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To be amazed this family were allowed on the flight (Ryanair)

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sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 16:47

We were flying with Ryanair last week to go on holiday.

Before boarding the plane, we heard them calling cleaners to our boarding gate. As we got closer, there was a young boy who had been sick all over the floor. He clearly had a fever and wasn't well at all.

We boarded the plane, and you guessed it, the family were sat really near us. Before the plane even took off, he was sick 2 more times.

During the flight, he was sick every hour. The Mum said 'it is such a shame he has a bug at the start of our holiday'.

I am just amazed that he was allowed to fly when visibly unwell with a sickness bug.

I am absolutely amazed we didn't catch it but I bet other people did. I thought it was SO unfair that he was allowed to fly, potentially infecting so many people on that plane and ruining holidays people have looked forward to all year. I know kids aren't allowed to fly with chickenpox, so why can they with a sickness bug?

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shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 18:00

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 17:59

Depends on their t&cs doesn’t it

Sure, I'm just wondering if all the people saying "don't let them fly" would honestly feel the same way if it was them having to pay out for accommodation and new flights when they/their child wasn't actually contagious, that's all.

Ponderingwindow · 23/07/2026 17:59

You can’t exclude someone for vomiting. It can be motion stickiness from the first flight or a migraine.

I have been that person. The gate agent talked to me. I explained my medical condition and flew. If I had been contagious, I would have completely understood being denied boarding.

vomiting on a flight despite taking prescription anti-sickness medication and other measures is a common experience for people with severe motion sickness. Even if we are fine walking on to the plane, that status may not last.

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:59

DemelzaandRoss · 23/07/2026 17:58

Sorry but you don’t appear to understand.
If you’re vomiting before the flight you don’t get to fly. No ifs, ands or buts.
You don’t always get what you want.
Especially with DC.

It's not that I don't understand - like I've said, I'm partially playing Devil's Advocate - I just wonder how this "no flying" thing would actually work in reality.

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 17:59

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:58

I just wonder how that would work in reality, though. Are insurers going to pay out because you have travel sickness and were denied boarding, for example?

Depends on their t&cs doesn’t it

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 17:59

aliasfrog · 23/07/2026 17:56

As someone with emetophobia and a compromised immune system, this would be my nightmare and could make me seriously ill mentally and physically. They are very very unreasonable to expose everyone on that flight.

I do not have emetophobia and seating next to someone spewing next to me for hours is my worst nightmare!

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:58

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 17:55

Yes but subjecting a passenger for hours next to someone spewing their guts out. The smell! The sounds! Potentially block the toilets.Even if NOT contagious they still shouldn’t be allowed to board.

I just wonder how that would work in reality, though. Are insurers going to pay out because you have travel sickness and were denied boarding, for example?

DemelzaandRoss · 23/07/2026 17:58

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:14

I wonder if you'd feel that way if it was you or your kids being sick and your holiday was cancelled over nothing.

Sorry but you don’t appear to understand.
If you’re vomiting before the flight you don’t get to fly. No ifs, ands or buts.
You don’t always get what you want.
Especially with DC.

Terfedout · 23/07/2026 17:57

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:07

But there are umpteen reasons why someone could vomit and it not be contagious - are you saying those people should never be allowed to fly?

Yes! They should absolutely not be allowed to fly.

aliasfrog · 23/07/2026 17:56

As someone with emetophobia and a compromised immune system, this would be my nightmare and could make me seriously ill mentally and physically. They are very very unreasonable to expose everyone on that flight.

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:56

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 23/07/2026 17:53

If someone is sick multiple times before a flight or take off then they should be denied boarding. It might not be contagious but the crew and ground staff don't know that.

I've had Port Health Authority meet flights where people have been vomiting.

I'm partially playing Devil's Advocate but there are lots of reasons why someone might be vomiting that aren't contagious or a cause for concern.

Travel sickness, food poisoning, migraines, low blood sugar, certain medications and heavy periods are all examples.

pastadish · 23/07/2026 17:56

Dont the cabin crew have authority to deny boarding? They would speak to the captain or something. Its their flight surely if they didn’t want him on they could have said?

Boreded · 23/07/2026 17:55

You should have called a steward. I did on a flight when a teen was vomiting behind me. Turned out it was heat stroke but they had a doctor come check on them

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 17:55

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:53

"Nothing" as in, not contagious and not a reason not to fly - people are sick for all sorts of reasons, many of which aren't contagious.

Yes but subjecting a passenger for hours next to someone spewing their guts out. The smell! The sounds! Potentially block the toilets.Even if NOT contagious they still shouldn’t be allowed to board.

Beeeem · 23/07/2026 17:54

My husband was on a flight years ago and there was a family with a child who didn’t look well. He looked feverish and was crying a lot. The dad was carrying him and walking him up and down the aisle to calm him down. The child proceeded to projectile vomit all over a row of people. That was lovely for them. I don’t even know how you are meant to clean up in that situation. My husband said one woman ended up sitting in just her bra but with a blanket round her for the rest of the journey. It looked like she had washed her hair in the toilet sink as well.

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 23/07/2026 17:53

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:07

But there are umpteen reasons why someone could vomit and it not be contagious - are you saying those people should never be allowed to fly?

If someone is sick multiple times before a flight or take off then they should be denied boarding. It might not be contagious but the crew and ground staff don't know that.

I've had Port Health Authority meet flights where people have been vomiting.

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:53

GreenWhiteViolets123 · 23/07/2026 17:41

If my child was vomiting and clearly unwell I would want to take them somewhere to look after them until they felt better. Not force them to endure hours more travelling whilst feeling grim. Or others having to listen to my child be unwell. I wouldnt want to be travelling feeling like that so I wouldnt want a child to endure it either - if at all possible.
I dont see how vomiting is ever "nothing" - its horrible to listen to, it smells vile, looks awful etc.

"Nothing" as in, not contagious and not a reason not to fly - people are sick for all sorts of reasons, many of which aren't contagious.

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 17:50

NiftyAmberHam · 23/07/2026 17:36

My (21yo) son was sick on last of his holiday - wasn’t fit to fly as vomiting. Informed insurance company who said he needed to see a doctor. The doctor gave an unfit to fly document but told him he should have gone to the airport and they would have given him an injection to stop him vomiting for long enough to fly! He was exploding at both ends… was he really meant to go on a flight like that? Turned out it was a bug as we ended up getting it too. So he could have infected the whole flight!

I really don’t think the airport would have administered injections to a traveller

EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 17:49

AnyonehatefliesasmuchasIdo · 23/07/2026 17:43

I’m not sure how this would be policed/decided though?
Years ago on numerous flights back from Thailand, I had awful kidney stones and was being sick. If they wouldn’t have let me fly, how would I get back home, would they pay for the flights? I had to get home!

You get a medical certificate clarifying why you’re vomiting and that you’re not infectious. It’s pretty normal.

TheRealMagic · 23/07/2026 17:49

DS1 was sick on a Ryanair flight when he was about 3. He was just travel sick (it was a bit of a turbulent flight) so not contagious or predicted. What was a bit grim, though, was that although I tried to mop it up as best I could with tissues, the crew seemed quite unfussed even though the seat was soaked with vomit and the next flight load of people were getting on as we disembarked...

AnyonehatefliesasmuchasIdo · 23/07/2026 17:43

I’m not sure how this would be policed/decided though?
Years ago on numerous flights back from Thailand, I had awful kidney stones and was being sick. If they wouldn’t have let me fly, how would I get back home, would they pay for the flights? I had to get home!

GreenWhiteViolets123 · 23/07/2026 17:41

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:14

I wonder if you'd feel that way if it was you or your kids being sick and your holiday was cancelled over nothing.

If my child was vomiting and clearly unwell I would want to take them somewhere to look after them until they felt better. Not force them to endure hours more travelling whilst feeling grim. Or others having to listen to my child be unwell. I wouldnt want to be travelling feeling like that so I wouldnt want a child to endure it either - if at all possible.
I dont see how vomiting is ever "nothing" - its horrible to listen to, it smells vile, looks awful etc.

EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 17:41

Trallers · 23/07/2026 16:55

That's so grim. I'm sure the staff thought it was too. I don't know on what grounds they could stop him flying though, as much as they'd want to. With chickenpox there's a very clear cause with a very clear set of risks associated with exposure. Being sick could have any number of causes many of which don't have a direct impact on anyone else, presumably making it hard to stop someone joining the flight. Would be delighted to be proved wrong though! I have also had a flight trapped next to someone who vomited many times before we even moved on the tarmac and it was a very stressful flight as a result. I also didn't get sick, but I was very anxious about it for a good week or 2 after as the man was SO unwell (his wife said it was malaria but who knows!).

They can refuse to allow them to fly on the basis he is clearly ill. I’m afraid that if I’d witnessed him being sick again before we took off I’d have requested to disembark.

Thebinisrightthere · 23/07/2026 17:40

NiftyAmberHam · 23/07/2026 17:36

My (21yo) son was sick on last of his holiday - wasn’t fit to fly as vomiting. Informed insurance company who said he needed to see a doctor. The doctor gave an unfit to fly document but told him he should have gone to the airport and they would have given him an injection to stop him vomiting for long enough to fly! He was exploding at both ends… was he really meant to go on a flight like that? Turned out it was a bug as we ended up getting it too. So he could have infected the whole flight!

Where did you stay if you all couldn't fly?

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 17:39

Ialwaysthoughtitwasadojo · 23/07/2026 17:38

I was once sick before a virgin Atlantic flight because I’m a nervous flyer and they wouldn’t let me board! They paid for another night in a hotel for me (very kind), but it wasn’t a bug and they still wouldn’t let me on.

Did you have to buy new tickets?

Ialwaysthoughtitwasadojo · 23/07/2026 17:38

I was once sick before a virgin Atlantic flight because I’m a nervous flyer and they wouldn’t let me board! They paid for another night in a hotel for me (very kind), but it wasn’t a bug and they still wouldn’t let me on.

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