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Neighbours "Stolen" Bike

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FergalHunter · 27/07/2026 14:27

A very curious incident occurred in my block of flats recently that I am eager to hear the forum's perspective on.

Our development runs along the corner of two roads. There are three buildings with about 55 flats in total. There's a shared garden at the back with a covered bike store where I keep my bike. There aren't any allocated spaces, but people tend to leave their bikes in the same spot and leave their locks on the stand when out for a ride. I've parked my bike in the same spot for the last two years, and there are always spare racks.

When I leave my bike there, I use a D-lock, a cable, and a bike cover. There are about 4-5 other people also using covers. I usually put another small lock on to secure the cover. This might sound like overkill, but we've had multiple instances of bikes getting nicked while I've lived here.

Anyway, onto what happened. A couple of weeks ago, I took my bike out to head to the gym, leaving my D-lock and cable attached to the rack in my usual space. When I came back about 90 minutes later, another bike was attached to the same rack. I'd seen the bike before, but don't know who owns it. Not a massive issue, but a little annoying considering there were racks nearby with spaces where people don't cover their bikes.

I was due to head on holiday for 10 days early the next morning and didn't want to leave my bike uncovered that long, so I threw the cover over both bikes. It wasn't locked down and could easily be lifted up. I didn't think it would be an issue, if anything, her bike was getting the benefit of the cover too!
While I was away, someone posted in the residents' chat that her bike had been stolen. Like I said, this isn't an uncommon occurrence, so I didn't think too much of it.

When I returned from holiday 10 days later, her bike was still sitting under the cover right next to mine. I took my bike out for another 90ish minute gym trip and when I got back, I decided I'd move my bike to an empty rack next to it so I could go back to my normal setup. I moved my bike and my cover over to the new rack, leaving her bike completely exposed on her rack.

About an hour later, the same woman posted on the residents' chat claiming her bike had been "returned", but that she'd already bought a replacement!
I'm flabbergasted that a supposedly grown adult seems to lack basic object permanence. Arriving back at her rack, seeing a cover draped over it, and immediately concluding her bike was stolen, without taking two seconds to lift the sheet, is genuinely mind-boggling to me.

Now she's on the chat insisting someone must have stolen it, taken it for a joyride, and returned it, and she is demanding CCTV access.

Is it worth trying to engage with someone like this?

OP posts:
FergalHunter · 27/07/2026 14:41

MorrisonsPlatter · 27/07/2026 14:40

You should have moved your choice of parking spot before your holiday. Not difficult.

There were no entirely empty racks close by. Why should I not be able to cover my bike bc she decided to lock her's to the rack I've been using for the last 2 years?

OP posts:
Weekendnaughtiness · 27/07/2026 14:41

Frequency · 27/07/2026 14:40

If the space where I left my bike had a cover now, I would 100% lift it to make sure mine wasn't under there. I can't understand why anyone wouldn't.

I would too

But I can understand that others may assume than no one in their right mind would cover someone else’s bike and so not lift up

Ivygarland · 27/07/2026 14:41

I'm having a really crap time ATM and this has made me smile - in a people are so stupid way. (And I don't understand why you wouldn't lift the cover either!!) Surely she recognises her lock is still on the bike!

MorrisonsPlatter · 27/07/2026 14:40

You should have moved your choice of parking spot before your holiday. Not difficult.

Frequency · 27/07/2026 14:40

Weekendnaughtiness · 27/07/2026 14:36

She didn’t want to lift up the cover as most people wouldn’t cover someone’s else’s bike so assumed hers wasn’t underneath

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If the space where I left my bike had a cover now, I would 100% lift it to make sure mine wasn't under there. I can't understand why anyone wouldn't.

Weekendnaughtiness · 27/07/2026 14:36

She didn’t want to lift up the cover as most people wouldn’t cover someone’s else’s bike so assumed hers wasn’t underneath

Duvetdayneeded · 27/07/2026 14:34

I voted you are not being unreasonable on the basis that you should not engage with her cause clearly she’s a bit of a nut job.

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