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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

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randomchap · 16/07/2026 12:48

Gloriia · 16/07/2026 12:39

Are you being sarcastic? I'll get accused of misogyny and being a women I'm certainly not but omg women's football? I've seem more excitement at school tournaments.

What's not to like? Quality players playing a game many find entertaining to watch.

If you don't like it, there's so many other things to do/watch

Cherrytree86 · 16/07/2026 12:41

Gloriia · 16/07/2026 12:39

Are you being sarcastic? I'll get accused of misogyny and being a women I'm certainly not but omg women's football? I've seem more excitement at school tournaments.

@Gloriia

that must be the circles you move in. I know LOADS of people who are really into women’s football

Gloriia · 16/07/2026 12:39

randomchap · 16/07/2026 12:36

Yep. Can not wait

Are you being sarcastic? I'll get accused of misogyny and being a women I'm certainly not but omg women's football? I've seem more excitement at school tournaments.

Cherrytree86 · 16/07/2026 12:39

randomchap · 16/07/2026 12:35

Top 4 at the world cup. That's not bad at all.

Yes, it's disappointing that they didn't win.

If you want to celebrate a winning England team then there's always the women's. Can't wait for 2027.

@randomchap

oh believe me I do support and celebrate the women’s team! They actually win stuff! Talent against all odds

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 16/07/2026 12:38

GasPanic · 16/07/2026 12:34

"England ranked 4th" is a totally false picture of reality.

Yet strangely consistent with our perfomance over the past 3 world cups (semi-quarter-semi) and in the Euros (finalists in the past two tournaments).

It's also consistent with the fact that you can attain that ranking without having to ever play, never mind defeat a top ranked side, and also consistent with the fact that as soon as England do run into a top ranked side in Finals football, they lose

4th ranked does not mean there are only three better sides on the planet, it means you've accumulated sufficient ranking points to be ranked 4th in that table, which you can theoretically do by smashing Liechtenstein over and over.

Gloriia · 16/07/2026 12:37

EmeraldShamrock000 · 16/07/2026 12:33

Isn’t it obvious. They’re a brilliant team that made it a lot further than most but they’re not best in world.

This. Better than many though!

sleeppleasesoon · 16/07/2026 12:37

How about feeling pleased they got so far? England aren’t entitled to win the World Cup despite many thinking that they are (I’m English). Also, blaming tactics is nonsense, the other team were/are better.

ukathleticscoach2012 · 16/07/2026 12:37

They did ok against very mediocre teams. Norway were a better opposition but still ranked a lot lower than England.

The first top level team they face it was a capitulation

You cannot defend for over half an hour in the penalty box and doing that , well they were really giving up and hoping the best. The mgr did not help but England have done that the last 25 years go 1 nil up then sat back.

Beating Crotia, Panama the Congo (!) and Mexico is not 'doing well'. The a draw against Ghanna. Norway was the one good result.

Argentina had 2 off the post and missed 2 sitters could have been 5-1

England did not do well, they were in an easy group then folded once they met Argentina. The fact England were betting favs to win shows how after 60 yrs we are still deluded. and the players really are over paid!

Now Russia who were banned from the Olympics for state sponsored doping (which never stopped since the 70's) then invading Ukraine are bein allowed back in the Olympics despite nothing changing.

MatchResults:

Group L
England vs Croatia
4-2 Win
Group L
England vs Ghana
0-0 Draw
Group L
Panama vs England
0-2 Win
Round of 32
England vs DR Congo
2-1 Win
Round of 16
Mexico vs England
2-3 Win
Quarter-final
Norway vs England
1-2 Win (AET)
Semi-final
England vs Argentina
1-2 Loss

FastFood · 16/07/2026 12:36

Yesterday was 100% down to bad management.
Anyone who knows a tiny bit of football knows that Argentina are bulldogs, they're not going to lose focus because they've taken a goal, quite the opposite (cf the match against Egypt). Scoring against them is like taunting a shark with a piece of meat.
Playing exclusively defensively against a team that has Messi makes no sense. The man is able to score or to assist in the busiest surface, letting him camp around the goal is just going to give him more opportunities to read the game and come up with strategies to break the defense.

It feels like Tuchel didn't even prepare for the eventuality of England scoring first.

randomchap · 16/07/2026 12:36

Gloriia · 16/07/2026 12:35

Oh we don't have that next year do we?!

Yep. Can not wait

MrsMurphyIWish · 16/07/2026 12:36

Would you say the same thing about other sports where English competitors don't win? England are good, but Argentina were phenomenal. Can not wait for Sunday's game. It'll be so entertaining. The style, flair and energy of both teams will mean it's hard to call.

Gloriia · 16/07/2026 12:35

randomchap · 16/07/2026 12:35

Top 4 at the world cup. That's not bad at all.

Yes, it's disappointing that they didn't win.

If you want to celebrate a winning England team then there's always the women's. Can't wait for 2027.

Oh we don't have that next year do we?!

randomchap · 16/07/2026 12:35

Cherrytree86 · 16/07/2026 12:31

@randomchap

yep. Still doesn’t change the fact that they’re not good enough to win though!

Top 4 at the world cup. That's not bad at all.

Yes, it's disappointing that they didn't win.

If you want to celebrate a winning England team then there's always the women's. Can't wait for 2027.

GasPanic · 16/07/2026 12:34

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 16/07/2026 12:29

Well, as I said further up, I don't know anything at all about football, but it must certainly be a unique sport if being in the Top 4 teams in the world makes you weak.

The issue is, the way ranking points work, you can elevate yourself into the top 10, top 5 or whatever simply by battering much poorer teams in Qualifying. This is how England got there.

The problem comes when you have to play other top teams. Like I posted above, in competitive Finals matches, England have one solitary World Cup win over a top-10 ranked side in the entire history of the World Cup, and have never beaten a top-6 team in the European Championship Finals.

"England ranked 4th" is a totally false picture of reality.

For example, prior to the World Cup Morocco were ranked 5th, Brazil 6th. Brazil were beaten in the last 16 by Norway, Morocco went down in the Quarters to France. Both of those teams also achieved their ranking by beating vastly inferior teams, only to be found out when they actually had to play good ones.

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"England ranked 4th" is a totally false picture of reality.

Yet strangely consistent with our perfomance over the past 3 world cups (semi-quarter-semi) and in the Euros (finalists in the past two tournaments).

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 16/07/2026 12:34

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 16/07/2026 12:14

I think Top 4 in the world doesn't make us "not very good". If I was 4th best at anything in the world I'd consider myself to be very good indeed and would be proud of that!

We could still beat France and be 3rd best

EmeraldShamrock000 · 16/07/2026 12:33

Isn’t it obvious. They’re a brilliant team that made it a lot further than most but they’re not best in world.

Gloriia · 16/07/2026 12:33

tachetastic · 16/07/2026 12:12

Top four in the world is alright isn't it?. There were a lot more than four teams in the competition.

Well exactly. Apparently they have an 'obscene amount of money pumped into them' that should make them good! Not quite sure how reaching the semis of the world cup isn't 'good'.

The argis are a load of tiny men who are indeed very fast and seem to rely on fouls. I hope they win and get their raggy bed sheet out again with another fake claim bless them.

Cherrytree86 · 16/07/2026 12:31

randomchap · 16/07/2026 12:28

The money comes from the income they produce. Millions and millions from tickets, merchandise, and advertising

@randomchap

yep. Still doesn’t change the fact that they’re not good enough to win though!

FourSevenFour · 16/07/2026 12:31

DeftGoldHedgehog · 16/07/2026 11:42

I don't think it's entitled to have expected the England team to do better generally, particularly since the 1990s when VAST amounts of money has been spent on the game in this country and the terrific grass roots system that we have. They have been much better since 2018 which is great but for me England should always have been a top 5 team in the world and be in with a shout of winning the World Cup. I don't think it's OTT or entitled to say that given the EPL is one of the strongest leagues in the world and that we have some very good home grown players.

France have in my lifetime (I'm 50) won the WC and Euros twice.

I don't moan about going out in the SF but just wish our record was better overall. We could have done so much better in the 1970s-1990s if there wasn't such a drinking culture in the team. Look at what kind of shape the 1990 squad were in, in comparison to the Germans. We managed to run them pretty close but seriously, physique-wise it was embarrassing. If they had just been fitter and more athletic we could have won more back then. Then in mid 2000s to mid 2010s there was a seriously poor attitude problem. It was awful, I could barely watch them or football at all.

Many countries spend vast amounts of money and have a great grassroot system. Men's football is just that popular.

Maybe in some countries similar money goes further and elevate the talent from wider part of the population.

It just seems that the UK is used to being the ultimate powerhouse - but with bigger part of the world becoming relevant, it just can't last, it's mathematically impossible.

Isn't France specifically succesfull in naturalising talents from the african countries with french connections?

Women's sport is the good one to enjoy a few years of the highest relevance, before more countries catch up.

Lansonmaid · 16/07/2026 12:30

I'm a huge rugby fan not a football fan but did watch the match. I was very puzzled at the tactics once England scored - instead of going all out to get another goal or two there seemed to be a 'job done, now lets defend this lead' mentality. Once they did that the game ran away from them.

I do think there is a massive pressure on the players to be the ones to 'bring it home and end 60 years of hurt' which may weigh on them as well (mind you the same happens to any British tennis player at Wimbledon).

It could be of course that they are simply not as good as the Argentinians, who once they stopped trying to kick the shit out of the English players looked pretty skillful. Hopefully Spain will beat the dirty cheaters.

I'm also very hopeful that the England rugby team are successful at the weekend against the Pumas to get some sort of revenge

HelenaWaiting · 16/07/2026 12:30

It's the post mortem I can't stand. It's a football tournament. Ergo, only one team can win it. Out of 48 teams (a lot more if you count the qualifying rounds) we came 4th; possibly 3rd. (I'd normally write us off in the 3rd place playoff, but I think France have suffered greater psychological damage than we have). 3rd/4th in the world is something we should be pleased with, not whinging about. I just hope Spain do the world a favour in the final and give the graceless, classless Argentine team a thorough beating.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 16/07/2026 12:29

Well, as I said further up, I don't know anything at all about football, but it must certainly be a unique sport if being in the Top 4 teams in the world makes you weak.

The issue is, the way ranking points work, you can elevate yourself into the top 10, top 5 or whatever simply by battering much poorer teams in Qualifying. This is how England got there.

The problem comes when you have to play other top teams. Like I posted above, in competitive Finals matches, England have one solitary World Cup win over a top-10 ranked side in the entire history of the World Cup, and have never beaten a top-6 team in the European Championship Finals.

"England ranked 4th" is a totally false picture of reality.

For example, prior to the World Cup Morocco were ranked 5th, Brazil 6th. Brazil were beaten in the last 16 by Norway, Morocco went down in the Quarters to France. Both of those teams also achieved their ranking by beating vastly inferior teams, only to be found out when they actually had to play good ones.

randomchap · 16/07/2026 12:28

Cherrytree86 · 16/07/2026 12:25

They’re just not good enough at the end of the day. Which is quite pitiful really considering the obscene amount of money pumped into making them good.

The money comes from the income they produce. Millions and millions from tickets, merchandise, and advertising

MrsSlocombesCat · 16/07/2026 12:27

3luckystars · 16/07/2026 09:06

I read ‘failed’ your post has been edited also.

No it never said failed.

Pepperlee · 16/07/2026 12:26

Metalmotha · 16/07/2026 11:26

Because they’re not as good at kicking the bag of air between 3 bars as the other group of blokes! That’s it

Sums it up. 🤣🤣

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