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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

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Cherrytree86 · 16/07/2026 12:25

They’re just not good enough at the end of the day. Which is quite pitiful really considering the obscene amount of money pumped into making them good.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 16/07/2026 12:22

England don't "fall at the final hurdle", they fall as soon as they play a top team.

It's happened in every single tournament. Cruise through qualifying beating teams ranked in the 30s, 40s, 50s and lower, then same at the Finals, then as soon as they run into another top 6 team - Out

England have one solitary win over a top-10 team in their entire history of World Cup Finals participation. This was the 1966 Final at Wembley. FIFA only started ranking teams officially in the 1990s, but by using ELO you can apply the same thing to historical teams. So that's 60 years and counting since England beat a top-10 side at a World Cup, something they had never managed before and haven't managed since.

The Euros record is similar, having never beaten a top 6 ranked side in the entire history of that competition either.

I think it's about perception. England is a large nation with a huge football following and a league awash with money, so the perception is that England's national team should be competitive with Brazil, Argentina, Spain, France, Germany, Italy, the historical "top" sides, when in actual fact if you look as comparative achievement, then England's peers are Greece, Denmark, Netherlands, Portugal, Soviet Union, Czechoslovakia.

The England men's team has never, at any point in the history of the sport, been a truly top tier side, so it's the expectations that are out of whack with reality.

Pepperlee · 16/07/2026 12:22

Twonewcats · 16/07/2026 10:58

Sorry to point out the obvious, but only one team can win, so every other single team will fall - whether at the first or last hurdles.

eg Scotland - haven't made it to the World Cup in 20+ years, and celebrated the fact they did this year. The fans were impeccably behaved, had the time of their lives, created lifetime bonds with the host cities' residents, tidied up after them, spent a fortune while there, and came home again having lived the experience of a lifetime.

England fans - behaved better than usual (my own theory is that this is so they weren't shamed against the Tartan Army's behaviour). Yet, last night, fights in Atlanta and New York - and possibly elsewhere - with arrests made. They got to the semis, yet fans kick off when they get beaten. My own FB yesterday was full of posts highlighting how much domestic violence increases on the day/evening after an England defeat.

It's horrific.

Anyone on here who is Scottish will tell you - when you go on holiday abroad, and any of the locals say, "Are you English?" When they hear, "No, Scottish," they are completely delighted, due to how they witness their behaviour. We were in Greece a couple of weeks ago, in a smallish resort, and one pub closed on the night of the match, saying that they didnt want to be involved if anything kicked off. They screened every other teams' matches.

Words fail me 😅😅

Somerford · 16/07/2026 12:21

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 16/07/2026 12:18

Well, as I said further up, I don't know anything at all about football, but it must certainly be a unique sport if being in the Top 4 teams in the world makes you weak.

Out of interest, who else isn't very good? Is it just 4th and under, or are 3rd and second considered good? Or is there only one good team in the whole world and they are the current cup holders?

Only the winners emerge with any respect apparently, everyone else has failed. They've all bottled it. Imagine being "not very good" when you're at least the 4th best in the world. Ludicrous.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 16/07/2026 12:18

SerafinasGoose · 16/07/2026 12:15

They bottle it at the last minute and the defence has always been weak.

Well, as I said further up, I don't know anything at all about football, but it must certainly be a unique sport if being in the Top 4 teams in the world makes you weak.

Out of interest, who else isn't very good? Is it just 4th and under, or are 3rd and second considered good? Or is there only one good team in the whole world and they are the current cup holders?

Pepperlee · 16/07/2026 12:16

sonjadog · 16/07/2026 11:22

To see how far they get? To get the best placing that they can? Do you really think every single team who went into the World Cup thought they were going to win it??

No but there's something called 'hope'. I'll bet you that the Norwegian team weren't there with the attitude of seeing how far they'd get. They'd have hoped they could lift the cup and quite rightly. A defeatist attitude is pointless.

LivingDeadGirlUK · 16/07/2026 12:16

Screamingabdabz · 16/07/2026 09:02

Because they’re not that good. Jude Bellingham and Jordan Pickford carry the rest of the team to a degree and it’s not enough. They were lucky to get as far as they did.

I don't really follow football but all my memories of England playing since 1996 seem to invovle there being a 'star player' and if they didn't play, got injured etc then that was it. I was wondering if this was just the media wanting to play up a 'hero' or reality.

SerafinasGoose · 16/07/2026 12:15

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 16/07/2026 12:14

I think Top 4 in the world doesn't make us "not very good". If I was 4th best at anything in the world I'd consider myself to be very good indeed and would be proud of that!

They bottle it at the last minute and the defence has always been weak.

Gardenandseawitch · 16/07/2026 12:14

Because they are not as good as teams like Argentina....

I think the England team always has a couple of really good individual players but as a team they are simply not able to take the pressure and reach a final.

I can't help but think that they lack that extra magic and motivation that makes a winning team.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 16/07/2026 12:14

SerafinasGoose · 16/07/2026 12:13

Because, despite the fact that this game is elevated to cult level and a tedious national obsession, we are really not very good at it.

The Lionesses have acquitted themselves better on the international stage but this apparently makes some men rather cross. They are quick to point out how much 'better' the men's team/game are and that the women can't beat an adolescent boys' team. Well, no. For the simple explanation that the average strength of a 12-year-old boy is equal to the strength of an adult female. Which is the obvious reason why there's a men's game and a women's game.

Had England won their supporters would have been absolutely insufferable.

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I think Top 4 in the world doesn't make us "not very good". If I was 4th best at anything in the world I'd consider myself to be very good indeed and would be proud of that!

SerafinasGoose · 16/07/2026 12:13

Because, despite the fact that this game is elevated to cult level and a tedious national obsession, we are really not very good at it.

The Lionesses have acquitted themselves better on the international stage but this apparently makes some men rather cross. They are quick to point out how much 'better' the men's team/game are and that the women can't beat an adolescent boys' team. Well, no. For the simple explanation that the average strength of a 12-year-old boy is equal to the strength of an adult female. Which is the obvious reason why there's a men's game and a women's game.

Had England won their supporters would have been absolutely insufferable.

tachetastic · 16/07/2026 12:12

Top four in the world is alright isn't it?. There were a lot more than four teams in the competition.

Cherrytree86 · 16/07/2026 12:12

3luckystars · 16/07/2026 09:00

They didn’t FAIL, they got way further than most other countries? Countries who celebrated getting so far in the World Cup. England did really well. Why can’t you just enjoy things?

@3luckystars

well, they did fail. They lost last night. I don’t know what else you’d call it

prh47bridge · 16/07/2026 12:00

Up until Gordon scored, England were doing well. It is easy to blame Tuchel for the substitutions, and I do think he got them wrong, but things started to go wrong for England before that. The goal should have given them a boost and encouraged them to keep playing the same way. Instead, they almost immediately started retreating and playing defensively, and Argentina started getting chances.

It makes me wonder if the players didn't really believe they could win. I'm sure they will all say that they believed the win was possible, but did they really, deep down, believe that they could end the decades of failure or did they expect that something would go wrong again.

UnemployedNotRetired · 16/07/2026 11:52

Not always the same reason each time.
In the 2000s it was sometimes club rivalries reducing the capability of the team.
In some tournaments it's the fatigue you had from being in the Premier League, where all matches are tough.
Last night was poor managerial tactics.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 16/07/2026 11:51

VanCleefArpels · 16/07/2026 11:27

Flip the coin: why do we think that England OUGHT to be in the final every single time? Like they are entitled to think that? Why can’t we accept that other teams are better?

It's NOT entitled to think/hope we have a good chance each time. It's not easy, mind, particularly with more and more teams involved each time these days.

It's entitled to believe in English exceptionalism, we are England and better than those funny foreigners over there so therefore by default brilliant and should win everything. That's certainly not where I am coming from.

I'm coming from the position that this is our national sport, we have such a good grass roots system, so much money spent on the game and a lot of talent out there, so it's fair enough to think we might be in with a shout. Which we are/have been, in the last few years and largely I'm happy with that progress.

MsPavlichenko · 16/07/2026 11:50

PeachyDaisy · 16/07/2026 11:06

Either way, the field was tiny compared to what it is. Much harder to win one now

Actually the teams that made the finals then were far stronger in my opinion. As opposed to the early stages now.

LBFseBrom · 16/07/2026 11:45

Eyesopenwideawake · 16/07/2026 08:59

The other team were better on the night.

Exactly.

It happens to many teams, not just GB.

Does it matter?

GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 11:45

Agreed @DeftGoldHedgehog ! Well said.

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 16/07/2026 11:42

FourSevenFour · 16/07/2026 11:21

Why would you expect England to win?

There's nothing inherrently better about English players or team. Countries like Argentina or Spain have roughly comparable population size, and being economically a bit weaker, maybe the dream of becoming a pro player is/was a bit stronger there some 10- 20 years ago.

I don't think it's entitled to have expected the England team to do better generally, particularly since the 1990s when VAST amounts of money has been spent on the game in this country and the terrific grass roots system that we have. They have been much better since 2018 which is great but for me England should always have been a top 5 team in the world and be in with a shout of winning the World Cup. I don't think it's OTT or entitled to say that given the EPL is one of the strongest leagues in the world and that we have some very good home grown players.

France have in my lifetime (I'm 50) won the WC and Euros twice.

I don't moan about going out in the SF but just wish our record was better overall. We could have done so much better in the 1970s-1990s if there wasn't such a drinking culture in the team. Look at what kind of shape the 1990 squad were in, in comparison to the Germans. We managed to run them pretty close but seriously, physique-wise it was embarrassing. If they had just been fitter and more athletic we could have won more back then. Then in mid 2000s to mid 2010s there was a seriously poor attitude problem. It was awful, I could barely watch them or football at all.

Lonelycrab · 16/07/2026 11:36

As has been said countless times already this was mainly down to a tactical error on TTs part, the negativity of his changes was reflected in Englands play from that point onwards. Seems blindingly obvious that trying to cling on to a narrow lead for 40+ mins was never going to work against this opposition.

I think Mainoo could have made the difference last night, he plays well in tight spaces under pressure and was a mistake not to have let him play more. Saka or even Rashford would have been a more positive change when Gordon was brought off. But ultimately the killer instinct to kill the game off was, as often in the past, missing when we needed it most.

Gloriia · 16/07/2026 11:36

Because the argies were faster and better? They all seem so small and nippier.

England did brilliantly to get to the semis though when some didn't even progress from the group stages.

zanahoria · 16/07/2026 11:32

I was really proud of the England team after Mexico.

They went and played the home nation in extremely difficult conditions. They had to play at altitude for ninety minutes and had no time to adjust to those conditions.

Then they went to Miami and had to play in the sweltering heat but managed to pull through.

It is very difficult to keep playing, then flying off to a different city with a different climate and playing again a few days later. England have had to play everywhere from Boston to Mexico City. Eventually it caught up with them.

Dollymylove · 16/07/2026 11:31

FrenchandSaunders · 16/07/2026 09:01

The Argentinians played very dirty last night ... if the ref had been doing his job properly the result may have been different.

Having said that, it was a big mistake to go so defensive after that first goal.

I agree. Should have been at least one sending off

VanCleefArpels · 16/07/2026 11:27

Flip the coin: why do we think that England OUGHT to be in the final every single time? Like they are entitled to think that? Why can’t we accept that other teams are better?

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