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AIBU to resent being asked to pay for neighbours cutting back our tree?

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Eatyourgreensplease · 24/07/2026 22:57

We have lived in our house for 20+ years in most of that time the house next door to us has been rented out with various families having lived in the house in that time. Recently the landlord evicted a family and is making extensive improvements to the house because of the damage caused.
We have a tree on our boundary (think ornamental blossom type) which we keep shaped and tidy on our side. We have done the same on the neighbours side in the past but recently the tenants in the property have not been in agreement to us doing this. As a result the tree has grown into the neighbours garden quite significantly and no attempt has been made to keep it trimmed. Today the landlord has asked us to pay to have the tree cut back to the boundary line and for the debris to be removed. Apparently the letting agent has advised them that if we don’t agree to do this, then the branches should just be thrown over into our garden!

We agreed will cut back the tree and deal with the debris, but am I unreasonable to think the landlord and previous tenants are CFs who should have not allowed it to get to this state? And while I recognise that it is by law their right to cut back the tree that has grown onto their property, it’s also unreasonable to expect us to pay to deal with that? Surely that’s just something we all take care of in our own gardens?

OP posts:
LittleBearPad · 26/07/2026 11:28

Choccyp1g · 26/07/2026 11:21

Are there any other large items that I can keep in my neighbour's garden?

So long as the base is on my side?

You’re being ridiculous.

We have a tree that overhangs the boundary. It’s taller than the house. I suppose I could pop in a time travel machine to have it planted further away 60 years ago but I really can’t be bothered!

Pootles34 · 26/07/2026 11:27

I would email the landlord and the letting agent, give a factual account of what has happened that previous tenants did not allow you to trim their side.

Refuse to pay for the work on that basis, and remind them of the law that states they must offer you the branches but you don't need to accept. Incidentally a lot of tree surgeons keep them for firewood anyway.

Say that once the work has been done, you would be happy to arrange with the landlord for you to come and keep on top of it every winter going forwards.

All in writing so you have a record.

Denim4ever · 26/07/2026 11:26

I would have cut it back anyway as best I could from my side

RoseField1 · 26/07/2026 11:26

olympicsrock · 26/07/2026 11:15

Of course the landlord could insist that the tenants allowed the tree not to become a problem

No he really couldn't.

Ihateslugs · 26/07/2026 11:24

I have a beautiful acer tree in my garden next to the neighbours fence which I have pruned every year to keep it under control, it grows very quickly. It should only be cut in the winter term before buds appear, otherwise it can harm the new growth.

In the past my previous neighbour was happy to cut his side but the neighbour is a woman on her own, like me, and we get on very well. I plan to ask her if my gardener could come in her garden to prune the tree when he’s doing my side as ideally I’d like the tree to be be neat on both sides, I can see her side when I drive in. I think she will be fine as she offered to pay for part of the cost of my new fence without me having to ask. I don’t intend to ask her to contribute as my gardener doesn’t charge a lot for the extra work.

whatever the legal position re trees, I think having a good relationship with neighbours is important and it’s my choice to have a tree growing so close to the boundary.

ProfessorSlocombe · 26/07/2026 11:21

If the tree is on your land, then it's damage is your responsibility, and the onus is on you to ensure it is kept safe. And a really good time to do that is before anything happens.

If it were to be blown down or cause damage (or worse, injury) to your neighbours, their insurance would start from the suggestion that it was not inspected or maintained - rendering you liable.

Where the reasonableness lies is another matter.

TofuTuesday · 26/07/2026 11:21

Tree stuff is really shit. Our neighbours have mature trees that damaged our fence panels and uprooted a low wall because of their roots. We had to pay to replace the fence and accommodate the trees. OTOH when our tree roots were lifting the paving at the back neighbour we ended up paying for our tree to be cut down. We also pay for the fence neighbours trees to be cut back. I’m sick of the bloody trees!

Choccyp1g · 26/07/2026 11:21

olympicsrock · 26/07/2026 11:16

what nonsense

Are there any other large items that I can keep in my neighbour's garden?

So long as the base is on my side?

LoremIpsumCici · 26/07/2026 11:20

It’s YOUR TREE. Even though you thoughtlessly planted it on the property boundary, you are still responsible for keeping YOUR TREE trimmed and healthy. You’ve been the CF all these years.

In addition, tenants are not legally responsible to maintain any tree or shrub owned by the LL that are higher than 6ft due to health and safety.

Choccyp1g · 26/07/2026 11:19

MendingWall · 26/07/2026 11:13

This is one of the more ridiculous posts I have ever read. Dig up and replant a mature tree? I’m the OP will get right on that 🙄

The ridiculous thing is planning to store half your your tree in the neighbours garden.

Reallyneedsaholiday · 26/07/2026 11:19

Vaxtable · 24/07/2026 23:58

It’s your tree. Yes they have the right to cut it back, but as the tree is obviously out of shape as you have only done your part you just need to suck up the cost for the health of the tree

why didn’t you contact the landlord when the tenants wouldnt let you cut it back?

They may not have had their details.

Brackenandbrave · 26/07/2026 11:19

If it’s your tree then it’s your responsibility

NCForOneNightOnly · 26/07/2026 11:17

Whether they are unreasonable to have let it get into that state is a bit irrelevant really. It is in the state it’s in and their past refusal to cut it won’t change anything now. They can cut it back to the boundary and offer the branches back to you but you don’t have to accept them. However, with it being your tree which is now an inconvenience for other people, (it’s not the landlord’s fault the tenants refused to let you cut it for years) for the purpose of maintaining a neighbourly relationship it’s probably better in the long term to just do it, although I would use this opportunity to secure a future agreement that it doesn’t get left to grow out of control their side in future, be that by you keeping it trimmed going forward or them.

olympicsrock · 26/07/2026 11:16

Choccyp1g · 26/07/2026 11:04

You need to dig up the tree and replant it so that the natural sized canopy is inside your garden.
This might kill it, but you or the previous owners should have thought of that before positioning it on the boundary.

what nonsense

TheCurious0range · 26/07/2026 11:16

Wet have to pay to get our neighbour's tree cut back because it takes over the back of our garden the bottom end of their garden is completely overgrown with brambles and bushes and trees, I really resent it but the landlord doesn't care and the tenants won't pay. I would really to the landlord and tell him his tenants refused access and trust to pay, tell him to get the next tenants to sign in their context that they permit access for the trees to be trimmed and then maintain your trees

olympicsrock · 26/07/2026 11:15

RoseField1 · 26/07/2026 10:59

How are you blaming the landlord? He couldn't insist the tenants allowed you to cut the tree and he did the only thing he could do legally which was evict them. It's your tree, I'm afraid you'll have to suck it up.

Of course the landlord could insist that the tenants allowed the tree not to become a problem

HeyMoonPie · 26/07/2026 11:14

If you don't want the cuttings but they are still thrown back this is now seen as 'Fly tipping' and your neighbour can be legally dealt with ! 😀

MendingWall · 26/07/2026 11:13

Choccyp1g · 26/07/2026 11:04

You need to dig up the tree and replant it so that the natural sized canopy is inside your garden.
This might kill it, but you or the previous owners should have thought of that before positioning it on the boundary.

This is one of the more ridiculous posts I have ever read. Dig up and replant a mature tree? I’m the OP will get right on that 🙄

Gingercatlover · 26/07/2026 11:12

The law on trees is ridiculous.

Unfortunately it’s your tree, so I’d be sucking this up, either do it yourself or pay someone.

ByUniqueViper · 26/07/2026 11:08

Why should someone else pay to do this. Its your tree!

JustMyView13 · 26/07/2026 11:07

I’m not sure why you think someone else should pay to maintain your tree.

DixonD · 26/07/2026 11:07

ohdear2 · 25/07/2026 00:39

Our neighbours trees feel into our garden during a storm. Think big enough debris to need a chain saw to sort out. My neighbourgh told me it was our problem. I was very angry! After much research including the council tree section (yes they all have one) and speaking to the tree society ... I was told not only was our my problem but to add insult to injury I could not dispose of the debris I had to give the debris back to neighbour as they technically owned it. So I threw it over their fence (which I was prob not allowed to do but hey ho).

You’re right, you were not meant to do that. You have to OFFER it back and if they say no, your responsibility to then get rid of.

Choccyp1g · 26/07/2026 11:04

You need to dig up the tree and replant it so that the natural sized canopy is inside your garden.
This might kill it, but you or the previous owners should have thought of that before positioning it on the boundary.

Mygardenshedisfallingdown · 26/07/2026 11:04

I wouldn't be paying for my neighbour to cut back their tree if it over hung my garden. Would take legal advice too if needed.

muddyford · 26/07/2026 11:04

Legally they cut the tree back to the boundary but have to ask you if you want the branches etc. They are guilty of flytipping if they just hurl the pieces into your garden.