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Half marathon with no training

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sunallsummer · 19/07/2026 00:42

Probably a stupid question sorry but I’m not a runner so have no idea!

DH impulsively signed up to do a half marathon in 2 weeks and has done zero training for it. He’s slim and has normal fitness I would say but definitely not a runner and previously did a 5km and completed it but struggled

I know it’s his choice and he’s an adult to it’s up to him, but I’m just a bit worried about the idea of him running 21km with little to no training. I’m just not sure if I’m just being overly anxious but it seems so far to my non runner brain! Having said that, I know people do 10km without any real training and it’s fine, has anyone ever done a half marathon without any training and did it go ok?!

My concern is when he puts his mind to something he can be very stubborn and competitive so I think when the run starts he’ll actually go much faster than he should and it’s not like he’ll accept he’s not trained and take it at a slower pace. His plan was to drink a few coffee and get some pre workout for it and frankly I’m worried he ends up unwell after it

If anyone who knows anything about running can put my mind at rest and reassure me that I’m being silly and dramatic and he’ll be fine (other than a normal amount of tiredness afterwards) I’d really appreciate it!

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VikingLady · 19/07/2026 18:49

Up, not yo!

jdb9803 · 19/07/2026 18:41

Jackiepumpkinhead · 19/07/2026 10:04

He’s not going to die! He’s an arrogant fool who will deserve his blisters.

You do know people have actually died running half marathons
It seems to me someone arrogant enough to think he doesn't need to train is also unlikely to pace themselves or take on enough water and in the current climate is going to be dehydrated and struggle to stay upright
Let's hope he doesn't die - but I wouldn't be so flippant

TrixieMixie · 19/07/2026 18:40

Half marathon and marathon runner here. My personal trainer did a half with no running training but was in his twenties and very fit. My guess is it’ll probably not kill him
but it’ll teach him a lesson. A half is much more than twice as hard as a 10k. What he could do is train for a half properly, then he might actually enjoy it!

Whyamiherenow · 19/07/2026 18:36

I’m a mid 40s woman of average fitness. I run a 5km in a similar time to your husband. I’ve done silly impulsive things like this in the past. The issue isn’t running the race without training, it is the following week / days of agony 🤣 make sure he gets up and about the next day so he doesnt get too much pain to walk. Hubby and I did a 40 mile quite slowly but it’s doable.

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 19/07/2026 17:40

I really agree with @EarringsandLipstick and a couple of other experienced runners here.

I did a half on a whim when I was around 30. I had previously been fit but allowed myself to get out of shape and put on weight. I had 2 months to prepare and finished in just under 2h but it was hard.

I am now 46 and hadn't run since having my 8yo twins, although I am very "gym fit". I started again last year, just running recreationally, and last weekend completed my goal of doing 21km at a continuous run in under 2h 30m. It was an unexpectedly hot day and the last 1.5km were fucking brutal, being honest.

I think the big variables are

What age is he? Can't see it anywhere but big difference between 25 and 45

How hot is it meant to be where you are? I planned my 21km because the heatwave was meant to be over - but then the temp stayed up and it was a 30° day. I beat that by getting up early but obvs you can't do that for a race

Is he likely to be sensible about fuelling? I cannot do coffee before running and some gels agree with me and some really don't. He should experiment with a couple beforehand.

Is he likely to listen to his body if he starts feeling poorly? I had coffee with a colleague last week who is an experienced runner but had a heart attack. These things can just happen. My colleague is extremely sensible and sought help/ went to first aid as soon as he started feeling bad, which probably saved his life (he collapsed right next to an intensive care nurse who was volunteering there).

Does he have existing sports kit he trains in? I bought a pair of new shoes for Xmas and the size had been missold to me - I did a 10k in them, fine, then a 16k - not fine at all. If he is getting new shoes or is not used to spending time in his existing trainers, that is a risk.

And warning, if he does get a blister (likely) do NOT put Compeed or similar on an open / ripped blister. They are for blisters which haven't torn only. I did it once when I was running a lot in my 20s and it was ... bad.

Lins77 · 19/07/2026 17:29

LavenderSweetPea · 19/07/2026 17:09

I'm only posting here to save the thread because I'm desperate to know what time he gets at the end of the day. I'm sure he'll finish it but I'm guessing it'll be closer to 3hours than 2hours. Fwiw good luck to him, I can easily run 5k in under half an hour but I don't think I'd be able to complete a half marathon, it seems so far 😅

You definitely would be able to if you trained properly for it, unlike OP's DH 😄

I feel that a lot of people sign up for events on (often drunken) impulse, can't be bothered to do the training, and assume they'll be fine. Respect the distance! 🏃🏽‍♀️

LavenderSweetPea · 19/07/2026 17:09

I'm only posting here to save the thread because I'm desperate to know what time he gets at the end of the day. I'm sure he'll finish it but I'm guessing it'll be closer to 3hours than 2hours. Fwiw good luck to him, I can easily run 5k in under half an hour but I don't think I'd be able to complete a half marathon, it seems so far 😅

Heysham1 · 19/07/2026 17:07

He’ll get to the finish line probably, but he might hate it. Definitely no coffee!!

Youspurnme · 19/07/2026 17:06

The lime one is slightly less disgusting than the orange 😂 @EarringsandLipstick

MerryUmberHedgehog · 19/07/2026 17:01

My DD has signed up for Manchester and London next year. Now thats something to worry about

YourElatedLemonHelper · 19/07/2026 16:48

As someone who trained very hard to achieve a sub-2 hour half marathon, I think he’s crazy and he won’t manage it in under two hours. The distance is probably doable if he takes it slowly and he‘ll be in pain during and for some days afterwards. You are right to be concerned.

Leavesandthings · 19/07/2026 16:43

Also tell him to stay hydrated, not push himself too hard, and not to experiment or overdo caffeine/untested energy products etc in case he gets caught short.

Sartre · 19/07/2026 16:42

Savoretti · 19/07/2026 08:18

How old is he?
My brothers used to run marathons in their 20s and 30s. They played a bit of squash and football sometimes so fit ish but not runners. They managed just fine. Young bodies, strong impulsive heads. He will be fine if he is determined 💪

Yes because all young people are naturally fit and able to run 21k. This guy can barely run 5… I know plenty of young people who struggle to walk upstairs without getting out of breath. Youth doesn’t automatically make you able to run long distances, training does.

Leavesandthings · 19/07/2026 16:39

I've done a half with no specific training but being a regular jogger/runner and knew I had comfortably run 9/10miles before.

As long as he can walk he'll be able to get round.

I would be concerned about giving himself tendonitis though. That can be a real drag for months to get over.

NotMyRealAccount · 19/07/2026 16:36

sunallsummer · 19/07/2026 09:37

According to Google - rhabdomyalisis!

Rhabdomyolysis is indeed nasty, dropping dead due to a previously unknown heart abnormality is probably worse, and both are statistically possible but unlikely and can happen irrespective of training.

EveningSpread · 19/07/2026 16:22

When I was 30 I started running again after an injury. It took me 30 mins to run 5k the first week, and I found it hard.

After 6+ months of training several times a week I could run a half marathon in 2 hours 15 mins.

Your husband is delusional about running and sounds ignorant about how to fuel his body!

BogRollBOGOF · 19/07/2026 16:11

MyThreeWords · 19/07/2026 15:09

I initially misunderstood this as meaning "Is it the first half of a marathon or the second half?" I understand the second half is much harderGrin so I'd always opt for the first.Wink

On no training it will definitely feel like the second half of a marathon Grin

EarringsandLipstick · 19/07/2026 16:10

Ah thanks @Youspurnme & @WhosGotTheKeysToMyBimma I haven’t used / seen these (even tho SIS are my preferred gels)

WhosGotTheKeysToMyBimma · 19/07/2026 15:56

EarringsandLipstick · 19/07/2026 15:12

are you sure you mean electrolytes? And not energy gels? Entirely different.

The gels are a source of carbohydrates (energy) during a long race; electrolytes are usually taken after, to replenish sodium and other minerals lost when racing.

There's energy gels with electrolytes. I assumed that's what was meant.

I used some yesterday on a really hot, really hilly 50k

ClaredeBear · 19/07/2026 15:24

You’ve said he has general good fitness but you’ve not mentioned what kind of training he actually does do (if not for running), because that will help. In any case, he’ll be fine. If he's not going to get his sub 2 he’ll realise and slow down and he’ll be with loads of other people doing a similar pace.

yeah, the coffee thing won’t help but it probably won’t hurt either.

EarringsandLipstick · 19/07/2026 15:12

Youspurnme · 19/07/2026 13:22

Actually I’d forgotten this but I ran a half marathon last October and a man did actually collapse and die towards the end (I ran past him as he was being stretchered off). He was obviously in good shape as he was ahead of me and i finished sub 2h. I mean I know this is unlikely to happen to your DH and it will probably just be a funny story but a half marathon is no joke.
If he’s going to use electrolyte gels he needs to start practicing now. I used SIS and I kept them in the freezer. That way they’re defrosted but not hot by the time you need them.

are you sure you mean electrolytes? And not energy gels? Entirely different.

The gels are a source of carbohydrates (energy) during a long race; electrolytes are usually taken after, to replenish sodium and other minerals lost when racing.

MyThreeWords · 19/07/2026 15:09

BringBackCatsEyes · 19/07/2026 09:46

Well OP needs to tell us WHICH half it is so we can come and watch check out the loo situ!

I initially misunderstood this as meaning "Is it the first half of a marathon or the second half?" I understand the second half is much harderGrin so I'd always opt for the first.Wink

Chickadiddy · 19/07/2026 15:00

30 minutes time for a 5km ..and thinks he will go FASTER in a half marathon 😅😅😅😅

mummabubs · 19/07/2026 14:47

sunallsummer · 19/07/2026 00:48

I think he said it’s to make him go faster?! He wants to get less than 2 hours! He’s ambitious haha I’ll give him that

Ambitious is one word for it 🤣 My friend who is considered a fast runner and does marathons, ultras and 100 mile running events only just got a sub 2 hour half marathon.

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