Changed name as a regular poster and don’t want to out myself.
I’m away with DH and our two DC currently, we have had a few rows in recent months and haven’t been intimate for a while either.
I have spent the first few days of the holiday (we’re here for 10 days) running around after the kids, co-ordinating the on site clubs and basically not relaxing. DH has spent most of his days led pool side with his headphones in and a drink.
He has been on his phone a lot more than on recent holidays. So when he was in the shower last night, I looked at it because I was suspicious.
There are numerous messages between him and another woman. Time stamps when he would have been pool side. One really hurtful one said he has a ‘beer and the sun, I just wish you were here too so I could see your milk tankers in a bikini’. She’s equally flirting back, it made me feel sick reading.
I managed to bring this up without the kids present, he said what do I expect when I won’t go near him anymore. Just really cold. He’s doing his own thing today, and I don’t know how I’ll get through the rest of the holiday 😥