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Bring back the death penalty in this case

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ThisWiseRobin · 17/07/2026 11:04

AIBU to wish for the death penalty. How a mother can kill her baby with a hairdryer.
I read this to my husband who asked me to stop and was crying.
I'm Christian and am taught that all but one sin is forgivable.
BUT Our Lord also said that to harm one little one , you are better to have a millstone tied around your neck and be thrown into the sea.
While some interpretations claim it means misleading them, I think it's much more than this.
Today I feel bereft of love for the human race.
Of course this monster will claim Domestic violence, drugs , mental health etc.
I hope, as there is no death penalty, that she spends the rest of her life begging to die.
Sorry right now, all I can say is "Father forgive them. For they know not what they do".....because right now I Can't.

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CelticSilver · 17/07/2026 21:02

RVectensian · 17/07/2026 20:57

Is this not the case where the baby was left out in the cold while the parent drank/took drugs/whatever and was frozen, so mother misguidedly tried to warm her with a hairdryer? Maybe I'm thinking of something else.

That's what I read too.

Arlanymor · 17/07/2026 20:59

Perplexed20 · 17/07/2026 18:14

I agree with the comedian Mark Thomas.

Have a referendum on it. If you vote yes and it goes through your name is put on a register. Every time there's a miscarriage of justice, everyone whose name is on the register, is put in a lottery. The winner is then picked up by the state and executed. Eye for an eye etc..

I had totally forgotten about Mark Thomas - I remember him from Mary Whitehouse - he was so incisive!

RVectensian · 17/07/2026 20:57

Is this not the case where the baby was left out in the cold while the parent drank/took drugs/whatever and was frozen, so mother misguidedly tried to warm her with a hairdryer? Maybe I'm thinking of something else.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 17/07/2026 20:55

luckycookie · 17/07/2026 19:29

Psalm 137 is about what the Babylonians did. It’s not a commandment, silly. Try reading the book.

You really don't understand that psalm at all.

luckycookie · 17/07/2026 19:29

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 17/07/2026 11:24

BUT Our Lord also said that to harm one little one , you are better to have a millstone tied around your neck and be thrown into the sea.

Yet in psalm 137
Happy is the one who seizes your infants and dashes them against the rocks.

I don't believe in the death sentence under any circumstances - whether mandated in the Bible or not.

Edited

Psalm 137 is about what the Babylonians did. It’s not a commandment, silly. Try reading the book.

Snufkin88 · 17/07/2026 18:51

From what has come out about this story so far I really don’t understand what happened . It’s absolutely horrendous and disgusting and I feel so sorry for that poor little baby . But I don’t know enough about it to comment if the death penalty would be warranted. I find it weird that someone who claims to be Christian would be advocating for the death penalty . I’m not a Christian but thought it was all about forgiveness and stuff like that. Excuse my ignorance if this isn’t true

Notellinganyone · 17/07/2026 18:51

YourOliveBalonz · 17/07/2026 11:09

I don’t agree with the death penalty under any circumstances, I don’t believe the state should have the power to murder its citizens. It’s easy to be morally consistent too, as individuals all have their opinions on who deserves it and who doesn’t. If you fundamentally disagree that the state should not have that power then there’s nothing to grapple with.

As a human being we can all feel like we would happily have some horrible individuals killed - wouldn’t you want to do that to anyone who even harmed your own children somehow - but I think law and justice should be above that, protecting everyone from our more primal instincts.

I’m not sure you are as Christian as you would like to believe by the way.

Absolutely this.

user1471453601 · 17/07/2026 18:50

The opening poster calls themselves a christian yet chooses to ignore both a commandment (that you shouldn't kill) and scriptures. Romans 12:19 ".... Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord".

As a life long atheist (but brought up in a country that is nominally Christian) the hypocrisy is breathtaking, but not unexpected.

ZoeCM · 17/07/2026 18:36

The problem is, there is often a total inability to recognise this fact, so the presumption is that people committing heinous acts are invariably "monsters", or "evil", and that's nothing more than a convenient distraction from the fact that they are human, and human beings sometimes do terrible things under certain circumstances. There is no such thing as evil, just unwell, aberrant, and atypical human beings.

I don't think this is true. The "certain circumstances" for Ian Huntley, for example, were probably just that he was sexually attracted to the ten-year-old girls who walked past his house, so he lured them in, assaulted them, and then killed them so they couldn't go to the police. Sounds pretty evil to me.

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 17/07/2026 18:32

The death penalty isn't going to be reinstated and for many a good reason.
A pp mentioned Comedian Mark Thomas take on the death penalty vv funny and apt.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 17/07/2026 18:28

NeverLookInTheMirror · 17/07/2026 18:26

I don’t think these threads are remotely about the death penalty.

I think there are some sick fucks on mn who positively relish the idea of being able to write in graphic details about the harm that is done to tiny children.

Every time there is a child murder or serious abuse case the threads appear, with people writing about the horrific things that are done to said child, and then to other children who have been killed recently etc etc.

I read the first page of the thread and there were several references to child killings with details of what was done to them.

Do some of the people here get some kind of kick out of being able to relive that kind of harm done to small children? Because that’s what it looks like.

WRT the death penalty, two wrongs don’t make a right. That is all.

With regards to the rest, enough!!!!! people don’t need to read about it, and nobody should be wanting to write out the details of horrendous child killings on a public platform.

So maybe ask yourselves why some people are so intent on doing so.

because in my analysis it proves how inhumane some humans are to other humans sometimes the only suitable punishment is the death penalty, thats why they do it

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 17/07/2026 18:27

Allseeingallknowing · 17/07/2026 14:55

Every case is equally horrific

Preston was deliberately abused, and for sexual purposes. A quick read on this case suggests it wasn't deliberate abuse, so the outcome is the same, but intent is not.

NeverLookInTheMirror · 17/07/2026 18:26

I don’t think these threads are remotely about the death penalty.

I think there are some sick fucks on mn who positively relish the idea of being able to write in graphic details about the harm that is done to tiny children.

Every time there is a child murder or serious abuse case the threads appear, with people writing about the horrific things that are done to said child, and then to other children who have been killed recently etc etc.

I read the first page of the thread and there were several references to child killings with details of what was done to them.

Do some of the people here get some kind of kick out of being able to relive that kind of harm done to small children? Because that’s what it looks like.

WRT the death penalty, two wrongs don’t make a right. That is all.

With regards to the rest, enough!!!!! people don’t need to read about it, and nobody should be wanting to write out the details of horrendous child killings on a public platform.

So maybe ask yourselves why some people are so intent on doing so.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 17/07/2026 18:25

CurdinHenry · 17/07/2026 18:23

That's not really an answer. What's it to you that this woman killed her own child? She's gone to prison for it. The teeth gnashing is really primitive.

my answer was based on you saying Prison is appropriate., but to some people because of the length of the sentences compared with other crimes etc some people think the death penalty is better overall ?

CurdinHenry · 17/07/2026 18:23

PenelopeJoanSterling · 17/07/2026 18:17

because sometimes the sentence does not suit the crime

That's not really an answer. What's it to you that this woman killed her own child? She's gone to prison for it. The teeth gnashing is really primitive.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 17/07/2026 18:17

CurdinHenry · 17/07/2026 18:16

While it's a horrible story I've never understood why cases like this elicit such primitive rage in some people. Prison is appropriate.

because sometimes the sentence does not suit the crime

CurdinHenry · 17/07/2026 18:16

While it's a horrible story I've never understood why cases like this elicit such primitive rage in some people. Prison is appropriate.

Perplexed20 · 17/07/2026 18:14

I agree with the comedian Mark Thomas.

Have a referendum on it. If you vote yes and it goes through your name is put on a register. Every time there's a miscarriage of justice, everyone whose name is on the register, is put in a lottery. The winner is then picked up by the state and executed. Eye for an eye etc..

Arlanymor · 17/07/2026 18:01

The state murders its citizens to prove that murder is wrong? No. Does not compute. I think most people who support capital punishment come purely from a place of vengeance and you really have to look at your moral make up in that case. I honestly thought we’d moved on and were more of an enlightened species these days. If we move more towards state-sanctioned violence then don’t be surprised if the rates of violent crime go up. There will always be criminals, there will always be crime, but the vast majority of us know better than to turn crime into a tit for tat scenario - what next? Back to hangings in public? Some crimes are horrifying - but responding in an equally horrific way will not bring back the person against whom the offence is committed nor will it prohibit future horrific offences.

Jk987 · 17/07/2026 18:00

We don’t need the Christian clap trap. Religion is responsible for a lot of evil crimes. You don’t have to be religious to be sickened by this murder.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 17/07/2026 17:56

DavidStopActingLikeADisgruntledPelican · 17/07/2026 17:53

My issue is using religion as a reason to be in favour of the death penalty. Which is what I said in my post. I’m not in the military so I’m comfortable with my stance on this.

ok my bad, fair points

AgnesMcDoo · 17/07/2026 17:56

sorry no

it’s awful and I understand how you feel but I don’t want the state to start murdering people

the death penalty is always wrong

CandidHedgehog · 17/07/2026 17:55

So a woman who is convicted of killing her child should be executed. I take it you would have been 100% in favour of executing Sally Clark then - after all, she was convicted of killing two of her children.

Of course, the fact it was later proved she was convicted on dodgy evidence and additional forensics suggested natural causes might throw a teeny spanner in the works but I’m sure saying sorry to her family after she was already dead would sort that, right?

Equally, not protecting her in custody and letting the other prisoners finish her off - all good according to some posters?

DavidStopActingLikeADisgruntledPelican · 17/07/2026 17:53

PenelopeJoanSterling · 17/07/2026 17:50

then how do we explain having a military ?

My issue is using religion as a reason to be in favour of the death penalty. Which is what I said in my post. I’m not in the military so I’m comfortable with my stance on this.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 17/07/2026 17:50

DavidStopActingLikeADisgruntledPelican · 17/07/2026 17:48

I am not in favour of the death penalty at all. I’m also not in favour of people who hide behind their religion(s) and use that as a reason to be in favour of it when one of the 10 commandments is thou shalt not kill. I’m not religious but I was brought up going to church every Sunday. Based on what I was taught as a child, murder is wrong for any reason. I take that to mean murder by the state (death penalty).

then how do we explain having a military ?