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School refusing access to exam results

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Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:12

My daughter is just about to finish year 2. A few weeks ago, she started coming home from school saying that they were doing exams. This went on for about two weeks and she told us that for four out of the five days they were doing exams and then having a rest on the fifth day. Obviously, I don’t know if this is true as kids can be unreliable when it comes to time!

I have asked the School for the results of these exams. I’ve been told that they are for internal monitoring only and not to be shared with parents.

I feel a little bit miffed about this. She seemed to spend a considerable time doing them without the School informing us and I don’t really see what the point was if we can’t use the results to help to support her learning at home.

I’ve always had a good relationship with the school and don’t want to upset the apple cart but I do feel that they’re being a little bit unreasonable. Do you agree or is it me?!

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Penkie · 16/07/2026 22:26

I wouldn't make any fuss, they're just end of year tests more for record keeping than anything else.

I hate administering tests, I teach year 5 or 6. Most of my children I know well enough to decide for myself whether they are working at the expected level, without doing tests for 4 days.

lolacherricoke · 16/07/2026 22:25

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:16

I would like to know though and I’m her parent so I think I should get a say too!

A say in what? They go to school, school test children, children are measured!!
what do you need to know for, seems a bit pushy mum! Get over yourself a little bit!! Your child is 7!!

Isabella40 · 16/07/2026 22:22

They would be used to help the teacher write school report. Could be ks1 SATS as some schools still use them even though they are no longer mandatory. Have you had a school report?

ChoosingMyOwnRandomUsername · 16/07/2026 22:20

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:16

I would like to know though and I’m her parent so I think I should get a say too!

Well, you don't.

Pull your big girl pants up, suck it up and move on.

Secondary school is going to hit you like a brick to the face if you keep making mountains out of molehills.

Supersleepysheepy · 16/07/2026 22:19

Gerbera55 · 16/07/2026 22:18

If they told you she achieved a score of 90 for example, how would that help you support her at home anymore than being told she is working towards/expected would? I imagine you’ve been given that information?

Exactly.

Lmnop22 · 16/07/2026 22:19

She’s 7, school tested her aptitude and will share any concerns with you. What more do you want?

Supersleepysheepy · 16/07/2026 22:19

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:16

I would like to know though and I’m her parent so I think I should get a say too!

You'll know as a summary.

PotteringAlonggotkickedoutandhadtoreregister · 16/07/2026 22:18

Get a say in what?

Gerbera55 · 16/07/2026 22:18

If they told you she achieved a score of 90 for example, how would that help you support her at home anymore than being told she is working towards/expected would? I imagine you’ve been given that information?

Rainbowstarssunlight · 16/07/2026 22:16

I would like to know though and I’m her parent so I think I should get a say too!

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Supersleepysheepy · 16/07/2026 22:13

You don't need to know, they'll just be the end of year assessments that they use to write reports and say whether a child is working at the expected level etc.

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