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I can’t stop buying books!

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cantstopbuyingbooks · 30/07/2026 14:43

Help!

I picked up a huge stack in Asda for my holiday, which I then started to read.

Then I got some more on Amazon, which I’ve broken into.

Then I got even more in Asda today! I just can’t help myself! I’ve read five in five days!

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Papster · 30/07/2026 21:54

cantstopbuyingbooks · 30/07/2026 14:43

Help!

I picked up a huge stack in Asda for my holiday, which I then started to read.

Then I got some more on Amazon, which I’ve broken into.

Then I got even more in Asda today! I just can’t help myself! I’ve read five in five days!

Books are a fine addiction.
I get the postman to hide them until it’s safe to smuggle them in

thedogisfine · 30/07/2026 21:51

Take it here nobody likes the mindf*ck series then? 😂😂

OrbitingTheEarth · 30/07/2026 21:44

I have 138 in my GoodReads that have at home that I want to read. Still bet I’ll buy more though!!

HollyhocksandPeons · 30/07/2026 21:37

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BauhausOfEliott · 30/07/2026 21:32

HollyhocksandPeons · 30/07/2026 21:26

Seriously, read some the mentioned books, you might benefit!

I’ve read all those authors. I didn’t read them in translation though; I read them in the original French when I was a teenager.

I also have a 1st class honours degree in English Literature.

BauhausOfEliott · 30/07/2026 21:28

SingForYourDinner · 30/07/2026 17:38

Drivel is drivel, more matter where it's purchased. How you read it makes no difference. Surely you can tell dross from something worthwhile, regardless of your specific subjective taste? If you like thrillers there's a difference between John La Carré or Mick Herron or the lowest slop.

It's hardly snobbish to say that the books Asda stocks will be the lowest common demoninator, not surprisingly, because it's a supermarket, not a bookshop, and no one goes there to buy books -- disposable thrillers and romance, romantasy, cookery books, minor celebrity autobiography, the dopier end of self-help etc. The only non-shit title I saw last time I looked at books in an Asda was Patrick Radden Keefe's London Falling.

It's hardly snobbish to say that the books Asda stocks will be the lowest common demoninator, not surprisingly, because it's a supermarket, not a bookshop, and no one goes there to buy books -- disposable thrillers and romance, romantasy, cookery books, minor celebrity autobiography, the dopier end of self-help etc. The only non-shit title I saw last time I looked at books in an Asda was Patrick Radden Keefe's London Falling.

Beginning your sentence with ‘It’s hardly snobbish to say…’ doesn’t, I’m afraid, make it less snobbish.

Also it’s ’denominator’, not ‘demoninator’. Hope that helps.

HollyhocksandPeons · 30/07/2026 21:26

BauhausOfEliott · 30/07/2026 21:21

It’s Balzac, not Balsac. It’s almost like you’re not as well-read as you think.

An entirely unrelated observation: I’ve never met a snob who was actually very bright. Especially the ones who try to dress up their snobbery behind a facade of attempted humour. Embarrassing behaviour.

Seriously, read some the mentioned books, you might benefit!

BauhausOfEliott · 30/07/2026 21:21

HollyhocksandPeons · 30/07/2026 15:26

I am not elitist. I am referring to chick-lit, aka Maupassant, Balsac, Flaubert, etc.etc. This is basically chick-lit with benefits of learning a few things on top, that is all.
Schopenhauer, Kant, Marx, Kafka - perish the thought, was not even thinking that.

It’s Balzac, not Balsac. It’s almost like you’re not as well-read as you think.

An entirely unrelated observation: I’ve never met a snob who was actually very bright. Especially the ones who try to dress up their snobbery behind a facade of attempted humour. Embarrassing behaviour.

dinodart · 30/07/2026 21:21

you are supporting authors and the book industry, can't be anything wrong with that

ZanyMaker · 30/07/2026 20:59

minipie · 30/07/2026 15:26

Re small/ underwhelming local libraries:

Libraries are often part of a network of local libraries in the same borough/county. Using their app you can request any book in the whole network and they will send it to your local library for you to collect. There is sometimes a small charge for this but much less than the cost of a book. You also get access to the whole borough’s ebook collection.

I don’t know if this is the case for every borough but it is for mine.

My library does reservations/deliveries which can be made via app (books come from 4 or 5 counties!) but thankfully it doesn’t charge for this. The length of time it takes for books to arrive is very variable but I tend to have a few reserved or being transported so I get a good flow.

Someone else mentioned that reserving books online means you can’t have a good browse which is true. However I use the Goodreads to track and rate my books and not only is it really easy to search for books/authors it also makes recommendations of books it thinks I may like. I can read the blurb online and then go onto my library app to reserve/get delivered to the library.

aLFIESMA · 30/07/2026 20:13

I like to check in on my favourite authors and as soon as a new book is announced put a request (80p) at my lovely library.
The best feeling in the whole world when you might just be at the top of the wait list, then that feeling of an unsullied hardback cracking open!
Preferably in a coffee shop!

cantstopbuyingbooks · 30/07/2026 20:12

TheeNotoriousPIG · 30/07/2026 20:06

@SingForYourDinner I felt like my eyes needed bleaching after reading a snippet of 50 Shades that included anal fisting and the Bible in the same sentence... over a friend's shoulder... in a place of holy pilgrimage, complete with nuns 😲Needless to say, I never did get around to reading anything else from that series! (To be fair, I was a naive teenager, and anal fisting had never crossed sullied my mind before that!)

Stop it 🤣

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TheeNotoriousPIG · 30/07/2026 20:06

@SingForYourDinner I felt like my eyes needed bleaching after reading a snippet of 50 Shades that included anal fisting and the Bible in the same sentence... over a friend's shoulder... in a place of holy pilgrimage, complete with nuns 😲Needless to say, I never did get around to reading anything else from that series! (To be fair, I was a naive teenager, and anal fisting had never crossed sullied my mind before that!)

Suusue · 30/07/2026 20:06

I do the same. For years now.

SingForYourDinner · 30/07/2026 19:59

TheeNotoriousPIG · 30/07/2026 19:42

Books are educational (even if you learn things that you'd rather not know from 50 Shades of Grey or something) and a large collection also doubles as effective insulation. Admittedly, my TBR pile might topple over and suffocate me in the night, but I'm OK with that. I mean, there are worse ways to go!

I am the kind of person who goes online to look for 2-3 specific books, and ends up ordering 14! I do read them, though... eventually, because I buy other books in between reading the ones that I already have. The library here isn't up to much, and the nearest town doesn't even have a bookshop anymore.

This is true. There’s always something good, ev3n something tiny, in a dreadful book. (I’m carefully not asking what you learned from 50 Shades, which makes The Da Vinci Code look like Proust.

LadyBeatriceBeaHiggins · 30/07/2026 19:58

personally i switched to kindle for books, as then its more titles and yes i miss using books but overall its better

eskimoomikse · 30/07/2026 19:54

NotSmallButFunSize · 30/07/2026 17:32

It's hardly like Asda wrote them is it??

They do sell actual authors! I hate snobbery about things like books, music etc - it's just entertainment!

Sainsbury's book shelf is usually trash, but there is occasionally one for the upper-middle-brow.

I enjoy occasional trash, but I do wish supermarkets sold grown-up books

TheeNotoriousPIG · 30/07/2026 19:42

Books are educational (even if you learn things that you'd rather not know from 50 Shades of Grey or something) and a large collection also doubles as effective insulation. Admittedly, my TBR pile might topple over and suffocate me in the night, but I'm OK with that. I mean, there are worse ways to go!

I am the kind of person who goes online to look for 2-3 specific books, and ends up ordering 14! I do read them, though... eventually, because I buy other books in between reading the ones that I already have. The library here isn't up to much, and the nearest town doesn't even have a bookshop anymore.

KilkennyCats · 30/07/2026 19:24

cantstopbuyingbooks · 30/07/2026 14:47

I’m not sure I’d class it as overconsumption, as I read them all!

What’s the harm?

nocoolnamesleft · 30/07/2026 19:23

cantstopbuyingbooks · 30/07/2026 16:13

I’ve bought 18 books in the last week 🤣 (and read 4!)

Excellent! Keep it up!

Wickedwhiskers · 30/07/2026 19:23

I read a lot too, but use the library and buy second hand to help offset the cost. Husband reads similar books and we pass the round family and friends too & Im getting freebies from them too.

cantstopbuyingbooks · 30/07/2026 19:02

PotatoLove · 30/07/2026 18:43

Oh OP, i am constantly adding to my To Be Read Piles. Yes, I said piles 😂

To be fair if you can’t see the pile because it’s on your kindle it doesn’t count

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PotatoLove · 30/07/2026 18:43

Oh OP, i am constantly adding to my To Be Read Piles. Yes, I said piles 😂

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 30/07/2026 18:31

SingForYourDinner · 30/07/2026 17:38

Drivel is drivel, more matter where it's purchased. How you read it makes no difference. Surely you can tell dross from something worthwhile, regardless of your specific subjective taste? If you like thrillers there's a difference between John La Carré or Mick Herron or the lowest slop.

It's hardly snobbish to say that the books Asda stocks will be the lowest common demoninator, not surprisingly, because it's a supermarket, not a bookshop, and no one goes there to buy books -- disposable thrillers and romance, romantasy, cookery books, minor celebrity autobiography, the dopier end of self-help etc. The only non-shit title I saw last time I looked at books in an Asda was Patrick Radden Keefe's London Falling.

I don’t know about Asda, but Morrisons and Sainsbury’s definitely sold the latest Slow Horses novel. As well as whatever the latest 50 Shades is. They obviously sell what people want to buy. Some well written books. Others I look down my nose at. All sold at that trendy independent bookshop in a nice village or any Waterstones.

Like the OP. I read for pleasure. I don’t want to, or need to, justify my choice of books. It’s enough that they give me pleasure.

i do recommend Slow Horses, btw.

ThingsCouldBeEasier · 30/07/2026 18:23

Me too.

I can’t stop buying books!