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Is this unhygienic?!

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loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 07:55

I have an Airbnb on my property. It’s basically a tiny home at the bottom of our large garden with an amazing view. Most people come for the weekend by train and I don’t want people to spend their holiday shopping for stuff like coffee, tea, milk or having to cram suitcases full of toiletries or beach towels so I provide all of those. I also provide a little evening snack (crisps usually) some wine to watch the sun set on the deck with and fruit from the garden and a croissant and jam for breakfast. People love it and I make it quite clear on my ads that these things are provided.
Just got a review from a couple who stayed with us a few days ago. They gave us a good review but took one star off and in her private message to me she said ‘We loved our stay with you but we weren’t very happy that the toiletries are in big shared bottles rather than individual use. This is obviously very unhygienic (we don’t know who has used them!!) so we had to make the trip to buy some for ourselves which was an expense and effort we weren’t expecting’.
To be clear I offer Aesop Shower Gel, Shampoo and Conditioner in the shower and Aesop Hand Wash by the sink in 500ml bottles. They get replaced when empty which is usually about every 10 months
AIBU to think this is not unhygienic?!

OP posts:
LeedsLoiner · 23/07/2026 13:54

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 23/07/2026 13:43

To avoid this I would buy tiny bottles (travel one) and I would fill them for every guest :)

You are very kind to do this and I think that it how it should be done, however I can see their point. x

What do you think the odds of them still being there at the end of the stay are?

Abricot1983 · 23/07/2026 13:54

Hope you have an alcohol licence if your leaving alcohol.

sewlittletimetosew · 23/07/2026 13:54

I have stayed in many AirBnbs where there has been no soap etc at all. If I'd come to yours I'd have been delighted! It sounds a lovely property and I am sure the other reviews and photos speak for themselves. Sadly, despite all your efforts there are always going to be one or two who find fault. Continue what you are doing and try not to let it bother you. I have seen exactly the same set up in hotels so can't see any problem myself. If they are that fussy then they should bring their own!

LeedsLoiner · 23/07/2026 13:53

MaturingCheeseball · 23/07/2026 13:17

Not hygiene related, but I remember aeons ago on MN a poster receiving an email from the b&b where she’d stayed requesting return/reimbursement for the high-end toiletries the OP had taken. Posters were up in arms on her behalf… and then it transpired she’d helped herself to three big 500ml bottles. Still some posters were outraged - I guess this was before it was the norm to provide refillable bottles instead of individual ones, but still - do people really snaffle the big bottles?

Having spent a summer working in a hotel, if it's not bolted to the floor people will try and take it.

LeedsLoiner · 23/07/2026 13:52

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 23/07/2026 13:08

There's a lot less chance that someones going to have had time in a public toilet to get it off the wall, open the container and have a wank into it then there is is the privacy of an airbnb

To quote the much missed Sean Lock "that's a challenging wank!" 😀

hipposcanweartutus · 23/07/2026 13:52

Can see both sides to this! If they are in “locked” pump containers then no problem but if they were in standard bottles like we have at home, I would be worried in case someone had put something in it! I always take my own regardless but I am quite happy to use ones with the pump if the customer can’t open them! Personally wouldn’t stress over her comments!

mydogisthebest · 23/07/2026 13:51

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 23/07/2026 13:43

To avoid this I would buy tiny bottles (travel one) and I would fill them for every guest :)

You are very kind to do this and I think that it how it should be done, however I can see their point. x

The OP should not have to do this to pander to strange people. Good chance too that some people would steal the travel bottles so she would be forever buying new ones.

You may see their point but by far the majority on this thread do not and, as I and a few others have said, if you feel that way take your own toiletries.

MagpieMagic · 23/07/2026 13:51

So all the people saying they wouldn’t use because other people have, do you not use the soap dispensers in public toilets either? The product inside hasn’t been used, then put back for goodness sake 🤣

superspideysense · 23/07/2026 13:49

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 23/07/2026 13:43

To avoid this I would buy tiny bottles (travel one) and I would fill them for every guest :)

You are very kind to do this and I think that it how it should be done, however I can see their point. x

They would get taken home though.

Mistymagic77 · 23/07/2026 13:48

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 08:02

They are pump bottles and they are sort of ‘locked’ into a shelf in the shower like you might see at a hotel.
I travel a lot for work and see this set up in fancy hotels all the time. Can’t remember when I last got those individual little bottles of plastic landfill.

Me too. Most high-end hotels do this now. I am sure they have to to satisfy certain environmental credentials. Your Airbnb sounds amazing!

Grammarnut · 23/07/2026 13:48

Oscillating · 23/07/2026 12:47

You rinse the top of the bottle off? With water?
What good will that do??? 😂😂😂😂

Of you think rinsing a bottle top off with water cleans it enough to kill any lingering germs ... Then you think rinsing hands with water is enough 😂😂😂😂😂😂

What do you do with those ones that are wall mounted? That you can't clean?

It's soap. It is antiseptic. No germs. It kills them. That's the point of soap.

Creamteasandbumblebees · 23/07/2026 13:47

Ive just come back from a stay at an upmarket hotel. The shampoo/Conditioner/Body wash were all in pump containers that were attached to the wall in the shower.
I wouldn't worry too much about her review, some people like complain for the sake of it! Your place sounds lovely 😍

MathiasBroucek · 23/07/2026 13:46

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 08:02

They are pump bottles and they are sort of ‘locked’ into a shelf in the shower like you might see at a hotel.
I travel a lot for work and see this set up in fancy hotels all the time. Can’t remember when I last got those individual little bottles of plastic landfill.

Me too. And some guests may prefer the large bottles on environmental grounds..

TheSmellOfSea · 23/07/2026 13:46

Noodles1234 · 23/07/2026 13:44

Yes she is being fussy. You could word it as they can bring their own or there will be toiletries on offer should you need.

Good idea

BigGra · 23/07/2026 13:45

There are suggestions that topping up toiletries ( and not washing out the container in between top ups) can lead to contamination and a buildup up of bioforms and mould. - so I guess this might me the suggestion it is ‘ unhygienic’ can’t say it would bother me but that being said I always bring my own toiletries to airbnb but would have happily used the supplied Aesop instead of my own.

Navyontop · 23/07/2026 13:45

I see this as absolute nonsense.
It’s incredibly bad for the environment to have hundreds of little plastic bottles, so that’s a bonus on your side!

Paddyshanks · 23/07/2026 13:45

Another example of how the world has gone mad!!!

I use Airbnb a lot and wouldn’t think twice about using toiletries. I might take my own shampoo but only cos I have a personal preference.

Likewise I would use the tea bags etc, even if they were in a box.

Does the daft bat expect the toilet to be individually wrapped too?!?

Noodles1234 · 23/07/2026 13:44

Yes she is being fussy. You could word it as they can bring their own or there will be toiletries on offer should you need.

outerspacepotato · 23/07/2026 13:44

I like my hygiene and this wouldn't bother me at all. The less plastic wasted the better.

All the little plastic bottles, it is so wasteful. And you're providing a nice brand not something super cheap. I get the little plastic bottles of pricey stuff are a perk at high end places, but even those are starting to go away.

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 23/07/2026 13:43

To avoid this I would buy tiny bottles (travel one) and I would fill them for every guest :)

You are very kind to do this and I think that it how it should be done, however I can see their point. x

CalamityLane · 23/07/2026 13:41

I hate the little toiletry bottle. There is never enough in them for me. They fall over in the shower, the lids are all over the place. Your big high quality bottles sound ideal. Also less plastic wastage.

I don't really get how the client is saying they are unhygenic is it because of other people touching them ? This could be sais of any surface surely.

People need to manage their expectations!

TheSmellOfSea · 23/07/2026 13:41

AhMh67 · 23/07/2026 13:40

Drunk people pee or men do you know what in them they think it's funny. My friend who works in hospitality told me it happens all the time.

That's kettles 🤣

AhMh67 · 23/07/2026 13:40

Bamboozledbylife · 23/07/2026 07:58

Perfectly normal in my book! All of that waste (and cost) if you bought individual's. Maybe include a photo of them in the listing?! Curious as to what makes them unhygienic 🙄

Edited

Drunk people pee or men do you know what in them they think it's funny. My friend who works in hospitality told me it happens all the time.

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · 23/07/2026 13:39

DancingNotDrowning · 23/07/2026 12:28

I was in a Ritz Carlton this week and they had large pumps on the showers 🤷‍♀️

you can bring your own toiletries and not use the communal products but expecting tiny single use plastic bottles is very unreasonable.

Same as BoTree, Churchill and Intercontinental. All big bottles.

Lifeispeach · 23/07/2026 13:39

Tell her you don’t support single use plastic and so a refillable bottle is better for the environment. I used to think the same that individual bottles are better than shared but it’s so common to see even five star hotels going down the refillable route.

you could even add something about sustainability in your listing to show it’s actually a positive thing!

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