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AIBU to dispute Rover charge after pet sitter failed agreed care?

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slowingdown1 · 24/07/2026 01:30

I booked X through Rover to provide in-home pet sitting for one week at a cost of £431.
Before the booking, i met with the sitter, showed her the house and Pets and talked everything through. I provided a clear written routine for my dog. This included three walks each day: a morning walk, an evening walk and a short bedtime walk. I checked in with X regularly during the booking, and she did not tell me that she was unable or unwilling to follow this routine.
When I returned home, I found a hole in the stair wall, dirty floors, an unmade bed with a wet towel left on it, extensive dog mess throughout the garden and dried dog food left on a disposable plate, which the sitter would have had to dig through my
cupboard to even find it which is odd. It would have slipped on the tiled floor making it impossible for my dog to properly eat. My dog has a ceramic bowl and a designated area to eat which I showed her, so this makes no sense to me.
My dog had also urinated on carpets across four rooms and appeared distressed, panting and temporarily unable to bark.
After I reviewed the ring door bell footage, X later admitted in writing that she had not followed the agreed walking schedule. She said that during the first part of the booking she had skipped the bedtime walk, and during the second part my dog had received very limited walks. She confirmed that my dog had not been walked at all during the final two days and had only been allowed into the garden.
X initially offered a full refund through Rover and confirmed this in writing. I therefore contacted Rover and submitted a detailed complaint, including photographs, written statements and screenshots of X admitting that she had not provided the agreed care.
Despite repeated telephone calls and emails, Rover did not promptly resolve the complaint. X subsequently withdrew her offer of a full refund and stated that she had decided to offer only £120 because she had “walked the dog approximately 10 times but can’t remember” and cared for the car and house.
I did not accept the £120 offer because the service provided was substantially different from the service booked. The agreed walking routine was not followed, there were no walks during the final two days, my dog urinated throughout the house, and the property was left damaged and in an unacceptable condition.
AIBU to raise a credit card dispute? Is this futile? I’m utterly bemused as to how an incompetent and unsafe sitter can decide their refund amount!

OP posts:
Kokonimater · 25/07/2026 08:12

Name and shame on all social media sites. This is appalling.
Rover needs to step up.
and that person needs to be outed.

Emeraldforest · 25/07/2026 08:01

I'm so furious on your behalf, I hope you get some recompense. Honestly, it makes you wonder who you can trust.

dottiedodah · 25/07/2026 07:59

I think pet sitters are often dodgy.friends abroad left their home and dogs for 2 weeks with some sitters.house was trashed completely! Hole in ceiling and water damage.dogs mess not cleared up.

Floratheexplorer57 · 25/07/2026 07:51

I would be writing to Rover to say that you will be taking this up with your bank - if you paid by credit card you have additional protection. I might also threaten to let a national newspaper consumer columnist know about it as I think it would be a good story for them. I think with a dog involved as well - your poor dog having to put up with this!

PloddingAlong21 · 25/07/2026 07:15

As poster above me says - I would be posting this in legal section.

PloddingAlong21 · 25/07/2026 07:13

Wow.

I am not a dog owner, I actually don’t even like dogs…but this post has made me really cross!! The ‘pet sitter’ sounds utterly vile and honestly really quite cruel to treat your dog this way.

I think you’re being too calm - I would go to town with Rover on this, I would most definitely be raising a dispute with the bank and wouldn’t let them have a penny. I would also be pursuing costs for the carpets.

Your poor poor dog. My friend is a vet nurse who runs a pet sitting business on the side. It can be worth asking Vets Practice for recommendations for pet sitting services as many reputable ones drop leaflets in to them, so when asked they can suggest. I can’t imagine the dodgy ones would do this (you never know though).

Also what on earth happened for there to be a hole under the stairs?!?

Maisey1991 · 24/07/2026 23:58

Someone legal needs to advise you surely this is some kind of breech of contract AND neglect???

SomeOtherUser · 24/07/2026 23:31

slowingdown1 · 24/07/2026 02:26

I have left an honest review which doesn’t not seem to have been published on the site yet 🧐

Post one on Trustpilot and not on their website - that way they dont control whether it is public or not!

StrikeForever · 24/07/2026 22:40

I had a similar bad experience (not through Rover). It resulted in me using a very good boarding Kennals instead of a home sitter. God help us if the place ever closes because I wouldn’t usually trust Kennels either.

IFancyABaconSarnie · 24/07/2026 22:11

I would be livid. How cruel! Your poor dog! 😞

EastEndQueen · 24/07/2026 21:42

The Rover site is American and private equity owned and awful. You won’t get anywhere with them, although you are absolutely in the right

I used Cat in a Flat for years and they have been bought by Rover. It’s now impossible to navigate. I tried to extended my booking to include a few extra visits and it literally took about a week of arguing with AI bots. I only continue as I have a nice local sitter who books through them and she won’t take unofficial bookings

VivIsBlonde · 24/07/2026 21:36

Owwdi · 24/07/2026 02:23

Holy shit, that’s awful OP. I’m a sitter myself and I started out on Rover. I realised straightaway that Rover doesn’t cover insurance for sitters, so I took out my own insurance from the get go. But lots of people on there either don’t realise or don’t care they need their own insurance. It’s shocking really. So I wouldn’t count on your sitter having insurance, she doesn’t seem like the diligent type.

However you as the client are covered by the Rover guarantee. Rover takes a significant percentage of each booking payment, and this is to cover the client if anything goes wrong. Don’t let it drop, they should absolutely pay up.

It’s infuriating, we had a sitter years ago (not through Rover) who didn’t stay at the house, killed the cat, rode the horses without permission, damaged our property…the list goes on. Never got a penny or even an apology from the sitter when caught out.

The sitter I used to use when I had my dog was also registered with DEFRA

Pistachiocake · 24/07/2026 21:32

If your dog was effectively mistreated and your house damaged I would speak to a lawyer/the police to ask what specific charges can be brought. I wouldn't be as worried about compensation (though yes, you deserve it in the same way as if a nanny let your house get wrecked) as about making sure this person faced consequences, as next time a sitter could fail to leave water/without the right can of food, some dogs could literally die (some breeds have to have particular food/medication at particular times).

ny20005 · 24/07/2026 21:06

Absolutely raise a chargeback with your credit card company. You’ve got much more payment protection with a credit card

ARingtoit · 24/07/2026 20:52

I was planning to book on Rover this weekend for our holidays 🙃. Glad you've posted this!

MuttsNutts · 24/07/2026 20:50

@slowingdown1 I am so sorry for you and your poor girl, I would be absolutely raging if someone had treated my dog like that and it’s hard to understand how someone could abuse your trust so badly. I’m sure you should be able to pursue a CC claim if Rover won’t refund you in full - I wouldn’t waste any more time on them to be honest, I’d contact my bank straight away.

I’m not a dog sitter but I’ve always had dogs and if you were close enough (I’m in the north east) I’d be happy to help you out if you were ever stuck, rather than think of your poor wee girl suffering anything even close to what happened to her ever again. Obviously I realise you don’t know me either but the offer’s there. I’m just so upset on your behalf!

Ilovewatchingthedrama · 24/07/2026 20:47

Raise a credit card dispute and also send a letter before action for a small claims case

HollyhocksandPeons · 24/07/2026 20:36

Not dissimilar what would happen to the elderly relatives with failing faculties and their 'inhouse care workers' when you leave instructions for them. Basically, everything has to be videoed and stored in the cloud. Cameras everywhere, only solution.

TheresMillionsOfGeoffreys · 24/07/2026 20:34

What terrible stories on here Sad
Have to say, if I was a criminal wanting free range in other peoples' houses with no real consequences, volunteering my services on these sorts of places would be an attractive option.

OohThatCat · 24/07/2026 20:32

That’s really awful OP, your poor dog. I was a cat sitter for 8 years on another platform when I lived in London and bent over backwards for all of them, and their owners, even emergency vet trips when needed! I can’t imagine anyone being so dishonest. The platform I used to sit on switched to Rover and tbh I’ve not used it since, it just didn’t seem as robust as the platform I was using. I have a friend on it who house sits for us and many others and she would be horrified as well.

I hope you can leave factual reviews on the sitter and site, look to add reviews on Google and Trustpilot regarding the platform and their customer service as well. I hope your dog is better now.

Jensword · 24/07/2026 20:23

Get in touch with your home insurance. Given there is damage to the property they may be able to pursue it on your behalf.

Humblebumbley · 24/07/2026 20:18

Oh how awful, I’m so sorry for your poor pup!

Unfortunately so many of these ‘middle man’ companies take sizeable chunks for booking fees or guarantees and then are absolutely useless and infuriating when the help they promise is needed.

I’ve had similar situations with Vinted and AirBnB where they either wash their hands of an issue immediately or make the situation worse.

The only thing these companies will answer to is public complaints so don’t let up. Tag them on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter with posts saying how poor the service is. One star reviews on Trust Pilot and the App Store and anywhere else with details of the situation. And in the meantime email them daily with complaint noted in capitals in the subject line and clearly stating a full refund is the only appropriate resolution. Good luck!

Oh and I would put a review of the actual sitter on the Facebook groups for the areas she lives/works in. What she’s done is animal neglect and people should be warned not to use her. Especially if she doesn’t even have the good grace to accept she was wrong and provide the full refund.

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · 24/07/2026 20:11

I think this is about more than just the money, it's neglect and animal cruelty from the sound of it, especially if your dog couldn't eat or toilet normally. I'd be following up in other ways. There are online groups to name and share bad pet sitters, they should also be registered/licensed so could try the council, and any online review options. I'd potentially see online if there is any recourse to stop her doing this to another family/pet. It's horrid leaving them and worrying, to return to this must have been awful.
I'd definitely keep following up for a refund, but my main worry would be ensuring she stops trading as this person should not be looking after animals.
We found our pet sitter on Rover and she was amazing! Still use her now and she is so good with our dog, sends me pictures of his walks and the cat having his dinner etc.

SurferRona · 24/07/2026 20:03

slowingdown1 · 24/07/2026 02:26

I have left an honest review which doesn’t not seem to have been published on the site yet 🧐

Honest review of Rover on trip advisor and name the sitter. Can’t not publish that 🤷‍♀️

WiddlinDiddlin · 24/07/2026 19:49

Letter before action to both Rover and sitter.

Try the charge back on your card.

Then SCC, seeking refund as the service you paid for was not provided and partial service here = no service at all (as you would not have paid for less than the full service you needed).

And seeking recompense for the damage done and distress caused.

I think Rover CAN refund if they want to but they won't if they don't think you're serious. Do check how long you have for the charge back though, it won't be long.