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Is this unhygienic?!

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loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 07:55

I have an Airbnb on my property. It’s basically a tiny home at the bottom of our large garden with an amazing view. Most people come for the weekend by train and I don’t want people to spend their holiday shopping for stuff like coffee, tea, milk or having to cram suitcases full of toiletries or beach towels so I provide all of those. I also provide a little evening snack (crisps usually) some wine to watch the sun set on the deck with and fruit from the garden and a croissant and jam for breakfast. People love it and I make it quite clear on my ads that these things are provided.
Just got a review from a couple who stayed with us a few days ago. They gave us a good review but took one star off and in her private message to me she said ‘We loved our stay with you but we weren’t very happy that the toiletries are in big shared bottles rather than individual use. This is obviously very unhygienic (we don’t know who has used them!!) so we had to make the trip to buy some for ourselves which was an expense and effort we weren’t expecting’.
To be clear I offer Aesop Shower Gel, Shampoo and Conditioner in the shower and Aesop Hand Wash by the sink in 500ml bottles. They get replaced when empty which is usually about every 10 months
AIBU to think this is not unhygienic?!

OP posts:
MyLimeGuide · 23/07/2026 08:20

Yeah they were twats OP

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 08:20

This is the kind of thing they are in. Also Aesop bottles are pretty opaque. It’s not really possible to see how much is inside.

Is this unhygienic?!
OP posts:
TourdeCrema · 23/07/2026 08:19

Yogafiend · 23/07/2026 08:17

It’s a personal preference of mine.

How is it unhygienic and why would offering small bottles be different?

saraclara · 23/07/2026 08:19

Your system is absolutely normal for hospitality settings these days, and the right thing to do for ecological reasons.

Removing a star for such a ridiculous reason is very unfair, and I'd be irritated, too.

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 23/07/2026 08:19

It's not unhygienic, and it's more usual than small bottles in hotels now ime.

Is the holder they're in one that stops people being able to take the pump lids off? If not, perhaps that something you can consider? If it is then she's certifiably batshit.

There is the potential for someone to put something disgusting or dangerous in the bottle if it's accessible, and while the vast majority of people wouldn't think of it there are people out there who are utter weirdos.

fishonabicycle · 23/07/2026 08:19

She's being ridiculous.

Oscillating · 23/07/2026 08:18

Yogafiend · 23/07/2026 08:17

It’s a personal preference of mine.

So what do you do in public/shared toilets at cafes, pubs, restaurants, work etc? Or your mum's/friends houses etc?

FlapperFlamingo · 23/07/2026 08:18

Most large hotels use big bottles now. I don’t see what is unhygienic about them. Perhaps she was
miffed because she couldn’t take them!

SherbetDipDap · 23/07/2026 08:17

Does she think someone is pissing in the bottles or what?!

Yogafiend · 23/07/2026 08:17

VestibuleWeaver · 23/07/2026 08:14

Why not? Do you think you'll get "other person" germs off them? Guess what? They're already everywhere.

It’s a personal preference of mine.

Jan24680 · 23/07/2026 08:16

It's annoying to lose the star rating but anyone reading the reviews will probably work out the guest is a snob.

Coldwetlettuce · 23/07/2026 08:16

comofn · 23/07/2026 07:57

It’s lovely that you do all that but I can see her point. I wouldn’t like to use toiletries that past guests have used before

Do you bring your own soap everytime you use a public toilet to avoid the communal handwash?

Jellybean23 · 23/07/2026 08:15

No one forces her to use the toiletries provided. Carry on as you are.

Hopefulsalmon · 23/07/2026 08:14

I'd be surprised and delighted just to have Aesop toiletries in any format - lovely touch and totally normal to have big bottles. Hate the waste of individual ones.

VestibuleWeaver · 23/07/2026 08:14

Yogafiend · 23/07/2026 08:00

So for me I wouldn’t use them either sorry 😔. But having said that I wouldn’t have removed a star from the review because of it. They could easily pack little toiletries which is what I do? Maybe you can offer those instead if it’s worth it?

Why not? Do you think you'll get "other person" germs off them? Guess what? They're already everywhere.

TY78910 · 23/07/2026 08:14

Surely this is the same as when you’ve got those bottles fixed to the wall in the shower at a premier inn or equivalent? They just unscrew the top and refill but the bottle stays the same? God people really do like to nit pick.

Yourcousinrachel · 23/07/2026 08:14

Yeah its weird. So when they are at work or needing the loo at someone elses house, they're taking hand wash with them in their handbag and not using the liquid soap provided?
Seems very extreme to me. The hairdressers usually has massive bottles of shampoo and she wouldnt know who had used it there, would she?

Sartre · 23/07/2026 08:14

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 08:12

I’m definitely NOT offering individual bottles due to the plastic waste and product waste.
I clean the place myself and I am proudly meticulous. The bottles get cleaned in an antibacterial spray between guests anyway.
Im devastated as we work really hard to ensure our guests have a nice time and my 5 star rating ive held for a year has now dropped to 4.8.

Good for you. Can you add a comment to her review? I would if so explaining why she dropped a star and also explaining why you offer and will continue to offer reusable toiletries to guests.

hididdlyho · 23/07/2026 08:13

If they are that fussy about hygiene, I'm surprised they left their house in the first place! They sound batshit and the cynic in me thinks they possibly leave similar reviews everywhere they visit in the hope of some sort of 'compensation'.

TourdeCrema · 23/07/2026 08:13

I stayed somewhere last week, they had left shampoo, conditioner and shower gel in the shared bathroom

I didn’t actually use them as I have my own and I didn’t know what the shared products were ( for me it’s smell of the shower gel and shampoo is how it leaves my hair whether it’s silicon free etc). It was a lively Airbnb and breakfast was a big sit down event with croissant, home made jams, coffee etc. Some people go to a lot of effort and I didn’t like one thing about the place - but I still gave them 10/10 as you’ll never actually going to please all the people all the time

the place I’m staying in now has a few cobwebs and dust but is clean enough, perfect location and lots of character/ cheap as chips. It’ll probably get an 8/10 from me when I leave

Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 23/07/2026 08:13

No it's not, she's being very picky. Individual toiletries are bad for the environment, I haven't seen them even in hotels for a long time.

This is what we have to contend with, people knocking a star off because of personal preference rather than there being something genuinely wrong with the property.

I'd put a photo of the bottles on your listing just to mitigate against it happening in the future. Also if she mentioned it in the review put a reply along the lines of not using single use plastic because of the environmental impact.

Yogafiend · 23/07/2026 08:13

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 08:05

Im Baffled. Why?
What do you do in fancy hotels and restaurants that have expensive hand wash and toiletries in pump dispensers?
I’d never even contemplated they could be seen as unhygienic!

I don’t know if I would call them unhygienic per se if I’m honest. But I just don’t like the thought of using others toiletries. I don’t even use them in hotels either. I also pack my own. Even the hand wash I have a little molton brown with a pump in my hand luggage 🤣 so I can take it out straight away once we arrive. Yes - I’m aware I’m a bit extra - happy with that - but also I don’t visit it on other people. As I said I wouldn’t have expected or removed a star from it. I suppose that’s the problem with running an Airbnb - you will one time or another have to deal with people who are extra.

Whatevergoes2025 · 23/07/2026 08:12

Just fill the bottles up to the top before each visit to give the impression it’s new. Presentationally I think that would look better anyway.

When I see the bottles part used it gives me a funny irrational feeling but I certainly get over it!

Sartre · 23/07/2026 08:12

Oscillating · 23/07/2026 08:10

Why would sharing SOAP be unhygienic? It's soap ....

Like it literally cleans 😂😂😂

Oh soap is a different ballgame. I’m sorry to say but I’ve never understood soap users. Some people will literally rub the bar all over themselves rather than rubbing some into their hands or onto their flannel. Let’s not go there, it’s really gross though.

Damnthatmouse · 23/07/2026 08:12

I donuse hotel's large bottles either. And REALLY sniff and rinse and boil kettles if I use them. People are fucking rank idiots. Hotels usually have small individual soap bar which might be good to add here? Most people will leave them so it's no large cost as well but good alternative option.

But I would absolutely not take star off for that. It's personal preference.

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