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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

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TheJuryIsOut · 16/07/2026 09:02

Because unfortunately they have this mentality of sitting back and defending a 1-0 lead rather than going for another goal. It happens time and time again.

Screamingabdabz · 16/07/2026 09:02

Because they’re not that good. Jude Bellingham and Jordan Pickford carry the rest of the team to a degree and it’s not enough. They were lucky to get as far as they did.

DanaScullysLegoHair · 16/07/2026 09:02

Floatingdownriver · 16/07/2026 09:00

They are out played. It’s as simple as that. However, in England the press, fans and everyone love to build it all up and expect a win. The minute it doesn’t happen, everyone is vilified and the media tear them all apart. Don’t be part of that. It’s dreadful. Getting to the semis is impressive and a super achievement.

Absolutely this.

I wish some people could just celebrate the achievement of getting as far as we did without ripping them to shreds for not winning the whole thing.

ETA: OP, that isn't aimed at you. Just my thoughts in general.

EssCarGo · 16/07/2026 09:01

Because they’re a really good team, but not quite as good as some other teams, but they are set up by the media as the rightful winner of every tournament, making it harder than it needs to be when it doesn’t happen.

GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 09:01

@3luckystars I didn't say they failed, I said why do they keep falling before the end? I think they did well.

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FrenchandSaunders · 16/07/2026 09:01

The Argentinians played very dirty last night ... if the ref had been doing his job properly the result may have been different.

Having said that, it was a big mistake to go so defensive after that first goal.

professionalcommentreader · 16/07/2026 09:01

Because the competitors get tougher and they are not at the same level unlike the women’s team who are.

3luckystars · 16/07/2026 09:00

They didn’t FAIL, they got way further than most other countries? Countries who celebrated getting so far in the World Cup. England did really well. Why can’t you just enjoy things?

Floatingdownriver · 16/07/2026 09:00

They are out played. It’s as simple as that. However, in England the press, fans and everyone love to build it all up and expect a win. The minute it doesn’t happen, everyone is vilified and the media tear them all apart. Don’t be part of that. It’s dreadful. Getting to the semis is impressive and a super achievement.

EverytimeItPours · 16/07/2026 09:00

Because they’re good but not as good as a few other teams

NoAprilFool · 16/07/2026 08:59

Because other teams are better.

Eyesopenwideawake · 16/07/2026 08:59

The other team were better on the night.

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