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To be amazed this family were allowed on the flight (Ryanair)

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sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 16:47

We were flying with Ryanair last week to go on holiday.

Before boarding the plane, we heard them calling cleaners to our boarding gate. As we got closer, there was a young boy who had been sick all over the floor. He clearly had a fever and wasn't well at all.

We boarded the plane, and you guessed it, the family were sat really near us. Before the plane even took off, he was sick 2 more times.

During the flight, he was sick every hour. The Mum said 'it is such a shame he has a bug at the start of our holiday'.

I am just amazed that he was allowed to fly when visibly unwell with a sickness bug.

I am absolutely amazed we didn't catch it but I bet other people did. I thought it was SO unfair that he was allowed to fly, potentially infecting so many people on that plane and ruining holidays people have looked forward to all year. I know kids aren't allowed to fly with chickenpox, so why can they with a sickness bug?

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DrinkFeckArseBrick · 23/07/2026 20:41

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:15

It could be food poisoning, or another medical condition that isn't contagious.

I'm partly playing Devil's Advocate but there are so many reasons someone could vomit and only one or two that are contagious.

Food poisoning is (or can be) contagious. E-coli for example is passed on in vomit / poo.

idontknowhowtodreamyourdreams · 23/07/2026 20:32

If the child’s family knew it was sickness bug then I would agree they probably should have cancelled the holiday.

But …. I once boarded a flight with horrendous morning sickness. Puked twice before boarding and during the flight. I had to fly, it was a family emergency.

My youngest DC puked at the airport and we boarded the flight - but in her case I was 99.9999% certain she wasn’t ill and it was a one off - delayed flight, I had let the kids have too many snacks and treats while we waited for hours. Her stomach said no. She puked once, horrendously violently but then was done.

travelallthetime · 23/07/2026 20:31

Wow, my customers child threw up three time on the way to Thailand via Doha, they were kicked off at Doha and told to go to a hospital for a fit to fly for the next flight (not literally kicked off but were told they needed a fit to fly and that it wasn’t a bug), it was travel sickness and they put them on the next flight a couple of hours later. I can’t believe Ryan air let them on

Shinyhappyapple · 23/07/2026 20:26

NotDarkGothicMama · 23/07/2026 20:01

YANBU. It sounds like he was clearly suffering from a bug and shouldn't have been on a plane, for his own comfort and for the health of the other passengers.

I flew into an airport last week that had massive infrared temperature scanning arches everyone had to go through before reaching passport control. There were masked-up staff waiting to intercept anyone showing signs of illness. I imagine if this family had tried flying there they would have been quarantined. Fun for them.

Where was this? I’m reminded of the point-and-shoot type thermometers that so many places used in Covid times. I’ve had those pointed at me before I boarded a plane and on arrival.

Shinyhappyapple · 23/07/2026 20:24

BranClaps · 23/07/2026 17:29

Sums up a RyanAir flight, I’ve never been on such a disgustingly dirty form of public transport.

Ive never flown first class or with any of the more expensive airlines, but I’ve never found Ryanair to be more unpleasant than Jet2, Eastjet, Tui etc. Do you ever travel by bus or cross city trains in standard class? As some of those are pretty horrible.

Jc2001 · 23/07/2026 20:16

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 16:56

The issue is that vomiting can have loads of causes and most of them aren’t contagious.

It's totally irrelevant whether it's contagious or not. It's massively unfair on the other passengers and the cabin staff.

HumberSquid · 23/07/2026 20:16

We were flying with Ryanair

And that right there is your problem

frozendaisy · 23/07/2026 20:14

The airline let him fly

There is no way anyone on here saying they shouldn’t have flown, not couldn’t, shouldn’t, would’ve got off that plane, left their luggage and missed their holiday. Or tried to get another flight x2 days later. No one.

If the airline let him on they let him on.

Nsky62 · 23/07/2026 20:10

SharkEatsDonkeyTails · 23/07/2026 17:06

I feel bad for the child, the parents should have cancelled or re arranged the vacation.

Maybe they h couldn’t and didn’t want to lose money

Latteapparel · 23/07/2026 20:03

sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 17:08

Yes the crew looked very very pissed off when they kept having to carry plastic bags full of sick bags and vommed on clothes etc to the back of the plane. So unfair on them too. I don't know who makes the decision that they're allowed on or not

My partner is a Captain, the decision is solely his as the Command. Cabin crew will have alerted the Captain to the sick child, Captain phones a medical number, describes symptoms or diagnoses (if given one whilst on holiday and seen by a Doctor) medics determine if passenger is fit to fly or if not to offload passenger and luggage before take off.

NotDarkGothicMama · 23/07/2026 20:01

YANBU. It sounds like he was clearly suffering from a bug and shouldn't have been on a plane, for his own comfort and for the health of the other passengers.

I flew into an airport last week that had massive infrared temperature scanning arches everyone had to go through before reaching passport control. There were masked-up staff waiting to intercept anyone showing signs of illness. I imagine if this family had tried flying there they would have been quarantined. Fun for them.

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 19:54

ToffeePennie · 23/07/2026 19:38

Most likely a one and done thing. He does 4 or 5 if he’s upset about something, but excitement tends to just be one small regurgitation (it’s more liquidy than proper sick if you get me) and then done. I carry proper sick bags too, that have a scent blocker thing to stop the smell coming out.

Right so not remotely comparable to full on vomiting and multiple times

Thebinisrightthere · 23/07/2026 19:53

DierdreDaphne · 23/07/2026 18:59

That's utterly grim. Airlines ought to be required to automatically change your ticket to 24 hrs later, and meanwhile ban vomiters from flying. I wonder what the staff associations/unions think about this (cabin crew and cleaners).

Do you actually think that every destination has a daily flight?

JulietteHasAGun · 23/07/2026 19:48

I came back from Egypt once and I reckon half the plane had a bug. People vomiting everywhere. Queues for the toilets, attendants putting out of order signs on toilets. I wouldn’t be surprised if several people shit themselves from the smell on that plane. Worst flight ever.

ToffeePennie · 23/07/2026 19:38

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 19:33

one off or throughout flight?

Most likely a one and done thing. He does 4 or 5 if he’s upset about something, but excitement tends to just be one small regurgitation (it’s more liquidy than proper sick if you get me) and then done. I carry proper sick bags too, that have a scent blocker thing to stop the smell coming out.

Fuzzypinetree · 23/07/2026 19:38

Sallycinnamum · 23/07/2026 17:03

I get that but nobody vomiting before a flight should be allowed on. Its deeply unpleasant for passengers and crew.

There are lots of reasons why someone might throw up. Granted, if the parents knew it was a sickness bug in this case, they should have stayed home with their child.

I once flew back from holiday with food poisoning. It was awful. Luckily, the taxi driver dropped me off at the medical centre at the airport. They gave me something to stop the vomiting and allowed me to rest there until it was time to board my flight. It was no fun for me, either,...but I wasn't contagious.

Sallycinnamum · 23/07/2026 19:35

ToffeePennie · 23/07/2026 19:30

My 8 year old will likely vomit on the plan at the start of our holiday next week. (We are travelling by plane)
He has gastro-intestinal issues that are caused by an inflamed duodenum. We have his diagnosis printed out, but to the layperson, my son would look very sick. In actuality, his being very very excited will cause the inflammation to flare and he will be sick. Not his fault or anyone else’s and he takes meds etc but they cannot stop it.

So you're quite ok with the fact your DC could be vomiting throughout the flight? What about the people around you having to hear and smell it?

Westcoe · 23/07/2026 19:33

ToffeePennie · 23/07/2026 19:30

My 8 year old will likely vomit on the plan at the start of our holiday next week. (We are travelling by plane)
He has gastro-intestinal issues that are caused by an inflamed duodenum. We have his diagnosis printed out, but to the layperson, my son would look very sick. In actuality, his being very very excited will cause the inflammation to flare and he will be sick. Not his fault or anyone else’s and he takes meds etc but they cannot stop it.

one off or throughout flight?

SunnyRedSnail · 23/07/2026 19:33

I tend to wear a face mask on a flight out to avoid bugs!!

My DS2 has bad acid reflux which causes him to vomit. He is also autistic and has extreme anxiety so pair this with the reflux and he is likely to puke. We are flying soon so I will be armed with a sick bag! I do make it known if people give me funny looks that it's not contagious!!

ToffeePennie · 23/07/2026 19:30

My 8 year old will likely vomit on the plan at the start of our holiday next week. (We are travelling by plane)
He has gastro-intestinal issues that are caused by an inflamed duodenum. We have his diagnosis printed out, but to the layperson, my son would look very sick. In actuality, his being very very excited will cause the inflammation to flare and he will be sick. Not his fault or anyone else’s and he takes meds etc but they cannot stop it.

Sartre · 23/07/2026 19:25

I’d imagine it’s because many children get nervous and anxious which can cause vomiting in extreme cases, also obviously travel sickness once in the air is common. If they refused to let them on the plane you can imagine the furore if it wasn’t a bug… It’s grim though, I agree and I mostly feel for the child who must have felt awful.

placemats · 23/07/2026 19:23

sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 18:34

Peak mumsnet 🤣 Yes, I whipped my thermometer out and checked it. It was 39.9 🙄

He had very flushed cheeks and the parents were fanning him and taking his top off. He clearly had a fever!!

That means nothing. 🤣

notimagain · 23/07/2026 19:21

DierdreDaphne · 23/07/2026 18:59

That's utterly grim. Airlines ought to be required to automatically change your ticket to 24 hrs later, and meanwhile ban vomiters from flying. I wonder what the staff associations/unions think about this (cabin crew and cleaners).

Problem with that is there's no guarantee of there being seats next day....especially for a family group in holiday season.

sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 19:12

Yes genuinely if someone became ill whilst in the air, of course that is just bad luck and you would suck it up. It was the fact he was so obviously unwell before even getting on the plane and had vommed everywhere. The chances her, a young kid being sick and looking very unwell is a sickness bug.

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Bedroomdilemmas113 · 23/07/2026 19:11

I can violently vomit over and over and over again if I have cross contamination (or unknowing ingest) one of the many things I’m allergic to. It would present as a sickness bug for sure, and I am always mortified if it happens out and about and I have to use public toilets as I know this is what everyone around would be thinking.

Not everyone vomiting is contagious, as others have said.