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DD and friend had drinks spiked, now in ITU AIBU?

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Pissedoffmama · 23/07/2026 14:10

My Dd had her drink spiked last night.
Im sitting in ITU.
I have sons……. But wtf goes on in men’s heads.
For completeness, her best friend, was also spiked, but is not as poorly.
police are being crap.
Just why????

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TooLittleTooLate2 · 23/07/2026 14:30

Awful and it seems that there are no consequences. We need to crack down really hard on this sort of thing.

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Pissedoffmama · 23/07/2026 14:24

Yes, they were only in one bar. They felt they were being watched, so after a second drink, decided to leave.
My Dd collapsed in the street outside the bar.
Luckily her friend called 999 and insisted they’d been drugged. Which has now been proven
Shes 22, lives alone 3 hrs away from ‘ home’.
I mean anything could have happened

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HarrietSchulenberg · 23/07/2026 14:18

Years ago my friend's drink was spiked with LSD by another woman who was unknown to either of us. We were never sure if it was out of spite (my friend was looking very attractive that evening) or if my friend was a mistaken target, but whatever the vile reason, it was definitely by a woman.
I hope your DD makes a swift recovery.

MissMoneyFairy · 23/07/2026 14:17

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this and hope she makes a quick recovery, the police have to step up, do you know where it happened, poor girls. It must be very frightening for you all.

Maray1967 · 23/07/2026 14:14

I’m sorry to read this, and hope they both recover quickly.

I’m very disappointed to read that the police are being useless - which force is it?

And yes, what the bloody hell is wrong with these men. They need to face serious consequences.

PullingOutHair123 · 23/07/2026 14:13

I'm so sorry to read this - I hope she makes a speedy recovery.

What makes people do this? Because while most people are good people, there are also some real dicks.

I hope the police do start being useful, and find the fuckwit that thought this was a good idea.