2026 12:03

HelloDenise · 02/08/2026 10:48

When did the term fun sponge become a thing? It's used to shut down discussion rather like Be Kind. Nobody said Be Kind like this before February 2020.

Got knows. But yes it’s used (on here) to shut people down who don’t agree with whatever the consensus is. Children can have fun and giggles without their parents disrupting what is a chore to most people, to be over as soon as possible.

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 02/08/2026 10:56

I mean, I can see it would be annoying if they're getting in other shoppers' way but I'd much rather see parents having fun rather than the usual snapping at their kids scenario I seem to encounter every time.

tokennamechange · 02/08/2026 10:53

HelloDenise · 01/08/2026 20:27

Really? Grown adults run around supermarkets? How would getting out more help, exactly, as it's happening in a supermarket? Getting out more to, say, theatre, bars, restaurants and cinemas isn't going to help, is it?

well no, because chasing is for supermarkets, whereas you play hide and seek in cinemas. Obviously.

There are rules for this sort of thing, it would be completely inappropriate to chase each other in a garden centre when everybody knows that's where you do the wheelbarrow race.