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AIBU to think public racist / anti immigrant / anti trans posts can justify dismissal?

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 18:39

Read a couple of accounts this week of racist, public supporters of the far-right being sacked for spouting race / immigrant / trans hate on their personal social media accounts.

One was a doctors receptionist.
The other a school learning support assistant.

Both roles where they are likely to work with people in the groups they're publicly trashing online. One was recorded at a far-right rally, speaking about the amount of immigrants she was forced to support in her line of work.

What is your opinion on this?

YABU - People should be able to express their opinion without fear of losing their job. Freedom of speech.

YANBU - Anyone with any kind of public facing role/a role where their employer is likely disapprove of this should not publicly post this way and needs to understand that being sacked is their own fault.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/07/2026 21:19

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 21:01

I remember this case well. This has happened to so many social workers - its terrifying tbh. Even though I run a business so Im independent, Im still beholden to SWE and they are right on it if anyone screams transphobia. I remember another case where a lesbian SW laughed because a bloke complained that she misgendered his non-binary dog. Said she was transphobic. She got sacked as he said he felt 'unsafe'. I shit you not.

Yes, the employer settled just before (literally a couple of hours) the case was about to start because it was obviously not going to be a win for them.

Dogsarethebestfriends · 30/07/2026 21:18

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 20:16

I was on a masters of social work course a few years ago, and the year before a fella had been kicked off the course because his social media said he was against homosexuality due to his religious beliefs. He was a christian and didn't believe gay marriage was acceptable.

I disagree with him entirely but it scared me hearing that. Im a die-hard terf, and i very quickly made myself anonymous. I still am and Im an independent now but I still worry because Social Work England are extremely captured so Id be buggered if anyone knew. So I do think people have to be careful. I dont know though what is right here. The problem is what constitutes hate speak depends entirely on your perspective.

Social worker terf here too. I'm the same and moved over to adult care as it isn't so captured. Some absolutely dodgy characters in childcare with gender ideology informing their practice. Very concerning.

dinodart · 30/07/2026 21:13

"Hate" can be really subjective. I've seen things labelled "trans hate" that is just stating biological reality. It's kind of insane that people should be fired for their thoughts, and the internet is a strange place where it sort of straddles the line between public and private.

sohard · 30/07/2026 21:11

It very much depends on what has been said. Saying transwomen are men is not hate and should not be a sackable offence but so many gender nutters seem to believe it is. Who gets to decide?

pleuo · 30/07/2026 21:09

Gwenhwyfar · 30/07/2026 20:46

"Being racist is not ' having an opinion'..."

Depends, doesn't it? Depends how you define it and what exactly was said. If it's really racist it will be illegal and be dealt with by the law. No reason for the employer to become involved in the person's personal life.

It’s not illegal to be racist. It’s true though that it’s easy to say that racism or ‘hate speech’ shouldn’t be allowed but ‘hate speech’ is not clearly defined.

Most people would agree that there is basic straightforward racism that is beyond the pale, usually along the lines of all people from a particular group have a particular negative characteristic or deserve negative treatment of some kind (although I agree with pps that these sorts of comments about Israelis and ‘Zionists’ seem to get a free pass) but there’s all sorts of other stuff that is highly contested, like being anti-immigration. It’s not like we have a nice simple list of things everyone agrees are hate speech.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 30/07/2026 21:07

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 20:43

@ChazsBrilliantAttitude did you see how hostile and threatening the woman doing it was though? Compared to the respectful way the praying man responded to her?

It was done deliberately to whip up racial hatred. It was a staged, videoed performance created for the purpose of posting to spur a response from far right supporters.

I am using that case as a springboard for the thought experiment rather than a comment on that specific individual.
(DH is a Muslim immigrant who doesn’t like public praying so again what if he had posted objecting. )

It is legitimate to object to organised Muslim prayers in that park on the basis that it is a breach of the bylaws.

It would not be legitimate to use it as a springboard for inciting direct action against people praying.

Similarly it would not be legitimate to object to Muslims praying but celebrate an organised prayer event for another religion.

The point I am making is that you need to unpick the motives for a post unless the content is so blatant that there is no other explanation. This is where employers have to tread carefully because they risk substituting their own perception of the employee’s motives rather than objectively identifying them. If an employee says they objected because that is what the bylaws say, an employer would be on shaky ground trying to justify a dismissal on the grounds of racism.

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 21:06

EmeraldRoulette · 30/07/2026 20:28

@seanconneryseyebrow he literally got kicked off a course for that? There was nothing else?

Nope. Part of the course was checking if you held, 'social work values'. They really rammed it down your throat. I thought it was quite controlling and lacking in critical thinking. Basically you had to be completely liberal (although what does that even mean these days?). I also think its a bit batshit and conflicting because working with DV victims you really want to protect women and we are trained to see the extra need for protection of women and girls - but we aren't to also highlight that trans 'rights' might conflict with that. Its hard to know what exactly those 'social work values' are - what the right ones are yanno? Dont get me started on how you must be anti-racist but also be hyper aware of issues that are race-related (such as FGM/breast ironing or treatment of mental illnesses as demonic or increased risk of physical violence in certain cultures).

TalkingintheDark · 30/07/2026 21:04

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 19:44

No. I'm not getting dragged into trans stuff. There is a board for that. If you all want to discuss it on here, go for it. But I am not.

The whole point of MN having a sex and gender board is for that.

And yet you brought “trans hate” into it in your very first post, the very beginning of the thread.

Why do that if you’re so desperate to avoid the topic altogether?

You can’t be surprised if people then think you’re being inconsistent.

LuckyHazelFox · 30/07/2026 21:02

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 21:01

I remember this case well. This has happened to so many social workers - its terrifying tbh. Even though I run a business so Im independent, Im still beholden to SWE and they are right on it if anyone screams transphobia. I remember another case where a lesbian SW laughed because a bloke complained that she misgendered his non-binary dog. Said she was transphobic. She got sacked as he said he felt 'unsafe'. I shit you not.

As I said, common sense has gone out the window. Frightening.

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 21:01

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/07/2026 20:27

This case involved Social Work England

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-67934781

I remember this case well. This has happened to so many social workers - its terrifying tbh. Even though I run a business so Im independent, Im still beholden to SWE and they are right on it if anyone screams transphobia. I remember another case where a lesbian SW laughed because a bloke complained that she misgendered his non-binary dog. Said she was transphobic. She got sacked as he said he felt 'unsafe'. I shit you not.

OnlyUsername · 30/07/2026 20:57

5128gap · 30/07/2026 20:47

I think organisations do tend to have a set of views that is their public face, even if that's one of being apolitical so as not to alienate any potential customer/client base. And I think its quite usual to expect their staff to uphold that public face when linked to them.
These cases are never about Sandra who works in Tesco saying she wants to stop the boats or Pete who works for Amazon and thinks the communist party have some good ideas.
They are invariably about people in roles where the employer has a strong public stance, for example on inclusivity, and the employee takes a strong opposing one, using an account where they make it clear where they work.
This is entirely avoidable on the employees part. Either by working somewhere they can support the value system, or not saying where they work if they feel compelled to post their strong opposing views.

In the case of the receptionist, she posted herself at work (as in, a full on photo at her desk saying the phones were quiet) in amongst the rest of her posts about "brown Muslims" and "leftards". Her post about being let go got pushed into hundreds of thousands of Facebook feeds, at which point thousands of those people posted to suggest to her that the bile on her FB page was perhaps a likely reason.

She wasn't even sacked; they just chose not to renew her fixed-term contract.

LuckyHazelFox · 30/07/2026 20:53

Goatsarebest · 30/07/2026 20:52

Not sure if the vast majority who express hatred to Jews understand the difference, tbh. In Ireland there is quite good separation and understanding of hating the historic actions of the British State and ruling establishment and having no issue with a British person as an individual who isn't actively supporting or justifying the historic crimes of our Country. Not sure that mature thought process has developed with regards to current thinking around the State of Israel and Zionism.

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Goatsarebest · 30/07/2026 20:52

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 20:38

Anti semitic or Anti Zionist?

Not sure if the vast majority who express hatred to Jews understand the difference, tbh. In Ireland there is quite good separation and understanding of hating the historic actions of the British State and ruling establishment and having no issue with a British person as an individual who isn't actively supporting or justifying the historic crimes of our Country. Not sure that mature thought process has developed with regards to current thinking around the State of Israel and Zionism.

LuckyHazelFox · 30/07/2026 20:48

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 20:46

That's your opinion. It isn't mine.

Best not to take it any further then.

5128gap · 30/07/2026 20:47

EmeraldRoulette · 30/07/2026 20:26

@5128gap "I think if you work for an organisation so far removed from your personal beliefs that posting your opinions would get you sacked, you're in the wrong job and should do yourself a favour and find one where you're a better fit"

but if you work with human beings, and most of us do, then there is a vast array of opinions that could be considered to be connected with them in some way.

So whether I'm an accountant or a teacher or a builder or a warehouse operative, I am going to encounter all sorts of people. It isn't the issue that the organisation necessarily has a particular set of views.

Hopefully we do our jobs professionally and politely and treat everybody well. But we might have opinions that piss them off. Does that mean we're not allowed to express them on personal social media?

I think organisations do tend to have a set of views that is their public face, even if that's one of being apolitical so as not to alienate any potential customer/client base. And I think its quite usual to expect their staff to uphold that public face when linked to them.
These cases are never about Sandra who works in Tesco saying she wants to stop the boats or Pete who works for Amazon and thinks the communist party have some good ideas.
They are invariably about people in roles where the employer has a strong public stance, for example on inclusivity, and the employee takes a strong opposing one, using an account where they make it clear where they work.
This is entirely avoidable on the employees part. Either by working somewhere they can support the value system, or not saying where they work if they feel compelled to post their strong opposing views.

Gwenhwyfar · 30/07/2026 20:46

"Being racist is not ' having an opinion'..."

Depends, doesn't it? Depends how you define it and what exactly was said. If it's really racist it will be illegal and be dealt with by the law. No reason for the employer to become involved in the person's personal life.

Quartzfairy · 30/07/2026 20:46

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 18:39

Read a couple of accounts this week of racist, public supporters of the far-right being sacked for spouting race / immigrant / trans hate on their personal social media accounts.

One was a doctors receptionist.
The other a school learning support assistant.

Both roles where they are likely to work with people in the groups they're publicly trashing online. One was recorded at a far-right rally, speaking about the amount of immigrants she was forced to support in her line of work.

What is your opinion on this?

YABU - People should be able to express their opinion without fear of losing their job. Freedom of speech.

YANBU - Anyone with any kind of public facing role/a role where their employer is likely disapprove of this should not publicly post this way and needs to understand that being sacked is their own fault.

You’re correct. I work for an NHS trust and our social media policy cover this. It’s considered to be gross misconduct. Hate speech is illegal, it isn’t just expressing and opinion.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 20:46

LuckyHazelFox · 30/07/2026 20:39

It's the same thing.

That's your opinion. It isn't mine.

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 20:43

@ChazsBrilliantAttitude did you see how hostile and threatening the woman doing it was though? Compared to the respectful way the praying man responded to her?

It was done deliberately to whip up racial hatred. It was a staged, videoed performance created for the purpose of posting to spur a response from far right supporters.

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LuckyHazelFox · 30/07/2026 20:39

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 20:38

Anti semitic or Anti Zionist?

It's the same thing.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/07/2026 20:39

It’s frequently a very fine line IME.

LuckyHazelFox · 30/07/2026 20:39

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 20:36

I agree with this. Im vehemently GC. I run a business supporting vulnerable people. I avoid working with trans people because I can. I dont support the ideology and given the business I run its just too difficult to get into working with them and hiding my beliefs and it would get in the way of what I do. I have tried in the past and it made my job near impossible. Not everyone has that luxury. But I feel it wasn't ethical for me to take on trans people as clients.PS: I dont hate them I just cant do the job I do without it coming up which causes me to not be able to do my job effectively.

There's so much common sense in your post. We've forgotten what that is with being pushed into accommodating things we aren't comfortable with.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 20:38

Goatsarebest · 30/07/2026 20:37

The rookie mistake they made is they weren't antisemitic, which has absolutely no consequences and is generally positively encouraged.
But generally, your actions outside your work can be tied to your suitability to carry out a work function. They don't operate in isolation. But reasoned positions not compliant with a narrative are not the same as racism and should be treated differently.

Anti semitic or Anti Zionist?

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Goatsarebest · 30/07/2026 20:37

The rookie mistake they made is they weren't antisemitic, which has absolutely no consequences and is generally positively encouraged.
But generally, your actions outside your work can be tied to your suitability to carry out a work function. They don't operate in isolation. But reasoned positions not compliant with a narrative are not the same as racism and should be treated differently.

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 20:36

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 19:25

Of course, everyone is entitled to their opinion. 100%.

But the point is a different one. If you hold an opinion that makes it hard for you to do your job (right-wing LSA who is hostile to immigrants, supporting immigrant children), your opinion is disqualifying you for the job.

I'm not suggesting she should be arrested or cancelled or face violence. But she can't do the job. Because she's made her point very clear that she hates one of the groups she's supposed to support.

The other choice she could have made was to hold this opinion privately. But by giving a speech in public which was recorded and published, she's outed herself.

I agree with this. Im vehemently GC. I run a business supporting vulnerable people. I avoid working with trans people because I can. I dont support the ideology and given the business I run its just too difficult to get into working with them and hiding my beliefs and it would get in the way of what I do. I have tried in the past and it made my job near impossible. Not everyone has that luxury. But I feel it wasn't ethical for me to take on trans people as clients.PS: I dont hate them I just cant do the job I do without it coming up which causes me to not be able to do my job effectively.