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Dh changes when a full moon

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Touristtrainstuffedtothebrim · 31/07/2026 23:30

Not in a werewolf way and i’m not a woo type of person, but I’ve noticed a few times (going to have to start writing it down) that on the build up
to a full moon, he can be very moody and not nice sometimes and the day after-few days after, he’s back to himself, but much nicer-kinder

It’s happened too many times now to feel like a coincidence

Am I the one going mad?

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MandemChickenShop · 01/08/2026 10:19

yeah, but you don't know he's not a werewolf, he could be, Awoooooo

TheHonestSnail · 01/08/2026 10:04

itsgettingweird · 01/08/2026 09:37

I have heard (although never found evidence as such) that’s where the term Lunacy came from.

I’ve always believed it because the moon affects tides due to gravity and humans are full of water 🤷‍♀️

For me though I’ve seen the evidence. And Antonine PO who said about seizure activity increasing over a FM. That’s springing deal with in my job and have seen a correlation.

That is where the term lunacy came from, the theory was that moons 'luna' and tides caused madness.

In the same kind of eras where hysteria was why women were mad. The theory being that the womb (hyster) was wandering around the body making women mad and you could coax it back into place by putting tempting herbs and other things up the fanny or make it go back into place by eating horrible things that would scare it away from the upper body and back into the lower body.

Hysteria in psychiatry later morphed to mean physical symptoms caused by psychological issues which could be experienced by men or women.

My Great-Grandad was in the 1st WW from 9th September 1914 as already in the army. At the battle of the Somme among other horrors of 4 years in the trenches.

Discharged as medically unfit 6 months after the end of the end of the war due to 'Hysteria aphonia' - he was washing bandages still in France and lost his voice. Had psychotherapy which brought his voice back but with a previously unpresent stammer which resolved with more therapy.

Now we'd call it FND or PTSD, not hysteria.

So all bollocks really in terms of what the Greek medical terms meant.

itsgettingweird · 01/08/2026 09:37

I have heard (although never found evidence as such) that’s where the term Lunacy came from.

I’ve always believed it because the moon affects tides due to gravity and humans are full of water 🤷‍♀️

For me though I’ve seen the evidence. And Antonine PO who said about seizure activity increasing over a FM. That’s springing deal with in my job and have seen a correlation.

Chatgtp · 01/08/2026 08:43

@kattyjean

'AI tells me this is a myth and there is no such data'

I bet that was Claude. He can be a bit unreliable at certain times, he says it's not his fault but due to the spring tides. We all avoid him in the canteen around these times.

CurlewKate · 01/08/2026 08:43

Amazing how we find reasons for men behaving badly!

SleepyLlamaFace · 01/08/2026 08:33

My DS had epilepsy, and his seizures were more frequent and prolonged at a full moon - I didnt see the connection, just tracked the data for his epilepsy nurse to review, she spotted the connection instantly and said it was common in her experience - told me to buy a diary/calender with a moon cycle to help manage symptoms/future plan. She was spot on, when I back filled the info aligned with moon cycles.

ThatCyanCat · 01/08/2026 08:25

SunwaysSystems · 01/08/2026 00:19

How does the sun control the tides?

Do you see glasses of water being affected by the moon? What about a big Sports Direct mug of tea that someone's forgotten about? Or that bowl of washing up your DH 'left to soak'? They're nearly 100% water.

It is a theory I have heard, but I wasn't being entirely serious in repeating it. The "obviously" clearly didn't do as much heavy lifting as I thought...

ETA: If there was anything to this theory, it would be about when the moon is at apogee or perigee.

Tryingtobenormal124 · 01/08/2026 08:24

Friends husband works in hospital for criminal insane and apparently a lot of the patients get worse when it happens

TheHonestSnail · 01/08/2026 08:24

kattyjean · 31/07/2026 23:48

So this is what I always believed but apparently there’s been a lot of studies on this and there is no data from police etc to back it up (caveated to say from AI!)

My friend did her undergraduate dissertation on this (because we worked in hospitals where some staff would blame behaviours on the full moon) and she found zero evidence to support it.

Hotupnorth · 01/08/2026 08:23

deeplybaffled · 31/07/2026 23:45

DH works in a police control room in a major city. He and his colleagues definitely believe full moon affects behaviour!

I worked in a call centre years ago and it was a standing joke that the nutters came out of the woodwork customers were more "challenging" when there was a full moon.

The joys of working with the general public.

Weeellokthen · 01/08/2026 08:22

SunwaysSystems · 01/08/2026 08:19

Busier in terms of more patients turning up? By how much?

Not overrun but definately a few more mh issues

itsgettingweird · 01/08/2026 08:20

It’s a thing!!! I have worked in education for decades and was always told when the class got more feral “it’s a full moon” and I was always skeptical’

Now I’m head of behaviour - and he’s, they are my busiest days 🤣

I would have no idea it’s a full moon I only know because I sense it and check and it always is

SunwaysSystems · 01/08/2026 08:19

Weeellokthen · 01/08/2026 08:16

I read yrs ago that Sussex or Essex police drafted in extra police when it was a full moon. A&E's are also busier at these times.
Just saying

Busier in terms of more patients turning up? By how much?

Weeellokthen · 01/08/2026 08:16

I read yrs ago that Sussex or Essex police drafted in extra police when it was a full moon. A&E's are also busier at these times.
Just saying

HeronWading · 01/08/2026 08:14

BoredZelda · 01/08/2026 00:14

I have heard this so many times and it’s utter nonsense. It’s confirmation bias, nothing more.

This. Like the ‘the periods of women living in close proximity synchronise’. Has been studied often, and no data backs it up.

kattyjean · 01/08/2026 08:13

Gettingbysomehow · 01/08/2026 08:04

Its not your imagination. Every nurse in the land knows it will all go tits up on the full moon and patients will run amok.

So I will ask again, why isn’t there data to back it? With the amount of data collected via hospitals and police it would show clear spikes in certain things?

VibrancyInspector · 01/08/2026 08:13

I work in care and the amount of times someone has said ‘bloody hell whats going on, is it a full moon or something?!’ And we’ve checked and it is, can’t be a coincidence. So it’s not just because we know it’s a full moon and are on the look out for it.

and I don’t think it’s confirmation bias because I do remember a time (but only one time) where someone said it and it wasn’t a full moon- almost always it is

Owly11 · 01/08/2026 08:07

kattyjean · 31/07/2026 23:43

So I came here to say that it’s a known fact that behaviour changes with a full moon and that’s there’s data from police and hospitals to support this, but on double checking AI tells me this is a myth and there is no such data 🤣 however, it did say the one small data insight we have is that full moons can impact sleep and people can sleep on average 20 mins less so maybe irritability can be caused by that?!

I agree with this. The full moon can really give you a rubbish night's sleep, probably just because it's so bright and light outside all night. A bad night's sleep leads to irritability.

Gettingbysomehow · 01/08/2026 08:04

Its not your imagination. Every nurse in the land knows it will all go tits up on the full moon and patients will run amok.

kattyjean · 01/08/2026 08:01

okeydokeymokey · 01/08/2026 01:06

so many personal experiences here verifying.

Also this full moon was a big one, sun conjunct jupiter exactly opposite moon conjunct pluto. if you know your astrology you'll know how intense that would be!

So why isnt there any evidence to back it? It would be so easy to evidence, I think people have just encouraged it and it’s just confirmation bias at this point.

Walkden · 01/08/2026 04:37

of course the full moon affects people! given "that we're mostly made of water, think of the effect of the moon on the tides etc and on nature. of course it affects us as well"

As a previous poster pointed out this comment is largely hokum. There is a difference in gravity from the oceans facing the moon and the oceans on the opposite side of the Earth, causing bulges in those bodies of water and low tides in the areas between them.

This difference is negligible for a human being....

11AndCounting · 01/08/2026 04:26

PyongyangKipperbang · 01/08/2026 04:02

The reason that lunatics where so called absolutely was because it was believed that the moon made people mad. That it isnt true doesnt mean that this wasnt considered a medical fact at the time.

I still think the PP has an obvious anti-moon agenda.

PyongyangKipperbang · 01/08/2026 04:02

11AndCounting · 01/08/2026 03:39

I think you're a biased source on this one.

The reason that lunatics where so called absolutely was because it was believed that the moon made people mad. That it isnt true doesnt mean that this wasnt considered a medical fact at the time.

11AndCounting · 01/08/2026 03:39

RisingSunn · 01/08/2026 00:19

Apparently that’s where the origin of “lunatic” comes from. Original - meaning being struck by the moon!

I think you're a biased source on this one.

11AndCounting · 01/08/2026 03:36

The full moon does modestly reduce sleep quality, which can make people a bit grouchier.

But crime rates and ER admissions are so easy to measure that any real behavioural impact would be obvious — and the evidence is somewhere between "non-existent" and "extremely thin".