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Double ear piercing at age 11

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daisyfallout · 01/08/2026 07:34

My daughter is about to start secondary school and had her transition days this week.

One of the girls in her new class has double ear piercings, and, irrationally, it rubbed me the wrong way. I can't even quite explain why! My brain seems to file it somewhere closer to a tattoo than a standard ear piercing, even though I know that's not really logical.

My daughter had her ears pierced earlier this year after I finally surrendered, and I have double piercings myself. So it's not as though I have particularly puritanical views.

And of course, my daughter has now spotted this girl and immediately launched the campaign for a second piercing before September. I fear the siege may be a long one, and history suggests the defenders rarely win.

AIBU to think that a double ear piercing is a bit too much at age 11? Or am I actually a latent pearl clutcher?

OP posts:
Selfseedpoppies · 01/08/2026 07:36

Latent pearl clutcher I'm afraid. Why on earth is one hole in an ear different from two?

Owenspannas · 01/08/2026 07:36

Will she be allowed to wear both pairs of earrings at school? I know our secondary school doesn’t allow it, they’re allowed one pair of plain studs only.

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