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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

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MerryUmberHedgehog · 19/07/2026 16:52

How old are you?. Always have done. Its just a fact of life and youll get used to it..

Gloriia · 19/07/2026 16:42

ComeOnEngland12 · 19/07/2026 16:28

After feeling cheated after the thugs game,,I've spent the day feeling fully satisfied that we went out on a high with lots of t s crossed including mbeppe chance at the boot over Messi

A Hollywood script could have rounded things off as perfectly as that ! With Jude's sign off...

It had such a feel good vibe didn't it. Think everyone felt so deflated and cba with it. I started to watch it only mildy interested but ended up loving it.

Obviously we'd rather they won but this is a very good consolation prize. All the players shaking hands with the other team, it's what it should be like.

Obviously England don't have be to be too nice and the strategy with defence etc needs a review but the argies just look so stupid with their silly facial expressions, their toddler jumping at the end, the constant fouls and of course the bed sheet. Urgh.

ComeOnEngland12 · 19/07/2026 16:28

After feeling cheated after the thugs game,,I've spent the day feeling fully satisfied that we went out on a high with lots of t s crossed including mbeppe chance at the boot over Messi

A Hollywood script could have rounded things off as perfectly as that ! With Jude's sign off...

lovecotswoldsliving · 19/07/2026 15:32

Gloriia · 19/07/2026 11:26

I hope teeny, overly tattooed Enzo Fernandes does his funny donkey face with hands stuck up by his head if he scores later. It suited him Grin

Imagine the reception he will get at Chelsea.
Every single person will do that stupid donkey face.
He will be booed all the way back to Argentina.

Grandmistress991 · 19/07/2026 15:27

Anyone else struggling to listen to American commentators and their '2 - nothing' ...im shouting in my head ' its 2- nil !!!. I know im being totally unreasonable but it is driving me mad. 😀

x2boys · 19/07/2026 14:06

Twonewcats · 19/07/2026 12:48

And possibly this arrogance is what has led to the general feeling that the team is entitled, even tho those players have long since left

Maybe but thats not really fair on the current players who come across as a decent bumch of young men who are proud to play for England
Eveeybody is sick of every tournamrnt being compared to 1966 so lets not compare the Current England team to previous teams.

Twonewcats · 19/07/2026 12:48

XelaM · 19/07/2026 11:14

Yes, the England team of the so called "golden generation" was a group of entitled, arrogant, undisciplined, lazy players who absolutely couldn't care less about playing for England. Hence their tournament results and performances over the years were truly appalling. This current England team could not be more different. A group a really nice wholesome young men who give it all on the pitch for England and really care. I have high hopes that they can do well in Euro 2028! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

And possibly this arrogance is what has led to the general feeling that the team is entitled, even tho those players have long since left

hourglass2 · 19/07/2026 11:35

Pepperlee · 19/07/2026 11:12

Up North we say built like a brick shit house 🤣

Oh yes we say that down here too!

Gloriia · 19/07/2026 11:26

I hope teeny, overly tattooed Enzo Fernandes does his funny donkey face with hands stuck up by his head if he scores later. It suited him Grin

XelaM · 19/07/2026 11:14

x2boys · 19/07/2026 10:35

Yep they are so much nicer then the England team of noughties now Beckham et al they were arrogant and entitled

Yes, the England team of the so called "golden generation" was a group of entitled, arrogant, undisciplined, lazy players who absolutely couldn't care less about playing for England. Hence their tournament results and performances over the years were truly appalling. This current England team could not be more different. A group a really nice wholesome young men who give it all on the pitch for England and really care. I have high hopes that they can do well in Euro 2028! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

Pepperlee · 19/07/2026 11:12

hourglass2 · 18/07/2026 21:19

The commentator said a rugby player was built like a terraced house!

Up North we say built like a brick shit house 🤣

x2boys · 19/07/2026 10:35

GorgeousSpringtime · 19/07/2026 09:36

Exactly. They are NOT arrogant and entitled, and I'm pretty sure that when that was said, they were referring to the fans too, with comments like 'England think they have a God Given RIGHT to win the World Cup!'

No, it's not that, we just really REALLY WANT to win it. As I said in the thread earlier, most people alive today don't remember the World Cup in 1966, as some 80% of people alive in the UK today were not even born til the mid 1960s or after. So that's 80% of the UK who have never seen England win the World Cup.

Well, we got 3rd place which is decent.

COME ON SPAIN! Grin Kick the Argentinians butts!

Yep they are so much nicer then the England team of noughties now Beckham et al they were arrogant and entitled

Newname29 · 19/07/2026 10:18

They played defensively against Argentina too early. That said I think they did brilliantly!

Gloriia · 19/07/2026 10:11

XelaM · 19/07/2026 10:03

If anything this current England team are too wholesome and nice. That's why they had trouble in a street fight with the Argentine thugs who look like they could shank you in an unlit street corner 🥶

So true Grin

XelaM · 19/07/2026 10:03

If anything this current England team are too wholesome and nice. That's why they had trouble in a street fight with the Argentine thugs who look like they could shank you in an unlit street corner 🥶

GorgeousSpringtime · 19/07/2026 09:36

Gloriia · 19/07/2026 08:37

It was fabulous wasnt it. Even if they'd lost it wouldn't have been as bad as losing to those little shits in cartel Argentina. The French team so sportmanslike at the end. It was heartwarming. Especially as the English rugby team had thrashed the argies prior 🎉.

Loved Bellingham supporting and encouraging Saka. I've no idea where some of critics on here get the 'they're arrogant and entitled' from, they arent! All such nice boys.

Come on Spain! Grin.

Exactly. They are NOT arrogant and entitled, and I'm pretty sure that when that was said, they were referring to the fans too, with comments like 'England think they have a God Given RIGHT to win the World Cup!'

No, it's not that, we just really REALLY WANT to win it. As I said in the thread earlier, most people alive today don't remember the World Cup in 1966, as some 80% of people alive in the UK today were not even born til the mid 1960s or after. So that's 80% of the UK who have never seen England win the World Cup.

Well, we got 3rd place which is decent.

COME ON SPAIN! Grin Kick the Argentinians butts!

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nolongersurprised · 19/07/2026 09:10

lovecotswoldsliving · 19/07/2026 09:04

We came THIRD.
i am not sure we need to start blaming our weather.

Like I said, I was just commenting on what a pp had said - that maybe the weather was contributing to England not winning. Which reminded me of the England coach’s excuse of why England women’s team played so poorly in the ashes in Aus.

I don’t live in England, if posters are insistent that the weather is perfect for sport then that’s fine by me as well 🤷‍♀️.

Pepperlee · 19/07/2026 09:10

Twonewcats · 18/07/2026 20:48

But that was the original song in 1996 - the chorus is now very much sung by fans as meaning that they're going to win

So what? You'd rather they went into a WC hoping they lose ? For all the hoohaa about the song I've hardly heard it this tournament. The way some posters go on and on complaining about a song that offends them so much makes me wonder whether they have access to a remote control or are forced to listen to being piped into the home on a loop.

lovecotswoldsliving · 19/07/2026 09:04

nolongersurprised · 19/07/2026 09:01

Well, the erstwhile coach of the Eng women’s cricket team, Jon Lewis, blamed the poor weather in England for his team’s robust Ashes cricket defeat in Aus 😀

He said his son needed to be “pushed out the door” in England, when it was -5 degrees and raining sideways. He was mocked for it though

It was actually a PP who said that England’s poor weather may be contributing for relatively poor performances, given investment etc.

Norway is an interesting country to bring up, because its philosophy for talent recognition and promotion is so different to England’s - kids are encouraged to play a lot of sport and specialise late.

We came THIRD.
i am not sure we need to start blaming our weather.

nolongersurprised · 19/07/2026 09:01

IcedPurple · 19/07/2026 08:21

I’m not English so have no skin in the game, but the comment upthread about children in Argentina, Spain etc playing more football outside due to the weather probably has some merit.

I disagree. England has a pretty mild climate. Kids can and do play outdoors most of the year quite easily. Whereas parts of Spain are way too hot for any serious sporting activity for several months of the year.

Besides, if you look at tournament success, weather seems to have little to do with it. The strongest national team for the past decade or so is France, and their climate, at least in the northern region where most of their players come from, is similar to Britain. Spain are great now but weren't for a long time. Brazil, with its warm climate and all the stereotypes of kids in the favelas kicking around a ball, was once legendary, but these days is a bit of a damp squib. Whereas chilly Norway did really well, largely thanks to one or two exceptional players.

International teams tend to go through periods of success, mediocrity and failure. I don't think climate has much to do with it.

Well, the erstwhile coach of the Eng women’s cricket team, Jon Lewis, blamed the poor weather in England for his team’s robust Ashes cricket defeat in Aus 😀

He said his son needed to be “pushed out the door” in England, when it was -5 degrees and raining sideways. He was mocked for it though

It was actually a PP who said that England’s poor weather may be contributing for relatively poor performances, given investment etc.

Norway is an interesting country to bring up, because its philosophy for talent recognition and promotion is so different to England’s - kids are encouraged to play a lot of sport and specialise late.

Gloriia · 19/07/2026 08:37

GorgeousSpringtime · 19/07/2026 00:09

ENGLAND DID SO WELL in the England vs France game.

We have got third place folks.

Best we have ever done since 1966! Only ever got to fourth place before.

Well done you absolute beauties. Smile

It was fabulous wasnt it. Even if they'd lost it wouldn't have been as bad as losing to those little shits in cartel Argentina. The French team so sportmanslike at the end. It was heartwarming. Especially as the English rugby team had thrashed the argies prior 🎉.

Loved Bellingham supporting and encouraging Saka. I've no idea where some of critics on here get the 'they're arrogant and entitled' from, they arent! All such nice boys.

Come on Spain! Grin.

IcedPurple · 19/07/2026 08:21

nolongersurprised · 18/07/2026 23:12

I’m not English so have no skin in the game, but the comment upthread about children in Argentina, Spain etc playing more football outside due to the weather probably has some merit. There’s clearly merit in playing for fun, with whoever’s around and whenever you can.

I wonder if the English football academies - by selecting too early - are doing talented young players a disservice? I do think “elite” anything before puberty is a scam, and they are psychologically damaging programs anyway, given that <1% of 9 year olds playing for an football academy will end up making a living from the game.

I’m not English so have no skin in the game, but the comment upthread about children in Argentina, Spain etc playing more football outside due to the weather probably has some merit.

I disagree. England has a pretty mild climate. Kids can and do play outdoors most of the year quite easily. Whereas parts of Spain are way too hot for any serious sporting activity for several months of the year.

Besides, if you look at tournament success, weather seems to have little to do with it. The strongest national team for the past decade or so is France, and their climate, at least in the northern region where most of their players come from, is similar to Britain. Spain are great now but weren't for a long time. Brazil, with its warm climate and all the stereotypes of kids in the favelas kicking around a ball, was once legendary, but these days is a bit of a damp squib. Whereas chilly Norway did really well, largely thanks to one or two exceptional players.

International teams tend to go through periods of success, mediocrity and failure. I don't think climate has much to do with it.

XelaM · 19/07/2026 01:28

IT'S COMING HOME! 😃 FOOTBALL's COMING HOME!! ⚽️

For all those who don't understand the song - Euro 2028 will be a home Euro (just like Euro 1996 was - hence the song!)

Grandmistress991 · 19/07/2026 00:57

x2boys · 18/07/2026 20:12

Yet another person who doesnt undersand the meaning of the its coming home song
I also remember my irish Dad getting
Dancing around the lounge when ireland got through to the Quarter finals on penalties in 1990.
So i think
Ireland might also get a bit excited if they were in the world cup.

There is no question Ireland, enjoys success be it football, rugby or any other sport, and generally have a good sense of humour in success and defeat. The team in 1990 came home as heroes despite 'losing' .

Your condescension just proved my point though so thank you for that.

As for England winning tonight im pleased for them, sorry I missed most of it but a social event meant I couldn't watch it all. I feel it was probably the last thing they wanted to do but like getting back on the horse after a bad fall it has helped them get over some of their disappointment and go home with pride.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 19/07/2026 00:46

It is France. It isn't a friendly!

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