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Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:12

My daughter is just about to finish year 2. A few weeks ago, she started coming home from school saying that they were doing exams. This went on for about two weeks and she told us that for four out of the five days they were doing exams and then having a rest on the fifth day. Obviously, I don’t know if this is true as kids can be unreliable when it comes to time!

I have asked the School for the results of these exams. I’ve been told that they are for internal monitoring only and not to be shared with parents.

I feel a little bit miffed about this. She seemed to spend a considerable time doing them without the School informing us and I don’t really see what the point was if we can’t use the results to help to support her learning at home.

I’ve always had a good relationship with the school and don’t want to upset the apple cart but I do feel that they’re being a little bit unreasonable. Do you agree or is it me?!

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IStillHearTheWaves · 17/07/2026 09:25

Perhaps you should should consider private school? They will be more likely to cater to your specific requests.

Your child is already exceeding expectations in the core areas. IME for the others subject, schools tend not to give work that would be marked at 'greater depth' and therefore can't be awarded such. Even if your child was performing Beethoven symphanies, if it's not covered, it couldn't be awarded.

I think you really need to ask yourself why you are so pushy? Your child is excelling in the main areas. For the others, why not take them to museums related to history topics, galleries to see the artwork of the artisits theyvecovered in real life, watch programmes or visit places covered by geography, take them to different styles of concerts for music?

Shinyandnew1 · 17/07/2026 09:24

I thought this thread was going to be about actual GCSE or A level exams 😂.

If you want to do something at home to identify gaps, buy a y2 CGP workbook and see what she can/can’t do over the summer.

ChocolateApples · 17/07/2026 09:20

They probably don't want them to become a massive thing. Something kids stress over and parents start helping them revise for. They want them to be relatively low key. SATs became a negative thing sometimes because of that. Especially when they are only seven.

Ablondiebutagoody · 17/07/2026 09:17

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:16

I would like to know though and I’m her parent so I think I should get a say too!

If you are that bothered, rather than just being a PITA, set her some tests at home and see how she gets on.

arethereanyleftatall · 17/07/2026 09:16

WhatAMarvelousTune · 17/07/2026 07:18

I don’t know why OP has had quite such a pile on.

I agree she doesn’t need to know. But I don’t think she’s some nightmare parent for asking, she’s just trying to be engaged with her child’s education.

I can answer this. I expect there is quite a few teachers answering as some have already broken up. Teachers are leaving their careers in droves atm. One of the reasons is the lack of respect, the constant questioning from parents asking you to justify why you’ve done what you’ve done. No other professions have to put up with this.

AmazonQueeen · 17/07/2026 09:12

Same age ds. His end of year tests were shared with us but not him. I know on a good day he’d have got more right, but I also know his maths and spelling are strong and his reading comprehension is really poor so all the test did was reinforce what I already know.

If you don’t know where your dc is find things hard then either you aren’t concentrating on shadowing his homework or you aren’t having the right conversations with his teacher.

I also know that tests at age 7 won’t tell me much about his future performance. My dd was similar to my ds and now she’s targeting straight 9s at gcse.

Of course some kids are super bright and well trained to do testing at age 7+ but state school kids aren’t prepared to be tested so often they don’t perform well at this age

Let the school guide you they know what they are doing!!

PGmicstand · 17/07/2026 09:12

You don't need to see the SATS results.
If you are concerned, or want to support your child then you can ask the school.
For example, you could ask what maths scheme they use and see if there are any text books you can buy. Or, ask if the curriculum for next year is set so you can see what they'll be doing in English.
As an ex school governor you're worrying way too much. Schools don't disclose too much because of the way some parents perceive and react to 'failure'. We had instances of children being hit by the parent for not getting "exceeds" on all categories on the SATS.

sittingonabeach · 17/07/2026 09:12

Unless you have serious concerns about your child at a school please don’t ask for a SAR so you can access a test result.

arethereanyleftatall · 17/07/2026 09:07

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:46

I think the idea of just blindly trusting the school and not taking any interest in your own child’s education is odd and such a strange thing for a governor to advocate for.

We are hugely supportive of the school as parents and we think they’re doing an excellent job. I come from a family of teachers so I know how hard the job is and how much grief they get from parents.

i couldn’t care less frankly who she sits next to the carpet or what part she’s given in the school play. I believe children need to learn to fit in with a group and learn that they are not any better or more special than anyone else. I think school has an important role to play in that. Equally, I believe that learning is a partnership between school life and home life and that there should be communication between the two.

So. Think this through. You want the teacher to spend time in a partnership with you detailing, alongside all their usual ways of communication - parents evening, the 5 books sent home etc etc - the results of an internal test. Say they had 30 minutes today and the plan was to use that 30 minutes to teach the children algebra. Now you want them to spend ten of those minutes sorting something extra out just for you. Let’s say 2 other, equally entitled, parents ask for the something different they want to muscle in on for their child. Thirty minutes are now gone. Sorry 30 children, we’re not learning algebra today, we’re dealing with bespoke parental requests.
As a teacher, I can tell you, it goes on and on and on.
please - just let teachers get on with their jobs instead of constantly wasting their time.

sanityisamyth · 17/07/2026 09:04

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:16

I would like to know though and I’m her parent so I think I should get a say too!

Get a day in what?! You sound like “one of those” parents and an utter nightmare.

TheyGrewUp · 17/07/2026 09:03

I'm assuming that as parents have responsibility for their their children, a Subject Data Access Request would deliver the information. A sledgehammer to crack a nut but fundamentally parents are entotled to this information in relation to the assessment and progress of their children. The only reason I can see for witholding it, is to be opaque about the standardsnof and consistency around teaching. It measures the teachers' performance as much as the childrens'.

Sunshine5791 · 17/07/2026 08:53

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:26

All I’ve got is some wishy washy ‘meets expectations’ / “exceeds expectations “ thing. Nothing I can actually use to help.

they’ve sent home five massive books with every single piece of work she’s done this year across multiple subjects but no marked exam papers. Why the secrecy around it? And why didn’t they tell us they were going to do it? It’s just very odd.

I kind of get where you are coming from, but not everything you do with your child has to be academic learning. What can you do to help? Teach your child life skills, involve her in what you are doing, cooking, baking, gardening, using the washing machine, hoovering - all really useful. Going through recipe books, choosing what to have for tea, going to the supermarket, how much will it all cost, Following recipes. Learning new skills, find an app and learn a language together, bulk that out by learning about the country, cook something from that country, (we love cooking, can you tell!). Learning new skills like how to use a train timetable,

not everything needs to be academic learning.

PlasticineKing · 17/07/2026 08:50

I actually did get some of the results for my DDs testing but only because she gets support for learning in some areas. They actually mean nothing as they’re standardised and averages and just an indicator of where they sit nationally. If you’re being told she’s meeting or exceeding expectations then fine, if she’s not where they think she should be they will speak to you about it and what both the school and you need to do to support DD. Use the resources you have (eg likes of book) to see where you think she needs help if you must.

Edited to add, the kids don’t get told their scores either.

W0tnow · 17/07/2026 08:50

My kids’ school did this in secondary. Something about getting a snapshot of…I don’t know…something. It was made clear it was for internal use/information only, to guide the teachers in their instruction of the kids. Neither the kids or parents were given the results. No doubt because the test itself had no bearing on any official result. It was just a tool. It makes sense to keep them confidential, because parents would no doubt engage in the “my child got x% how did yours go?”, and draw conclusions from that.

lanthanum · 17/07/2026 08:38

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:34

If for example she got all the fractions questions wrong then I would help her with fractions over the summer.

someone mentioned the phonics screening and come to think of it they did share that with us.

Seems like I am being unreasonable so I will take that on board but I do still think it’s weird.

I would imagine that if she got all the fractions questions wrong, then her report will say that she struggles with fractions.

I suspect they don't want to send scores home because that will lead to parents making comparisons, and possibly children too, which is not helpful.

user1496076579 · 17/07/2026 08:37

Are you in Wales? Are they the personalised assessment results? In my experience schools don’t want to share this sort of information because if your child is struggling they won’t want you to know because they’ll have to put some effort in. You can request any information you want about your child’s education record using a data access request and legally they have to give you the information. A teacher in my children’s school told me that.

GHOSTTHINKER · 17/07/2026 08:36

Hi OP

My DS is year 2 and last month he did his year 2 SATs there nothing major but they are tests just to see where the children are upto at the end of KS1. You will have an idea of how well DD has done in her year end school report. So to give you an idea I got my DS report this week the 3 core areas (Maths, Reading & writing) are what they focus more on at this stage my DS was marked as greater depth in 2 of those and on track for the other. You then get all the other subjects inc science and PE etc again my DS was greater depth or on track in all of them. At this stage of their school journey though whilst it's nice to see how well they are doing academically it really is more about how they are coping with school, friendships etc in my opinion anyway. If School have concerns I'm sure they will advise and I would expect they wouldn't wait to hit you with it in the end of year report.

PeopleWatching17 · 17/07/2026 08:31

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:26

All I’ve got is some wishy washy ‘meets expectations’ / “exceeds expectations “ thing. Nothing I can actually use to help.

they’ve sent home five massive books with every single piece of work she’s done this year across multiple subjects but no marked exam papers. Why the secrecy around it? And why didn’t they tell us they were going to do it? It’s just very odd.

These are almost certainly KS1 SATs. I’m surprised school use the word ‘exams’, as this gives the tests a lot more gravitas than they warrant. The tests are about an hour long, not all day, and are usually done in the classroom. We used them to identify progress of both the individual and the class, and to identify any areas where extra input might be required. The results were never published, as the tests weren’t mandatory. Your child’s report will show their progress.

sittingonabeach · 17/07/2026 08:30

The core subject results are what the schools have to report to Government at end of Y6. They will also report them to governors/Trustees after each data drop.

If your DD is working at greater depth level then she is doing well. If she wants to do extra school work over the summer there are books you can buy, but only if she wants to do it. Otherwise, let her have fun, plenty of reading and you can always bring in things like maths in practical ways eg measuring when cooking etc.

Schools should have on their websites their curriculum for each subject for each year. So you can get an idea of what she will be learning next year. Remember, our Government cram a huge amount in the curriculum. Good for a child to have a break before the next onslaught! If in England it’s only about 6 weeks before they are back at school

Reliious · 17/07/2026 08:30

I get what op means - theyve done the test- presumably ks1 sats- and dont even get given any results.
Our school did STAR assessmrnts and over 2 kids we only have seen 1 set for probably 5 years. Though i have asked in PE and verbally given. One meeting was particularly interesting as the teacher was saying dc2 wasnt that great at reading, i didnt agree. .. anyway i asked what the STAR reports said - 2 years ahead of age so…

DC2 also in ks1 sats when they were compulsory got like 98 on reading. Well, i knew that was not right. So we did the test at home and what a surprise almost full marks. So i said to that teacher erm what happened there - its clearly not right. But they couldnt say. Because it was statutory i assume at that stage the difference between ks1 to ks1 was also reported about schools. But i think what likely happened is because the ks1 tests last until the kid wants to stop, dc1 had just decided to stop half way through. Probably shows you cant test 7yo.

I 100% would have preferred my kids to progress in school when there were levels as the school really dont push more able kids at all. And met/exceeded is very wishy washy.

Also from a conversation with a ks2 teacher x didnt start this year exceeding so wont end it exceeding. WTF! So then absolutely no effort to move kids upwards then. Anyway they were wrong and the kid got exceeding.

At secondary we mostly get tests back. But no results are shown on reports. They scale against the yeargroup for each subject. But thing is with so many classes inevitably the teaching isnt the same anyway. (1-2 classes seem to have done a lot of sparx science but dd class have done none).
i would much prefer end of year exams - maybe even from primary. Our end of each topic ones at secondary are silly as its not consolidating large amounts and i think will lead to worse gcse results. Plus every homework almost is revision from y7 and so missed work there

SJM1988 · 17/07/2026 08:29

It sounds like you have a child that is already working above expectation for Core subjects and at expectation for others for the year. I also have a DS (year 3) who is like this. Its incredibly frustrating when you ask how can you help and support them to improve and you get a 'there is nothing' answer. We've also never got a score for any tests they did in Year 2 other than a 'he's one of the top' in his parent evening. But I remind myself that his teacher knows him academically best so to take their advise. This year we did get some feedback on a small area to improve upon.

We have taken to home workbooks (DS actually loves to do these in his spare time strangely) and reading at a higher level generally now.

Moonnstarz · 17/07/2026 08:26

So it sounds like she is doing really well.
I don't think primary schools can ever really assess the non core subjects accurately as there isn't standardised papers for these. If you wanted to boost her knowledge in these subjects then look at exploring them at home, pointing out geographical features, going to museums and looking at historical events.

Just to also add, apart from year 6 SATs the assessments are generally sat in the classroom. We have a class of 30 so no way of spacing them out. Therefore they are not always going to be the best measure when you spot Sally taking a sneaky peak at what the person sat next to her has written.

Artesia · 17/07/2026 08:21

Honestly OP, you are massively overthinking. The "exams" will have been on the core subjects, and you know she's doing well there. They won't have made her sit an exam in music, geography, PE etc. She's clearly doing ok across the board but if want to help her, at her age, take her to the odd museum, watch horrible histories, do some fun science experiments, stick the radio on and talk to her about what music she likes and why. Go run around the park throwing a ball etc.

Rainbowstarssunlight · 17/07/2026 08:17

Girasoli · 17/07/2026 08:10

If you want to help her over the summer wouldn't the report be more useful? Ours are a good 4/5 paragraphs per child.
e.g. DS2 (in year 1) got 'expected' for English but the report explains his reading and sentence creation is good but he could work a little harder on hand writing.

I haven’t got any of this sort of detailed feedback. Just a general paragraph at the front from the teacher about her being a lovely child, kind and caring to peers etc (not academic stuff) and then a metric against each subject. Apparently she is working at greater depth in the core subjects then meeting expectations in music, PE, geography, history and RE. When I asked how we could improve in those areas I was told we couldn’t and they give every child meeting expectations in those areas regardless.

Ive taken on board all the comments and it seems the majority think I’m being unreasonable to even ask the question. I still think it’s a little strange that the general consensus is that parents should butt out completely and not question anything but clearly I will be recast as that awful annoying parent if I push it so will let it go!

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sittingonabeach · 17/07/2026 08:16

@Myskyscolour blame the Government! These are the ‘grades’ they expect schools to use now. Obviously private schools can do their own thing

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