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AIBU to feel people are far too complacent about climate change?

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Quibble123 · 01/08/2026 11:48

I should probably say up front that I work in this field, so this isn't based on a few headlines or a panic after a hot week. My job has involved working with scientists, policymakers and communities for years, I have a PhD in social policy (focused on social action and social change), so I'm fairly well immersed in the evidence. If anything, it's made me less alarmist, not more.
But I honestly feel like I'm watching two different realities.
The impacts we've been warned about for decades are now happening with increasing regularity, yet most people seem remarkably unbothered. We have a hot spell, floods somewhere else, another wildfire, another record broken... and everyone just seems to shrug and move on.
I'm not expecting people to spend every day worrying about it. Life is busy enough. But I genuinely don't understand why there isn't far more public outcry and pressure on politicians to treat this as the priority it surely has to be. People do talk about the consequences (such as wildfires etc) but the discussion on the causes (fossil fuels, over consumption etc) remain largely untouched - when we should be absolutely raging!
Maybe people feel powerless. Maybe we've just adapted to each new "once in a generation" event until it becomes normal.
I don't know. I just find the lack of urgency really hard to get my head around. This is the single biggest threat to our current and our children's futures - it could literally kill them - and we seem to be walking blindfolded....

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BettyJoanPerske · 01/08/2026 19:29

Totaldramallama · 01/08/2026 19:17

The animals of the world have done nothing wrong and don't deserve it

I agree, but a lot of them will survive. I don't want to be flippant, but I just don't have the energy to worry about this. I don't have any children, and that is why I don't really care. The planet has gone through trauma before and come out the other side. Humans are such frail, expendable creatures. If we die out, so be it.

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:27

Dragonscaledaisy · 01/08/2026 19:27

You're talking about something different though. Getting rid of gas boilers will make a huge difference to the UK both now and in the future.

No, I'm talking about climate change as a whole. Me getting rid of my gas boiler is not going to mean the planet survives for any longer than it is already.

AprilMizzel · 01/08/2026 19:27

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:10

Well, they can mention whatever they like, but if those changes don't outweigh the damage they've done by having kids, then they can't expect people to take them seriously IMO.

Well there are a fair few climate modlers who think those model that came to those conclusions are deeply flawed.

They have the generational double-counting flaw - it double-counts emissions by allocating the exact same carbon footprint to the parent, the child, and the grandchild simultaneously and assumes that future generations will have no agency of their own.

The "Static Future" Fallacy these models freeze today's high-carbon infrastructure and assume it will remain identical for the next 100 years when it gone down in last decade.

Ignore the Consumption vs. Population issues - the environmental impact of having a child is vastly dictated by where* *they are born and how they live, rather than the mere act of birth.

Often when the generational compounding math and look purely at direct, lifetime individual impacts, the data shifts heavily away from reproductive choices and toward immediate lifestyle and policy changes.

Given that a large section of any country population still has children that a huge swath of people including next generation who you are saying can ignore any envronmental messaging going forward and not bother with any changes - which TBH seems an odd stance when population changes are needed.

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:27

Melarus · 01/08/2026 19:26

If no one ever stands up and says, "That's it - as of today I'm going to do things differently," then nothing will ever change.

We need to stop letting the perfect be the enemy of the good.

I think you're living in fantasy land if you genuinely believe that to be true.

Dragonscaledaisy · 01/08/2026 19:27

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:21

How is any of that making a difference when you have people like Andy Burnham, Donald Trump and Taylor Swift getting in private planes everyday, and when billions of Americans use paper plates and plastic cups for their dinner every night?

I think people who say "it does have an impact" are kidding themselves, frankly.

You're talking about something different though. Getting rid of gas boilers will make a huge difference to the UK both now and in the future.

Melarus · 01/08/2026 19:26

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:15

Who said it makes me feel uncomfortable?

I just think it's all performative bollocks.

If no one ever stands up and says, "That's it - as of today I'm going to do things differently," then nothing will ever change.

We need to stop letting the perfect be the enemy of the good.

Melarus · 01/08/2026 19:23

Here's an interesting article from the UN Environment Programme, an interview with two scientists (both female 💪) in which they talk about the progress we've made in combating the climate crisis, and why there are grounds for hope.

One takeaway:

If there is one message you would want people, especially younger readers, to take away, what would it be?

Hinwood: My message is simple: do one thing.

We are a planet of billions of people. If every person did one thing, the impact would be enormous. Don’t think it’s all too hard. Find one thing you can do and be proud of yourself for doing it.

Climate crisis or climate progress? Two leading scientists separate fear from fact

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:21

Dragonscaledaisy · 01/08/2026 19:17

Everyone that switches to renewables from a gas boiler makes a difference. It reduces the need for new/replacement gas fired power stations that are supposedly 'low carbon' but will simply transport the CO2 away and hide it under the sea - that's making a difference right here in the UK. Investing in a heat pump and solar can also save you thousands of pounds, speaking from experience - that's an incentive and frees you from the trap of paying high energy prices, with a short payback time.

How is any of that making a difference when you have people like Andy Burnham, Donald Trump and Taylor Swift getting in private planes everyday, and when billions of Americans use paper plates and plastic cups for their dinner every night?

I think people who say "it does have an impact" are kidding themselves, frankly.

OnlyUsername · 01/08/2026 19:19

DirtyGertiefromno30 · 01/08/2026 19:16

My friend in the US genuinely thought l shouldn't dry my washing on the line outside , apparently it's not done there . I appreciate this may not be everywhere on the US , she is in Arizona .

Edited

They all have separate massive dryers (unless living in a city apartment with basement facilities) and just transfer every single item across from washer to dryer. It's madness. It ruins your clothing and costs a fortune!

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:18

DirtyGertiefromno30 · 01/08/2026 19:16

My friend in the US genuinely thought l shouldn't dry my washing on the line outside , apparently it's not done there . I appreciate this may not be everywhere on the US , she is in Arizona .

Edited

Some places in the US ban it! As in, it's actually illegal to hang your washing out to dry, lol. insanity.

Dragonscaledaisy · 01/08/2026 19:17

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:03

What's the point, though? Genuinely? If I wash my yoghurt pots and drive less, what difference is it actually going to make?

Everyone that switches to renewables from a gas boiler makes a difference. It reduces the need for new/replacement gas fired power stations that are supposedly 'low carbon' but will simply transport the CO2 away and hide it under the sea - that's making a difference right here in the UK. Investing in a heat pump and solar can also save you thousands of pounds, speaking from experience - that's an incentive and frees you from the trap of paying high energy prices, with a short payback time.

Totaldramallama · 01/08/2026 19:17

BettyJoanPerske · 01/08/2026 19:12

YABU. What's the point in worrying? The planet will survive, even if mankind doesn't.

The animals of the world have done nothing wrong and don't deserve it

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:17

Totaldramallama · 01/08/2026 19:16

Yes every time I've been to the US I come away thinking anything I do is entirely pointless. Plastic cutlery at a hotel breakfast!!

Have you seen any of the videos about people living in places like Korea?

Plastic cups in grocery stores filled with ice, and then you add liquid from another plastic container, drink it from a plastic straw - it's insane. And that's just cold drinks!

DirtyGertiefromno30 · 01/08/2026 19:16

Breadlegs · 01/08/2026 19:10

Whenever I have been to America they do minimal recycling. Still widely using plastic straws, cutlery, polysterene food boxes (I thethink I last saw these in the UK in 1992!) there are no public recycling bins. I do agree these things are important but whatever I do in a year is undone by my counterpart in the US within a week.

My friend in the US genuinely thought l shouldn't dry my washing on the line outside , apparently it's not done there . I appreciate this may not be everywhere on the US , she is in Arizona .

Totaldramallama · 01/08/2026 19:16

Breadlegs · 01/08/2026 19:10

Whenever I have been to America they do minimal recycling. Still widely using plastic straws, cutlery, polysterene food boxes (I thethink I last saw these in the UK in 1992!) there are no public recycling bins. I do agree these things are important but whatever I do in a year is undone by my counterpart in the US within a week.

Yes every time I've been to the US I come away thinking anything I do is entirely pointless. Plastic cutlery at a hotel breakfast!!

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:15

Melarus · 01/08/2026 19:14

So if someone is a net detriment to the environment (when their entire life is taken into consideration) rather than a net benefit, it means you can safely allow yourself to ignore any of their remarks about behaviour changes that might make you uncomfortable?

That's convenient!

Who said it makes me feel uncomfortable?

I just think it's all performative bollocks.

OnlyUsername · 01/08/2026 19:15

When your big polluter countries are run by men/groups of men who are only 10-15 years from dying of old age it isn't surprising. The leaders of the US, Russia and China are 80, 73 and 71.

There's a reason that dystopian books and films show societies where certain things are banned - things like one-child rules and a national uniform to avoid waste. People won't do them by choice.

Melarus · 01/08/2026 19:14

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:10

Well, they can mention whatever they like, but if those changes don't outweigh the damage they've done by having kids, then they can't expect people to take them seriously IMO.

So if someone is a net detriment to the environment (when their entire life is taken into consideration) rather than a net benefit, it means you can safely allow yourself to ignore any of their remarks about behaviour changes that might make you uncomfortable?

That's convenient!

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:12

Breadlegs · 01/08/2026 19:10

Whenever I have been to America they do minimal recycling. Still widely using plastic straws, cutlery, polysterene food boxes (I thethink I last saw these in the UK in 1992!) there are no public recycling bins. I do agree these things are important but whatever I do in a year is undone by my counterpart in the US within a week.

Well, exactly. And it's not just the US.

It's all very well telling people to drive less, or wash their yoghurt pots, or buy organic strawberries, but until other countries do their bit, it's just performative bollocks IMO.

BettyJoanPerske · 01/08/2026 19:12

YABU. What's the point in worrying? The planet will survive, even if mankind doesn't.

ThePeppyOpalScroller · 01/08/2026 19:10

LilyLemonade · 01/08/2026 18:02

How very cynical. Luckily, there are very many people out there who are devoting themselves to finding and implementing solutions to the challenges of our time. I am grateful to them!

Not cynical. Realistic. The answer to every single "environmental" crisis has been money. If it causes "pollution", tax it. Don't ban it, tax it. 🙄 and has all this money solved the inpending doom? No. Ever wonder why the tax is set to a level that is just high enough to make it a money spinner, but low enough that people will pay it, so they can continue to do the thing.

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:10

Melarus · 01/08/2026 19:09

Are they allowed to mention that they themselves have made changes?

Well, they can mention whatever they like, but if those changes don't outweigh the damage they've done by having kids, then they can't expect people to take them seriously IMO.

Breadlegs · 01/08/2026 19:10

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:03

What's the point, though? Genuinely? If I wash my yoghurt pots and drive less, what difference is it actually going to make?

Whenever I have been to America they do minimal recycling. Still widely using plastic straws, cutlery, polysterene food boxes (I thethink I last saw these in the UK in 1992!) there are no public recycling bins. I do agree these things are important but whatever I do in a year is undone by my counterpart in the US within a week.

AprilMizzel · 01/08/2026 19:10

Breadlegs · 01/08/2026 18:48

I wonder why countries in the Arab states don't capitalize on their sun and have countries just full of solar panels and then sell it to the rest of us. If that is more attractive than oil wealth then there may be some hope.

Saudi Arabia and United Arab Emirates are apparently investing in solar and wind.

Though apparently solar panel don't do well in really hot climates - efficiency drops by about 0.3% to 0.5% for every 1°C that the panel heats up above 25°C.

Though have seen them over canals in hotter countries reducing water lost in evaporation and in France over car parks - so providing shade as well as generating electricity. So people are getting innovative.

Melarus · 01/08/2026 19:09

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 19:03

No, I'm saying people with children (especially multiple children) have no right to preach at other people about making changes.

Are they allowed to mention that they themselves have made changes?