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Is my maths wrong? (Shop refund)

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GertysBestShoes · 26/07/2026 13:17

Big supermarket near me, closed off its changing rooms during COVID. Went in to buy something important that needs to fit correctly (swimming costume for a pool party booked the next day).

I asked a staff member near the clothing if the changing room was open any more, she confirmed no (I think they're now used as stock storage, you basically can't get beyond any barrier at the entrance). She advised of a 100 day refund policy and confirmed if was okay to buy a few, try them on that day, then refund (with all labels and hangers) the same day.

Bought a few costumes in different sizes (size 12, 14 and 2 different style 16s) along with my £20 ISH food shopping. Paid on a credit card and some vouchers I'd got (think something like clubcard voucher or Asda rewards, a specific £value). Total was £69.

Went back within thr hour (hurrah, 1 costume fitted) and attempted the return at customer service desk. 3 returns to process.

They were:
£9 costume on sale
£10
£20

I expect a £39 refund.

The customer service rep says it is a £39.43 refund that I'm entitled to, because I used a £1 voucher it influenced the refund value as it applies to the costume too.

I asked if the 57p will go back onto my loyalty voucher value, she said no.

What would you have done in that situation? What's a reasonable refund value?

A - be happy with £38.43
B - er, you returned £39 of goods so they need to make it right to £39 value even if it's on a gift card
C - £39.43 refund due back.

I won't drip feed, I'll share here that the customer service desk lady insisted on A. I insisted on B and asked to speak to a manager. Management was called who tried to give me a £38.43 credit card refund then give me a £1 gift card (which I explained was too much).

Aibu?

OP posts:
Fluffyscrubberdo · 26/07/2026 16:11

The store manager saying I was due the £1 voucher back was rejected by me because I didn't want her to get into trouble for giving me too much back (I think she thought I was entitled to the whole value back, and I thought she might have trouble with the numbers not tallying later if she needed it to).

No, she was almost certainly giving you the 57p extra as a good will gesture to get you out of the stop and stop complaining.

Tontostitis · 26/07/2026 16:10

Just for next time if I'm bulk buying clothes to try on and will definitely be returning some of them because I only want one I put them through completely separately to my shopping so I've got a separate receipt then you always get the full refund.

GertysBestShoes · 26/07/2026 16:08

Wow this has clearly hit a nerve with some people. To be clear, I paid for the swimsuits along with my food shopping. The transaction was on a bank card and I used a £1 voucher.

The swimwear had hygiene labels on the crotch and I tried them on over my underwear. The payment and refund were processed within the same hour.

The store manager saying I was due the £1 voucher back was rejected by me because I didn't want her to get into trouble for giving me too much back (I think she thought I was entitled to the whole value back, and I thought she might have trouble with the numbers not tallying later if she needed it to).

If there were a swimsuit exclusion policy when I spoke to the member of staff about if the changing rooms were open, I didn't know about it and the clothing department staff member didn't mention it when I asked about trying on the swimsuits on my arms.

To those of you saying you'd have let Asda off with the 57p, can I DM you my bank details? I would love 57p from all of you please.

OP posts:
Foundress · 26/07/2026 16:05

I live for threads like this on MN😂.

JapanesePotWeed · 26/07/2026 15:58

You just can't "pay" for something with coupons and then expect them to be refunded in cash!
Ridiculous. Feel sorry for Customer Service workers having to deal with this shit day in and day out

MrsVBS · 26/07/2026 15:57

You must be desperate for money if you are willing to quibble over such a small amount, I thought you were going to say they don’t accept returns on swimwear and your left with a load of bathing suits.

PuppyMonkey · 26/07/2026 15:56

I insisted on B and asked to speak to a manager.

Grin

Is anyone else picturing OP as Margo from the Good Life?

TheFormerMrsTruelove · 26/07/2026 15:54

Management was called who tried to give me a £38.43 credit card refund then give me a £1 gift card (which I explained was too much) You seriously turned down a £1 gift card because it would mean they’d given you too much of a refund? Have I understood that correctly? I think I have, but I cannot imagine that anyone would be that intent on making themselves that much of a giant pain in the arse, so I must have misunderstood.

MayaPyjama · 26/07/2026 15:46

Iwantanothergo · 26/07/2026 15:24

I think not.

I expect a £39 refund.
The customer service rep says it is a £39.43 refund that I'm entitled to

Why didn’t the OP just take the £39.43 refund then? If she was so precious she could’ve donated the extra 43p she was profiting?

ColdAsAWitches · 26/07/2026 15:45

Hecksonaplane · 26/07/2026 14:13

I’d be a bit peeved too as they’re a massive company and how many times do they do this to people and it all adds up - it’s funny how these things don’t go in the customer’s favour

Well they do. The manager tried to give her a £1 voucher instead of 57p, only the OP complained about that too!

Blossom1818 · 26/07/2026 15:43

I dont know, but I had a couple of drinks last night and reading this has made my head worse. I cant believe you called a manager over this. Enjoy your party

katepilar · 26/07/2026 15:36

I think you mistyped and said they told you its 39.43 and you wanted to say 38.43 and its confusing.

And yes, I do understand you didnt want to leave 57p behind. If I had the strenght and mood I would do the same. Ona a bad day I would leave it.

Iwantanothergo · 26/07/2026 15:24

MayaPyjama · 26/07/2026 13:31

Are your numbers in the post right?

I think not.

Tryagain26 · 26/07/2026 15:20

Tryagain26 · 26/07/2026 15:19

£38. 43 is correct and I would have accepted that because that's what you paid using the voucher. Which is really just a discount voucher, if you buy something using a discount voucher and then take that thing back you get back what you paid. You don't then get the discount voucher again to use against something else

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Sorry I don't know where that gif came from and I can't delete it!

Tryagain26 · 26/07/2026 15:19

£38. 43 is correct and I would have accepted that because that's what you paid using the voucher. Which is really just a discount voucher, if you buy something using a discount voucher and then take that thing back you get back what you paid. You don't then get the discount voucher again to use against something else

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DandelionClockSeeds · 26/07/2026 15:09

Tesco would have done the same - spread the £1 voucher proportionally over each item, so they would have given you the £38.43 as well.

Moral: dont use discount vouchers when you might return stuff!

Horses7 · 26/07/2026 15:05

Biggest non issue of the day - enjoy your pool party!

BotterMon · 26/07/2026 15:03

I'm surprised they let you return swim wear that you'd taken out of the store and tried on at home. That's quite gross. You can't do it with underwear so why is swim wear different.

Oh and YAB ridiculous about a few pence.

ThreeplusI · 26/07/2026 14:57

GertysBestShoes · 26/07/2026 13:17

Big supermarket near me, closed off its changing rooms during COVID. Went in to buy something important that needs to fit correctly (swimming costume for a pool party booked the next day).

I asked a staff member near the clothing if the changing room was open any more, she confirmed no (I think they're now used as stock storage, you basically can't get beyond any barrier at the entrance). She advised of a 100 day refund policy and confirmed if was okay to buy a few, try them on that day, then refund (with all labels and hangers) the same day.

Bought a few costumes in different sizes (size 12, 14 and 2 different style 16s) along with my £20 ISH food shopping. Paid on a credit card and some vouchers I'd got (think something like clubcard voucher or Asda rewards, a specific £value). Total was £69.

Went back within thr hour (hurrah, 1 costume fitted) and attempted the return at customer service desk. 3 returns to process.

They were:
£9 costume on sale
£10
£20

I expect a £39 refund.

The customer service rep says it is a £39.43 refund that I'm entitled to, because I used a £1 voucher it influenced the refund value as it applies to the costume too.

I asked if the 57p will go back onto my loyalty voucher value, she said no.

What would you have done in that situation? What's a reasonable refund value?

A - be happy with £38.43
B - er, you returned £39 of goods so they need to make it right to £39 value even if it's on a gift card
C - £39.43 refund due back.

I won't drip feed, I'll share here that the customer service desk lady insisted on A. I insisted on B and asked to speak to a manager. Management was called who tried to give me a £38.43 credit card refund then give me a £1 gift card (which I explained was too much).

Aibu?

I'm assuming you've made a typing error, because you seem to be getting a refund for more than you were due. If you used a voucher the EPOS would have divided that between all your purchases and taking off a percentage of the items you were returning. If you wanted £39 back, you should have bought the potential returns separately.

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · 26/07/2026 14:56

If it was £57 I'd be aggrieved
57p really wouldn't give a fuck and couldn't be arsed waiting for duty manager etc for 57p.

TheChosenTwo · 26/07/2026 14:55

All of this drama over 57p?? 😱
Jesus I left £7 in unreturned change from M&S when I put in £20 to pay for something that was £13 and it didn’t give me any change back. It was lunchtime, I couldn’t hang around for long, the guy in the self service couldn’t fix it and he got a colleague who also couldn’t fathom how to give me my change so I just said forget it, I’m in a rush, and off I went,
I literally cannot believe that op is being so uppity about 57p. I’m not so rich that I wipe my arse with £50 notes but I don’t need to quibble about 57p and for that I’m truly thankful for the peace it brings.

Bonsaibaby · 26/07/2026 14:54

I got £18 off for spending over £120. The receipt showed a percentage was taken off each item rather than the total at the end. So you probably evened out anyway but I would have taken the gift card

Fluffyscrubberdo · 26/07/2026 14:50

OvernightOats101 · 26/07/2026 14:48

I read

I would complain because the shop can't decide to change the rules.

£1 voucher it influenced the refund value as it applies to the costume too.
where does it state if you return items bought with vouchers, you lose the money?

It wasn’t a gift voucher paid with cash, it was a loyalty coupon which is stated in the context of the post.
What rules do you think exist for this? It’s not a law, of course the shop can set their own policy for dealing with money off coupons.

Springsummertime · 26/07/2026 14:50

Just enjoy your weekend and dont give it a second thought!

OvernightOats101 · 26/07/2026 14:48

Fluffyscrubberdo · 26/07/2026 14:40

Reading the rest of the post is important because it wasn’t random.

I read

I would complain because the shop can't decide to change the rules.

£1 voucher it influenced the refund value as it applies to the costume too.
where does it state if you return items bought with vouchers, you lose the money?

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