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AIBU to feel jealous of another mum’s post-baby bounce back?

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Ohbeehave · 23/07/2026 10:37

I know it’s not fair to be jealous, but there’s a mum at my mum and baby group with a one month old. She looks fantastic, wears cropped tops and you can see a bit of ab definition. She always tucks into the biscuits, and when I ask how she’s bounced back she just says she doesn’t have time but is breastfeeding.
Im there with an 18 month old, work hard and go to bootcamp and am heavier than when I was pregnant 😭 life just isn’t fair.
Do you really think she’s just lucky or is there some sort of trick to this kind of bounce back I am missing. I know my husband is disappointed with how long it’s taking me. I had been telling him to be kind and I’d just given birth, but now with this woman I think I am kidding myself.

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Rocknrollstar · 23/07/2026 10:40

I lost all my weight by simply walking miles pushing the pram but I am concerned about your husband. In over 50 years my DH has never commented on my appearance and has always fancied me no matter how i look. Does he look the same as when you met?