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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

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x2boys · 18/07/2026 20:12

Grandmistress991 · 18/07/2026 19:53

Irish person here. Tournament football supporter only.
Usually Ireland supporter obviously, then Scotland , but in their absence I have been known to support england, but based on some of the comments on here, i realise why people in other nations struggle to support the England team.

Someone upthread made a snippy comment about Ireland not making it to the world cup. In Ireland there are other very popular sports called Hurling, Gaelic football (male) and Camogie (female) . The hurling in particular makes Football look like a stroll in the park, it is an incredibly exciting, non stop, skilled sport by non professionals ie not getting paid. Football pales in comparison popularity wise in Ireland which may explain to some degree why Ireland arent in the World Cup.

Despite the popularity of Hurling, and Gaelic Football, Irish Rugby has more than shown its mettle against every other playing nation.

I dont come on here belittling England in defeat , I actually felt sorry for the team, feel they were hard done by with refereeing decisions and questionable substitutions. In all honesty at the outset I didnt think they were going to win, I wasnt overwhelmed by many of their performances but still hoped for the best despite my horror of the whole 'its coming home' blurb.

So when youre on a public forum debating about why your team has lost and why you dont routinely get support from other nations, the belittling of other teams lack of achievement in that sport doesnt actually help. I dont actually like the whole 'anyone but england ' mantra as I have English relatives and friends but the attitudes and comments on here are maybe the reason why you dont get that support.

Yet another person who doesnt undersand the meaning of the its coming home song
I also remember my irish Dad getting
Dancing around the lounge when ireland got through to the Quarter finals on penalties in 1990.
So i think
Ireland might also get a bit excited if they were in the world cup.

lovecotswoldsliving · 18/07/2026 19:57

ComeOnEngland12 · 18/07/2026 18:47

Jude has run himself ragged in these games ! Even in the arge game he is in goal and is the only person who runs at the striker !
He's everywhere !

Apparently he was lovely.
Our teacher wrote to him wishing him all the best and he replied ‘ Thank you Sir’

Grandmistress991 · 18/07/2026 19:53

Irish person here. Tournament football supporter only.
Usually Ireland supporter obviously, then Scotland , but in their absence I have been known to support england, but based on some of the comments on here, i realise why people in other nations struggle to support the England team.

Someone upthread made a snippy comment about Ireland not making it to the world cup. In Ireland there are other very popular sports called Hurling, Gaelic football (male) and Camogie (female) . The hurling in particular makes Football look like a stroll in the park, it is an incredibly exciting, non stop, skilled sport by non professionals ie not getting paid. Football pales in comparison popularity wise in Ireland which may explain to some degree why Ireland arent in the World Cup.

Despite the popularity of Hurling, and Gaelic Football, Irish Rugby has more than shown its mettle against every other playing nation.

I dont come on here belittling England in defeat , I actually felt sorry for the team, feel they were hard done by with refereeing decisions and questionable substitutions. In all honesty at the outset I didnt think they were going to win, I wasnt overwhelmed by many of their performances but still hoped for the best despite my horror of the whole 'its coming home' blurb.

So when youre on a public forum debating about why your team has lost and why you dont routinely get support from other nations, the belittling of other teams lack of achievement in that sport doesnt actually help. I dont actually like the whole 'anyone but england ' mantra as I have English relatives and friends but the attitudes and comments on here are maybe the reason why you dont get that support.

Middlemarch123 · 18/07/2026 19:24

ComeOnEngland12 · 18/07/2026 19:03

He's got it all hasn't he !
Look on x or u tube " don't be a Messi be a jude" it's a complication of him with the footy kids ! Constantly paying attention , making sure they are ok , not cold offering coats and blankets . He is the only one or two of the players who stopped to talk to a disabled reporter 😍

He’s lush he is, said in my best Stacey voice, yep I’m part Welsh,

ComeOnEngland12 · 18/07/2026 19:05

X post 😍

ComeOnEngland12 · 18/07/2026 19:03

XelaM · 18/07/2026 18:55

Love Jude so much 😍😍😍

He's got it all hasn't he !
Look on x or u tube " don't be a Messi be a jude" it's a complication of him with the footy kids ! Constantly paying attention , making sure they are ok , not cold offering coats and blankets . He is the only one or two of the players who stopped to talk to a disabled reporter 😍

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 19:00

XelaM · 18/07/2026 18:55

Love Jude so much 😍😍😍

He ticks so many boxes doesn't he?

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XelaM · 18/07/2026 18:55

Love Jude so much 😍😍😍

ComeOnEngland12 · 18/07/2026 18:47

Middlemarch123 · 18/07/2026 17:17

Ask that teacher if he didn’t do much for most of the lesson, then stuck his hand up and answered two bloody hard questions that left everyone stunned. Bet he did. Back of the net baby Bells😀

Jude has run himself ragged in these games ! Even in the arge game he is in goal and is the only person who runs at the striker !
He's everywhere !

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 17:36

Middlemarch123 · 18/07/2026 17:17

Ask that teacher if he didn’t do much for most of the lesson, then stuck his hand up and answered two bloody hard questions that left everyone stunned. Bet he did. Back of the net baby Bells😀

😆

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Middlemarch123 · 18/07/2026 17:17

lovecotswoldsliving · 18/07/2026 17:10

My claim to fame - a teacher at my school taught Jude Bellingham!

Ask that teacher if he didn’t do much for most of the lesson, then stuck his hand up and answered two bloody hard questions that left everyone stunned. Bet he did. Back of the net baby Bells😀

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 17:14

Gloriia · 18/07/2026 17:01

We shall lead by example. If they lose tonight well so what! They got to the semis and 4th place isn't bad compared to the other home nations Grin

Very true!!! 3rd would be very nice though. I don't think England have ever come 3rd before. I mean, they have never done better than 4th place, apart from when they won in 1966 of course.

I'd be very pleased and happy if they come 3rd!

1st would have been better obvs! 😆 3rd is still very good though - out of 48 countries who qualified... Proves (along with being one of only 8 countries who have ever won,) that they are up there with the elite! 😎

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lovecotswoldsliving · 18/07/2026 17:13

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 15:14

Girl, we don't care if you think we're being ridiculous.

But thanks sooo much for your oh-so-invaluable input! 😎

!

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No you don’t have French friends.
they were fuming.
There were riots in some French cities.

lovecotswoldsliving · 18/07/2026 17:10

ComeOnEngland12 · 18/07/2026 15:30

I'm very excited for tonight ,it will ease my come down. It will be less stressful watching it as well. I can savour my Jude 😍

My claim to fame - a teacher at my school taught Jude Bellingham!

lovecotswoldsliving · 18/07/2026 17:07

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 15:35

@mindymoo11

I don't care about anyone being third or fourth

Fixed that for you. You're welcome. 😃

Yawn.
No one cares at all if you don’t even qualify sweetie.

lovecotswoldsliving · 18/07/2026 17:06

Twonewcats · 18/07/2026 16:01

Once again, 2 comments showing why many Scotland fans don't support England 🤦🏼‍♀️

Gosh then why do you watch if it makes you chunder. Probably best avoid football if you are that flaky It’s not a game for those of a delicate constitution.

lovecotswoldsliving · 18/07/2026 17:04

Gloriia · 18/07/2026 17:01

We shall lead by example. If they lose tonight well so what! They got to the semis and 4th place isn't bad compared to the other home nations Grin

Only one other home nation got in and they came 35th

lovecotswoldsliving · 18/07/2026 17:03

Gloriia · 18/07/2026 16:47

Yes we know. My point was you had agreed with a pp suggesting falsely that Engand only progressed because they played easy teams, so I pointed out well the argies had played Egypt and Switzerland not noted for their footie prowess I don't think.

Mindy has no clue and is insulting other teams. Mexico had not lost in their stadium for 40 years.
Croatia are a very strong team. Norway the same.
i find it amazing that these people want to goad on MN, when their own teams are pretty useless
You would think they would just keep quiet and seethe privately.

Gloriia · 18/07/2026 17:01

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 16:55

Awww, thank you. 😆😘

We shall lead by example. If they lose tonight well so what! They got to the semis and 4th place isn't bad compared to the other home nations Grin

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 16:55

Gloriia · 18/07/2026 16:49

I like a gif. Lightens the sour tone some posters are intent on spreading.

It's nice to be positive and optimistic i find. I particularly liked the men in England flag onesies Grin.

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Awww, thank you. 😆😘

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Gloriia · 18/07/2026 16:49

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 15:46

I'm done with the gifs now. Sorry if it annoyed anyone. Blush

I like a gif. Lightens the sour tone some posters are intent on spreading.

It's nice to be positive and optimistic i find. I particularly liked the men in England flag onesies Grin.

Gloriia · 18/07/2026 16:47

mindymoo11 · 18/07/2026 15:21

Argies also beat England

Yes we know. My point was you had agreed with a pp suggesting falsely that Engand only progressed because they played easy teams, so I pointed out well the argies had played Egypt and Switzerland not noted for their footie prowess I don't think.

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 16:03

Gloriia · 18/07/2026 15:12

Argies playing England later in the rugby are we watching 🫣

I wonder if they'll have a raggy sheet too, their nasty little footie pals may have set a precedent Grin.

Ooooh, time will tell! Shock

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Twonewcats · 18/07/2026 16:01

mindymoo11 · 18/07/2026 14:50

Ireland didn't qualify and Scotland were knocked out earlier.

My point is - it's not better to get further in a knock out competition, as England were still knocked out.

I'm sick of England getting knocked out at the semi final/final stage

Once again, 2 comments showing why many Scotland fans don't support England 🤦🏼‍♀️

GorgeousSpringtime · 18/07/2026 15:46

I was just having a bit of a laugh. 😘

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