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Aibu to overthink this?

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tami345 · 28/07/2026 10:09

hey everyone so my partner used to work in a bar. There was this girl he was friendly with but when he stopped working in there she told him via message that she feels like crying and sent a whole pile of pictures of the time that all the workers where on holiday together. he said to me nah we just got on as work mates and she’s literally told me her and her fiance are tryin for a baby and she’s been gojn with a guy for like 5 years. But I remember when she messaged him on fb she sent pictures of the time all of them where on holiday but above the pictures was deleted messages from her? I remember the next day sayin to him and he was like right I’ll show you the chat and I was like naw naw don’t it’s legit fine and I never said anythin else about it. Is the deleted messages snakey? I maybe should of let him show me the chat

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tami345 · 28/07/2026 11:28

ClarasSisters · 28/07/2026 10:45

You either trust him or you don't. Which is it?

Hmm I’ll never trust a man again after what happened me years ago

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ClarasSisters · 28/07/2026 10:45

You either trust him or you don't. Which is it?

tami345 · 28/07/2026 10:24

ThisWiseRobin · 28/07/2026 10:16

I think because you were questioning the photos he just deleted the messages to save the drama.
The fact that he offered to show them to you..think about it.
Don't nake drama out of nothing. Let it go and get on with your lives.

Thanks for ur comment but the messages where already deleted like above I never seen properly I just seen deleted messages so not sure. But she’s engaged and told the other workers in there they want a baby

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ThisWiseRobin · 28/07/2026 10:16

I think because you were questioning the photos he just deleted the messages to save the drama.
The fact that he offered to show them to you..think about it.
Don't nake drama out of nothing. Let it go and get on with your lives.