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School refusing access to exam results

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Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:12

My daughter is just about to finish year 2. A few weeks ago, she started coming home from school saying that they were doing exams. This went on for about two weeks and she told us that for four out of the five days they were doing exams and then having a rest on the fifth day. Obviously, I don’t know if this is true as kids can be unreliable when it comes to time!

I have asked the School for the results of these exams. I’ve been told that they are for internal monitoring only and not to be shared with parents.

I feel a little bit miffed about this. She seemed to spend a considerable time doing them without the School informing us and I don’t really see what the point was if we can’t use the results to help to support her learning at home.

I’ve always had a good relationship with the school and don’t want to upset the apple cart but I do feel that they’re being a little bit unreasonable. Do you agree or is it me?!

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YourWildAmberSloth · 17/07/2026 07:27

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:26

All I’ve got is some wishy washy ‘meets expectations’ / “exceeds expectations “ thing. Nothing I can actually use to help.

they’ve sent home five massive books with every single piece of work she’s done this year across multiple subjects but no marked exam papers. Why the secrecy around it? And why didn’t they tell us they were going to do it? It’s just very odd.

It really isn't (odd, I mean). There is such a wide window, meets expectations isn't wishywashy, it tells you all that you need to know, she is broadly where she should be for her age and if there are concerns they will flag them. Do you have particular concerns as you do sound a little anxious?

Sereine · 17/07/2026 07:26

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:26

All I’ve got is some wishy washy ‘meets expectations’ / “exceeds expectations “ thing. Nothing I can actually use to help.

they’ve sent home five massive books with every single piece of work she’s done this year across multiple subjects but no marked exam papers. Why the secrecy around it? And why didn’t they tell us they were going to do it? It’s just very odd.

Why can't you use that to help? If your child is meeting or exceeding expectations, she doesn't need help anyway. Give her a chance to relax.

ItsNotMeEither · 17/07/2026 07:25

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:56

It was my mum that suggested the school should share the exam papers/results and she taught KS1 🤣

So your mum remembers a time when more emphasis was placed on these tests. They've moved away from that approach on purpose. Your child has still completed them, but to your child, the school has been careful not to make a big deal of the results or the exams at all. That's good!

They may be used to double check end of year results. Is what they are seeing on the exam matching what they are seeing from your child in class each day? If not, why not? Is there something that everyone seems to be getting wrong? Therefore, possible a gap in their teaching that they can address now and at the start of next year? These are questions for the school to reflect on themselves and not something for you, your child or your mother to worry about (and I say this as someone who taught for over 40 years and know to keep my beak out with grandchildren).

Your mum should know this, but the best thing you could do over the holidays is talk to your child, include them in things you are doing, read to them and have them read to you (every day if you can). These will be very different books as you can give them a richness of language that they can't read for themselves yet. Visit museums, zoos or even just the shops, there's plenty to see, do and learn around every corner. Play, indulge in imaginative play and don't forget to let them get bored too. as for maths, cut fruit, vegetable and even garlic bread into halves and quarters. Talk about them, how many halves or quarters are there? If I eat one, how much is left.

There should be no sitting down to revise or do school work each morning, it should just come through opportunities in the world around you during the holidays.

Sartre · 17/07/2026 07:22

They constantly do assessments right throughout school. It’s a Goveism. I can’t imagine asking for the results to be honest, why do you need to know? If the teachers have concerns, they’ll let you know.

pimplebum · 17/07/2026 07:22

You will find out in the next report

also you csn just test your daughter from tests on line etc sndcfind out what she can do or not

or just relax and enjoy the summer if something was seriously wrong you would be told

billandtedsexcellentadventure · 17/07/2026 07:21

The children do assessments every term. To monitor progress. As others have said, to write reports and see where children need help. These assessments get marked and then they are shredded. You really don’t need to know about every single assessment. If you did, you would be informed.

CountryGirlInTheCity · 17/07/2026 07:20

ineedaheronow · 17/07/2026 06:18

Sorry but I do think it’s strange to not tell parents.

I remember when I did Y2 sats, or any sort of assessment, the results were shared with parents. Doing assessments in secret and not telling the parents the results is a strange thing to do.

When you did y2 SATs it was statutory that they were reported. That’s no longer the case and thankfully not even statutory to do the tests.

KS1 tests ought to be so low key that the children barely know they’re being assessed. I’m very surprised that this school called them ‘exams’ and I think that might be what has caused all the concern. They are not equivalent in assessment value to KS2 SATs by a long way as the children are so young.

Doing assessments in secret is a provocative way to describe a bit of unreported learning 😂. It really isn’t strange at all, teachers do it all the time - because the vast majority of assessment isn’t done by a test, it’s done using teacher judgement as you work with and observe a child. Tests are just a snapshot and one more bit of information to add to the myriad of information you’ve gleaned from a range of sources.

Even if the school had reported the marks of the tests there is no way they would have given parents the marked test papers which is what OP is actually wanting. Because then there’s a public discussion on the WhatsApp group about how qu7 wasn’t fairly worded and how little Johnny got all the decimals correct, did anyone else’s child? Etc, etc. Teachers just don’t need the hassle. And if you’re not getting the test papers then the actual test result is fairly useless. You have the teacher’s assessment for the year on the school report (the part she is deeming wishy washy) which takes into consideration the test result but other things too. That’s really all you need.

WhatAMarvelousTune · 17/07/2026 07:18

I don’t know why OP has had quite such a pile on.

I agree she doesn’t need to know. But I don’t think she’s some nightmare parent for asking, she’s just trying to be engaged with her child’s education.

Moonnstarz · 17/07/2026 07:17

TheyGrewUp · 17/07/2026 07:12

Well I'd want complete transparency.

The thing is though, even if she knew the score that doesn't help know which areas are weakest (which is what she apparently wants to know). If she found out the child got 20/25 that is no different than what she already knows (working at greater depth for example).

Looking through the books that have been sent home will be the most useful if she wants to know what was tricky. The child's work should show mistakes and where it has been corrected. She could even just use this to talk to the child in general (like the time for example).

ProudCat · 17/07/2026 07:17

Don't understand. If you've got all the books, then why can't you look through those and come to your own judgement about what you want to do with your DD.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 17/07/2026 07:13

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:26

All I’ve got is some wishy washy ‘meets expectations’ / “exceeds expectations “ thing. Nothing I can actually use to help.

they’ve sent home five massive books with every single piece of work she’s done this year across multiple subjects but no marked exam papers. Why the secrecy around it? And why didn’t they tell us they were going to do it? It’s just very odd.

YANBU. Reports in primary school are useless. They were so much more informative and detailed when DD1 started school in 2010. A few years later after DD2 started it changed to the bland, broad brush nonsense we have now.

Hippee · 17/07/2026 07:13

I found parents at primary school horrendously competitive. If they released test results there would be a flurry of "so proud of my exceptionally talented child" posts on social media. If you want ho know how to best support your child, have a word with the teacher.

TheyGrewUp · 17/07/2026 07:12

Lmnop22 · 16/07/2026 22:19

She’s 7, school tested her aptitude and will share any concerns with you. What more do you want?

Well I'd want complete transparency.

Sassylovesbooks · 17/07/2026 07:09

This is standard in every school. It's end of year assessments. I doubt very much it was for an entire 2 weeks either, it's usually over a few days. Teaching staff use the assessments to write the end of term reports. If you want to know more, then ask the teacher if there's any areas that you can help your daughter in at home. I'm sure they'll be happy to give feedback.

My son's secondary school has end of unit assessments every 6 weeks! These aren't shared with parents. It helps the school see where a student may need more support.

You do need to stop expecting every piece of information to be shared with you, because it simply won't be.

Soontobe60 · 17/07/2026 07:03

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:26

All I’ve got is some wishy washy ‘meets expectations’ / “exceeds expectations “ thing. Nothing I can actually use to help.

they’ve sent home five massive books with every single piece of work she’s done this year across multiple subjects but no marked exam papers. Why the secrecy around it? And why didn’t they tell us they were going to do it? It’s just very odd.

No it’s not - it’s how most schools work! And I bet they didn’t use the word ‘exams’ because that’s not what they are, they’re assessments used to support a teacher’s judgement on how a child is progressing against the Standards of achievement within a particular year group.
If a child’s report states ‘expected’ it means they are working at exactly the Standard they should be for that year group. Nothing at all wish washy about it. I’m surprised that as a parent so invested in your Dcs education you didn’t already know this?

likeafishneedsabike · 17/07/2026 07:00

I thought this thread was going to be about A level results on the 13th August! Not Year 2.

firstofallimadelight · 17/07/2026 06:58

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:26

All I’ve got is some wishy washy ‘meets expectations’ / “exceeds expectations “ thing. Nothing I can actually use to help.

they’ve sent home five massive books with every single piece of work she’s done this year across multiple subjects but no marked exam papers. Why the secrecy around it? And why didn’t they tell us they were going to do it? It’s just very odd.

So did it say something like-
working below expected
working towards expected
working at expected
working at greater depth

Working at expected means she is working at what is expected of a 7 year old child nationally. Towards means she’s almost there but not quite so is slightly behind national average. Greater depth is higher than expected at her age.
in yr 6 sats scores are out of 120. Below 90 is working below. 90-100 is working towards. 100-110 is working at expected and 110+ is greater depth. So if they did yr2 sats testing that’s roughly what she scored.

CloudyWithAChanceOfCustard · 17/07/2026 06:55

They’re tests, to check progress, not exams. You are being so weird OP!

Bushmillsbabe · 17/07/2026 06:44

We did get my year 2 daughters tests sent home, but just as part of a bundle of all her books.

In year 3 you should get (or at least we got) test results every term with a summary of results and areas to work on. Up to year 2 learning is still semi play based, and then there is a big jump into year 3.

supersop60 · 17/07/2026 06:41

Moonnstarz · 17/07/2026 06:10

This is the norm. In my kids school every class does 'exams' (they are end of year assessment papers, not that formal and a normal part of learning so no need for a big announcement - they aren't meant to be seen as an exam, and usually explained to children that they will be doing a paper that shows teachers what they know so they can help them on things they don't so don't worry if there is something they aren't sure about). They never go home, they stay in school and as you can see help write the reports and identify where they are in terms of expected learning. If your child is expected/exceeds expectations you don't have anything to worry about and not sure why you want to spend a summer pushing your child when they already are succeeding.

You also mention all the books have come home so if you look through those you will be able to see any areas of weakness (schools generally mark in one colour and children correct in another colour).

If you did want to push your child over the summer the main things to do are to ensure they enjoy learning - reading books from the library they choose (and maybe you read to them rather than forcing phonics onto them), basic maths around the house - telling them you are going to go out at 10.30, can they tell you when the clock shows this time? If they enjoy writing then keep a diary of things they do over the summer.

This ^^
Reading is probably the most important thing you can do with your child. Not just books at bedtime, but information notices, road signs, recipes ( also good for maths). You can find ‘education’ in any area of life- how things are made, how they work, weather, nature. Encourage curiosity in the world. Music uses both sides of the brain. Etc.
I presume there’ll be a parents evening? That’s when you can ask questions.

NotAnotherScarf · 17/07/2026 06:32

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 23:18

To be completely honest, this is my fear since seeing it happen to a friends son. He was the type of child who just blended in to the crowd and his parents had always got the ‘he’s fine’ response when trying to engage with the school. It only came to light in year 6 how behind he actually was. I don’t think my DD is struggling but she is also the type to blend in to the group.

But wasn't that down to the parents as well. My own parents had little or in my dad's case, no education, but they both kept an eye on what work is was doing, how i was compared to my peers. That was the 1970s and with technology it is so much easier to do that now.

Once they realised I was doing ok they left me to it as education wasn't seen as important in our community/family.

Xanhi · 17/07/2026 06:32

I agree with you OP. I am a teacher and there is no way I would blindly trust the school. However, I also think it is better to support them in different ways outside school with clubs, reading and activities that support their learning in the subjects they are interested in. The curriculum and assessments in school are not the be all and end all.

TeenToTwenties · 17/07/2026 06:19

OP - What you need to do is to ask school 'If we were to do any maths/English over the summer to keep skills up, is there any area in particular we need to focus on?'

If they say Fractions or using Capitals at the start of sentences then you know, otherwise you can see what she has done over the year and just do bits.

A holiday diary is always good for keeping up skills.

ineedaheronow · 17/07/2026 06:18

Sorry but I do think it’s strange to not tell parents.

I remember when I did Y2 sats, or any sort of assessment, the results were shared with parents. Doing assessments in secret and not telling the parents the results is a strange thing to do.

UpDownAllAround1 · 17/07/2026 06:14

OP, Delete the word exam - they are assessments to inform the school report

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