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Is this unhygienic?!

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loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 07:55

I have an Airbnb on my property. It’s basically a tiny home at the bottom of our large garden with an amazing view. Most people come for the weekend by train and I don’t want people to spend their holiday shopping for stuff like coffee, tea, milk or having to cram suitcases full of toiletries or beach towels so I provide all of those. I also provide a little evening snack (crisps usually) some wine to watch the sun set on the deck with and fruit from the garden and a croissant and jam for breakfast. People love it and I make it quite clear on my ads that these things are provided.
Just got a review from a couple who stayed with us a few days ago. They gave us a good review but took one star off and in her private message to me she said ‘We loved our stay with you but we weren’t very happy that the toiletries are in big shared bottles rather than individual use. This is obviously very unhygienic (we don’t know who has used them!!) so we had to make the trip to buy some for ourselves which was an expense and effort we weren’t expecting’.
To be clear I offer Aesop Shower Gel, Shampoo and Conditioner in the shower and Aesop Hand Wash by the sink in 500ml bottles. They get replaced when empty which is usually about every 10 months
AIBU to think this is not unhygienic?!

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ByTheSeas · 23/07/2026 15:18

nicepotoftea · 23/07/2026 15:17

Agree. I wonder if they think the mattress is replaced for every guest?

That's a bit silly because mattresses have covers which should be changed between guests.

BlondeAussie · 23/07/2026 15:18

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 09:19

Again. Aesop bottles are opaque.

You do realise that when pump bottles are down to the last inch they rarely dispense properly?

If you're only refilling them when empty every 10 months, the guests in the last month (at least) would be acutely aware they are getting the dregs of the product.

Calliopespa · 23/07/2026 15:18

nicepotoftea · 23/07/2026 15:17

Agree. I wonder if they think the mattress is replaced for every guest?

I sometimes think about the mattress ...😬
Then I make myself stop because I don't want to never go on holiday.

nicepotoftea · 23/07/2026 15:17

Disturbia81 · 23/07/2026 15:01

I think people who are fussy about this stuff shouldn’t stay anywhere other than their own home.

Agree. I wonder if they think the mattress is replaced for every guest?

BlondeAussie · 23/07/2026 15:11

YonderlyYonderly · 23/07/2026 14:22

Agreed

Especially if you are a guest in Month 9, and the shampoo bottle is down to the last inch - making it very plain that many people have gone before.

Minidollop · 23/07/2026 15:08

I wouldn’t use them either but that’s because I’m fussy about what brands I use not because it’s unhygienic.
Maybe note in your listing that ‘we provide toiletries in refillable bottles, you won’t find us using those mini bottles that create excess waste’. Use your eco awareness as a selling point?

EarthSight · 23/07/2026 15:07

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 08:02

They are pump bottles and they are sort of ‘locked’ into a shelf in the shower like you might see at a hotel.
I travel a lot for work and see this set up in fancy hotels all the time. Can’t remember when I last got those individual little bottles of plastic landfill.

Thought as much. If they're pump dispensers, that's very different and is what you'd find in most hotels, I should think?

RumPidgeon · 23/07/2026 15:06

Disturbia81 · 23/07/2026 15:01

I think people who are fussy about this stuff shouldn’t stay anywhere other than their own home.

This 💯

JohnBullshit · 23/07/2026 15:06

That's just silly. They could bring their own if they're so fussy, and probably should. I never use hotel shampoo, for example, and I am both slatternly and low-maintenance. My hair, however, is not. So I pander to its whims myself, rather than expect the hotelier to guess. Personally I find individual use toiletries very wasteful, so I would much prefer your arrangement.

RB68 · 23/07/2026 15:06

it is literally detergent how is using it in a pump dispenser unhygenic! Ridiculous OCD type behaviour and her issue not yours

RumPidgeon · 23/07/2026 15:06

They’re lovely brands of toiletries you’re providing.
Lots of hotel chains (even big, expensive ones) have big bottles near sinks or showers as it’s more environmentally friendly and generally cheaper.

Can’t please them all OP. They sound like a bunch of weirdos. Wish people like that would just arrive prepared with their own mini bottles of whatever.

Roselilly36 · 23/07/2026 15:02

Not unhygienic at all.

Disturbia81 · 23/07/2026 15:01

I think people who are fussy about this stuff shouldn’t stay anywhere other than their own home.

NoisyViewer · 23/07/2026 15:01

They’re complete knobs. It’s ok for them to not want to use them but that’s their choice. It was provided as advertised. All big hotels have stopped using the sample bottles.

Calliopespa · 23/07/2026 14:59

BlackRowan · 23/07/2026 14:57

Even a bar of soap is not unhygienic. It just looks nicer when new.
let alone liquids.

you aren’t obligated to provide them at all so just ignore

Here I am beginning to part company from the "not unhygienic" crowd! A bar of soap that has possibly been rubbed in someone's bottom crack is pushing me too far...

NoisyViewer · 23/07/2026 14:59

comofn · 23/07/2026 07:57

It’s lovely that you do all that but I can see her point. I wouldn’t like to use toiletries that past guests have used before

I’ve stayed in 5* hotels that offer the same products in big bottles

Jardenalia · 23/07/2026 14:58

I wouldn’t give a monkeys but clearly some people do. Your Airbnb sounds wonderful! Maybe put a note in the bathroom that if they want one use size stuff, they have only to ask - then give them travel size Boots stuff.

RobinEllacotStrike · 23/07/2026 14:58

Geeze you have to wonder what some people are doing with a bottle of shower gel to the extent they think it would be unhygenic for others to use the bottle after them.

The mind boggles!

BlackRowan · 23/07/2026 14:57

Even a bar of soap is not unhygienic. It just looks nicer when new.
let alone liquids.

you aren’t obligated to provide them at all so just ignore

Calliopespa · 23/07/2026 14:57

CreativeGreen · 23/07/2026 14:56

All these villains renting an airbnb just so they can put acid in the hand soap.....

Exactly. Or ejaculate into the conditioner bottle.

Calliopespa · 23/07/2026 14:57

zena1001 · 23/07/2026 14:55

People who think this is unhygienic, can you explain how? - genuine question as I can’t see the difference between this and using a soap dispenser in a public toilet.
Surely we are all touching things that others have touched all the time. What do we think people are doing to the shampoo 🙄

It's only really unhygienic if your imagination is concocting skulduggery. And that's a them issue to deal with privately, not in a review.

CreativeGreen · 23/07/2026 14:56

All these villains renting an airbnb just so they can put acid in the hand soap.....

zena1001 · 23/07/2026 14:55

People who think this is unhygienic, can you explain how? - genuine question as I can’t see the difference between this and using a soap dispenser in a public toilet.
Surely we are all touching things that others have touched all the time. What do we think people are doing to the shampoo 🙄

DogearedPaperbackWriter · 23/07/2026 14:55

She's being weird, imo. Those are all things you lather and wash away! Not like you're sharing a pot of moisturiser and inviting a hundred random people to dip their germ-covered fingers in. I think you'd struggle to make soap 'dirty', if you tried. Assuming there are any germs on the dispenser, you're immediately washing them away when you use the product.

She should always bring her own toiletries if she's this fussy.

SylvanMoon · 23/07/2026 14:55

If one review dropping a star has dropped your 5 rating to 4.8 then I suspect you've not had many reviews yet. I think you'll find that unless several reviewers more give you dropped ratings, it will be inconsequential in the long run. I'm a seasoned AirBnB user and, like other PP have said, I read the reviews in reverse order, looking first at the least stars and then the most recent. If their review was good and there was no mention of an issue with cleanliness in it and no other reviews had said anything about cleanliness, I'd be disregarding their rating. I wouldn't change how you provide for toiletries at all, but I also don't think it would hurt your sales if you just omitted mentioning that they were provided. That way your guests will be pleasantly surprised. I'm not particularly impressed when a host provides food because I'm vegan and I don't like having to dispose of food that I'm not going to eat. It's one thing to have staples there like olive oil and some condiments, and possibly coffee (especially if you have a specific kind of coffee maker) but I think it's OTT to provide beyond that.