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AIBU to think public racist / anti immigrant / anti trans posts can justify dismissal?

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 18:39

Read a couple of accounts this week of racist, public supporters of the far-right being sacked for spouting race / immigrant / trans hate on their personal social media accounts.

One was a doctors receptionist.
The other a school learning support assistant.

Both roles where they are likely to work with people in the groups they're publicly trashing online. One was recorded at a far-right rally, speaking about the amount of immigrants she was forced to support in her line of work.

What is your opinion on this?

YABU - People should be able to express their opinion without fear of losing their job. Freedom of speech.

YANBU - Anyone with any kind of public facing role/a role where their employer is likely disapprove of this should not publicly post this way and needs to understand that being sacked is their own fault.

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grassmonkeys · 31/07/2026 12:48

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 12:02

So we have LA, a social worker, admitting her prejudices could have influenced her actions. And yet it’s ok for social workers to believe Muslims are dangerous and openly describe themselves as a ‘TERF’ and you think that’s, what, more professional?

NOBODY should be bringing their prejudices to work if they are in a state sponsored role with power over people. They should work on facts, and evidence and if they are unable to do that, they should stand aside. Clearly this is a hard ask, and current conditions mean unsuitable people remain in post and are overworked and under supervised/supported. But surely you want open minds in the profession, not Lisa Arthurworreys and not self declared Islamophobes?

How about prejudices from trans ally's who believe all people who do not believe in gender identity are TERF’s and bigots?

Paganpentacle · 31/07/2026 12:38

TwoBagsOfCompost · 31/07/2026 12:18

I was very torn voting on this. I am left wing, a woman, an immigrant. I am very liberal. I have what others would perceive as an “alternative” lifestyle. I’m saying all this to almost prove to strangers on the internet that I don’t have hateful views of others. Im tolerant and I understand about punching up and not down. All of those things. I hate the PC gone mad rhetoric. However I’ve recently found myself not speaking out of fear. It’d be an informal conversation on politics between friends and I’d just nod silently. It’s just not worth the stress and fear. An example would be, looking at today’s news about Ceuta, me saying that it’s quite a scary situation that needs strategic thinking from the EU on how to police borders safely. I would be too fearful to say this and I don’t think that’s okay, and I don’t think it’s a hateful opinion. But I feel that’s where we are.

On the other hand, we have a part of the population who actively hates foreigners, regardless of their contribution to society, we have Reform spouting hate left and right, so it’s such a weird time to be alive really.

As an immigrant, I no longer feel safe in the UK. And simultaneously I fear I could lose friends or my job if I said oh it’s scary what’s happening in Ceuta.

Strange times.

ETA the insane level of fear I have about not expressing any opinion around gender identity/biological sex is so huge that I didn’t even dare mention it as an example in my post above, out of fear that if I implied that I believe in biological sex (such as bizarre sentence) I could lose my livelihood. It’s just bonkers.

Edited

Same.
And I'm not left wing.
We have the same fears it seems- and yet none of us feel able to speak freely without being called racist/nazi/bigot and losing our jobs.
Scary times.

OneKookyCoralRaven · 31/07/2026 12:36

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 11:46

I don’t doubt that some people hold that belief, though I think many more are using it as a cover. What is saying is that we must not allow that belief to be used to shirk responsibility. For some reason people are very willing to accept that police held that view, I just wonder why? People are afraid to believe the worst of the police, because that leaves us in a scary position. Better to imagine them as fearful rather than complicit.

I agree things are more complex, and thus it’s also more complex than ‘a genuine fear of being called racist’. It’s really about an inability to see past someone’s skin colour or religion and view the behaviour on its own merits. Nothing in this thread has provided anything to challenge that.

Re Nottingham, that’s a massive oversimplification and I don’t see any parallel. It’s factually correct that black men are discriminated against in mental health services. Also correct that black men are disproportionately represented as carers. Way more complex than the police failing to arrest men for sexually abusing children.

It's not factually correct that black men are discriminated against in MH services.

It's factually correct that they are overrepresented in secure MH services but disparate outcomes don't equal discrimination.

Until we address the widespread factors that mean more black men are admitted to secure MH services, instead of saying 'well that must be discrimination' then we won't get anywhere.

But what the 'system' does is instead of saying well, there are different cultural, religious and psycho-social factors at play here, it reduces it down to 'well it must be discrimination' and aims to simply REDUCE the number of black, dangerous mentally ill men admitted to those services at point of contact so services fear being racist so are less likely to respond appropriately.

And that's why it won't work and why we end up with dangerous individuals who are a risk to the public being treated differently than their white counterparts.

All the well-intentioned phrases of public services come up again, and again in every single inquiry into horrific acts of violence on society.

Child first, adultification, not wanting to criminalise, not wanting to discriminate against global majority/asylum seekers/ND. Being trauma-informed. Not wanting to profile.

All being weaponised to stop professionals and the 'system' from acting to protect the public.

It needs to stop.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 12:23

TwoBagsOfCompost · 31/07/2026 12:18

I was very torn voting on this. I am left wing, a woman, an immigrant. I am very liberal. I have what others would perceive as an “alternative” lifestyle. I’m saying all this to almost prove to strangers on the internet that I don’t have hateful views of others. Im tolerant and I understand about punching up and not down. All of those things. I hate the PC gone mad rhetoric. However I’ve recently found myself not speaking out of fear. It’d be an informal conversation on politics between friends and I’d just nod silently. It’s just not worth the stress and fear. An example would be, looking at today’s news about Ceuta, me saying that it’s quite a scary situation that needs strategic thinking from the EU on how to police borders safely. I would be too fearful to say this and I don’t think that’s okay, and I don’t think it’s a hateful opinion. But I feel that’s where we are.

On the other hand, we have a part of the population who actively hates foreigners, regardless of their contribution to society, we have Reform spouting hate left and right, so it’s such a weird time to be alive really.

As an immigrant, I no longer feel safe in the UK. And simultaneously I fear I could lose friends or my job if I said oh it’s scary what’s happening in Ceuta.

Strange times.

ETA the insane level of fear I have about not expressing any opinion around gender identity/biological sex is so huge that I didn’t even dare mention it as an example in my post above, out of fear that if I implied that I believe in biological sex (such as bizarre sentence) I could lose my livelihood. It’s just bonkers.

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I think your views are nearer to what most people think than either absolutist extreme.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 12:20

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 12:05

I didn’t express that view, so don’t put words into my mouth. If prejudice was affecting a social worker’s work with certain groups of people, that’s one issue, and should be dealt with. If fear of being racist or perceived or called racist is affecting their job that should be tackled and if the whole culture is enabling that, that should also obviously be tackled. No?

Edited

Also, women call themselves TERFs because they are reclaiming a slur. It’s a legally protected belief as both Westminster Council and Social Work England found to their cost. A social worker is perfectly able to disbelieve in gender identity ideology, you can’t decide it would automatically make her unprofessional and unsafe to work with gender confused children. Just like being an atheist and posting about how god doesn’t exist doesn’t automatically make someone unsafe to work with Muslims, Christians or Jews.

TwoBagsOfCompost · 31/07/2026 12:18

I was very torn voting on this. I am left wing, a woman, an immigrant. I am very liberal. I have what others would perceive as an “alternative” lifestyle. I’m saying all this to almost prove to strangers on the internet that I don’t have hateful views of others. Im tolerant and I understand about punching up and not down. All of those things. I hate the PC gone mad rhetoric. However I’ve recently found myself not speaking out of fear. It’d be an informal conversation on politics between friends and I’d just nod silently. It’s just not worth the stress and fear. An example would be, looking at today’s news about Ceuta, me saying that it’s quite a scary situation that needs strategic thinking from the EU on how to police borders safely. I would be too fearful to say this and I don’t think that’s okay, and I don’t think it’s a hateful opinion. But I feel that’s where we are.

On the other hand, we have a part of the population who actively hates foreigners, regardless of their contribution to society, we have Reform spouting hate left and right, so it’s such a weird time to be alive really.

As an immigrant, I no longer feel safe in the UK. And simultaneously I fear I could lose friends or my job if I said oh it’s scary what’s happening in Ceuta.

Strange times.

ETA the insane level of fear I have about not expressing any opinion around gender identity/biological sex is so huge that I didn’t even dare mention it as an example in my post above, out of fear that if I implied that I believe in biological sex (such as bizarre sentence) I could lose my livelihood. It’s just bonkers.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 12:16

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 12:02

So we have LA, a social worker, admitting her prejudices could have influenced her actions. And yet it’s ok for social workers to believe Muslims are dangerous and openly describe themselves as a ‘TERF’ and you think that’s, what, more professional?

NOBODY should be bringing their prejudices to work if they are in a state sponsored role with power over people. They should work on facts, and evidence and if they are unable to do that, they should stand aside. Clearly this is a hard ask, and current conditions mean unsuitable people remain in post and are overworked and under supervised/supported. But surely you want open minds in the profession, not Lisa Arthurworreys and not self declared Islamophobes?

Also Arthurworrey was a junior social worker with less than 2 years’ experience, it wasn’t and shouldn’t have been entirely down to her.

Paganpentacle · 31/07/2026 12:12

Its not 'hate speech' to believe in biological sex.
Its not 'hate speech' to want secure borders.
Its not 'hate speech' to express concern about large numbers of undocumented men wandering around committing crimes/sex crimes.
Being told to ''shut up, there's no problem here'' is why we are in the mess we are in... the left will shout 'bigot' by simply pointing out its Law , not guidance re female only spaces.
The left will shout 'racist' when you ask why exactly large numbers of fit fighting age men are invading our shores.
People will only be brow-beaten for so long before they rise up.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 12:09

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 12:05

I don’t think I was calling your words bollocks, but the claims of those who used that excuse are, in my view, self-serving bollocks. Sorry if that was unclear. Similarly, you seem determined not to see the difference between ‘this review found some people used this excuse’ and that being accepted by the reviewers as legitimate.

I don’t think snide comments about ‘that poster’ really smack of good faith engagement, so I’ll leave it there.

I’ve been quite clear that I agree that many people used the convenience of “fear of racism” to turn a blind eye to abuse. But I don’t think it was entirely made up, no, or they wouldn’t have been able to get away with it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 12:05

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 12:02

So we have LA, a social worker, admitting her prejudices could have influenced her actions. And yet it’s ok for social workers to believe Muslims are dangerous and openly describe themselves as a ‘TERF’ and you think that’s, what, more professional?

NOBODY should be bringing their prejudices to work if they are in a state sponsored role with power over people. They should work on facts, and evidence and if they are unable to do that, they should stand aside. Clearly this is a hard ask, and current conditions mean unsuitable people remain in post and are overworked and under supervised/supported. But surely you want open minds in the profession, not Lisa Arthurworreys and not self declared Islamophobes?

I didn’t express that view, so don’t put words into my mouth. If prejudice was affecting a social worker’s work with certain groups of people, that’s one issue, and should be dealt with. If fear of being racist or perceived or called racist is affecting their job that should be tackled and if the whole culture is enabling that, that should also obviously be tackled. No?

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 12:05

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 12:01

I am engaging in good faith. You called what I said “bollocks” and then banged on about the police when I wasn’t talking about them, and you’ve just admitted that fear of racism was an issue in the LA as documented in the Casey report, if not a “primary” one. So don’t lecture me on good faith.

I don’t think I was calling your words bollocks, but the claims of those who used that excuse are, in my view, self-serving bollocks. Sorry if that was unclear. Similarly, you seem determined not to see the difference between ‘this review found some people used this excuse’ and that being accepted by the reviewers as legitimate.

I don’t think snide comments about ‘that poster’ really smack of good faith engagement, so I’ll leave it there.

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 12:02

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 11:51

Victoria Climbie

“In his opening speech on 26 September 2001, Garnham said that race may have played a part in the case, due to the fact that a black child was murdered by her black carers, and the social worker and police officer most closely involved in the case were black. He said that the fear of being accused of racism may have led to the inaction.[120][121] In the hearings, Arthurworrey, who is African-Caribbean, admitted that her assumptions about African–Caribbean families influenced her judgement, and that she had assumed Climbié's timidity in the presence of Kouao and Manning stemmed not from fear, but from the African–Caribbean culture of respect towards one's parents.[122]“

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Victoria_Climbié

So we have LA, a social worker, admitting her prejudices could have influenced her actions. And yet it’s ok for social workers to believe Muslims are dangerous and openly describe themselves as a ‘TERF’ and you think that’s, what, more professional?

NOBODY should be bringing their prejudices to work if they are in a state sponsored role with power over people. They should work on facts, and evidence and if they are unable to do that, they should stand aside. Clearly this is a hard ask, and current conditions mean unsuitable people remain in post and are overworked and under supervised/supported. But surely you want open minds in the profession, not Lisa Arthurworreys and not self declared Islamophobes?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 12:01

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 11:57

Of course, people with different experiences/knowledge/conclusions than you are stupid and only think differently because it’s politically correct.

Not much point engaging if you’re not doing so in good faith.

I am engaging in good faith. You called what I said “bollocks” and then banged on about the police when I wasn’t talking about them, and you’ve just admitted that fear of racism was an issue in the LA as documented in the Casey report, if not a “primary” one. So don’t lecture me on good faith.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 31/07/2026 11:59

I disagree. Both sides have extremism.
Respecting an individual is important, forcing the changes on others is disrespectful.
You can be concerned about immigration and children being taught about sexual preferences and options to change gender without being labelled as hateful.
The link between Autism and transgender gender confusion is undeniable. Society has allowed the vulnerable get trapped.

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 11:57

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 11:47

I think this poster is the latter, there are lots of people who will confidently come out with this stuff because it’s the right thinking position.

Of course, people with different experiences/knowledge/conclusions than you are stupid and only think differently because it’s politically correct.

Not much point engaging if you’re not doing so in good faith.

OnlyUsername · 31/07/2026 11:55

grassmonkeys · 31/07/2026 10:15

true.

can you give me an example of anti trans though.

No thank you; I am not the OP and I addressed the last paragraph only on purpose.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 11:54

You’re moving the goalposts. I didn’t claim it was a “primary issue”. But thanks for acknowledging that it was an issue.

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 11:53

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 11:44

I’m afraid you need to read the 2015 Casey report into Rotherham Council. You are poorly informed if you think what I was referring to wasn’t an issue.

The Casey review identified the concept, it didn’t conclude that it was a primary issue though. A bigger issue was that ethnicity wasn’t recorded, which ultimately has both hidden the truth and contributed to vastly more racism and suspicion than them actually doing their job would have done.

TheKeatingFive · 31/07/2026 11:53

seanconneryseyebrow · 31/07/2026 08:59

Ok I will give some real life examples. And these are very common. Any SW working in childrens will attest to this. You have a non-white muslim family you are assessing and you can see clear signs that the girls are being treated differently to the boys - less freedoms, doing housework, not allowed to play as much, signs of physical punishment (regular smacking no bruises, and threats of it - mental abuse such as the boogie man (there can be a lot of that), regular verbal chastisement, no body autonomy, no choice over clothing, lack of toys. Just obvious the girls are more subdued, more compliant, more fearful than the boys and often are looking after the boys - even when they are younger than them.

We would talk to the family about how these things aren't acceptable here but you are also expected to balance that with 'respecting the culture'. The same in a white working class family and we'd be far more on it I think. I think its reverse racism. Children are children and deserve protection.

In more extreme cases, we, teachers, doctors can sometimes get a whiff an FGM might be about to happen - the signs are young girl becomes subdued and there are talks of a imminent holiday alone with a female relative overseas. To step in and stop that without being called racist is incredibly hard.

This sounds really, really challenging to deal with.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 11:51

Victoria Climbie

“In his opening speech on 26 September 2001, Garnham said that race may have played a part in the case, due to the fact that a black child was murdered by her black carers, and the social worker and police officer most closely involved in the case were black. He said that the fear of being accused of racism may have led to the inaction.[120][121] In the hearings, Arthurworrey, who is African-Caribbean, admitted that her assumptions about African–Caribbean families influenced her judgement, and that she had assumed Climbié's timidity in the presence of Kouao and Manning stemmed not from fear, but from the African–Caribbean culture of respect towards one's parents.[122]“

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Victoria_Climbié

OnlyUsername · 31/07/2026 11:51

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 31/07/2026 10:28

What did happen to the msps and their support of this violence? Did they pull a “whoopsie gosh we didn’t know” or
double down?

No idea. The question was "should" a hypothetical person at a protest like this lose their job over it and I said yes, probably. I'm not responsible for what's actually happening.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 11:47

OneKookyCoralRaven · 31/07/2026 11:32

I'm afraid you're talking bollocks.

Complex issues aren't ever attributable to one thing.

Was there a negative attitude to victims of grooming gangs? Yes

Was there also a fear among professionals of being accused of racism? Yes

Was there also a fear that being honest about grooming gangs causing social unrest and overtime racism in the community? Yes.

When Ellie Williams was lying about being a victim of Asian grooming gangs there were public protests and Asian businesses attacked.

And it comes up again and again, in the Southport enquiry we had a teacher saying she was so concerned about his attitude and lack of remorse after violent/weapons incidents in school she was pressing the issue then another professional said 'do you really want to profile him as a black young man with a knife and felt she was being accused of racism and shut down.

With the Nottingham inquiry, staff spoke about the culture of fear of sectioning a violent black man. In reference to the 'big, black and dangerous' report accusing MH services of institutional racism.

Anyone who pretends no-one in the public sector fears accusations of racism is a bad actor or just do not know what they're talking about.

I think this poster is the latter, there are lots of people who will confidently come out with this stuff because it’s the right thinking position.

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 11:46

OneKookyCoralRaven · 31/07/2026 11:32

I'm afraid you're talking bollocks.

Complex issues aren't ever attributable to one thing.

Was there a negative attitude to victims of grooming gangs? Yes

Was there also a fear among professionals of being accused of racism? Yes

Was there also a fear that being honest about grooming gangs causing social unrest and overtime racism in the community? Yes.

When Ellie Williams was lying about being a victim of Asian grooming gangs there were public protests and Asian businesses attacked.

And it comes up again and again, in the Southport enquiry we had a teacher saying she was so concerned about his attitude and lack of remorse after violent/weapons incidents in school she was pressing the issue then another professional said 'do you really want to profile him as a black young man with a knife and felt she was being accused of racism and shut down.

With the Nottingham inquiry, staff spoke about the culture of fear of sectioning a violent black man. In reference to the 'big, black and dangerous' report accusing MH services of institutional racism.

Anyone who pretends no-one in the public sector fears accusations of racism is a bad actor or just do not know what they're talking about.

I don’t doubt that some people hold that belief, though I think many more are using it as a cover. What is saying is that we must not allow that belief to be used to shirk responsibility. For some reason people are very willing to accept that police held that view, I just wonder why? People are afraid to believe the worst of the police, because that leaves us in a scary position. Better to imagine them as fearful rather than complicit.

I agree things are more complex, and thus it’s also more complex than ‘a genuine fear of being called racist’. It’s really about an inability to see past someone’s skin colour or religion and view the behaviour on its own merits. Nothing in this thread has provided anything to challenge that.

Re Nottingham, that’s a massive oversimplification and I don’t see any parallel. It’s factually correct that black men are discriminated against in mental health services. Also correct that black men are disproportionately represented as carers. Way more complex than the police failing to arrest men for sexually abusing children.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 11:46

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 11:44

I’m afraid you need to read the 2015 Casey report into Rotherham Council. You are poorly informed if you think what I was referring to wasn’t an issue.

Also, I’m talking about the local authority so what you’re saying is tangential to my post, although obviously the police have many issues as well, both endemic racism and EDI institutional capture.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 11:44

Switchnow · 31/07/2026 11:02

I’m afraid I think that’s bollocks. There was a culture of thinking girls who were out at night, drinking and using drugs and hanging around with older men were worthless. Police themselves sexually abused girls. Then it all came out and the cops used whatever excuse their could ‘ooh, we were scared of being called racist’. Why weren’t they scared of being called racist when they watched an innocent black men die on the floor at Hull police station? Or when they fitted up a group of black men in Cardiff for a murder? Weird isn’t it, that they’re only scared when it suits them.

I’m afraid you need to read the 2015 Casey report into Rotherham Council. You are poorly informed if you think what I was referring to wasn’t an issue.

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