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Confused how neighbour not impacted by hosepipe ban and I am...

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Confused876196 · 18/07/2026 13:26

Hose pipe ban - neighbour doesn't seem impacted...confused?!

OP posts:
allthingsinmoderation · 18/07/2026 20:35

InfoSecInTheCity · 18/07/2026 19:44

The mum filling buckets is being an idiot, ‘hosepipe ban’ is a short way of saying ‘a ban on using water for unnecessary things you can live without’. If she’s going to fill the paddling pool anyway then she may as well just use the hose, it’s using the exact same amount of water in the exact same frivolous manner.

Absolutely no one, regardless of medical condition NEEDS a paddling pool, it may make things more pleasant but it’s not necessary.

Water companies are a bunch of money grabbing, immoral bastards who have prioritises profit over maintaining infrastructure and serving their customers. We all know this and can hate it and moan about it, but the fact is that even if they throw a shit tonne of money at it they won’t be able to make a significant improvement quickly enough to conserve water this year.

if people keep pouring water heedlessly into garden swimming pools, or keeping their grass the right shade of green, or making sure their car is just the right amount of shiny then some areas of the country will end up with water rationing or all out water shortages where you’ll have to go collect your bottle from the lorry at the end of the road once a day.

So yeah, some people are exempt from the hosepipe ban due to legitimate needs, but they should only be using that to meet legitimate needs, not to ensure they can have a splash about in the garden whenever they fancy.

The neighbour with he autistic child has sensory difficulties relating to heat and has melt downs that are hard to mange ,his drs recommend emersion in cool water to help regulate his mood. I dont see the difference in doing this cool emersion in the bath or outside in a kids paddling pool tbh. My neighbour feels this this constitutes a legitimate need
I agree regardling the water companies .
My other neighbour says her children are also uncomfortable ,one has excema and benefit from cooling down in water too,the rules dont say you cant fill a bath or paddling pool,just that you cant use a hosepipe to do so. I can see their points,
I on the other hand wont be filling a paddling or swimming pool, washing my car or watering my grass as i dont think it essential currently for me personally.

ThreadGuardDog · 18/07/2026 20:20

ToffeeCrabApple · 18/07/2026 20:01

The point is you are supposed to water less/only use what you really must!

However i can imagine some disabled people might use a lazy spa or similar for hydrotherapy.

Which is the whole point. There is no ban on watering gardens or plants, just on the method used. So the ban is lifted for disabled people because they may not be able to carry the alternatives of a watering can or bucket - a hosepipe is just easier.

Swiftie1878 · 18/07/2026 20:18

Negroany · 18/07/2026 17:58

You started with the semantics!

Saying the government don’t build houses isn’t semantics!

ToffeeCrabApple · 18/07/2026 20:01

fost · 18/07/2026 13:32

You can't see how someone might be able to hold a hose but not lift a heavy watering can repeatedly? really?

The point is you are supposed to water less/only use what you really must!

However i can imagine some disabled people might use a lazy spa or similar for hydrotherapy.

SleeplessInWherever · 18/07/2026 19:58

YoQuieroVino · 18/07/2026 19:51

I’m not sure if my son ‘considers himself’ disabled, his intellectual disability means he doesn’t have that level of understanding. He sadly is disabled though, and woo hoo! that earns us an exemption. Definitely worth the disability, the pain, the despair, the fact that he’ll never live independently etc, as long as we get to use our hosepipe.

Yep. Mine absolutely doesn’t consider himself disabled.

He has very few phrases available to him, but one of them is “I KNOWWWW!” (He doesn’t know. Hardly ever does he know).

Thechaseison71 · 18/07/2026 19:54

istherereallytimeforallthat · 18/07/2026 19:37

Do you think it is okay to pressure wash things then, when your area has a hosepipe ban? I've just checked a couple of other areas apart from my own, and they all have the same restrictions on pressure washers.

you haven't checked Essex and Suffolk water then

YoQuieroVino · 18/07/2026 19:51

CollieH9g · 18/07/2026 19:17

I think around a quarter of the population consider themselves to be disabled? So a hosepipe ban is pretty pointless as most households will have someone who qualifies to use a hose.

I’m not sure if my son ‘considers himself’ disabled, his intellectual disability means he doesn’t have that level of understanding. He sadly is disabled though, and woo hoo! that earns us an exemption. Definitely worth the disability, the pain, the despair, the fact that he’ll never live independently etc, as long as we get to use our hosepipe.

YoQuieroVino · 18/07/2026 19:49

CollieH9g · 18/07/2026 19:17

I think around a quarter of the population consider themselves to be disabled? So a hosepipe ban is pretty pointless as most households will have someone who qualifies to use a hose.

It’s pointless because 5x as much water as they’ll save with a hosepipe ban is lost every day in leaks.

InfoSecInTheCity · 18/07/2026 19:44

allthingsinmoderation · 18/07/2026 15:21

They are either ignoring the hosepipe ban or have an exemption.
My neighbours husband and wife with one child with autism (he has a lot of sensory issues in the heat)they have been told her family are exempt from the hosepipe ban and the husband is filling the paddling pool with the hose at the moment and watering the plants with a beer in hand. My other neighbour is a single parent with 3 children and she isn't exempt, she does feel a type of way about it. Her 3 hot and bothered kids are asking why their neighbour can fill the paddling pool with the hose but they cant. The mum is carrying small buckets out to pool .
I can understand the distress people may feel if they think it unfair,but i can understand why it feels unfair that one persons discomfort makes them exempt where another persons doesn't.

The mum filling buckets is being an idiot, ‘hosepipe ban’ is a short way of saying ‘a ban on using water for unnecessary things you can live without’. If she’s going to fill the paddling pool anyway then she may as well just use the hose, it’s using the exact same amount of water in the exact same frivolous manner.

Absolutely no one, regardless of medical condition NEEDS a paddling pool, it may make things more pleasant but it’s not necessary.

Water companies are a bunch of money grabbing, immoral bastards who have prioritises profit over maintaining infrastructure and serving their customers. We all know this and can hate it and moan about it, but the fact is that even if they throw a shit tonne of money at it they won’t be able to make a significant improvement quickly enough to conserve water this year.

if people keep pouring water heedlessly into garden swimming pools, or keeping their grass the right shade of green, or making sure their car is just the right amount of shiny then some areas of the country will end up with water rationing or all out water shortages where you’ll have to go collect your bottle from the lorry at the end of the road once a day.

So yeah, some people are exempt from the hosepipe ban due to legitimate needs, but they should only be using that to meet legitimate needs, not to ensure they can have a splash about in the garden whenever they fancy.

istherereallytimeforallthat · 18/07/2026 19:37

SeriouslyAreYouSure · 18/07/2026 19:24

You can only speak for your own Water area the rules are not the same countrywide.

Do you think it is okay to pressure wash things then, when your area has a hosepipe ban? I've just checked a couple of other areas apart from my own, and they all have the same restrictions on pressure washers.

SeriouslyAreYouSure · 18/07/2026 19:30

ilovesooty · 18/07/2026 14:07

Perhaps you can magic up a disability. 🙄

She doesn't need to magic up one, if she wants my disability, she's more than welcome to it and I will water my garden with a thimble!

(I don't actually have a garden a hose pipe or a thimble, but I do have a disability)

SeriouslyAreYouSure · 18/07/2026 19:24

istherereallytimeforallthat · 18/07/2026 13:47

To clean what? Whether they are disabled or not is irrelevant. Nobody is supposed to be using a pressure washer to clean anything unless it is for animal welfare purposes such as cleaning out stables or other animal enclosures etc.

You can only speak for your own Water area the rules are not the same countrywide.

SeriouslyAreYouSure · 18/07/2026 19:21

ailsamaryc · 18/07/2026 13:43

Because it is much harder to carry cans around to water the garden. Most disabled people would be delighted to give away their disability rather than need assistance

Definitely. I don't actually use a hose pipe., and I haven't checked out whether my Water company gives you an exemption if you have a blue badge. But any idiot that wants to try for an exemption on the basis of being disabled as welcome to my disability to give it a go.

I'd bloody swap it for watering the garden with a thimble.

SeriouslyAreYouSure · 18/07/2026 19:19

TurquoiseDress · 18/07/2026 13:40

How do you get an exemption from the hosepipe ban?

Asking for a friend 👀

Become significantly disabled. Apparently. Feel free to have my disability if you want to try to get an exemption.

FFS

CollieH9g · 18/07/2026 19:17

I think around a quarter of the population consider themselves to be disabled? So a hosepipe ban is pretty pointless as most households will have someone who qualifies to use a hose.

SeriouslyAreYouSure · 18/07/2026 19:11

Mydogisagentleman · 18/07/2026 13:30

My parents are allowed because mum has a blue badge

I have a BB.

I didn't know it offered any exemption re hosepipe bans.

id need to check with my water company, but I don't use a hosepipe anyway.

frenchnoodle · 18/07/2026 19:00

Ladyfromthehill · 18/07/2026 18:42

Labour responsible for water shortage because they try to build affordable housing, Suella is that you?

Labour are responsible for everything. Haven't you noticed?

Mydogisagentleman · 18/07/2026 18:48

PeopleWatching17 · 18/07/2026 14:40

Genuine question (I have a blue badge too) Why would that make a difference in a hosepipe ban?

Because people who have a blue badge generally have health issues that could be exacerbated or made worse by carrying heavy watering cans etc

Ladyfromthehill · 18/07/2026 18:42

frenchnoodle · 18/07/2026 13:35

There is a lack of water, and it's absolutely not helped by labour building more and more houses, for more and more people.

Labour responsible for water shortage because they try to build affordable housing, Suella is that you?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/07/2026 18:39

JohnBullshit · 18/07/2026 18:02

I'm on a priority list, though not currently in an area with a hosepipe ban. I don't even have a hosepipe, so my chances of annoying the neighbours with my theoretical exemption are pretty low. DH does everything that involves outside cleaning and watering. But if he wasn't here, there's absolutely no way I could fill and carry a watering can of any useful size, or do the amount of walking that would be necessary to make multiple returns to the kitchen tap with something small enough to manage. Seeing all this disability-envy fuelled rage and fake confusion about people who get something that looks unfair because waaah, why should I keep the rules when 'they' don't have to, really, really pisses me off.

Don't think they'd fancy the permanent damage done to the ligaments, tendons and cartilage around my right hip from slipping when carrying a bucket of water prior to exemption, either. Looking back, I should have just used the hose because my neighbours aren't pricks in the first place and it would have saved the NHS a shitload of money in treating the damage and subsequent three year rehabilitation period.

YoQuieroVino · 18/07/2026 18:12

JohnBullshit · 18/07/2026 18:02

I'm on a priority list, though not currently in an area with a hosepipe ban. I don't even have a hosepipe, so my chances of annoying the neighbours with my theoretical exemption are pretty low. DH does everything that involves outside cleaning and watering. But if he wasn't here, there's absolutely no way I could fill and carry a watering can of any useful size, or do the amount of walking that would be necessary to make multiple returns to the kitchen tap with something small enough to manage. Seeing all this disability-envy fuelled rage and fake confusion about people who get something that looks unfair because waaah, why should I keep the rules when 'they' don't have to, really, really pisses me off.

I said above that I didn’t know people were so hothead about hosepipes until I joined MN.
Another thing I didn’t know until I joined MN was how envious some people are of disabled people!
Pretty sure my son would happily give up his hosepipe ban exemption if it meant he could live an independent life.

JohnBullshit · 18/07/2026 18:02

I'm on a priority list, though not currently in an area with a hosepipe ban. I don't even have a hosepipe, so my chances of annoying the neighbours with my theoretical exemption are pretty low. DH does everything that involves outside cleaning and watering. But if he wasn't here, there's absolutely no way I could fill and carry a watering can of any useful size, or do the amount of walking that would be necessary to make multiple returns to the kitchen tap with something small enough to manage. Seeing all this disability-envy fuelled rage and fake confusion about people who get something that looks unfair because waaah, why should I keep the rules when 'they' don't have to, really, really pisses me off.

ThisSereneGoose · 18/07/2026 18:01

WeekendFreedom · 18/07/2026 17:32

Why are you quoting (incorrectly I might add) foreigners? I didn’t use that word.
I also didn’t say I hate anyone

Edited

my mistake sorry

If the country stopped accepting everyone that crosses the border we’d have houses to home our own citizens
I thought you meant foreigners, I didn't realise you meant.. actually WHO did you mean then?

YoQuieroVino · 18/07/2026 17:58

ThreadGuardDog · 18/07/2026 17:24

Pretty unfathomable to me too to be honest. I can understand those on disability/sickness benefits being exempt, or those with blue badges, but generally someone on benefits because they’re not working would be perfectly able to carry a bucket or a watering can for their needs. Why would they be exempt form a hosepipe ban ? Some areas only exempt those on the Watersure scheme, which to my mind is unfair because it only applies to those on means tested benefits, so wouldn’t cover all needs.

Unless they go round everyone’s house individually assessing need for a hosepipe then it has to be a ‘blanket’ exemption, based on certain (known) criteria.

Negroany · 18/07/2026 17:58

Swiftie1878 · 18/07/2026 17:25

In planning terms, house builders ARE developers.
Semantics.

You started with the semantics!