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Dh changes when a full moon

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Touristtrainstuffedtothebrim · 31/07/2026 23:30

Not in a werewolf way and i’m not a woo type of person, but I’ve noticed a few times (going to have to start writing it down) that on the build up
to a full moon, he can be very moody and not nice sometimes and the day after-few days after, he’s back to himself, but much nicer-kinder

It’s happened too many times now to feel like a coincidence

Am I the one going mad?

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BeCalmFinch · 01/08/2026 21:38

Touristtrainstuffedtothebrim · 31/07/2026 23:30

Not in a werewolf way and i’m not a woo type of person, but I’ve noticed a few times (going to have to start writing it down) that on the build up
to a full moon, he can be very moody and not nice sometimes and the day after-few days after, he’s back to himself, but much nicer-kinder

It’s happened too many times now to feel like a coincidence

Am I the one going mad?

My family were convinced my Granddad was affected by the moon in exactly the way you have seen. I totally believe this was what happened with my Grandad as it was always obvious in his behavior and everyone commenting on it.

Justontherightsideofnormal · 01/08/2026 21:15

I work in a sen school. When High winds are coming or a full moon we as staff just know by the behaviour changes of pupils.

Persephonia1966 · 01/08/2026 21:13

Flannelfeet · 01/08/2026 00:00

Ohhh, I get that too. I have known for 2 days the rain was coming and possibly thunder because my head has been thumping. Massive downpour (got caught in it and bloody soaked).
Guess what? I feel so much better...hope theres a wee bit more tomorrow (after i get my washing in 🤭.)

I can "sense" when a thunderstorm is coming and when I was a child used to get bad headaches. That's different though because there is a very real change in air pressure plus the air is usually full of moisture so feels heavy and sticky. I think it's just responding to surrounding changes our bodies definitely are capable of picking up.
It's possible that the full moon also causes changes that people pick up and are affected by. It's just that there isn't any known physical mechanism by which that can happen and not enough data showing a change outside of anecdote. So it sits in the "possibly real possibly wooo" box for now.

Knowing a thunderstorm because you can pick up on the air pressure changes is coming is similar to knowing there is a full moon because you can see it in the sky. Maybe not that much actually because not everyone is as sensitive. But it's definitely a thing.

MMUmum · 01/08/2026 21:02

Touristtrainstuffedtothebrim · 31/07/2026 23:30

Not in a werewolf way and i’m not a woo type of person, but I’ve noticed a few times (going to have to start writing it down) that on the build up
to a full moon, he can be very moody and not nice sometimes and the day after-few days after, he’s back to himself, but much nicer-kinder

It’s happened too many times now to feel like a coincidence

Am I the one going mad?

Nope! It's true. I was a nursing home manager for many years, caring for dementia sufferers, full moon was always when confusion and aggression ramped up.

Pieceofpurplesky · 01/08/2026 20:02

Another Teacher here and can confirm it is a thing as PP said. A windy full moon day is a double nightmare!

11AndCounting · 01/08/2026 19:36

HeronWading · 01/08/2026 18:44

Yes, and some enormous meta-analyses, collating the results of many studies.

It's even daft if you ignore the data and start from the premise "well the phases of the moon affect the tides" - because the moon's impact on the tides is stronger on a new moon than it is on a full moon.

But, of course, you don't generally see the moon when it's a new moon, and it doesn't have the same degree of mythology attached to it, so it doesn't trigger people's confirmation bias the same way.

TorroFerney · 01/08/2026 19:08

SunwaysSystems · 31/07/2026 23:42

No, things that happen to women that make behaviours in others less tolerable and more annoying than they would be at other times.

I hate to say it but maybe it's not him, it's you? Grin

Oh god yes, before I went on HRT I was convinced I would need to divorce my husband, I hated him.

Ozcams Razor op.

Horses7 · 01/08/2026 19:07

My Uncle (donkeys years ago) was described as Moonie because he changed and became more moody and aggressive with the full moon - I seem to remember as a child it was a ‘known thing’ for people, mainly men, to be moonie.

tommyhoundmum · 01/08/2026 18:53

Davros · 31/07/2026 23:48

Aw, I was hoping he grew paws

Ha!

Holdinguphalfthesky · 01/08/2026 18:51

I think the moon affects behaviour (teacher here too) and so does windy weather. I was really emotional on Wednesday, quite unlike me, and it was full moon then. Just one small example.

HeronWading · 01/08/2026 18:44

11AndCounting · 01/08/2026 18:32

There is loads of research on the topic, spanning decades. It just doesn't support the claims of moon-induced behavioral changes.

Multiple large-scale medical reviews and emergency room data analyses confirm that lunar phases do not change admission rates.

Large studies have shown no statistical pattern connecting lunar phases to total crime volume.

It's a superstition.

Yes, and some enormous meta-analyses, collating the results of many studies.

11AndCounting · 01/08/2026 18:32

PatchworkCow · 01/08/2026 14:28

If there's no money to be made from it, who is going to fund the research? It's usually drug companies doing the research. Just because there's been no research to say it's true, doesn't mean it isn't.

OP the word "lunatic" exists for a reason. Luna = of the moon.

There is loads of research on the topic, spanning decades. It just doesn't support the claims of moon-induced behavioral changes.

Multiple large-scale medical reviews and emergency room data analyses confirm that lunar phases do not change admission rates.

Large studies have shown no statistical pattern connecting lunar phases to total crime volume.

It's a superstition.

Touristtrainstuffedtothebrim · 01/08/2026 18:26

Thisismynewname23 · 01/08/2026 18:25

This is absolutely a thing, o noticed it in my teenager and when talking about it to a friend who is a policeman he said the cells will be full on a full moon brings the crazy’s out, other friend who is a teacher said she can absolutely tell when it’s about to be a full moon all the kids especially sen are affected in her experience

Gosh, so strange isn’t it!

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Thisismynewname23 · 01/08/2026 18:25

This is absolutely a thing, o noticed it in my teenager and when talking about it to a friend who is a policeman he said the cells will be full on a full moon brings the crazy’s out, other friend who is a teacher said she can absolutely tell when it’s about to be a full moon all the kids especially sen are affected in her experience

Single50something · 01/08/2026 18:05

My mum is bipolar and a colleague noticed that her difficult episodes happened around full moons. Id not realised but now do...and if she is going to be difficult with me, it does tend to be full moons. Eg.at moment...
The term lunatic obv comes from the moon affecting people
A policeman friend said the police notice it

Lolalady · 01/08/2026 18:02

My late dear dad spent the last 4 years in care. The carers told me that a lot of the residents became difficult at full moon. There is also a condition known as sun downing - people with dementia become unsettled at sunset.

HeronWading · 01/08/2026 17:02

PatchworkCow · 01/08/2026 14:28

If there's no money to be made from it, who is going to fund the research? It's usually drug companies doing the research. Just because there's been no research to say it's true, doesn't mean it isn't.

OP the word "lunatic" exists for a reason. Luna = of the moon.

If your logic were correct, there would be few or no studies on this, but it's not that the studies haven't been done! They have been done, across anthropology, sociological, criminology, psychiatry etc, and they overwhelmingly show no evidenced link between higher crime, higher violence, higher psychiatric admissions and the other correlations claimed by superstition and folk belief.

SunwaysSystems · 01/08/2026 16:37

clearlyy · 01/08/2026 15:23

i definitely believe the moon affects everything. If it affects the tides it affects us too.

I don't follow your logic

Do you think the tides only change once a month at full moon?

pinkandwhiteroses · 01/08/2026 15:32

I work with animals and the full moon definitely impacts their behaviour. Just as they're often impacted by the air pressure before a storm, for example.

It's definitely a "thing" to be impacted by your environment.

sweatybettytoday · 01/08/2026 15:29

I was a medical scientist. (Ie worked in the lab) overdoses def went up during a full moon and so we’d put more reagent onto the machines to test for it. Most emergency services staff would probably agree that behaviours change too

clearlyy · 01/08/2026 15:23

i definitely believe the moon affects everything. If it affects the tides it affects us too.

DollyPumpkin · 01/08/2026 15:21

People are absolutely affected by the moon it’s where the word lunatic comes from. I work dealing with anti social behaviour and its definitely busier when it’s a full moon!

PatchworkCow · 01/08/2026 14:28

kattyjean · 01/08/2026 00:12

Is there anything other than anecdotes though? It really interests me but I can’t find anything concrete and it doesn’t seem like the kind of thing that would be hard to evidence in MH, police and medical settings.

If there's no money to be made from it, who is going to fund the research? It's usually drug companies doing the research. Just because there's been no research to say it's true, doesn't mean it isn't.

OP the word "lunatic" exists for a reason. Luna = of the moon.

Bakeittillyoumakeit · 01/08/2026 13:17

Could be worse OP, he could turn into a werewolf on a full moon.

Loulou4022 · 01/08/2026 12:53

Yep I believe it’s a thing! One of my friends partners is like this! The kids at school their behaviour is worse around the full moon too! Throw in a windy day and wet play as well and it’s hell on earth!!

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