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Neighbours "Stolen" Bike

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FergalHunter · 27/07/2026 14:27

A very curious incident occurred in my block of flats recently that I am eager to hear the forum's perspective on.

Our development runs along the corner of two roads. There are three buildings with about 55 flats in total. There's a shared garden at the back with a covered bike store where I keep my bike. There aren't any allocated spaces, but people tend to leave their bikes in the same spot and leave their locks on the stand when out for a ride. I've parked my bike in the same spot for the last two years, and there are always spare racks.

When I leave my bike there, I use a D-lock, a cable, and a bike cover. There are about 4-5 other people also using covers. I usually put another small lock on to secure the cover. This might sound like overkill, but we've had multiple instances of bikes getting nicked while I've lived here.

Anyway, onto what happened. A couple of weeks ago, I took my bike out to head to the gym, leaving my D-lock and cable attached to the rack in my usual space. When I came back about 90 minutes later, another bike was attached to the same rack. I'd seen the bike before, but don't know who owns it. Not a massive issue, but a little annoying considering there were racks nearby with spaces where people don't cover their bikes.

I was due to head on holiday for 10 days early the next morning and didn't want to leave my bike uncovered that long, so I threw the cover over both bikes. It wasn't locked down and could easily be lifted up. I didn't think it would be an issue, if anything, her bike was getting the benefit of the cover too!
While I was away, someone posted in the residents' chat that her bike had been stolen. Like I said, this isn't an uncommon occurrence, so I didn't think too much of it.

When I returned from holiday 10 days later, her bike was still sitting under the cover right next to mine. I took my bike out for another 90ish minute gym trip and when I got back, I decided I'd move my bike to an empty rack next to it so I could go back to my normal setup. I moved my bike and my cover over to the new rack, leaving her bike completely exposed on her rack.

About an hour later, the same woman posted on the residents' chat claiming her bike had been "returned", but that she'd already bought a replacement!
I'm flabbergasted that a supposedly grown adult seems to lack basic object permanence. Arriving back at her rack, seeing a cover draped over it, and immediately concluding her bike was stolen, without taking two seconds to lift the sheet, is genuinely mind-boggling to me.

Now she's on the chat insisting someone must have stolen it, taken it for a joyride, and returned it, and she is demanding CCTV access.

Is it worth trying to engage with someone like this?

OP posts:
Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 29/07/2026 09:16

You are out of order for covering someone else's bike. That is a spot for two bikes, yet you seem to think it's just there for your use. When you first saw the her post why on earth didn't you just tell her where it was? You are the insane one.

FastFood · 29/07/2026 09:05

I can't for the life of me understand how you thought it was okay to cover her bike. If you say that the cover couldn't possibly cover just one bike, what did you expect her to do? Not use her bike for the time being?

She's probably being a bit disingenuous pretending that she didn't know the bike was under the cover, but you're the unreasonnable one here. Your bike would have survived without a cover for 10 days, and if it's delicate it can't sustain a bit of summer weather, you should leave it in your flat.

Aiming4Optimistic · 29/07/2026 08:57

At best she's an idiot - if you think someone has stolen your bike, you can only do that by checking it's not in the place where you left it!
OP hasn't 'hidden' anyone's bike - it's literally exactly where idiot woman put it!

Don't engage - you can't argue with stupid!

LIZS · 29/07/2026 08:42

Looking at the photo it is no wonder she couldn’t find it. Did the d lock include hers too?

AgnesMcDoo · 29/07/2026 07:08

Having seen the your photo of the bike cover I’m not surprised she thought it had been stolen.

she’s not stupid or at fault - her bike was hidden

BirdLandedonmyHead · 29/07/2026 06:48

For their own peace of mind, the mosding bike woman would be better off tagging her bike with a gps tracker, so she can keep track of it.

GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 29/07/2026 06:45

I wouldn’t have covered someone else’s bike knowing I was to away for a long time. I also think you should have replied to the thread saying you had covered a bike in case that was the in case that the stolen one. I too wouldn’t be sure of where I had parked so might not have lifted a cover…

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GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 29/07/2026 06:26

Why did you also have cover her bike? We need a diagram.

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TheChewdors · 29/07/2026 02:44

I think you are coming across as incredibly arrogant, OP; covering her bike as you think you own the section of the rack and then making out that she’s weird and unhinged for understandably thinking her bike had been stolen!

littlemousebigcheese · 28/07/2026 23:19

I think it’s weird that you covered up a strangers bike, almost like you were making a point about how annoyed you were about your space being taken. I would never cover up someone else’s property?! It’s so batshit crazy?! You basically hid her bike for 10 days?!

Awkwardisfunny · 28/07/2026 21:46

FergalHunter · 27/07/2026 14:27

A very curious incident occurred in my block of flats recently that I am eager to hear the forum's perspective on.

Our development runs along the corner of two roads. There are three buildings with about 55 flats in total. There's a shared garden at the back with a covered bike store where I keep my bike. There aren't any allocated spaces, but people tend to leave their bikes in the same spot and leave their locks on the stand when out for a ride. I've parked my bike in the same spot for the last two years, and there are always spare racks.

When I leave my bike there, I use a D-lock, a cable, and a bike cover. There are about 4-5 other people also using covers. I usually put another small lock on to secure the cover. This might sound like overkill, but we've had multiple instances of bikes getting nicked while I've lived here.

Anyway, onto what happened. A couple of weeks ago, I took my bike out to head to the gym, leaving my D-lock and cable attached to the rack in my usual space. When I came back about 90 minutes later, another bike was attached to the same rack. I'd seen the bike before, but don't know who owns it. Not a massive issue, but a little annoying considering there were racks nearby with spaces where people don't cover their bikes.

I was due to head on holiday for 10 days early the next morning and didn't want to leave my bike uncovered that long, so I threw the cover over both bikes. It wasn't locked down and could easily be lifted up. I didn't think it would be an issue, if anything, her bike was getting the benefit of the cover too!
While I was away, someone posted in the residents' chat that her bike had been stolen. Like I said, this isn't an uncommon occurrence, so I didn't think too much of it.

When I returned from holiday 10 days later, her bike was still sitting under the cover right next to mine. I took my bike out for another 90ish minute gym trip and when I got back, I decided I'd move my bike to an empty rack next to it so I could go back to my normal setup. I moved my bike and my cover over to the new rack, leaving her bike completely exposed on her rack.

About an hour later, the same woman posted on the residents' chat claiming her bike had been "returned", but that she'd already bought a replacement!
I'm flabbergasted that a supposedly grown adult seems to lack basic object permanence. Arriving back at her rack, seeing a cover draped over it, and immediately concluding her bike was stolen, without taking two seconds to lift the sheet, is genuinely mind-boggling to me.

Now she's on the chat insisting someone must have stolen it, taken it for a joyride, and returned it, and she is demanding CCTV access.

Is it worth trying to engage with someone like this?

Don't engage. Let her see via CCTV that her bike was never stolen. If she asks questions, just shrug it off and joke about everyone being absent minded sometimes (not bothering to check for her bike).

takealettermsjones · 28/07/2026 21:27

curtaintwitcher78 · 28/07/2026 12:14

Just put a post-it note on her bike saying 'Abracadabra!'
Forget that. She's an idiot and I have no idea how you could reason with her. She'll probably try to bill you for the new bike.
She'll check the CCTV and see that her bike went nowhere and hopefully shut up about it.

I mean... couldn't she have a point? My tort law is rusty admittedly but I think it would be an interesting lawsuit!

curtaintwitcher78 · 28/07/2026 12:14

Just put a post-it note on her bike saying 'Abracadabra!'
Forget that. She's an idiot and I have no idea how you could reason with her. She'll probably try to bill you for the new bike.
She'll check the CCTV and see that her bike went nowhere and hopefully shut up about it.

OvernightOats101 · 28/07/2026 10:45

Someone deleted the wrong post

If something was offensive, it cannot be the post asking what it meant 😂

penelopepocket · 28/07/2026 10:34

middleeasternpromise · 27/07/2026 19:13

Is it possible that like you, she has a usual parking space but for some reason came that day and used the one you use. When she came to get her bike she may have looked in her usual spot and on seeing the bike gone, assumed it was stolen, she didnt think to look under your cover because for whatever reason she didnt usually use that rack and forgot she had. You however normally have your bike under a cover in that spot and she may be used to seeing that. Sometimes when our minds are on other things we do make mistakes. This could be a series of unfortunate events.

Thing is, no one has a claim to any of the spaces. The OP clearly thinks she does as she’s been parking her bike there for two years. But it means naff all and anyone else has the right to park there. You see threads on here about people getting annoyed that others park outside their house on roads with no parking restrictions.

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 28/07/2026 05:29

And you don't think you are the fruit loop for hiding someone else's property?

It is very common for people to forget where they parked their car and this appears no different.

In contrast you are probably the first person on earth to cover someone else property for absolutely no reason

Whatevergoes2025 · 28/07/2026 05:17

Given she locked her bike on the only occupied rack when there were other free racks available, I’m guessing this woman didn’t even remember where she locked her bike in the first place, hence her total lack of investigative skills with the cover.

Some people are just very unobservant.

You’ve learnt your lesson not to cover another bike. Don’t engage with her.

LightBrunch · 28/07/2026 02:13

Namechangingregularly · 28/07/2026 02:02

I cannot understand the insults towards the person whose bike was hidden. It’s insane to cover someone else’s bike that it would not be something you would lift and check. If someone covered your car you would not expect to uncover it and say oh there it is 😂 you’d assume stolen. Particularly as we are told all about the regular bike thefts and the ops need for multiple locks including one for the cover itself. If this happened the op is selfish and spiteful and I hope they find out

Well said

Namechangingregularly · 28/07/2026 02:02

NCForOneNightOnly · 27/07/2026 19:57

To be fair I can understand her not looking under someone else’s cover. It isn’t necessarily the obvious thing to do. What’s obvious to us isn’t always obvious to others, but certainly I wouldn’t engage with her as I don’t think it will end well with someone that lacking in critical thinking skills.

I cannot understand the insults towards the person whose bike was hidden. It’s insane to cover someone else’s bike that it would not be something you would lift and check. If someone covered your car you would not expect to uncover it and say oh there it is 😂 you’d assume stolen. Particularly as we are told all about the regular bike thefts and the ops need for multiple locks including one for the cover itself. If this happened the op is selfish and spiteful and I hope they find out

LightBrunch · 27/07/2026 22:24

2thumbs · 27/07/2026 20:16

In my view, covering somebody else’s bike is insane behaviour

Totally

2thumbs · 27/07/2026 20:16

In my view, covering somebody else’s bike is insane behaviour

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I am glad I am not the only one who is confused here 😂

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