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To be amazed this family were allowed on the flight (Ryanair)

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sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 16:47

We were flying with Ryanair last week to go on holiday.

Before boarding the plane, we heard them calling cleaners to our boarding gate. As we got closer, there was a young boy who had been sick all over the floor. He clearly had a fever and wasn't well at all.

We boarded the plane, and you guessed it, the family were sat really near us. Before the plane even took off, he was sick 2 more times.

During the flight, he was sick every hour. The Mum said 'it is such a shame he has a bug at the start of our holiday'.

I am just amazed that he was allowed to fly when visibly unwell with a sickness bug.

I am absolutely amazed we didn't catch it but I bet other people did. I thought it was SO unfair that he was allowed to fly, potentially infecting so many people on that plane and ruining holidays people have looked forward to all year. I know kids aren't allowed to fly with chickenpox, so why can they with a sickness bug?

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EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 18:34

AnyonehatefliesasmuchasIdo · 23/07/2026 18:08

Whilst at the airport??

You prepare in advance obviously! If you’re so ill you need to get home you’re usually in a situation where a ‘fit to fly’ certificate is appropriate.

Buggeroffboss · 23/07/2026 18:29

You don't know he was contagious. DS has severe acid reflex resulting in vomiting, which is exacerbated significantly by anxiety and being autistic he is anxious a lot. He often throws up before traveling. He's not a risk to anyone and there's no cure/ mitigation for it. I'd be incredibly pissed off if we were not allowed to fly.

Ponderingwindow · 23/07/2026 18:23

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:00

And what about the very very closely confined OTHER PASSENGERS?

No one seems to give a damn about other passengers when it comes to allergy safety for those of us gripping our epipens and hoping for this best. Even though it would be easy to make people safer on planes.

This is just unpleasant.

What I have realized is that people only care about themselves.

ilovesooty · 23/07/2026 18:22

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:14

I wonder if you'd feel that way if it was you or your kids being sick and your holiday was cancelled over nothing.

Couldn't care less. If someone's vomiting they shouldn't be on a flight at all.

Esmeraldathe3rd · 23/07/2026 18:21

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:07

But there are umpteen reasons why someone could vomit and it not be contagious - are you saying those people should never be allowed to fly?

If a person is actively vomitting they absolutely should not be allowed on a flight. It's disgusting for everybody involved. Can't imagine why anyone would think it ok.

NiftyAmberHam · 23/07/2026 18:20

we were saying on for another week after he was due to fly home so still had our accommodation booked.

Babycatsmummy · 23/07/2026 18:18

Our toddler got ill on the plane 2 weeks ago, he was absolutely fine beforehand and showed no signs of being ill. Then 45 minutes into the flight he was sobbing his heart out and had the most horrific diarrhoea. I felt absolutely terrible for him and also for anyone else on the plane as I definitely would not have taken him if he’d have been unwell and we knew about it. The cabin crew were amazing and so were the passengers in front of us. I ran out of clothes for him and a very kind man gave us his hoodie to at latest keep DC warm.
we ended up seeking medical care and we were almost sent to hospital as he had bronchitis but luckily he reacted quickly to treatment.

But no, I wouldn’t dream of taking a poorly child on an airplane if I knew they were unwell

Am99 · 23/07/2026 18:17

I agree it’s definitely gross for all involved and really unpleasant to have to sit next to but I agree that while it might’ve been a contagious stomach bug, I don’t think it warrants the family not travelling and having to de-board the plane.

sickness bugs spread at pre-school, school, after school clubs it’s not just limited to being on a flight. You can catch sickness anywhere even when said person is not showing symptoms ie you could be see next to a seemingly healthy person but they could have a tropical disease for all you know.

They also might’ve saved up for years for that family trip and cancelling for a sickness bug probably isn’t covered by insurance I’d imagine - if it was even a sickness bug!

Theresalittlebitofwitchinyou · 23/07/2026 18:16

I’m immunocompromised so hate people who travel with something contagious (or visit!) but equally I have a child with allergies that took years to get fully under control due to lots of hidden triggers so unexpected vomiting was an occupational hazard for us for a few years until we got it under control, so I’m sure we used to be judged unfairly.

RedRock41 · 23/07/2026 18:12

That’s awful OP. Lodge a formal complaint. Or better still put something on their X or facebook accounts. You aren’t allowed on a cruise ship with those symptoms. There will be people perhaps on that flight with underlying medical conditions or who are immunosuppressed, possibly pregnant women too or even some travelling to see loved ones. Allowing the family to fly was a serious H&S risk. I had to travel to see my Dad when he was dying, if the young lad had likes of highly contagious norovirus that would have robbed me of precious time. How horrible for everyone.

placemats · 23/07/2026 18:12

sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 17:09

I would say that the most likely reason would be a sickness bug for a young child with a fever!

How did you know they had a fever. Did you take their temperature?

Trallers · 23/07/2026 18:09

Beeeem · 23/07/2026 17:54

My husband was on a flight years ago and there was a family with a child who didn’t look well. He looked feverish and was crying a lot. The dad was carrying him and walking him up and down the aisle to calm him down. The child proceeded to projectile vomit all over a row of people. That was lovely for them. I don’t even know how you are meant to clean up in that situation. My husband said one woman ended up sitting in just her bra but with a blanket round her for the rest of the journey. It looked like she had washed her hair in the toilet sink as well.

Oh my gosh that is truly horrendous, those poor people Shock

AnyonehatefliesasmuchasIdo · 23/07/2026 18:08

EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 17:49

You get a medical certificate clarifying why you’re vomiting and that you’re not infectious. It’s pretty normal.

Whilst at the airport??

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:08

Being very drunk isn’t contagious but you wouldn’t be allowed on a flight because dangerous and very unpleasant for others

even if someone spewing is not contagious, it is still dangerous (could worsen on flight or mean toilets out of action) and very unpleasant for others

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 18:08

Lifelover16 · 23/07/2026 18:06

But how would anyone know if it was contagious or not?

They wouldn't, that's kind of my point. Chicken pox (as per OP's example) is always contagious so always a reason to deny boarding. But because vomiting can be caused by all kinds of things, airlines could be on rough ground if they denied someone boarding because they were travel sick or anxious or had a migraine.

Celticwonderer · 23/07/2026 18:07

Sorry but it’s 💯 not fair on the other passengers. The kid clearly had a fever FFS.

People vomiting + obvious fever BEFORE they board should categorically not be allowed to fly. That’s before we even get onto the decision of the parents to drag the poor child on board regardless. Can’t get my head around it sorry

Lifelover16 · 23/07/2026 18:06

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 16:56

The issue is that vomiting can have loads of causes and most of them aren’t contagious.

But how would anyone know if it was contagious or not?

Notasbigasithink · 23/07/2026 18:05

OnARainyDay2012 · 23/07/2026 17:17

But your travel insurance wouldn't cover you for a sickness bug surely? So they either go and he's fine after 48hrs or they lose their whole holiday.

And risk everyone else's health within close proximity and ruin their holidays too? Amazing.... 🙄🙄
Why do you think schools don't allow a child to return for 48hrs after a vomiting episode?!

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:04

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 18:04

But would it pay out if there was nothing medically wrong with you, is my point?

Well it would depend on whether travel sickness is defined as something medical in the t&cs

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 18:04

Notasbigasithink · 23/07/2026 18:03

Its called 'thats life' and also what travel insurance was invented for!

But would it pay out if there was nothing medically wrong with you, is my point?

Notasbigasithink · 23/07/2026 18:03

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:14

I wonder if you'd feel that way if it was you or your kids being sick and your holiday was cancelled over nothing.

Its called 'thats life' and also what travel insurance was invented for!

Roselilly36 · 23/07/2026 18:01

Unfortunately gate staff just let people board and the crew have to deal with it. On our last trip with Jet2 gate staff allowed a very drunk, abusive passenger to board. We ended up having to return to the stand to offload, caused delay etc. totally unacceptable.

BillieWiper · 23/07/2026 18:00

I wouldn't assume a child vomiting at an airport was necessarily a life threatening contagious illness.
I mean they used to put sick bags in the front of each seat so presumably vomiting on planes couldn't have been taboo until fairly recently?

I wouldn't want to be covered in sick or to smell it but other than that I don't think I'd assume I'd catch something.
It's not pleasant though.

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:00

Ponderingwindow · 23/07/2026 17:59

You can’t exclude someone for vomiting. It can be motion stickiness from the first flight or a migraine.

I have been that person. The gate agent talked to me. I explained my medical condition and flew. If I had been contagious, I would have completely understood being denied boarding.

vomiting on a flight despite taking prescription anti-sickness medication and other measures is a common experience for people with severe motion sickness. Even if we are fine walking on to the plane, that status may not last.

And what about the very very closely confined OTHER PASSENGERS?

ItsNotMeEither · 23/07/2026 18:00

I know someone who was offloaded with her kids. They were about to fly from USA to Australia. The son, aged 8 at the time, was rather spoilt (putting it lightly). While waiting to take off, the plane was delayed. The son was thirsty and hungry. As was his normal way, he started begging his mother for a coke and even pinching her firmly when a coke didn't appear. For this family, this wasn't unusual. As part of his tantrum, he escalated to saying he couldn't breathe.

Now, this might sound serious if you heard a child saying he couldn't breathe, right before your long haul flight took off. But if you knew the family, this was a standard tantrum for this kid. When a cabin crew member overheard, they called a supervisor and offloaded the family due to health and safety concerns. Also, further delaying the flight while all of their bags were found. You'll be happy to know that the son was perfectly fine as soon as he got his coke and some food.

OMG, I'm not saying we may have quietly laughed about it, but the family did seem to tighten up on the behaviour of their son after that. I'm pleased to say he grew up to become a very lovely young man.

So, sometimes they do offload families when there are health and safety concerns, even if maybe they're not genuine. Can't blame the cabin crew for not wanting to take that chance.

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