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Dogs off the lead in children’s play areas

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Runnersknee · 28/07/2026 17:03

Just got back from a country park with my toddler - the children’s play area wasn’t fenced off but it was full of little children playing.

A group of mums came along with 2 huge dogs off the lead - one was a Doberman and the other I’m not sure of the breed but it was also really big.

The mums just let their dogs run in amongst all the play apparatus and get in all the children’s spaces - the Doberman ran up to a dad with his tiny toddler and licked him on the face and the owner didn’t even apologize or take any action whatsoever.

Aibu to think it’s completely unacceptable to allow your dog to roam around a play area ?? The park emptied out extremely quickly needless to say.

As a side note, does anyone have any advice on how to handle this if it happens again? All the mums in the park were quite shocked and didn’t say anything apart from one mum shouting at the dog to shoo it away. Particularly if a dog licks you as surely dog owners shouldn’t be allowed get away with that ?

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BarrelofBeer · 02/08/2026 07:48

RubyQueues · 01/08/2026 19:32

That’s my point though, I wouldn’t let my toddler wander up and lick you! Yet somehow a lot of dog owners think it’s cute for them to run up and lick/paw at strangers!

I’d be mortified if my child infringed on the peace and quiet of a stranger, why are dog owners not similarly wired?!

A lot of toddler owners think it's cute for them to run up and paw at other people's dogs.

How often do you find yourself licked by other people's dogs? Because I'm in my sixties and can't remember a time that's ever happened to me. Do you go around with bacon on your legs?

RubyQueues · 01/08/2026 19:32

BarrelofBeer · 29/07/2026 13:58

Well firstly, I'm not a dog owner and secondly I would rather be licked by a dog than licked and pawed at by your toddler.

I agree with you that dogs should be kept away from children's playgrounds. I never said otherwise.0

That’s my point though, I wouldn’t let my toddler wander up and lick you! Yet somehow a lot of dog owners think it’s cute for them to run up and lick/paw at strangers!

I’d be mortified if my child infringed on the peace and quiet of a stranger, why are dog owners not similarly wired?!

BarrelofBeer · 31/07/2026 13:53

MandingoAteMyBaby · 30/07/2026 23:55

Yes, the one who isn’t afraid to call a dog a cunt.

Oh dear.

pawsandponies · 31/07/2026 00:06

Runnersknee · 29/07/2026 06:17

The mums were just chatting away completely ignoring their dogs who were bounding round all the play equipment & getting into everyone’s personal space.

Would you allow your dog free roam in that scenario or keep it close to you? As that was the main issue for me.

I wouldn’t allow it no, my dog would just follow me at a reasonable distance he is trained to be a horse riding companion and to be neutral unless he is allowed to greet people or other dogs.

the law states that you must be in control of your dog at all times it does not specify needing to be on lead. That said if clearly stated I would put him on one.

i have also had the other side of it though walkers screaming at me that their child/ mum/ sister, is afraid of my horse/ dog while being on a bridal path, and both being completely under control. I think there are alot of very entitled people in the world who believe everything is about them.

MandingoAteMyBaby · 30/07/2026 23:55

BarrelofBeer · 30/07/2026 14:20

Ah yes, I remember you now from all the previous dog threads.

Yes, the one who isn’t afraid to call a dog a cunt.

BarrelofBeer · 30/07/2026 14:20

MandingoAteMyBaby · 30/07/2026 09:32

Never seen a toddler lick a stranger.

Or gobble down a shit, lick its own bollocks, vomit up the shit, re-gobble the shitvomit, then lick a stranger.

That’s just a tuesday for dogs though.

Ah yes, I remember you now from all the previous dog threads.

MandingoAteMyBaby · 30/07/2026 09:32

BarrelofBeer · 29/07/2026 13:58

Well firstly, I'm not a dog owner and secondly I would rather be licked by a dog than licked and pawed at by your toddler.

I agree with you that dogs should be kept away from children's playgrounds. I never said otherwise.0

Never seen a toddler lick a stranger.

Or gobble down a shit, lick its own bollocks, vomit up the shit, re-gobble the shitvomit, then lick a stranger.

That’s just a tuesday for dogs though.

BarrelofBeer · 29/07/2026 13:58

RubyQueues · 29/07/2026 09:36

The entitlement of dog owners truly knows no bounds! Would you like it if my toddler came and licked you? Or pawed you with their sticky fingers?!

Keep your “fur babies”on leads and away from children’s playgrounds!

Well firstly, I'm not a dog owner and secondly I would rather be licked by a dog than licked and pawed at by your toddler.

I agree with you that dogs should be kept away from children's playgrounds. I never said otherwise.0

Thebinisrightthere · 29/07/2026 12:31

Corianda · 29/07/2026 12:26

Say there’s melted chocolate I. The grass and choc biscuits or whatever- leave a wrapper around as proof

Why lie?

Thebinisrightthere · 29/07/2026 12:29

When i was out with a friend & our kids years ago, a dog ran up & was quite excitable around us. Her dds were terrified of dogs so started screaming & crying. My yelled at the owner "come and get your dog!!!" She was normally quite shy! The owners needed be told firmly

Corianda · 29/07/2026 12:26

Say there’s melted chocolate I. The grass and choc biscuits or whatever- leave a wrapper around as proof

PenelopePinkerton · 29/07/2026 12:20

MandingoAteMyBaby · 29/07/2026 00:04

To make it impossible for the hideous little prick to draw toddler blood. Or parent blood. Or lick them with its disgusting shit-gobbling / bollock licking mouth.

I take it you’re not a dog person😂

RubyQueues · 29/07/2026 09:36

BarrelofBeer · 28/07/2026 20:47

Although I don’t understand your fixation on the dog licking someone, no the dog shouldn’t have been there and it’s not acceptable but a lick isn’t exactly going to hurt anyone.

THIS

The entitlement of dog owners truly knows no bounds! Would you like it if my toddler came and licked you? Or pawed you with their sticky fingers?!

Keep your “fur babies”on leads and away from children’s playgrounds!

AndImVictoriaMalcolm · 29/07/2026 08:10

vodkaredbullgirl · 28/07/2026 17:21

🤔no notices, not fenced off, maybe complain to the country park.

Agree with this. I’m actually quite surprised there’s nothing preventing dogs from being in a playground. Assuming it’s owned and run by council/county council, I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re leaving themselves wide open for being held at least partially accountable if anything was to go wrong.

Well1mBack · 29/07/2026 08:03

Dogs should not be in children's playgrounds. Usually all the ones I go to there are signs to say no dogs. I agree with a pp to speak to the country park admin and explain what has happened, the danger to children and lack of fencing and signage. Hopefully they will take action. As an aside I was at our fenced and signed playpark the other weekend and some total idiot brought his XL BULLY dog into the playpark (unmuzzled and on a stupid rope lead, not even a proper lead). We exited quickly and I resisted the urge to run with my four year old. The man looked rough as anything so no way was I even attempting to engage in conversation.

Isit2026yet · 29/07/2026 07:49

@Runnersknee very large dog owner here, who has a friendly dog. At no point is off the lead in a public place, let alone a Childs play park.

No dog irrespective of size should ever be off the lead in area children are playing enclosed or not. At 65kg I won't even let my dog off in a open field. He has good recall, he sticks to you like glue. But is friendly and that can be jarring for anyone dog lovers or not due to his size for him secure dog fields are where he is off lead.

And if you see someone with a small or big dog off lead in a childrens play park tell them to recall the dog and put it on the lead.

Runnersknee · 29/07/2026 06:20

@CurbsideProphet i feel exactly thr same as you, dogs are just everywhere now & many owners seem to have no consideration or control.

I’ve reallr enjoyed the hot weather as it’s meant we’ve finally been able to go to our local recreation ground and enjoy the space without it being full of off lead dogs (despite signs everywhere saying they need too be on leads)

I’m very nervous around dogs and desperate not to pass this onto my children but scenarios like yesterday make it really hard

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Runnersknee · 29/07/2026 06:17

pawsandponies · 28/07/2026 23:24

Is there are no signs saying dogs on leads or no dogs I would’ve assumed dogs are allowed there. There are lots of country parks near us where natural type play equipment is open without fences and my off lead dog is with myself children and I.

although you are still expected to have control of your dog and I wouldn’t have let my dog go up to or lick anyone. Obviously it’s different if the kids or adults want to fuss the dog he is allowed to be friendly then.

The mums were just chatting away completely ignoring their dogs who were bounding round all the play equipment & getting into everyone’s personal space.

Would you allow your dog free roam in that scenario or keep it close to you? As that was the main issue for me.

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MandingoAteMyBaby · 29/07/2026 00:08

Lifejigsaw · 28/07/2026 17:24

As a side note, does anyone have any advice on how to handle this if it happens again?

You call over "excuse me, could you please put your dogs on a lead so the children can play".

Go equipped.

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MandingoAteMyBaby · 29/07/2026 00:04

PenelopePinkerton · 28/07/2026 17:20

Why muzzled?

To make it impossible for the hideous little prick to draw toddler blood. Or parent blood. Or lick them with its disgusting shit-gobbling / bollock licking mouth.

salagadoo · 28/07/2026 23:40

MessyNDepressy · 28/07/2026 19:31

YANBU. I’m a big dog lover with a large dog who is off lead a lot. I’d never let him off in or near a child’s play park. There seems to be number of people in my area who are using the actual enclosed play parks to let their dogs off the lead because they have poor recall! These people don’t even have children with them, they’re using it as a dog park. There are signs saying no dogs but they obviously don’t care.

Although I don’t understand your fixation on the dog licking someone, no the dog shouldn’t have been there and it’s not acceptable but a lick isn’t exactly going to hurt anyone.

That’s all well and good but a huge Doberman coming up to you putting their jaws and sharp teeth very close to your face or hands or whatever - the few seconds prior how do you know at that moment it’s going to lick rather than bite. Especially if you’re not used to dogs.

pawsandponies · 28/07/2026 23:24

Is there are no signs saying dogs on leads or no dogs I would’ve assumed dogs are allowed there. There are lots of country parks near us where natural type play equipment is open without fences and my off lead dog is with myself children and I.

although you are still expected to have control of your dog and I wouldn’t have let my dog go up to or lick anyone. Obviously it’s different if the kids or adults want to fuss the dog he is allowed to be friendly then.

MrsOni · 28/07/2026 22:31

"As a side note, does anyone have any advice on how to handle this if it happens again? "

Use your words and ask the owners to put the dogs on leads.

CurbsideProphet · 28/07/2026 22:01

ViaRia01 · 28/07/2026 18:55

@CurbsideProphet I accept I was in the wrong. People do make mistakes. As mistakes go, I don’t think it’s the crime of the century particularly as I realised the error at the time, corrected it, and haven’t repeated it. I am not defending what these people did in the park, I’m just saying this is what happened to me from the other side of the fence at one point in time.

”We seem to be living in a time of people doing whatever the fuck they want, without any thought for anyone else.” Its funny that you say this, after your condescending and argumentative words to a complete stranger online.

@ViaRia01 I'm sorry you're upset by my post, but it feels like I can't go anywhere now without people's dogs running about off lead. In the past month or so I've seen a dog owner allow their dog to trot about inside motorway services and another allow their dog to run around on a stretch of beach with big No Dogs Allowed flags. Dog owners see other people take their dogs everywhere and decide to do the same. And then we end up in the current situation of every cafe, park, town centre, outdoor space full of off lead dogs. And owners who think it's fine.
As you can tell this thread has been very "triggering" for me!

Runnersknee · 28/07/2026 21:13

Bottom line is that you should have enough control over your dog so that they aren’t getting close enough to someone to lick their face !!!

I would be livid if a dog licked my face, absolutely disgusting and not mention dangerous seeing as it could easily be a bite

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