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To strongly dislike small dogs

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Cappuccino5 · 28/07/2026 16:28

Full disclosure: golden retriever owner of 30+ years… never had and never will have another breed.

I just don’t understand the fascination with little dogs. So many are horrible, yappy little things that get away with murder because they’re small. Only breed that I’ve ever been bitten by is a dachshund (x 2!!) and it always seems to be terrier or schnauzer types that launch at DDog. Generally they seem to attract people who haven’t got a clue re: dog ownership or can’t be bothered having a ‘proper’ dog - they don’t train properly and seem to just leave the tiny dog sitting at home all day barking at windows.. lacking mental + physical stimulation.

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mumumental · 28/07/2026 22:39

@NorwichMomWhat breed is that cute boy?!

Pistachiocake · 28/07/2026 22:32

While I prefer bigger dogs (like their bark and the fact they can protect us), and some of your points might be right, in that it's easier to let a Yorkie get away with things than a Dobermann, it's the human's fault if they don't train or look after them. Plus for people with certain disabilities maybe it's easier to have small ones?
And not many airlines allow large dogs to sit with you in the plane. Wish they did, would much rather have a dog than drunk/screaming/seat kicking humans.

Puppamumma · 28/07/2026 22:32

My dog loves dogs of all shapes and sizes. She's a soft as putty labrador who's content to let small dogs walk over her head as she lies down. Her bestie is a newfoundland poodle mix who is adorable the only dog she despises is our neighbours nasty terrier type dog who snaps at everything and barks constantly. They say dogs are like their owners and if you met it's owner you'd realise never a truer phrase

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 28/07/2026 22:15

My friend has a golden retriever, she’s a lovely dog but I couldn’t own one, the amount of hair and mess would drive me mad.

XelaM · 28/07/2026 22:10

SquashPenguin · 28/07/2026 18:35

Pugs aren’t yappy. They’re cuddly as hell. This one is my toddlers best friend.

They are the absolute bestest and most cuddliest dogs ever 🥰

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shutityouduffer · 28/07/2026 21:43

I’m also a golden owner and feel the same! Even Ddog (the most angelic and social boy you could
imagine) gives small dogs a wide berth because they snap at him so often.

Campingintherain2024 · 28/07/2026 21:16

BarrelofBeer · 28/07/2026 20:49

Agreed.

Even Monty Don admitted that Nigel was the most stupid dog he'd ever known.

There is an older lady down the street who has a golden retriever that is anything but dull. It drags her everywhere, eats any other animals shit ( I once met her in the forest pulling a split poo bag from its mouth before it could swallow it) and jumps up. Hes on the local fb group at least once a fortnight for escaping. I mean its not good exciting, but not dull either.

AlmostAJillSandwich · 28/07/2026 21:12

My ex mil had 3 bloody awful JR terriers. Basically untrained, shit in the house all the time. One was constantly yapping and licking you, skin, clothes, would glue to you and lick lick lick incessantly. Would not accept being moved away, the few times i stayed over when mil was away it was me she clung to, it was unbearable. All 3 thought they were big dogs and lunged barking at other dogs, cars etc. The times i got roped into helping walk them i was constantly holding them back and apologising, i was so embarrassed and ashamed, wanted to shout they aren't my dogs, as i was sure i was being judged as the "owner".

UbiquitousPistachio · 28/07/2026 21:08

@Namechangenicknackeronnie That is an amazing photo! ❤️

Namechangenicknackeronnie · 28/07/2026 20:52

I used to agree with you then I became the slave of this little madam. Big dog energy and confidence in perfectly portable packaging and wouldn’t change her for the world.

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BIossomtoes · 28/07/2026 20:51

ladygindiva · 28/07/2026 20:51

Absolutely adorable. Jrt? Best dogs ever 💕

Yes, JRTs. Gladys and her son Monty.

ladygindiva · 28/07/2026 20:51

BIossomtoes · 28/07/2026 20:15

Totally unreasonable.

Absolutely adorable. Jrt? Best dogs ever 💕

BarrelofBeer · 28/07/2026 20:49

BauhausOfEliott · 28/07/2026 16:37

I find golden retrievers absolutely dull as ditchwater.

Agreed.

Even Monty Don admitted that Nigel was the most stupid dog he'd ever known.

BIossomtoes · 28/07/2026 20:49

This thread’s such a joy. What gorgeous little faces.

ladygindiva · 28/07/2026 20:48

I had a jrt. He was a " proper " dog whatever the fuck that means. You sound really horrible tbh.

CheeseForHer · 28/07/2026 20:47

There are definitely some poor owners out there who don't bother to train their dogs properly, but I don't think it's limited to small dogs.

The only dog I've ever been bitten by was a golden retriever, I was about 11 at the time and it jumped up and bit me on the bum as I was cycling past, but I don't hold it against the breed at all.

Chucullin · 28/07/2026 20:46

Utterly unreasonable.

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MyPuppyLulu · 28/07/2026 20:42

worcesterpear · 28/07/2026 20:10

Sort of know what op means - chihuahuas and similar are bony and rat like. But miniature sausage dogs and corgis are cute, and many of the small dogs posted on here. Edit to add the miniature poodle and cairn terrier are adorable (but I would class as more small-medium).

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Chihuahuas are clever, loyal, spunky, very trainable, and generally an all round delight if you treat them as a dog rather than a fashion accessory or a baby.

Don't blame the breed for (some) owners bad behaviour.

DramaAlpaca · 28/07/2026 20:40

sillyrubberduck · 28/07/2026 19:58

I love dogs with a personality and fun so I have a Springer

Same here; springers are the perfect breed and just the right size. I'm currently on springer number four and DH has had them all his life.

The only dogs I'm really not keen on are chihuahuas and the feeling seems to be mutual; they're the only dogs I've had snarl at me.

I do have a strong preference for medium to large dogs, though I have a soft spot for Jack Russells because of their personalities.

I'm very wary of staffies and I don't like the inbred brachycephalic small dogs that are so popular these days.

NototerrorismIntheUK · 28/07/2026 20:38

The most annoying dogs near me are larger with loud barks. For biting look at the bull dogs ( some gave killed).

Big and smaller breeds are 'proper dogs'. Read a book and you will see that.

CheeseForHer · 28/07/2026 20:36

Theraininspainishere · 28/07/2026 16:40

I have a little papillon.

He competes in obedience and is a very good boy!
He’s wary of small children and likes his space when he’s on lead. But if no one gets in his face and worries him, he’s good as gold!
Same as most humans, I imagine…….

He has perfect recall and is a delight. Travels well, can be alone as needed and does what is asked of him.

He's beautiful ❤️

LyndaLaHughes · 28/07/2026 20:34

Well you sound delightful. What a stupid post.

Flamingojune · 28/07/2026 20:27

Its like car drivers hating on cyclists. One does a lot more damage than the other.

ImpatientlyWaitingForSummer · 28/07/2026 20:22

How can you say this about my lovely little girl 🥹

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EwwStew · 28/07/2026 20:21

Small dogs are wonderful, especially mongrels. The best part is the very long life spans (I've never lost a dog before the age of 17).

The only problem is with people that get a small dog and then proceed to treat them as anything other than a dog. They find bad behaviour 'cute' and so encourage it unwittingly.

If anything small dogs require more training than larger dogs, especially during the first few months. They need extra socialisation, training to navigate a world that is huge to them, and to associate large hands coming near their small heads with positive things.

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