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To be sick of politicians using 'fairness' as justification for tax rises?

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Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 07:46

Fairness is completely subjective and I notice that this is often shorthand for giving more money to those that contribute the least.

Of course there will always be those that can't contribute much due to factors outside of their control, but we are kidding ourselves if we pretend that there aren't already lots of people that are scraping by doing the bare minimum (sometimes even less) and making completely irresponsible decisions knowing the state will ultimately insulate them from the consequences.

I personally know people that have had lots of children that they can't afford and can't parent properly simply because they wanted to. They are now on an incredible amount of money as the two child cap has been lifted. I know people that have stopped working because they weren't much better off than being on benefits and they couldn't be bothered with the hassle. I know young people that are already planning to stay on disability benefits their whole lives for mental health issues as they want to stay home and game.

Is it really 'fair' to charge the rest of us more to subsidise all of this?

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concertinacornflake · 21/07/2026 13:23

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 13:21

Could we have used that money to pay down the deficit and reduce long term interest payments? That's the point.

You compared national finances to household finances, when they work in entirely different ways.

What will happen to the £45, where will it go? Will it leave the economy or be used within the economy?

Corianda · 21/07/2026 13:23

Besafeeatcake · 21/07/2026 13:08

But here is the rub. I'm from Canada which most feel is more socialist (just ask Americans). We have universal heathcare and we certainly pay more in taxes BUT things work. We absolutely help people in tough times and to get back on their feet but it isn't indefinite. And the ongoing credits we give are to get them through - not so they can afford holidays etc.

People are happier in Canada (various studies to prove) cause even if we pay more new hospitals are being built, schools aren't crumbling, houses are being built etc.

It strikes me that in the UK people are tired of working hard, paying a lot of tax, not having things work and spending a lot on people who feel they don't have to work or contribute.

Is there social housing in Canada - sure. But it isn't your house. You are given a place to live. You can't buy it below market value and then sell it and make money.

The balance isn't right here and people are tired of that. The continual squeeze of the middle is what really annoys most. Because that always seems to be the answer - squeeze the middle more. Then the argument is 'it isn't a race to the bottom'. No it isn't but there has to be some fairness in working hard and paying for all of those who choose not to.

We’re looking for good politicians over here - interested?

Bonden · 21/07/2026 13:22

At what point do “innocent children” become “feckless adults”?

Pureclass · 21/07/2026 13:22

tiptoptoemaytoe · 21/07/2026 10:01

Of every £10 I earn, £6.75 goes on tax/deductions. I’m living in my overdraft after 2.5 weeks of getting paid. Fed up of Labour. I see parents on benefit with multiple kids on expensive outings that me and my children can barely afford despite those parents not working and me busting a gut to be a ‘positive’ example.

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Can you explain your workings?

I cant see at all how £6.75 of every £10 you earn goes on tax/deductions.

A lot of this must be on deductions which you are choosing to pay.
Is this pensions? Student loan? Other employee scheme?

How much is on tax? Which is really what we are discussing here?

MaidsRoom · 21/07/2026 13:22

concertinacornflake · 21/07/2026 13:19

Except it is nothing like that, because national finances don't work in the same way as household finances.

For most purposes they are. There was a brief period around 2021 when people thought governments could just print money and not be constrained by debt limits (modern monetary theory). 2022 proved that idea incorrect.

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 13:22

glitterpaperchain · 21/07/2026 13:20

If you genuinely think my post was poor maths rather than satire it does make me doubt your ability to understand and engage in political discourse

It was terrible satire. None of the people I referenced in my OP are living extreme lives in the way you were trying to suggest. If you think that's extreme you really need to spend a day in my hometown.

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Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 13:21

concertinacornflake · 21/07/2026 13:19

Except it is nothing like that, because national finances don't work in the same way as household finances.

Could we have used that money to pay down the deficit and reduce long term interest payments? That's the point.

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glitterpaperchain · 21/07/2026 13:20

LuckyHazelFox · 21/07/2026 13:17

I think it's transparent that your sark landed badly. No, please don't go to the trouble of explaining your poor maths. We can't all be competent at figures.

If you genuinely think my post was poor maths rather than satire it does make me doubt your ability to understand and engage in political discourse

concertinacornflake · 21/07/2026 13:19

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 08:31

I'm not massively worked up about it but just pointing out that this is being presented as a saving for everyone but the reality is that it has cost some people a lot more than £45.

It also says a lot about the mindset of the government that with spiralling debt and public spending, scrapping the ID scheme could have been one less cost that needed to be funded but instead the money was instantly spent elsewhere on a scheme that will deliver very little long term benefit to the country. It's the equivalent of a family with a huge credit card bill cancelling an order for a new sofa and using the money to fund day to day living costs with no real effort out into lowering their outgoings.

Except it is nothing like that, because national finances don't work in the same way as household finances.

LuckyHazelFox · 21/07/2026 13:17

glitterpaperchain · 21/07/2026 13:15

I can explain it if you're struggling?

I think it's transparent that your sark landed badly. No, please don't go to the trouble of explaining your poor maths. We can't all be competent at figures.

MaidsRoom · 21/07/2026 13:15

@Newbutoldfather you’re confusing owners of UK SMEs with founders of listed businesses. A UK SME owner doesn’t have the same options a US tech billionaire does. They almost certainly don’t have access to cheap loans against their equity holdings, and it will be very difficult for their to sell partial stakes in their business at reasonable prices. In reality their options are to pay themselves a salary or take a dividend. The salary option obviously has no tax advantages. The dividend option is lower tax than salary if you ignore corporation tax, but higher tax than a salaried worker if you include it. Whether corporation tax should be counted or not essentially comes down to your political views - left wing people mostly say it shouldn’t, right wing people mostly think it should.

glitterpaperchain · 21/07/2026 13:15

LuckyHazelFox · 21/07/2026 13:12

Oh you had one.

I can explain it if you're struggling?

endofthecorridoor · 21/07/2026 13:13

@illbeyourperfectmrs radio 4 this morning said the money for ID cards was being funded by cuts in spending from other departments so he is correct it’s all just smoke and mirrors on order to immediately “do a thing” 45 quid savings hardly pays for a takeaway

LuckyHazelFox · 21/07/2026 13:12

glitterpaperchain · 21/07/2026 13:01

You're so close to the point

Oh you had one.

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 13:10

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/07/2026 13:07

“Murder, rape, stealing.. all of these things have existed for as long as humans have exited. Does that mean we have to tolerate these things as a society?”

Ultimately we do tolerate them, yes. We punish people after they’ve committed those crimes. We put lots of work into preventing them but they do not entirely stop any of them.

I would argue that none of those things are tolerated in our society. Most come with quite serious punishment and penalties. In the recent past you could be executed for murder. The fact that murders etc still happen doesn't mean we tolerate them.

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Besafeeatcake · 21/07/2026 13:08

CurlewKate · 21/07/2026 07:58

I suppose it depends what sort of a society we want to live in.

But here is the rub. I'm from Canada which most feel is more socialist (just ask Americans). We have universal heathcare and we certainly pay more in taxes BUT things work. We absolutely help people in tough times and to get back on their feet but it isn't indefinite. And the ongoing credits we give are to get them through - not so they can afford holidays etc.

People are happier in Canada (various studies to prove) cause even if we pay more new hospitals are being built, schools aren't crumbling, houses are being built etc.

It strikes me that in the UK people are tired of working hard, paying a lot of tax, not having things work and spending a lot on people who feel they don't have to work or contribute.

Is there social housing in Canada - sure. But it isn't your house. You are given a place to live. You can't buy it below market value and then sell it and make money.

The balance isn't right here and people are tired of that. The continual squeeze of the middle is what really annoys most. Because that always seems to be the answer - squeeze the middle more. Then the argument is 'it isn't a race to the bottom'. No it isn't but there has to be some fairness in working hard and paying for all of those who choose not to.

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/07/2026 13:07

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 13:05

Lots of things are arguably part of the human condition. Murder, rape, stealing.. all of these things have existed for as long as humans have existed. Does that mean we have to tolerate these things as a society?

I know you will suggest that the analogies I make are ridiculous but my point is that something being part of the human condition doesn't mean that we have to support or accept it. It also doesn't mean you have to starve it out of people. There are other ways but the mechanisms do often have to be quite sophisticated. There are ways for example that you can directly help children in poverty without giving more money to the parents. You tackle key areas of inequality without enriching the parents' lives. Obviously this is controversial but it is possible. Nobody starves but equally feckless parents don't profit from their feckless decisions of having more and more children they can't afford knowing that their benefits will increase.

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“Murder, rape, stealing.. all of these things have existed for as long as humans have exited. Does that mean we have to tolerate these things as a society?”

Ultimately we do tolerate them, yes. We punish people after they’ve committed those crimes. We put lots of work into preventing them but they do not entirely stop any of them.

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 13:05

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/07/2026 12:52

this is it- the utopia that no one is society lives in a way you disapprove of (disapproval entirely based on whether public funds are involved) is completely unrealistic. You can’t starve out the people whose lives you don’t like. They are part of the human condition.

Lots of things are arguably part of the human condition. Murder, rape, stealing.. all of these things have existed for as long as humans have existed. Does that mean we have to tolerate these things as a society?

I know you will suggest that the analogies I make are ridiculous but my point is that something being part of the human condition doesn't mean that we have to support or accept it. It also doesn't mean you have to starve it out of people. There are other ways but the mechanisms do often have to be quite sophisticated. There are ways for example that you can directly help children in poverty without giving more money to the parents. You tackle key areas of inequality without enriching the parents' lives. Obviously this is controversial but it is possible. Nobody starves but equally feckless parents don't profit from their feckless decisions of having more and more children they can't afford knowing that their benefits will increase.

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VanessaFence · 21/07/2026 13:03

@Newbutoldfather

"And, as you say, you pay corporation tax. I am not an account, but that is 19% for the first 50,000 and 25% after that, way lower than higher rate personal tax."

You realise that I pay the corporation tax for the money that's in the business and then I pay tax on it when I take it out of the business right? So I pay 19-25% CT on profits and then if I take out profits in dividends then I pay tax on that through my self-assessment tax return. Plus tax on whatever I've paid myself via PAYE.

Yes you can decide when and how to take money out of the business in order to be the most tax efficient but the flip side is you have almost no financial security and have to deal with very lumpy income. Plus no sick pay, no holiday pay and no company pension contributions.

glitterpaperchain · 21/07/2026 13:01

LuckyHazelFox · 21/07/2026 13:00

Your maths isn't too clever.

You're so close to the point

LuckyHazelFox · 21/07/2026 13:00

glitterpaperchain · 21/07/2026 12:50

I know this one woman who's got 18 kids from 25 different dads, she's got 11 boyfriends all of them millionaires, and she gets £500,000 a year in benefits. What is this country coming to eh

Your maths isn't too clever.

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/07/2026 12:52

Passaggressfedup · 21/07/2026 12:24

The trouble is, if people's tax pays to bail out people that have made bad choices, where is the incentive for the next generation not to do it?
There isn't, but the alternative is to let innocent bodies, their children, take the hit without giving them the chance to make better choices because poor choices is all they know.

Any party know that the answer is somewhere in between, but no party has found the most efficient middle. Maybe because there isn't really one.

this is it- the utopia that no one is society lives in a way you disapprove of (disapproval entirely based on whether public funds are involved) is completely unrealistic. You can’t starve out the people whose lives you don’t like. They are part of the human condition.

glitterpaperchain · 21/07/2026 12:50

I know this one woman who's got 18 kids from 25 different dads, she's got 11 boyfriends all of them millionaires, and she gets £500,000 a year in benefits. What is this country coming to eh

Corianda · 21/07/2026 12:46

CurlewKate · 21/07/2026 07:58

I suppose it depends what sort of a society we want to live in.

One where everyone pulls their weight or one where skivers get their benefits for doing nothing and a handful of professionals work long hours to pay for it

Shakeoffyourchains · 21/07/2026 12:44

angelos02 · 21/07/2026 10:45

There seems to be this continuation of the left-wing belief that someone on £100k should be taxed loads while someone with lots of kids that doesn't work, shouldn't have vastly different lifestyles. Of course they should.

Nope, that's a trope peddled out by the right wing in an attempt to protect those the left actually want to tax.