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Husband lying on bed in sweaty clothes

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robothoover40 · 18/07/2026 13:57

Im wondering if I’m BU here as I’ve been told by my husband I am. He runs. When he runs often long runs he comes home and sits on our fabric chairs in the kitchen or goes up and lies on our bed. This morning I changed the bed put new sheets on and he come home lies on the bed whilst waiting for the water to heat up. Apparently I’m been precious.

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bananaapplepears · 18/07/2026 14:03

I find it disgusting. I run but sit on a towel on my sofa while I wait to cool down enough for a shower.

PissedOffNeighbour22 · 18/07/2026 14:03

Definitely not unreasonable to tell him to get his sweaty body off the fabrics. Unless he’s steam cleaning everything regularly? (I’m sure I can guess the answer to that).

BendyDickCumbInMySnatch · 18/07/2026 14:01

Bloody hell op do you change before you sit down in your own house!

VestibuleWeaver · 18/07/2026 14:01

If my DH, or anyone else, told me I couldn’t sit on my own chair or lie on my own bed, there would be hell to pay.

feistyoneyouare · 18/07/2026 14:00

YABU. Homes are to be lived in. You can't disinfect the whole world, however much you might want to.