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To be amazed this family were allowed on the flight (Ryanair)

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sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 16:47

We were flying with Ryanair last week to go on holiday.

Before boarding the plane, we heard them calling cleaners to our boarding gate. As we got closer, there was a young boy who had been sick all over the floor. He clearly had a fever and wasn't well at all.

We boarded the plane, and you guessed it, the family were sat really near us. Before the plane even took off, he was sick 2 more times.

During the flight, he was sick every hour. The Mum said 'it is such a shame he has a bug at the start of our holiday'.

I am just amazed that he was allowed to fly when visibly unwell with a sickness bug.

I am absolutely amazed we didn't catch it but I bet other people did. I thought it was SO unfair that he was allowed to fly, potentially infecting so many people on that plane and ruining holidays people have looked forward to all year. I know kids aren't allowed to fly with chickenpox, so why can they with a sickness bug?

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Iamnotalemming · 23/07/2026 19:10

I cannot imagine ever getting on a flight with DC that unwell. Poor kid should have been in bed. I would have been too concerned for them and everyone else on the flight.

CareBearClaire · 23/07/2026 19:05

Thedogswhiskers · 23/07/2026 16:57

That happened on a flight to Singapore - our family all sitting in front of the sick child. And yes, we all came down with it the next day.

I hope that’s not us you’re talking about 😂 Back in 2017 we flew to Singapore. My daughter has stomach issues which make her sick (not infective) and vomited continually for 8 hours. We spent most of the flight in the toilet 🤦🏻‍♀️

Iknowthatfeeling · 23/07/2026 19:04

I became quite unwell on a flight once, I had an ovarian cyst rupture likely due to pressure changes on take off. Within 20 minutes I had been sick and was in a heap on the floor where the cabin crew sort food. I'm sure there were probably passengers panicking but I was removed asap to the back of the plane.
It was a horrible horrible experience, and I was horrified about being sick the most.
But I wouldn't board a plane if I knew my DC was ill, it's not even about stopping people boarding for being sick, it's obvious in this case there was strong chance it would be contagious and if they did have a medical condition with a fit to fly they'd have arranged for the child to be seated so they weren't as close to other passengers as physically possible.

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 19:00

EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 18:56

The flight crew make an announcement asking passengers to refrain from eating peanuts etc.

Yes mine did last week

DierdreDaphne · 23/07/2026 18:59

Cakeface11 · 23/07/2026 17:12

The selfishness of this is astounding! I would have more understanding if it was a flight home from holiday because obviously the poor kid would need to get home somehow, but the outbound flight at the start of their holiday?!

That's utterly grim. Airlines ought to be required to automatically change your ticket to 24 hrs later, and meanwhile ban vomiters from flying. I wonder what the staff associations/unions think about this (cabin crew and cleaners).

EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 18:56

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:53

How do I know that you’re gripping your epi pen and how do I know what your allergic to?

The flight crew make an announcement asking passengers to refrain from eating peanuts etc.

Newsenmum · 23/07/2026 18:56

FourSevenFour · 23/07/2026 18:46

Yeah, pregnant women should stay at home for months, just in case they would have to throw up on the travelling day.


No one likes being around sick people, but the alternative would be compulsory temperature checks at the airport - and still many people would just dose up and go anyway.

I think a small child who looks unwell and is vomiting multiple times is quite different to a pregnant woman who looks queasy. And tne airline could question her and if she tells them she’s pregnant, their risk to take.

Clearly this kid was not pregnant.

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:55

Newsenmum · 23/07/2026 18:54

Because many people will openly eat nuts and not care.

But there’s lots of allergies. Why single out peanuts?

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:54

Buggeroffboss · 23/07/2026 18:29

You don't know he was contagious. DS has severe acid reflex resulting in vomiting, which is exacerbated significantly by anxiety and being autistic he is anxious a lot. He often throws up before traveling. He's not a risk to anyone and there's no cure/ mitigation for it. I'd be incredibly pissed off if we were not allowed to fly.

If he’s chundering throughout a long flight… what about the poor passengers seated inches from him

Newsenmum · 23/07/2026 18:54

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:53

How do I know that you’re gripping your epi pen and how do I know what your allergic to?

Because many people will openly eat nuts and not care.

Newsenmum · 23/07/2026 18:53

Im also very surprised. There are signs everywhere saying they can say no to boarding if youre ill. Poor little boy too.

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:53

Ponderingwindow · 23/07/2026 18:23

No one seems to give a damn about other passengers when it comes to allergy safety for those of us gripping our epipens and hoping for this best. Even though it would be easy to make people safer on planes.

This is just unpleasant.

What I have realized is that people only care about themselves.

How do I know that you’re gripping your epi pen and how do I know what your allergic to?

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 23/07/2026 18:52

TheDenimPoet · 23/07/2026 18:43

What about if it's due to anxiety because they're scared of flying? Should they just never go anywhere?

Each case would be individually assessed.

In this case it seems that the boy and his family should not have been allowed to fly.

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 18:52

TheDenimPoet · 23/07/2026 18:43

What about if it's due to anxiety because they're scared of flying? Should they just never go anywhere?

Not if they’re going to puke and ruin the flight for others… nope. Get the ferry

EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 18:52

FourSevenFour · 23/07/2026 18:46

Yeah, pregnant women should stay at home for months, just in case they would have to throw up on the travelling day.


No one likes being around sick people, but the alternative would be compulsory temperature checks at the airport - and still many people would just dose up and go anyway.

No - that’s not the alternative. Pregnant women prone to vomiting take evidence of pregnancy - if visibly pregnant, you’re foolish if you don’t take a fit to fly letter anyway.

Everydayisdolmioday · 23/07/2026 18:51

To be honest I don't think I would want to take my child on a plane if they were vomiting.

LilyBunch25 · 23/07/2026 18:50

Bad....my friend and her daughters contracted norovirus on a flight; there was a passenger whose child was visibly unwell and vomiting, but as she said what can you do? Could never prove thats where it came from.

EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 18:49

TheDenimPoet · 23/07/2026 18:43

What about if it's due to anxiety because they're scared of flying? Should they just never go anywhere?

Again unless you have a doctors letter or credible evidence that you aren’t diseased/ drunk, how can the airline tell and why should they risk the safety and wellbeing of everyone else? It’s the greatest good of the greatest number.

If you know anxiety makes you sick then prepare in advance by taking a doctors letter, a basin/ receptacle and extra clothes!!

QueenietheGreat · 23/07/2026 18:48

@sickflight87
Some entitled thickos have no social awarenes seeped in bluffness and assume that no-one will never have the nerve to tell them NO!

FourSevenFour · 23/07/2026 18:46

ilovesooty · 23/07/2026 18:22

Couldn't care less. If someone's vomiting they shouldn't be on a flight at all.

Yeah, pregnant women should stay at home for months, just in case they would have to throw up on the travelling day.


No one likes being around sick people, but the alternative would be compulsory temperature checks at the airport - and still many people would just dose up and go anyway.

TheDenimPoet · 23/07/2026 18:43

Weeellokthen · 23/07/2026 17:11

If they are actively vomiting. Damn right.

What about if it's due to anxiety because they're scared of flying? Should they just never go anywhere?

EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 18:39

Ponderingwindow · 23/07/2026 18:23

No one seems to give a damn about other passengers when it comes to allergy safety for those of us gripping our epipens and hoping for this best. Even though it would be easy to make people safer on planes.

This is just unpleasant.

What I have realized is that people only care about themselves.

Yes. Man who ate peanuts when asked not to next to my young nephew was well served when nephew vomited all over him, vomited so much he blocked the plane loo and faced serious prospect of diversion to land earlier.

Luckily nephew was ok - but he took to warning people in the future what was likely to happen if they didn’t listen to flight crew.

ranoutofquinoaandprosecco · 23/07/2026 18:37

My DD started vomiting on our back home from Thailand been travelling ages and we’re at Dubai when she started and even though I was 99% sure it was because she was shattered, Emirates and us made the decision not to fly back to the UK before she had been checked and had a fit to fly certificate. She was fine within a few hours, had a nap something to eat and drink and we were on the next flight. At the time it was awful as you just want to get home, but imagine if it was something really serious like a dodgy appendix as well as not spreading all those germs.

EvelynBeatrice · 23/07/2026 18:35

Buggeroffboss · 23/07/2026 18:29

You don't know he was contagious. DS has severe acid reflex resulting in vomiting, which is exacerbated significantly by anxiety and being autistic he is anxious a lot. He often throws up before traveling. He's not a risk to anyone and there's no cure/ mitigation for it. I'd be incredibly pissed off if we were not allowed to fly.

I’d be inclined to get a doctors letter confirming what happens when he’s anxious and just take it with you. That’s what we did in similar circumstances.

sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 18:34

placemats · 23/07/2026 18:12

How did you know they had a fever. Did you take their temperature?

Peak mumsnet 🤣 Yes, I whipped my thermometer out and checked it. It was 39.9 🙄

He had very flushed cheeks and the parents were fanning him and taking his top off. He clearly had a fever!!

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