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AIBU to feel awkward about my cleaner's very revealing work outfit?

253 replies

FurierTransform · 24/07/2026 14:55

My cleaner wears what i'd describe as an extremely skimpy gym outfit. I'm not sure of the exact name of clothes like this but hopefully you can imagine what I mean. It leaves basically nothing to the imagination - basically painted on fabric, and not much of it.

I get it (especially in these temperatures) - sweaty manual work, wear what your comfortable in, it's current fashion for people in their early 20s, want to show off body, whatever.

But I can't help but feel its a little inappropriate and awkward, especially when husband and other males are around in the house.
I don't want to make it a thing but AIBU? Would you say anything?

OP posts:
hugasaurus · 24/07/2026 14:59

My husband is able to be around women in gym gear without molesting them, cheating on me, ogling them, whatever else. What part is actually bothering you? I don’t really see how it matters.

Tiredofitallagain · 24/07/2026 14:59

What pp said

YouTookMyTimeAndYouTookMyMoney · 24/07/2026 14:58

It's hot sweaty work and it's a heatwave, leave her be! She's not wearing it for "the males" she's trying to be comfortable.